Three Keys to Finding Love, Three to Make It Last | Lewis Howes
RELATIONSHIPS ARE OUR GREATEST TEACHER.
It’s Valentine’s Day. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, it’s a good time to reflect.
You have to get clear on what you want in a partner.
Be specific.
Otherwise, you’ll keep repeating the same patterns over and over.
If you’re dating or married, do you treat that other person with respect? Do you listen to them and value them?
Finding the right person isn’t the end of the story. You have to work hard to make that love grow.
That’s why, on today’s episode of The School of Greatness, I reflect on what I’ve learned from my past relationships over a coffee conversation with my close friend, Cesar.
Cesar and I talk about finding love and thriving in love.
I’ve learned a lot over the years because I’ve messed up a lot. Now, I’m sharing what I know with you.
Love yourself, love life, and get ready for a special Valentine’s Day relationship tell-all on Episode 758.
In This Episode You Will Learn:
Who I’ve learned the most from (4:30)
Early dating stories from when Cesar and I were roommates (6:00)
Three keys to finding love (11:00)
Why generalities are keeping you down (33:00)
Three steps to thrive in love (40:00)
Why you need the courage to end relationships that are no longer working (57:00)
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