The Love This Way Podcast delivers honest, healing, and transformational conversations about modern relationships, emotional wellness, and self-worth. No gender wars or back and forth, just solid advice to help men and women to find and sustain healthy love. Because love is a journey and you need direction!
The Love This Way Podcast delivers honest, healing, and transformational conversations about modern relationships, emotional wellness, and self-worth. No gender wars or back and forth, just solid advice to help men and women to find and sustain healthy love. Because love is a journey and you need direction!
They don’t hate commitment… they hate accountability.
They don’t mind your time, your body, your love, or your energy—what they hate is being responsible for how they treat you.
Commitment isn’t the issue. Character is.
They don’t hate commitment… they hate accountability.
They don’t mind your time, your body, your love, or your energy—what they hate is being responsible for how they treat you.
Commitment isn’t the issue. Character is.
If you think men owe you money just for spending time with you… you’ve already lost.
Because here’s the truth:
👉 Most men aren’t well off.
👉 Sleeping with someone doesn’t mean you’re owed their bank account.
👉 Love built on manipulation will never last.
When love becomes a hustle, you don’t just lose the relationship — you lose yourself.
This episode is a wake-up call for anyone who thinks love is about what you can take instead of what you can build.
If you think men owe you money just for spending time with you… you’ve already lost.
Because here’s the truth:
👉 Most men aren’t well off.
👉 Sleeping with someone doesn’t mean you’re owed their bank account.
👉 Love built on manipulation will never last.
When love becomes a hustle, you don’t just lose the relationship — you lose yourself.
This episode is a wake-up call for anyone who thinks love is about what you can take instead of what you can build.
Some people don’t actually love you — they love the version of you that’s broken enough to need them.
Your pain gave them purpose. Your wounds gave them control.
But the moment you start to heal, to rise, to live without their permission… they’ll call you “different” like it’s a bad thing.
The truth? They were never in love with you — they were in love with your dependence.
Heal anyway. Rise anyway. Be whole… even if it makes them uncomfortable.
Some people don’t actually love you — they love the version of you that’s broken enough to need them.
Your pain gave them purpose. Your wounds gave them control.
But the moment you start to heal, to rise, to live without their permission… they’ll call you “different” like it’s a bad thing.
The truth? They were never in love with you — they were in love with your dependence.
Heal anyway. Rise anyway. Be whole… even if it makes them uncomfortable.
Just because they came after a prayer doesn’t mean they were the answer to it. Some relationships show up wrapped in your desires, looking like healing—but they’re just disguised distractions. Not everything sent to you is sent by God. And not everyone calling you “mine” was heaven-approved. Today, we’re breaking down how to discern God-sent love from emotional counterfeits, and how to protect yourself from dressing up pain in divine packaging.
Just because they came after a prayer doesn’t mean they were the answer to it. Some relationships show up wrapped in your desires, looking like healing—but they’re just disguised distractions. Not everything sent to you is sent by God. And not everyone calling you “mine” was heaven-approved. Today, we’re breaking down how to discern God-sent love from emotional counterfeits, and how to protect yourself from dressing up pain in divine packaging.
Some relationships don’t feel heavy because they’re real…
They feel heavy because you’re carrying them alone.
If you’re always overgiving, over-functioning, and underloved—
you’re not in a partnership…
you’re being emotionally fed on.
Some relationships don’t feel heavy because they’re real…
They feel heavy because you’re carrying them alone.
If you’re always overgiving, over-functioning, and underloved—
you’re not in a partnership…
you’re being emotionally fed on.
You swear you’re the one who's always being hurt… but what if you’re the one doing the damage?
What if your need for control is the reason love keeps slipping through your fingers?
This episode is not for the faint of heart—but it might be the mirror you’ve been avoiding.
You swear you’re the one who's always being hurt… but what if you’re the one doing the damage?
What if your need for control is the reason love keeps slipping through your fingers?
This episode is not for the faint of heart—but it might be the mirror you’ve been avoiding.
Some people do love you.
But not in a way that honors you.
Not in a way that protects you.
Not in a way that makes you better.
This episode is for anyone who’s ever been confused by the pain love left behind.
Why they “meant well” but still hurt you
Why love is not just a feeling — it’s a skill
And how to finally stop internalizing someone else’s damage as your worth
Because you were never too much.
