Episode 102: I Shouldn’t Feel Conflicted About God—How to Name, Frame, and Brave Complicated Emotions About Faith & God

Do you ever feel distant from God?

Do you struggle with conflicting emotions or unanswered questions that make it hard to feel God's presence in your life?

Today's episode brings the 🔥🔥🔥. I'm passionate about naming the false guilt and counterfeit messages that keep us from a vibrant relationship with God.

So often we try to shove complicated feelings aside or manipulate ourselves into feeling what we think we “should” feel in our faith. It doesn't work. The good news is that as with any relationship, when you name and frame what you're feeling honestly, you invest in a deeper, more authentic relationship with God. Here’s what we cover…

1. The problem with spiritual bypassing (7:36)

2. 6 counterfeit messages we internalize about God (19:34)

3. 5 framing questions to help you transform those messages (24:23)

4. Specific examples of braving steps you can take in your spiritual life (26:51)

5. My personal experience with spiritual dissonance (31:44)

Today's episode is based on an excerpt from Chapter 11 of I Shouldn't Feel This Way, available everywhere books are sold.

Find a list of resources from this episode here.

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