1493: How Pornography and False Labels Caused My Mormon Wife To Leave Me - McKay Johnson Pt. 2
McKay ‘Spartacus’ Johnson is our guest today for this fantastic two-part Mormon Stories interview. Carah Burrell takes the reins again as lead interviewer as we talk to McKay about battling a “Nephi complex” growing up, early exposure to pornography, and his mission to Brasil where he describes being groomed by his mission companion and sexually assaulted. It’s an intense and undercover topic and we thank McKay for coming on the podcast to share his experience being a male sexual assault survivor.
In part two, McKay tells us about what it was like to heal from his mission and deconstruct the homophobic ideas he carried with him after his assault. Eventually getting married and divorced, we discuss with McKay what happened the night he confessed to his wife he had been occasionally viewing pornography and what can be done in Mormon culture to shift the unhelpful and counterproductive labeling of men like McKay. McKay is also a talented TikToker and musician, so we are happy he could find time to take a break from playing rock god to join us on Mormon Stories and we hope you’ll support him wherever his talents take him!
Content warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.
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Show notes:
- @Spartacus_Unchained on TikTok
- Healthier approaches to porn and masturbation
- @ExMoLex on TikTok
- @ExMormonMindy on TikTok
- @NuanceHoe on TikTok
- SuitUpSoldier.com
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