#457 - Logan Ury - Hinge's Relationship Scientist Gives Dating Advice
Logan Ury is the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, a Harvard-trained behavioural scientist and an author.
Modern dating is difficult. Thankfully Logan has access to all the data from Hinge and can conduct as many studies as she wants on trends and preferences from thousands of people in and out of relationships.
Expect to learn why an intentional approach to dating seems like a turn-off but is a very smart strategy, why you should start looking to settle down after dating 30% of your partners, what the data tells us are the most important rules for constructing a successful dating profile, why chasing The Spark is a recipe for disaster, how to break up with someone, how to get over heartbreak and much more...
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