E421 Ask Nick - Dumped for a Lease
We are back with another episode of Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! In this episode we dive back into our callers' burning questions and help them navigate relationships, situationships, and everything in between. Our first caller struggles in dating with setting expectations and giving boys options she doesn't want them to have. After two years of being single, now she wants to learn to take initiative and control in the unpredictable world of casual dating. Our next call features a couple who is having a tough family situation, where one of the caller's sisters is struggling with addiction and coming to terms with next steps. Now the caller wonders how they can support her sister coming out about needing support to the entire family, without causing resentment or a rift. Our last caller struggles when she wonders what the limits of a long distance relationship can be, especially when kids are involved. Despite both being outsiders living in Thailand, her partner insists on having his own place a few hours away in the same country. Now, she wonders if she's been wasting 10 years of her life on a guy who will always be hesitant to make the next move and progress their relationship or if she's actually very accepting of her situation.
"We can be convincing to ourselves in what we want when we think it'll get us something else."
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