Please Me! Podcast with Eve

In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Fancy Feast—writer, burlesque performer, and sex educator—to break down barriers around sex, communication, and sexuality.

Together, they explore the importance of open communication in sexual relationships, and how honest dialogue can deepen intimacy, clarify desires, and strengthen connection. The conversation also dives into non-monogamous dynamics, examining how relationship structures can be consciously designed to reflect individual needs, boundaries, and values.

Drawing from her experience in the burlesque world, Fancy Feast shares powerful insights on body positivity, self-expression, and navigating intense emotional and sexual relationships. She also introduces a role-playing exercise designed to help partners explore sexual preferences and boundaries in a safe, intentional, and playful way.

This episode is an empowering and thought-provoking discussion that challenges societal norms around sexuality, while offering practical tools for healthier, more connected intimate relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• How communication shapes healthy sexual relationships

• Insights into exploring non-monogamous relationship dynamics

• The influence of society on sexual desire and expression

• How burlesque can inform body positivity and self-confidence

• Practical role-playing tools for discussing boundaries and preferences

• How to navigate intensity in intimate relationships

Connect With the Guest

Fancy Feast

Website: https://fancyfeastburlesque.com

Book: Naked: On Sex, Work and other Burlesques

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Karen Anne Coccioli, erotica writer and voice within the LGBTQ+ and kink communities, to explore sexuality, identity, and the journey of coming out later in life.

Karen shares her deeply personal story of navigating two heterosexual marriages before embracing her lesbian identity, offering a powerful perspective on self-discovery, courage, and transformation. Together, Eve and Karen unpack the complexities of sexuality and identity, challenging societal norms—especially the pervasive myths around ageism and older women’s sexuality.

The conversation also dives into Karen’s work as an erotica writer, and how her experiences within LGBTQ+ and kink communities shape her storytelling. She highlights the importance of representation, visibility, and authentic expression in literature, while dismantling stereotypes that limit how women—especially older women—are perceived in relation to desire and pleasure.

This episode is an honest, liberating, and thought-provoking exploration of sexuality across the lifespan—inviting listeners to embrace their truth, challenge outdated narratives, and redefine what it means to live authentically.

What You’ll Learn

• Karen’s journey from heterosexual marriage to embracing her lesbian identity

• How sexuality and identity can evolve later in life

• The impact of ageism on women’s sexuality and self-expression

• Insights into erotica writing and representation in LGBTQ+ and kink communities

• How to challenge societal norms and embrace authentic desire

• The importance of visibility and storytelling in sexual empowerment

Connect With the Guest

Karen Anne Coccioli

Instagram/Facebook: Author Annie Moon

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Barb Nangle, boundaries coach and host of the Fragmented to Whole podcast, to explore the power of healthy boundaries, emotional intimacy, sexuality, and personal recovery.

Barb shares her transformative journey—from hitting a codependent low at age 52 to finding healing through 12-step programs—and how that experience reshaped her relationships, self-worth, and approach to intimacy. Together, Eve and Barb discuss why boundaries are essential for emotional wellbeing, how people-pleasing patterns can hold us back, and what it truly means to take responsibility for your own happiness.

This conversation also highlights the deep connection between emotional intimacy and sexual relationships. Barb opens up about her decision to prioritize emotional connection before physical intimacy, and how that choice led to a more fulfilling and aligned partnership. She also shares practical tools for self-focus, clear communication, and building confidence through self-acceptance.

The episode concludes with insights into self-care practices like meditation, yoga, and spiritual connection—offering listeners a grounded path toward healing, empowerment, and more conscious relationships.

This episode is a powerful and practical guide for anyone looking to build healthier relationships, strengthen boundaries, and reconnect with their sense of self.

What You’ll Learn

• Why healthy boundaries are essential for personal growth and relationships

• How to break free from people-pleasing and codependent patterns

• The connection between emotional intimacy and sexual fulfillment

• How to build self-confidence through self-focus and self-approval

• The importance of clear communication in intimate relationships

• Self-care practices that support emotional healing and recovery

Connect With the Guest

Barb Nangle

Podcast: Fragmented to Whole

Website: https://higherpowercc.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Karin Freeland—award-winning author of The Ins and Outs of My Vagina and women’s corporate life coach—to explore sexuality, sexual frustration, personal transformation, and the journey toward living a purpose-driven life.

