E331 Ask Nick - You're Lucky That You're Sad
Today on Ask Nick we start with someone who had pre-established an end to her relationship with her partner given the fact that she would have to move soon for work. Now that the time has come she's much sadder than she expected, even more so after hearing that her partner's experience during their time together has been much different than hers and she's trying to reconcile her feelings. Next, we speak with someone whose friend group from long ago has grown apart, and she's wondering if she should try to hang on to the friendships in honor of their friend who passed away. Turns out she has some internal work to do to figure out how to be a better friend, if she decides she really wants to be one. Next, we speak with someone who is keeping her situationship on ice, but her expectations may lead her to mourning a relationship with someone she's never even dated. Lastly, we speak with someone who has developed a friendship with someone in her industry, only to realize they might be interested in more. She's not, but she's curious to learn more about them and is now realizing her curiosity might be giving off the wrong vibes.
"That wasn't a conversation, he was shaming you."
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