Touchy Subjects: How Abuse Hides Behind Love and Control | Sexuality

In this powerful and eye-opening episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Shawn Schutt and Amanda Courier, co-hosts of the Touchy Subjects podcast, for an important conversation about how abuse can often hide behind the appearance of love, jealousy, and care.

Together, they unpack the early warning signs of domestic violence and sexual assault, focusing on the subtle but dangerous patterns of control that can begin long before any physical violence occurs. Shawn and Amanda share their expertise in exposing how abusers often use emotional manipulation, isolation, surveillance, and possessiveness to gain power in relationships while disguising these behaviors as affection or concern.

The conversation also explores how societal norms can normalize unhealthy jealousy, making it harder to recognize red flags, and why marginalized communities may face unique risks and barriers when trying to seek help. They also address the complexities and dangers of leaving abusive relationships, emphasizing the importance of safety planning and support systems.

This episode is a vital resource for anyone seeking to better understand relationship dynamics, recognize warning signs, and support themselves or others in navigating unsafe situations.

What You’ll Learn

• The definitions and realities of domestic violence and sexual assault

• How jealousy can be an early and normalized red flag

• Common manipulation tactics used in abusive relationships

• How abuse can disguise itself as love, care, or protection

• Why leaving abusive relationships is complex and potentially dangerous

• The importance of safety planning and support networks

• How marginalized communities may experience unique vulnerabilities

Connect With the Guests

Shawn Schutt & Amanda Courier

Co-hosts of Touchy Subjects Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast

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