S9 E2 | Six Red Flags To Watch For in Any Relationship

Therapy and Theology

Noticing red flags doesn’t make you critical — it makes you wise.

In this episode, you'll learn:

Six red flags to be aware of — whether you're building new relationships or evaluating existing ones.
How to talk to someone about behavior that concerns you.
How to best utilize godly discernment as you grow in self-awareness.

Links we mentioned in this episode:

Download "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships" by Lysa TerKeurst here.
Sign up for a $10 webinar on September 4 at 7 p.m. ET with the Chosen team to learn about attachment styles and foster better communication with your children — no matter their age.
Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here.
Click here to download a transcript of this episode.

Go deeper:

Listen to "Red Flags We Shouldn’t Ignore in Relationships."
Listen to "Here Is Your Permission To Set Boundaries" With Jim Cress.
Watch "Difficult vs. Destructive Relationships."

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Noticing red flags doesn’t make you critical — it makes you wise.

In this episode, you'll learn:

Six red flags to be aware of — whether you're building new relationships or evaluating existing ones.
How to talk to someone about behavior that concerns you.
How to best utilize godly discernment as you grow in self-awareness.

Links we mentioned in this episode:

Download "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships" by Lysa TerKeurst here.
Sign up for a $10 webinar on September 4 at 7 p.m. ET with the Chosen team to learn about attachment styles and foster better communication with your children — no matter their age.
Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here.
Click here to download a transcript of this episode.

Go deeper:

Listen to "Red Flags We Shouldn’t Ignore in Relationships."
Listen to "Here Is Your Permission To Set Boundaries" With Jim Cress.
Watch "Difficult vs. Destructive Relationships."

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