How to Say No Without Apologizing or Explaining | Dr. Nicole LePera
“Consciousness is where we are granted choice.”
QUESTIONS
How are you growing faster than other therapist brands? (1:28)
How do we change a feeling of powerlessness? (7:25)
What’s the greatest trauma people face? (17:24)
What’s the level a child or the parent traumatizes the other? (19:23)
How do we come to a place of worthiness? (29:00)
What is the best practice on observing self thoughts? (37:13)
What’s your biggest trigger? (39:13)
How do we forgive our parents, even if they were doing the best they can? (43:20)
How do we say no without apologizing? (49:30)
How do you speak to a child that has a chaotic reality and has not observed their own thoughts? (1:01:30)
What’s your biggest fear as a therapist? (1:07:32)
YOU WILL LEARN
The issue with always thinking about what to do next (5:30)
How to develop a consistency in practice in consciousness of action (9:45)
The top tools for your healing journey (16:25)
Why meditation is key to tuning in to our internal world (24:30)
What to do when we get stuck in our familiarized comfort zone (27:50)
How the practice of self observation removes focus without judgment (29:30)
Why we must change our expectations (41:21)
Why we find a way to keep connections with other humans (51:32)
Great ways to say no without apologizing or explaining yourself (56:25)
The importance of going inward and connecting with ourselves everyday (1:07:10)
LINKS MENTIONED
Virtual Self Healer Circle Membership
Brain on Fire by Susannah Cahalan
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