E254 How Not To Die Alone with Logan Ury
Behavioral scientist turned dating coach, Logan Ury, joins us today to talk about psychology and how it relates to dating and sex. Nick and Logan dive into some of the chapters of her book How Not To Die Alone, dig into how too many choices in dating is hurting us, how we should 'F' the spark, how The Bachelor romanticizes dating and how it affects our dating culture, and the differences between deal breakers and pet peeves.
"…it is in that moment of breaking your type that you actually are propelling yourself forward into the type of relationship you want to be in…"
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