Jill & Derick on Losing Their Baby at 5 Months

Jill and Derick open up about one of the hardest seasons of their lives, the loss of their daughter Isla Marie during pregnancy.

In this emotional and deeply honest conversation, Jill and Derick share the story of discovering something was wrong, walking through the heartbreaking moment they learned their baby had died, and how they navigated grief as a couple and as parents. They also talk about faith, community, and the practical ways friends and family supported them during this devastating loss.

In this episode we discuss:

• Jill & Derick’s story of losing their daughter Isla Marie

• What it was like receiving the devastating news

• Navigating grief as a husband and wife

• How their church community supported them

• Talking to their children about pregnancy loss

• Practical ways to support families who have lost a baby

• Finding hope in faith during unimaginable heartbreak

Our prayer is that this conversation helps anyone who has experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, or the loss of a child feel less alone.

If you or someone you love has experienced pregnancy loss, we hope this episode encourages you and reminds you that hope can still be found even in the darkest seasons. ❤️

00:00:00 - Introduction

00:00:07 - Discussion on Loss and Hope

00:02:10 - Understanding the Concept of Loss

00:03:42 - The Story of Isla Marie

00:04:03 - Pregnancy Challenges

00:11:51 - The Pregnancy Journey

00:15:31 - Emergency Room Visit and Tests

00:17:27 - Decision Making and Hospital Visit

00:17:45 - Support from Family and Church

00:21:20 - Importance of Community

00:23:08 - Delivery of Isla and Grief

00:25:46 - Dealing with Loss and Work

00:30:48 - Coming Home Without Isla

00:31:16 - Support from Pastor and Church Family

00:32:32 - The Physical and Emotional Struggles Postpartum

00:34:34 - Planning for Isla's Funeral

00:35:29 - Helpful Resources and Support

00:39:46 - The Pain of Coming Home Without Isla

00:43:20 - Importance of Tangible Support

00:43:55 - Remembering Isla in Tangible Ways

00:46:26 - Preparing for Isla's Funeral

00:47:48 - The Importance of Taking Pictures

00:48:54 - Honoring Life and Dignity

00:49:19 - Christian History and the Dignity of Life

00:51:48 - The Church's Role in Dignifying Life

00:52:26 - Children's Response to Isla's Loss

00:56:08 - Involving the Children in Funeral Preparations

00:57:22 - The Funeral and Burial

00:59:49 - Creating Sweet Memories at Isla's Grave

01:00:41 - Advice for Parents Facing a Similar Loss

01:01:36 - Understanding Paisley's Law and Stillbirth Certificate

01:01:55 - The Importance of Tangible Validation

01:03:24 - The Role of Parenting and Hope

01:03:33 - The Power of Practical Wisdom and Hope

01:04:53 - The Transition and Grief Therapy

01:05:33 - The Role of Therapists and Practical Ways to Process Loss

01:06:54 - The Power of God's Word in Grieving

01:08:10 - The Acceptance of Grief

01:08:45 - Conclusion and Appreciation

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