You were just loving someone who didn’t know how.
Some people do love you.
But not in a way that honors you.
Not in a way that protects you.
Not in a way that makes you better.
This episode is for anyone who’s ever been confused by the pain love left behind.
Why they “meant well” but still hurt you
Why love is not just a feeling — it’s a skill
And how to finally stop internalizing someone else’s damage as your worth
Because you were never too much.
You were just loving someone who didn’t know how.
Some people weren’t meant to stay. They were just passing through —but they left with pieces of you.
This episode is for the ones grieving almosts, situationships, and soul ties that never made sense.
For the ones still haunted by a connection that didn’t last, but still lingers.
Some people weren’t meant to stay. They were just passing through —but they left with pieces of you.
This episode is for the ones grieving almosts, situationships, and soul ties that never made sense.
For the ones still haunted by a connection that didn’t last, but still lingers.
He Prayed for Promotion… But God Was Watching How He Treated Her.
You can’t be cruel to the woman God gave you… and still expect favor to flow.
💔 Some men don’t realize their life is falling apart because of how they’re treating their woman.
He Prayed for Promotion… But God Was Watching How He Treated Her.
You can’t be cruel to the woman God gave you… and still expect favor to flow.
💔 Some men don’t realize their life is falling apart because of how they’re treating their woman.
In this episode of The Love This Way Podcast, we’re calling out the misuse and misunderstanding of the P31 woman by both men and women.
Because if you say you want her—but you’re intimidated by educated, powerful women…
You’re not ready.
And if you say you are her—but you’re leading with looks and laziness…
You’re not her.
In this episode of The Love This Way Podcast, we’re calling out the misuse and misunderstanding of the P31 woman by both men and women.
Because if you say you want her—but you’re intimidated by educated, powerful women…
You’re not ready.
And if you say you are her—but you’re leading with looks and laziness…
You’re not her.
They told you giving your body away freely was power.
That it meant you were confident.
Liberated.
In control.
But what if they lied?
In this episode, we break down:
– Why casual sex isn’t as casual as it seems
– How your body stores emotional memory from every encounter
– Why the more people you sleep with, the less it means — and what that does to your soul
– The five steps to reclaim your worth and your peace
They told you giving your body away freely was power.
That it meant you were confident.
Liberated.
In control.
But what if they lied?
In this episode, we break down:
– Why casual sex isn’t as casual as it seems
– How your body stores emotional memory from every encounter
– Why the more people you sleep with, the less it means — and what that does to your soul
– The five steps to reclaim your worth and your peace
You keep asking for loyalty…
Support…
Consistency…
But have you really created a relationship where that kind of love can exist?
This week’s episode is a gut check. Because some of us are showing up like emotional freeloaders—demanding love we haven’t learned to give.
This one will make you reflect. And if you’re brave enough to listen, it might just change the way you love forever.
You keep asking for loyalty…
Support…
Consistency…
But have you really created a relationship where that kind of love can exist?
This week’s episode is a gut check. Because some of us are showing up like emotional freeloaders—demanding love we haven’t learned to give.
This one will make you reflect. And if you’re brave enough to listen, it might just change the way you love forever.
On todays show:
They hurt you. Then apologize.
They change. Then relapse.
They say all the right things.
But somehow… nothing really changes.
This episode is for the ones stuck in the hope of who someone might become—
while losing the parts of themselves they used to love.
On todays show:
They hurt you. Then apologize.
They change. Then relapse.
They say all the right things.
But somehow… nothing really changes.
This episode is for the ones stuck in the hope of who someone might become—
while losing the parts of themselves they used to love.
Today we’re talking about something that too many of you are dealing with: If They Only Want the Best of You, They’ll Never Be Able to Handle the Real You.
Today’s episode is for the ones who are wondering:
🌀 Was I too boring?
🌀 Did I do too much? Or not enough?
🌀 Why do people only love me when I’m performing peace, but disappear when I finally get honest about my pain?
Today we’re talking about something that too many of you are dealing with: If They Only Want the Best of You, They’ll Never Be Able to Handle the Real You.
Today’s episode is for the ones who are wondering:
🌀 Was I too boring?
