E406 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Pays Me Salary
We are back with another episode of Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! In this episode we dive into our first caller's situation where a church guy she met comes on super strong, then pulls away. From his weird pickup lines asking if she wanted cat food, to his drug use, to him being a 32 year old virgin, his aura of mystery only likely serves to hurt. Our next caller can't stop hooking up with and seeing a guy she knows is toxic for her. From changing his contact name on her phone to an STD, she can't seem to stop herself from seeing a guy she knows isn't good for her. She asks for help with putting her foot down and moving on. Our last caller struggles with what to do after her military boyfriend got orders to move to another state, meaning she would have to pack up her life where she lives now to continue to live with him. Now, she wonders what to do considering she would have to put a stop on her career, and if an unconventional solution like having him pay her a "Girlfriend Tax" may get her what she needs to make the jump and move.
"I got hooked on the potential of where it could go."
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