Karin shares her powerful story of breaking free from the “golden handcuffs” of corporate life to pursue deeper fulfillment, revealing how her personal evolution led her to reconnect with her body, her desires, and her voice. Together, Eve and Karin dive into the importance of advocating for your pleasure, communicating your needs, and overcoming the limitations that keep many women feeling stuck—both in their careers and their intimate lives.

This conversation highlights how sexual empowerment and personal growth are deeply intertwined, and how learning to express desire, embrace authenticity, and step into purpose can create lasting transformation. Karin also shares her passion for helping women reinvent themselves and turn their dreams into reality.

This episode is an empowering and inspiring listen for anyone ready to break free from limitations, reconnect with their desires, and step into a more aligned, confident, and purpose-filled life.

What You’ll Learn

• Karin Freeland’s journey from corporate executive to author and coach

• How to overcome sexual frustration and communicate your desires

• The connection between personal growth and sexual empowerment

• How to break free from limiting beliefs and life constraints

• Ways to advocate for your needs—in and out of the bedroom

• How to reinvent yourself and step into your purpose

Connect With the Guest

Karin Freeland

Website: https://karinfreeland.com

Free Guide: 6 Secrets To Get Unstuck (available on her website)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Marijke McCandless, author of Naked in the Now, to explore infidelity, reconnection, playful intimacy, and the journey into sacred sexuality through presence and vulnerability.

Marijke shares her perspective on how relationships can move through rupture and repair, offering insights into rebuilding connection and rediscovering intimacy after challenges like infidelity. Together, she and Eve discuss the importance of playfulness in sex, and how cultivating presence can transform intimacy into a deeper, more meaningful experience.

Drawing from her book Naked in the Now, Marijke introduces her approach to sacred sexuality—guiding listeners toward what she calls “naked reverence.” She shares a roadmap for becoming more present in your body, embracing vulnerability, and creating a more conscious and connected relationship with yourself and your partner.

This episode is a thoughtful and expansive exploration of intimacy, presence, and emotional connection—perfect for anyone looking to deepen their relationships and experience a more embodied approach to sexuality.

What You’ll Learn

• How to navigate infidelity and rebuild connection in relationships

• The role of playfulness in creating deeper intimacy

• Insights from Naked in the Now on sacred sexuality

• Why presence is key to meaningful sensual experiences

• How vulnerability can deepen emotional and physical connection

• Practices for cultivating intimacy and self-awareness

Connect With the Guest

Marijke McCandless

Website: https://marijkemccandless.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marijkemccandless

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve explores the powerful connection between generational trauma, PTSD recovery, sexuality, and sexual wellness—unpacking how past experiences can shape intimacy, self-worth, arousal, and confidence in our relationships and sexual lives.

Eve dives into how unresolved trauma can influence relationship patterns and sexual expression, while offering an empowering perspective on healing. She breaks down the role of mindset, language, and affirmations in addiction recovery and emotional resilience, highlighting how intentional thought patterns can support long-term transformation.

This conversation also expands into the role of music as therapy, nervous system regulation, and self-love practices as tools for both emotional and sexual healing. Eve reframes sexuality not as something separate from healing—but as a pathway toward self-acceptance, liberation, and deeper connection with the body.

This episode is a grounded and empowering resource for anyone on a journey of trauma recovery, emotional healing, and reclaiming confidence in their sexuality and relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• How generational trauma impacts intimacy and relationship patterns

• The effects of PTSD on sexual function, desire, and confidence

• How mindset, language, and affirmations support healing and recovery

• The role of music therapy in emotional and nervous system regulation

• How sexuality can become a tool for healing and self-acceptance

• Building self-love and reclaiming sexual empowerment

Connect With the Guest

EA: Recovery Counselor Instagram

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Taylor Sparks—author, ethically non-monogamous coach, and founder of Organic Loven—to explore pleasure, conscious sexuality, and the world of eco-friendly intimate products.

