Why “Name It To Tame It” & Punching Pillows Don’t Work For Intense Kids #635

Calm Parenting Podcast

Deep breathing, punching pillows and “naming the emotion” sound great on paper—until you try them with an intense child. These traditional calming tools can actually backfire—leaving your child angrier and feeling incapable of managing their emotions. Learn why narrating your child’s emotions is one of the worst things you can do…and instead walk away with actionable, word-for-word scripts that diffuse big emotionsand give your child confidence in their ability to self-regulate. A must listen so please share.


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Deep breathing, punching pillows and “naming the emotion” sound great on paper—until you try them with an intense child. These traditional calming tools can actually backfire—leaving your child angrier and feeling incapable of managing their emotions. Learn why narrating your child’s emotions is one of the worst things you can do…and instead walk away with actionable, word-for-word scripts that diffuse big emotionsand give your child confidence in their ability to self-regulate. A must listen so please share.


P.S. LET YOUR KIDS LISTEN to the Calm Parenting Bundle. We can recommend specific programs for them. Visit https://celebratecalm.com/products/ to take advantage of our Back-To-School Sale. Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com with questions or for financial assistance.


COZY EARTH

Head to https://cozyearth.com and use my code CALM for up to 20% off home and sleepwear.


IXL LEARNING

Make an impact on your child’s learning, get IXL now. Calm Parenting Podcast listeners get an exclusive 20% off an IXL membership when you sign up today at https://IXL.com/KIRK


HUNGRYROOT

Go to https://Hungryroot.com/Calm and use Code CALM to get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life. 


SKYLIGHT CALENDAR

Right now, Skylight is offering our listeners $30 off their 15 inch Calendars by going to https://MySkylight.com/PARENTING


CURE HYDRATION

Cure is offering our listeners 20% off your first order! Stay hydrated and feel your best. Visit https://curehydration.com/CALM and use promo code CALM for 20% off your first order.


WAYFAIR

Head to https://Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home and get your space ready for less.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

2026-09-16 21 min
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