Stop Chasing: How to Date with Confidence

Jillian on Love

In this special coaching episode, Jillian sits down with a 38-year-old listener who’s four dates into a new connection and stuck in her head about one big question: Is he actually interested, or just passive? Together, they unpack why slow, calm chemistry can feel confusing when you’re used to intensity, what to do when someone’s texting and effort don’t quite match your needs, and how to treat early dating as data instead of a referendum on your worth. Jillian coaches her on how to flirt, set the tone without over-pursuing, keep dating other people, and show up as the most confident version of herself—even when there’s still no kiss.

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Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book

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In this special coaching episode, Jillian sits down with a 38-year-old listener who’s four dates into a new connection and stuck in her head about one big question: Is he actually interested, or just passive? Together, they unpack why slow, calm chemistry can feel confusing when you’re used to intensity, what to do when someone’s texting and effort don’t quite match your needs, and how to treat early dating as data instead of a referendum on your worth. Jillian coaches her on how to flirt, set the tone without over-pursuing, keep dating other people, and show up as the most confident version of herself—even when there’s still no kiss.

Join the Conscious Woman waitlist - ⁠https://jillianturecki.com/waitlist⁠

Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook 

Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman

Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 

Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book

~~

Follow the show on:

Instagram: @jillianonlove

Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com 

Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon

~~

Follow Jillian Turecki on:

Instagram: @jillianturecki

TikTok: @jillian.turecki

X: @JillianTurecki

Visit her website at jillianturecki.com

~~

Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.

To advertise on the show, contact us!

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

2025-12-15 47 min
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