Taylor shares the inspiration behind Organic Loven, an online store dedicated to providing healthy, body-safe, and environmentally conscious products designed to enhance intimacy and sexual wellness. Together, Eve and Taylor dive into the process of curating a line of toys for Eve’s platform, offering insights into what to look for when choosing products that support both pleasure and wellbeing.

Their conversation brings a playful and open-minded perspective to topics like self-pleasure, exploration, and breaking taboos around sexuality. From innovative toys and accessories to creative ways to enhance intimacy, this episode is both informative and entertaining—inviting listeners to expand their understanding of pleasure in a conscious and empowered way.

This episode is a fun, curiosity-led exploration of sexual wellness, perfect for anyone looking to discover new tools, deepen their connection to pleasure, and embrace a more open conversation around intimacy.

What You’ll Learn

• The inspiration behind Organic Loven and eco-conscious intimate products

• How to choose body-safe, non-toxic toys and pleasure products

• The role of self-pleasure in sexual wellness and empowerment

• How to explore intimacy with curiosity and creativity

• Breaking taboos and normalizing open conversations about sex

• Insights into curating a personalized collection of pleasure products

Connect With the Guest

Taylor Sparks

Website: https://organicloven.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/organicloven

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Leanna Wolfe, sex researcher and advocate for non-traditional relationships, to explore sexuality, sex, partnering patterns, polyamory, and the deeper dynamics that shape modern intimacy.

Leanna shares her adventurous journey—driven by curiosity and a passion for understanding human connection—and how her lived experiences have informed her work in studying relationships beyond traditional norms. Together, Eve and Leanna dive into themes of jealousy, desire, and emotional complexity, offering a nuanced perspective on what it means to love and connect in unconventional ways.

The conversation also highlights Leanna’s acclaimed book 177 Lovers and Counting, and its upcoming adaptation into a one-woman show debuting at the Hollywood Fringe Festival. They explore how her research and personal experiences intertwine, shaping her views on sexuality, autonomy, and relationship design.

This episode is an eye-opening and thought-provoking exploration of intimacy, curiosity, and the evolving landscape of relationships—perfect for anyone interested in polyamory, self-discovery, and expanding their understanding of love and connection.

What You’ll Learn

• Insights into Leanna Wolfe’s journey as a sex researcher

• How non-traditional relationships challenge conventional norms

• The realities of jealousy and emotional dynamics in polyamory

• How curiosity and lived experience shape sexual and relational identity

• The story behind 177 Lovers and Counting and its creative evolution

• Expanding your perspective on intimacy, autonomy, and connection

Connect With the Guest

Leanna Wolfe

Website: https://wisewomanrelationshipconsulting.com

Book: 177 Lovers and Counting (25% discount available on her website)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve explores menopause empowerment, hormone therapy, and the importance of self-advocacy in women’s health—guiding you through how to take control of your body, sexuality, and confidence during perimenopause and menopause.

Eve breaks down the often confusing and frustrating symptoms that can arise during this phase of life, from vaginal dryness and low libido to incontinence, mood swings, and fatigue. She challenges the narrative that these experiences are something women simply have to endure, offering a new perspective rooted in empowerment, education, and choice.

This conversation dives into the truth about hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and bioidentical hormones, along with practical, research-backed strategies to support your body through hormonal changes. Eve also emphasizes the importance of advocating for yourself with healthcare providers—so you can access the support, solutions, and care you deserve.

This episode is a supportive and empowering guide for any woman navigating perimenopause or menopause, ready to reclaim her vitality, intimacy, and overall wellbeing.

