E463 Ask Nick - He's Dating Our Co-Worker Behind My Back
We are back with another episode of Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're here again to bring on our callers to answer their questions and give them advice as they navigate the crazy world of relationships. Our first caller is dealing with a workplace romance that goes sour when she discovers that she was the other woman the entire time. Having to deal with both the man she's been seeing and his girlfriend both at her office, she wants to know how to "win" this breakup and move on with her life. Our next caller is stuck in a sticky situation where after feeling like the guy she's seeing is a player, she starts seeing his younger brother. Now that he is aware, and things are awkward, she wonders how to best communicate to repair the situation the most she can. Our last caller wonders if it's worth attempting to shoot her shot. She gets advice on the best ways to ask this guy to hangout and to judge if he is actually interested in something more.
"They're building trust to lie to you later."
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