🌀 Did I do too much? Or not enough?
🌀 Why do people only love me when I’m performing peace, but disappear when I finally get honest about my pain?
Not all trauma leaves bruises. Some of it lingers quietly in the bedroom. Today, I’m naming what so many of us were never taught to talk about: When sex becomes a trigger, not a connection—and how to begin healing from it.
Not all trauma leaves bruises. Some of it lingers quietly in the bedroom. Today, I’m naming what so many of us were never taught to talk about: When sex becomes a trigger, not a connection—and how to begin healing from it.
Today we’re talking about something that too many of you are dealing with: Love Can’t Carry What You Won’t Confront. You cannot miss this episode!
Today we’re talking about something that too many of you are dealing with: Love Can’t Carry What You Won’t Confront. You cannot miss this episode!
Today we’re talking about something that too many of you are dealing with: The Hidden Loneliness Behind the quote ‘I Don’t Need Anyone’
Today we’re talking about something that too many of you are dealing with: The Hidden Loneliness Behind the quote ‘I Don’t Need Anyone’
Today we’re talking about something that too many of you are dealing with: Those people who are Emotionally Available But Unhealed. Have you dealt with them? Are you one of them?
Today we’re talking about something that too many of you are dealing with: Those people who are Emotionally Available But Unhealed. Have you dealt with them? Are you one of them?
Today we’re talking about something that too many of you are dealing with: When Love Feels Like a Job.. Are You Dating or Managing?
Today we’re talking about something that too many of you are dealing with: When Love Feels Like a Job.. Are You Dating or Managing?
Today we’re tackling why being nice is hurting your life love. You’re gonna wanna hear this one ladies and gents.
Today we’re tackling why being nice is hurting your life love. You’re gonna wanna hear this one ladies and gents.
Today we’re tackling the number 1 reason why so many relationships fail without a single fight—and how to make sure yours isn’t next.
Today we’re tackling the number 1 reason why so many relationships fail without a single fight—and how to make sure yours isn’t next.
Today we’re tackling something that hits home for everyone: Why They Only Miss You When It’s Too Late.
Today we’re tackling something that hits home for everyone: Why They Only Miss You When It’s Too Late.
Today we’re tackling something that might explain more about your life than you ever realized. You hear about childhood trauma but what is it for real?
Today we’re tackling something that might explain more about your life than you ever realized. You hear about childhood trauma but what is it for real?
Today we’re tackling something that’s had a lot of the fellas in a chokehold, RED Pill Content. You don't want to miss this one...
Today we’re tackling something that’s had a lot of the fellas in a chokehold, RED Pill Content. You don't want to miss this one...
Today we’re tackling something that’s been weighing on so many hearts: the belief that love is painful.
Today we’re tackling something that’s been weighing on so many hearts: the belief that love is painful.
Today's show is a love letter to the broken hearted. If you're hurting, have been, or find yourself there in the future, this episode is for YOU.
Today's show is a love letter to the broken hearted. If you're hurting, have been, or find yourself there in the future, this episode is for YOU.
Todays show begs the question: are you actually looking for love? Or are you just looking for a witness?
Todays show begs the question: are you actually looking for love? Or are you just looking for a witness?
On todays’ show we’re talking about something we all want in a partner- compatibility. Have you been getting it wrong this whole time?
On todays’ show we’re talking about something we all want in a partner- compatibility. Have you been getting it wrong this whole time?
On todays’ show we’re talking about why Valentine’s Day Isn’t the Problem—Your Expectations Are.
On todays’ show we’re talking about why Valentine’s Day Isn’t the Problem—Your Expectations Are.
On todays’ show we’re touching on an idea that will hit home for a lot of you They Want Access, Not Accountability: Why Some People Keep Coming Back.
On todays’ show we’re touching on an idea that will hit home for a lot of you They Want Access, Not Accountability: Why Some People Keep Coming Back.
On todays’ show we’re tackling one of the biggest myths in the dating world: the idea that you need to find “the perfect match” to live happily ever after.
On todays’ show we’re tackling one of the biggest myths in the dating world: the idea that you need to find “the perfect match” to live happily ever after.
On todays’ show we’re tackling one of the most frustrating modern relationship dynamics: the dreaded situationship.