What You’ll Learn

• How perimenopause and menopause affect sexual health, intimacy, and energy

• The truth about hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and bioidentical hormones

• Practical ways to manage vaginal dryness, sensitivity, and urinary incontinence

• How to advocate for yourself with doctors and healthcare providers

• Research-backed strategies for optimizing hormones and wellbeing

• How to reclaim intimacy, confidence, and vitality during menopause

Connect With the Guest

Parlor Games: Parlor Games | Shop

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with EA, a recovery counselor, to share her deeply personal journey from sexual trauma to sexual empowerment—and how her lived experiences shaped her path into sexual health, women’s empowerment, kink education, and conscious sexuality.

Eve opens up about pivotal moments of remembering, recalibration, and healing, revealing how personal pain evolved into professional purpose. Together, they explore how trauma can impact identity, intimacy, and relationship patterns, and how reclaiming sexuality through awareness, nervous system healing, and self-empowerment can lead to profound transformation.

This conversation also expands into the connection between hormones, women’s health, and sexual vitality, as well as conscious explorations of kink, ethical non-monogamy, and relationship design rooted in consent and communication. Eve also shares her journey of becoming a female podcaster in the sexuality space—and what it means to own your voice, your story, and your power.

This episode is a powerful and compassionate resource for anyone navigating healing, reclaiming their sexuality, or stepping into a more embodied, empowered version of themselves.

What You’ll Learn

• How sexual trauma can shape identity, intimacy, and relationship patterns

• Ways to reclaim your sexuality through awareness and nervous system healing

• The connection between hormones, women’s health, and sexual vitality

• Understanding kink and alternative sexuality through consent and communication

• What ethical non-monogamy and conscious relationship design look like

• How to recalibrate your life and step into personal power

• Owning your voice and becoming empowered in the sexuality space

Connect With the Guest

EA

Recovery Counselor

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this revealing and imaginative episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Rene Moon for a global exploration of women's sexuality, fantasies, desire, and the power of erotic imagination.

Rene shares insights from her work on sexual fantasy, highlighting how fantasies are a universal human experience that transcend culture, age, and background. Together, she and Eve explore how desire can exist in many forms—sometimes as private inner worlds, sometimes as shared intimacy with a partner, and other times as experiences that are consciously brought to life through communication, trust, and consent.

The conversation moves through a wide spectrum of fantasy—from everyday daydreams to more daring and taboo expressions—emphasizing that there is no “normal” when it comes to desire. Instead, fantasies are framed as a personal and meaningful part of self-discovery, offering insight into emotional needs, curiosity, and sexual identity.

Eve and Rene also discuss how openly acknowledging fantasy can deepen intimacy, improve communication in relationships, and reduce shame around desire. This episode encourages listeners to approach their inner world with curiosity rather than judgment.

This is a liberating and thought-provoking conversation that invites you to embrace erotic imagination as a natural, healthy, and powerful part of being human.

What You’ll Learn

• Why sexual fantasy is universal across cultures

• The different ways fantasies can be experienced (private, shared, or enacted)

• How fantasies reflect emotional and psychological needs

• The connection between fantasy, communication, and intimacy

• How to explore desire without shame or judgment

• Understanding the range of “normal” when it comes to sexuality

Connect With the Guest

Rene Moon

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/renemoon26/

SDC: https://sdc.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this encore episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by Julieta Chiara for a candid and informative conversation that breaks down common myths and misconceptions around penis size, performance, and sexual expectations.

Together, they explore the realities behind what we often see in porn, including how male performers are selected and how this can create unrealistic standards around bodies and pleasure. Julieta and Eve unpack the differences between “growers” and “showers,” including the actual parameters that define them, helping listeners better understand natural variations without comparison or pressure.

The conversation goes beyond size, emphasizing what truly enhances intimacy and satisfaction—communication, confidence, connection, and awareness. They also highlight the importance of aftercare, explaining how it can deepen emotional connection, increase trust, and improve overall sexual experiences.

With a mix of humor, education, and myth-busting insights, this episode offers a grounded and empowering perspective on pleasure, helping listeners move away from unrealistic expectations and toward more fulfilling, connected intimacy.

