You Can Get Through It: How to Handle the Hardest Things That Will Ever Happen to You | Dr. Lucy Hone

Dan Harris

Why the five stages of grief are a myth, a go-to phrase for when everything's falling apart, and three steps for getting through loss.

Dr. Lucy Hone is an adjunct fellow at the University of Canterbury and a sought-after professional speaker, a bestselling author, and an award-winning internationally published science educator. She is regularly featured in international media, including in The Guardian, Hidden Brain, and The Washington Post. Dr. Hone is a columnist for Psychology Today.

In this episode we talk about:

  • A three-step recipe for getting through any major loss
  • Why the five stages of grief are a myth
  • The surprising research on who supports grievers best (hint: pets)
  • Living losses vs. death losses — and why ranking grief doesn't help
  • What it means to have your "assumptive world" shattered
  • Rebuilding identity after loss: answering "who am I now?"
  • Finding self-compassion through "real, not perfect," not perfectionism

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Why the five stages of grief are a myth, a go-to phrase for when everything's falling apart, and three steps for getting through loss.

Dr. Lucy Hone is an adjunct fellow at the University of Canterbury and a sought-after professional speaker, a bestselling author, and an award-winning internationally published science educator. She is regularly featured in international media, including in The Guardian, Hidden Brain, and The Washington Post. Dr. Hone is a columnist for Psychology Today.

In this episode we talk about:

  • A three-step recipe for getting through any major loss
  • Why the five stages of grief are a myth
  • The surprising research on who supports grievers best (hint: pets)
  • Living losses vs. death losses — and why ranking grief doesn't help
  • What it means to have your "assumptive world" shattered
  • Rebuilding identity after loss: answering "who am I now?"
  • Finding self-compassion through "real, not perfect," not perfectionism

Related Episodes:

Get the 10% with Dan Harris app here

Sign up for Dan's free newsletter here

Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok

Subscribe to our YouTube Channel

Additional Resources:

This episode is sponsored by: Rosetta Stone: Visit rosettastone.com/happier to redeem your 20% off Rosetta Stone Sapphire.

CashApp: Download CashApp Today: click.cash.app/ui6m/oh9jnxlq #CashAppPod.

Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App's bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Cash App Visa® Debit Flex Cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC, and The Bancorp Bank, N.A., pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. See terms and conditions for the Sutton prepaid card, Sutton debit flex card, and Bancorp debit flex card. Savings provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures.

BetterHelp: See the reviews, see what stands out, and see if BetterHelp is right for you. Visit Betterhelp.com/HAPPIER.

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2026-08-17 62 min
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