On todays’ show we’re tackling one of the most frustrating modern relationship dynamics: the dreaded situationship.
On today's episode we will talk about "Love Projections for 2025: Where Relationships Are Headed—and How You Can Thrive” think of this as my relationship forecast for 2025. Where are relationships headed?
On today's episode we will talk about "Love Projections for 2025: Where Relationships Are Headed—and How You Can Thrive” think of this as my relationship forecast for 2025. Where are relationships headed?
On today's show, we are getting ready for 2025. We will talk about The New Year, New Love Standards, New Red Flags and work on your Love Audit for 2025. We will be intentional in 2025
On today's show, we are getting ready for 2025. We will talk about The New Year, New Love Standards, New Red Flags and work on your Love Audit for 2025. We will be intentional in 2025
On Todays’ show, we will talk about Holiday Heartache: How to Handle Relationship Struggles During the Holidays. Whether you’re in a relationship or single, this episode is for you
On Todays’ show, we will talk about Holiday Heartache: How to Handle Relationship Struggles During the Holidays. Whether you’re in a relationship or single, this episode is for you
On Todays’ show we answer one question- Why Am I Afraid of Good Love? We are Breaking Down Self-Sabotage in Relationships."
On Todays’ show we answer one question- Why Am I Afraid of Good Love? We are Breaking Down Self-Sabotage in Relationships."
Todays’ show will answer one question- Why do you keep attracting the wrong person?
Todays’ show will answer one question- Why do you keep attracting the wrong person?
On Todays’ show we answer one question- Is it love, or is it a trauma bond?
On Todays’ show we answer one question- Is it love, or is it a trauma bond?
Todays’ show is all about understanding different apology styles. Do you know yours? Do you know your partners?
Todays’ show is all about understanding different apology styles. Do you know yours? Do you know your partners?
Everyone tells you to heal, be better, do better. BUT HOW?! It sounds so good to tell someone to heal, today you will learn how to heal, know when you're ready to date again, and how to not repeat the same mistakes.
Everyone tells you to heal, be better, do better. BUT HOW?! It sounds so good to tell someone to heal, today you will learn how to heal, know when you're ready to date again, and how to not repeat the same mistakes.
On todays’ show we’re gonna talk about the hidden scars left by infidelity. We’ve all heard that betrayal hurts, but what does it actually do to someone?
On todays’ show we’re gonna talk about the hidden scars left by infidelity. We’ve all heard that betrayal hurts, but what does it actually do to someone?
On todays’ show we’re gonna talk about what to do when your partner is still stuck on their ex.
On todays’ show we’re gonna talk about what to do when your partner is still stuck on their ex.
On todays’ show we’re gonna talk about When Love Turns Toxic: How to Spot Manipulation and Protect Yourself”
On todays’ show we’re gonna talk about When Love Turns Toxic: How to Spot Manipulation and Protect Yourself”
Todays’ show is for those of you who want to get out of the streets and have something real but aren't sure where to start. Start here!
Todays’ show is for those of you who want to get out of the streets and have something real but aren't sure where to start. Start here!
On todays’ show we’re talking about one of the most important yet often overlooked aspects of any relationship: how to give your partner reassurance.
On todays’ show we’re talking about one of the most important yet often overlooked aspects of any relationship: how to give your partner reassurance.
On todays’ show we’re diving into one of the most frustrating challenges in modern dating: how to avoid getting played or wasting your time with someone who isn’t serious.
On todays’ show we’re diving into one of the most frustrating challenges in modern dating: how to avoid getting played or wasting your time with someone who isn’t serious.
Todays’ show is about the idea that men can have multiple women in their lives because it’s natural and even in the Bible.
Todays’ show is about the idea that men can have multiple women in their lives because it’s natural and even in the Bible.
Todays’ show is for my true romantics.. How long will you beg them to love you?
Todays’ show is for my true romantics.. How long will you beg them to love you?
Todays’ show is all about the Cam Newton, Nick Cannon effect and what happens in real life when men create multiple babies.
Todays’ show is all about the Cam Newton, Nick Cannon effect and what happens in real life when men create multiple babies.
Todays’ show is all about why we leave our relationships and how to fix it on both sides.
Todays’ show is all about why we leave our relationships and how to fix it on both sides.