What You’ll Learn

• The truth about penis size and common misconceptions

• The difference between growers and showers (and how they’re defined)

• How porn creates unrealistic expectations around sex and bodies

• What actually contributes to satisfying intimacy and pleasure

• Why aftercare is essential for connection and emotional safety

• How to approach sex with confidence and communication

Connect With the Guest

Julieta Chiara

Website: https://chiaracollective.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this engaging and insightful season finale of the Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by her personal trainer, Prince Wayne, for a fun and eye-opening conversation that recaps some of the most fascinating insights from Season 2.

Together, they explore key statistics and truths around sexual health, pleasure, and communication—bringing both humor and education into the conversation. Eve and Prince break down the realities behind topics like faking orgasms, highlighting how common it is and why honest communication is essential for more fulfilling intimacy.

They also discuss the importance of understanding women’s arousal, including why many women require external clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm and why taking time for proper buildup and connection can significantly enhance the experience for both partners.

With a blend of curiosity, laughter, and practical knowledge, this episode encourages listeners to explore intimacy with more awareness, patience, and openness. It’s a perfect wrap-up to a season dedicated to breaking taboos, improving communication, and empowering pleasure.

What You’ll Learn

• Key insights and takeaways from Season 2

• The truth about faking orgasms and why it happens

• Why many women need clitoral stimulation for orgasm

• The importance of arousal, timing, and preparation in intimacy

• How communication improves sexual satisfaction

• Practical ways to enhance connection and pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Prince Wayne

Instagram: https://instagram.com/mrmarvelous

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this powerful and inspiring episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Darlene Greene to explore her extraordinary journey of healing, resilience, and transformation.

Faced with multiple autoimmune conditions while also caring for her husband after his Alzheimer’s diagnosis, Darlene shares how she searched tirelessly for solutions—trying everything from conventional treatments to traveling abroad for advanced medical care. What she eventually discovered changed the course of both their lives.

Darlene opens up about her experience with stem cell activation technology and how it supported her recovery, improved her overall health, and even impacted her husband’s condition. She explains how this approach works to support the body’s natural healing processes and why it’s gaining attention as a potential breakthrough in wellness and longevity.

The conversation also takes an unexpected and intriguing turn as Darlene shares how many people report a renewed sense of vitality—including a noticeable increase in libido—after using this technology. Eve and Darlene discuss the connection between physical health, energy, and sexual wellness, highlighting how healing the body can naturally enhance intimacy and desire.

This episode is a compelling look at alternative healing, personal empowerment, and the possibilities that emerge when we take an active role in our health journey.

What You’ll Learn

• Darlene’s journey through autoimmune disease and caregiving

• How stem cell activation technology supports the body’s healing

• The connection between overall health and sexual vitality

• Alternative approaches to managing chronic illness

• How healing can impact energy, confidence, and intimacy

• Why many people report renewed libido after treatment

Connect With the Guest

Darlene Greene

Website: https://iamreverseaging.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this transformative episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Hoshandra for a powerful conversation about personal responsibility, growth, and the lessons that shape how we approach sexuality and relationships.

Hoshandra shares her journey of learning the hard way—navigating challenges, reflecting on her experiences, and ultimately realizing that the only true control we have is over our own thoughts, choices, and behaviors. Her story is both honest and empowering, offering insight into how self-awareness can change the course of our lives.

Together, Eve and Hoshandra dive into what they believe are essential lessons—especially for teenagers and young adults—before stepping into the world of sexuality. They discuss the importance of understanding boundaries, emotional awareness, communication, and making informed, intentional decisions.

This conversation highlights how early education around self-worth, consent, and personal responsibility can create healthier relationships and more confident individuals. It’s a grounded and practical episode that blends lived experience with meaningful guidance.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking clarity, growth, and a more conscious approach to relationships and sexuality.

What You’ll Learn

• Why personal responsibility is key to growth and self-awareness

• How past experiences can shape healthier future choices

• Essential lessons about sexuality for teenagers and young adults

• The importance of boundaries, consent, and communication

• How to build confidence through self-understanding

• Practical insights for navigating relationships with intention

Connect With the Guest

Hashondra Smith

Website: https://dontoverthink.me

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this expansive and thought-provoking episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with June Edward for a fascinating conversation that bridges the physical and spiritual realms.

