15 Harsh Psychology Truths - Adam Lane Smith - #310
Adam Lane Smith is a psychotherapist an author.
Humans are not transparent to ourselves. We are complex creatures who operate on ancient programming. Having spent years and years as a practicing psychotherapist for men, women and couples, Adam has come to learn some insights about us which he put into an epic Twitter thread and that's what we go through today.
Expect to learn why women are disgusted when they learn how the male sex drive works, why having an asshole for a child is your fault, why performative sex stops a woman from orgasming, why depressed men probably don't need medication, the truth about overcoming sexual trauma, how your brain stops you from having sex with your sister and much more...
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Timestamps:
(00:00) Intro (04:06) Manipulating the Male Sex Drive (09:58) Why Women Divorce Men (15:15) Female Sex Drive (17:50) Your Annoying Child Is Your Fault (22:40) Stop Using Diagnostic Terms (28:28) Overcome Depression with Purpose (34:02) Psychology of Sex & Assault (46:30) Discussing Attraction (54:51) Impact of Identity Obsession (1:00:45) You’re Better Than Your Last Mistake (1:04:29) Sex for Approval Over Intimacy (1:09:19) Adam’s Top Relationship Advice (1:18:48) Chris’ Bonus Harsh Truths
Extra Stuff:
Check out Adam's original Twitter Thread - https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus/status/1381710882225328135
Check out Adam's Website - https://adamlanesmith.com/
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