Love Is Commitment, Not the Feeling You Chase | DeVon Franklin
“In a relationship, we expect one season to always be the season.”
QUESTIONS
How do we stay connected and loving without hurting each other in these times of isolation? (1:42)
What do you think is a good portion of time away from your partner? (5:21)
What are the lessons you have learned within your relationship? (9:31)
How do we implement peace over panic during these times? (19:28)
How can we cultivate intimacy without sex? (39:17)
What do you do for your family to make things better in your partnership everyday? (45:13)
YOU WILL LEARN
Why setting expectations for each day is important for the relationship (4:36)
Why the model relationship has to be imperfect (9:41)
How having a genuine commitment to your partner is essential (13:48)
How understanding control will give you peace (22:21)
Whether communication or sex helps a relationship become better (28:21)
Why focusing on how this isolation will help us is important (38:12)
How helping your partner find success will help your relationship (48:12)
How praise and gratitude will help you navigate your pain (54:31)
LINKS MENTIONED
The Wait: A Powerful Practice for Finding the Love of Your Life and a Life You Love
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