June shares her unique perspective on living with one foot in this dimension and a deep connection to something far beyond it. She invites listeners to explore the idea that we are more than our physical bodies—that our souls are vast, powerful, and capable of shaping the lives we desire.

Together, Eve and June dive into the concept of energy, personal responsibility, and the lessons we’re here to learn. June explains how our experiences—both challenging and uplifting—can serve as opportunities for growth, alignment, and deeper understanding.

This conversation also explores how we can consciously choose our path, tap into our inner wisdom, and use our energy intentionally to create a life that feels aligned, purposeful, and fulfilling.

This episode is an invitation to expand your awareness, trust your intuition, and explore the connection between energy, soul, and the life you’re creating.

What You’ll Learn

• How to understand your life through a spiritual and energetic lens

• The concept of the soul and its role in personal growth

• How energy influences your experiences and relationships

• The importance of learning from life’s challenges

• How to consciously choose your path and create alignment

• Tapping into intuition and inner wisdom

Connect With the Guest

June Edward

Website: https://www.juneedward.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this thought-provoking episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Alexandra Stockwell to challenge one of the most common beliefs in relationships: that compromise is the key to happiness.

Together, they explore how constantly “not rocking the boat” can actually lead to disconnection, resentment, and a loss of authenticity. Alexandra offers a refreshing perspective—inviting listeners to move beyond surface-level compromise and instead step into honest, aligned communication that honors both partners fully.

Alexandra shares how being true to yourself doesn’t mean creating conflict, but rather learning how to express your feelings, needs, and desires in a way that is both loving and clear. This approach fosters deeper intimacy, stronger emotional connection, and relationships that feel expansive rather than restrictive.

Eve and Alexandra discuss the importance of emotional honesty, self-awareness, and courage in building relationships that are not just functional—but truly fulfilling.

This episode is an empowering invitation to stop settling for “good enough” and start creating relationships rooted in truth, connection, and mutual understanding.

What You’ll Learn

• Why compromise isn’t always the best solution in relationships

• How avoiding conflict can lead to disconnection and resentment

• The importance of expressing needs and desires authentically

• How to communicate with love, clarity, and confidence

• Building deeper intimacy through emotional honesty

• Creating relationships that feel aligned and fulfilling

Connect With the Guest

Alexandra Stockwell

Website: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this inspiring episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Paul Zolman for a powerful conversation about transforming your life through love, self-awareness, and intentional connection.

Paul shares his personal journey from anger and disconnection to embodying love in all areas of his life. Through deep self-reflection and growth, he discovered the importance of not just understanding love—but actively expressing it in ways that foster real connection and fulfillment.

Together, Eve and Paul explore the concept of the five love languages and how becoming fluent in all of them can transform your relationships. Rather than relying on just one default way of expressing love, Paul introduces a more dynamic approach—learning how to give and receive love in multiple ways to create deeper intimacy, understanding, and emotional connection.

Paul also shares the tools he’s created to help individuals practice and integrate love into their daily lives, making it easier to build meaningful relationships and attract the kind of love they truly desire.

This episode is a heartfelt and practical guide to shifting from reactive patterns into intentional love, helping you create more connected, fulfilling relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• Paul Zolman’s journey from anger to living with love

• How the five love languages influence relationships

• Why becoming fluent in all love languages deepens connection

• Practical tools for expressing love intentionally

• How to attract healthier, more fulfilling relationships

• The role of self-awareness in creating lasting love

Connect With the Guest

Paul Zolman

Website: https://roleoflove.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this fascinating and expansive episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Leslie Draffin, a psilocybin coach, to explore the intersection of psychedelics, feminine healing, and sexual wellness.

Leslie shares how her work guides women back into connection with their bodies—especially the womb space—and into a deeper relationship with what she describes as sacred feminine or “mother” energy. She offers insight into how this connection can support emotional healing, self-awareness, and a more embodied experience of pleasure and intimacy.

Together, Eve and Leslie discuss the potential of psilocybin (magic mushrooms) as a tool for healing trauma, anxiety, and depression—factors that often impact libido, intimacy, and overall sexual well-being. Leslie explains how intentional, supported experiences can help individuals process emotions, release stored patterns, and reconnect with themselves in a meaningful way.

They also address common concerns around safety, emphasizing the importance of education, preparation, and proper guidance when exploring psychedelic work. This conversation is both intriguing and grounding—opening the door to new possibilities while encouraging responsibility and self-awareness.

This episode is an invitation to explore alternative pathways to healing, reconnect with your body, and consider how emotional well-being and sexual health are deeply intertwined.

What You’ll Learn

• How psilocybin can support emotional and trauma healing

• The connection between mental health and sexual wellness

• What it means to reconnect with womb energy and feminine wisdom

• How psychedelics may help with anxiety and depression

• The importance of safety, intention, and support in psychedelic work

• How healing can positively impact intimacy and pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Leslie Draffin

Website: https://lesliedraffin.com

Free Guide: https://lesliedraffin.myflodesk.com/microguide

Community: https://lesliedraffin.circle.so/checkout/the-sanctuary-membership

(Code: Sisters)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this raw and deeply transformative episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Marina Pearson for a powerful conversation about healing, feminine wisdom, and reclaiming authentic expression.

Marina shares her journey from navigating childhood trauma and confusing societal messages to developing a more holistic understanding of life, love, and pleasure. She opens up about her struggles with chronic people-pleasing and how it impacted her relationships, voice, and sense of self.

Through her healing process, Marina discovered a deeper connection to her feminine wisdom—what she describes as her “conch”—a source of intuition, expression, and inner truth. She explains how reconnecting with this part of herself allowed her to communicate more openly, set boundaries, and step into her power with confidence.

Together, Eve and Marina explore how unlearning old patterns and tuning into the body can create profound shifts in intimacy, self-worth, and personal freedom. This conversation is an invitation to move beyond conditioning and into a more embodied, expressive, and empowered way of living.

This episode offers honest reflection, emotional depth, and empowering insight for anyone on a journey of healing, self-discovery, and reclaiming their voice.

What You’ll Learn

• How childhood experiences shape beliefs around love, pleasure, and identity

• The impact of people-pleasing on relationships and self-expression

• What feminine wisdom is and how to reconnect with it

• The importance of communication and authentic expression

• How to move from conditioning into empowerment

• Practical insights for embodying confidence and self-trust

Connect With the Guest

Marina Pearson

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this bold and eye-opening episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Annie for an honest and deeply human conversation about sex work, intimacy, and challenging societal misconceptions.

Annie, a proud massage goddess and advocate for the global sex workers community, shares her perspective on the meaningful and often misunderstood role sex workers play in people’s lives. Together, she and Eve explore how sex work can provide not just physical connection, but emotional intimacy, presence, and healing for clients who may otherwise feel isolated or unseen.

This conversation also challenges the idea that monogamy is the only valid relationship structure. Eve and Annie discuss how expanding our understanding of connection and intimacy can reduce shame and open up more honest, consensual ways of meeting human needs.

Annie speaks candidly about her own experiences, her most intimate relationships, and her mission to destigmatize sex work through education, compassion, and advocacy. This episode invites listeners to move beyond judgment and into a more nuanced understanding of intimacy, connection, and choice.

This is a powerful, perspective-shifting conversation about respect, autonomy, and the many ways humans seek and experience connection.

What You’ll Learn

• Common misconceptions about sex work and the reality behind them

• The role of intimacy and emotional connection in sex work

• How stigma impacts sex workers and their clients

• Expanding perspectives beyond traditional monogamy

• The importance of consent, respect, and autonomy in all relationships

• How to approach conversations around sex work without judgment

Connect With the Guest

Annie

Website: https://annietemple.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this revealing and imaginative episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with author Rene Moon for a captivating conversation exploring the world of women’s fantasies across cultures and experiences.

Rene shares insights from her work on erotic imagination and desire, highlighting how fantasies are a deeply human experience—shaped by individuality, culture, and personal history. Together, she and Eve explore how fantasies can exist in many forms: as private inner worlds, shared intimate experiences, or even expressions that are brought into reality with trust, communication, and consent.

The conversation moves through a wide spectrum of desire, from everyday daydreams to more daring and taboo explorations, emphasizing that there is no “right” way to fantasize. Instead, fantasies are framed as a personal and empowering space for curiosity, creativity, and self-understanding.

Eve and Rene also discuss how openness around fantasy can deepen intimacy, improve communication between partners, and support a healthier relationship with desire—while still honoring privacy, boundaries, and personal comfort.

This episode is an invitation to normalize erotic imagination and recognize fantasy as a natural, meaningful part of human sexuality.

What You’ll Learn

• Why sexual fantasy is a universal human experience

• The different ways fantasies can exist (private, shared, or expressed)

• How culture influences desire and imagination

• The connection between fantasy, communication, and intimacy

• How to explore desire with curiosity and consent

• Understanding taboo fantasies without shame

Connect With the Guest

Rene Moon

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this playful and refreshing episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by Dimi for a lighthearted yet meaningful conversation about embracing the idea that being “off kilter” might actually be more normal than we think.

Together, they explore how stepping outside of societal expectations can open the door to more authentic expression, especially when it comes to intimacy, desire, and personal identity. With humor and curiosity, Eve and Dimi dive into topics like consent, kink, and the influence of movies and media on how we understand relationships and sexuality.

This episode blends insightful perspectives with a fun, easygoing energy—reminding listeners that conversations around sex and connection don’t always have to be heavy to be impactful. By normalizing individuality and encouraging open-mindedness, Eve and Dimi create space for listeners to feel more comfortable exploring their own desires and boundaries.

Expect laughs, relatable moments, and thoughtful takeaways that will leave you smiling—and maybe seeing things a little differently.

What You’ll Learn

• Why being “off kilter” can be a form of authenticity

• The importance of consent in all types of relationships

• How media and movies shape our views on sex and intimacy

• A light introduction to kink and exploring personal desires

• How humor and openness can improve conversations about sex

• Embracing individuality in relationships and self-expression

Connect With the Guest

Dimi

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this deeply moving episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Sara Webb for an intimate and powerful conversation about identity, authenticity, and the courage it takes to break free from societal and family expectations.

Sara shares her personal journey of coming out and navigating the complexities of discovering her true self in a world that often expects conformity. With honesty and vulnerability, she reflects on the heartbreak, confusion, and eventual liberation that came with embracing her identity outside of heteronormative norms.

This conversation is especially meaningful for those within the LGBTQ+ community, as Sara’s story offers both representation and hope. She speaks to the emotional realities of living authentically, the challenges of being seen, and the deep healing that comes from choosing yourself—even when it’s difficult.

Eve and Sara also explore themes of self-acceptance, resilience, and the importance of creating space for personal truth. This episode serves as a reminder that identity is a journey, and that there is strength in honoring who you are, even as you continue to evolve.

This is a heartfelt and inspiring conversation for anyone navigating identity, healing from heartbreak, or learning to live more fully and authentically.

What You’ll Learn

• Sara Webb’s journey of coming out and self-discovery

• The impact of societal and family expectations on identity

• Navigating heartbreak and emotional healing

• The importance of authenticity and self-acceptance

• Representation and support within the LGBTQ+ community

• How to embrace your evolving sense of self

Connect With the Guest

Sara Webb

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this thought-provoking episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by Lexi for a deep and expansive conversation about nudity, perception, and the evolving landscape of modern relationships.

Together, they explore how societal views on nudity shape the way we see ourselves and others—often influencing body image, confidence, and our relationship with intimacy. Eve and Lexi challenge cultural conditioning around shame and exposure, inviting listeners to reconsider nudity as something natural rather than something to hide or judge.

The conversation also opens into the world of ethical non-monogamy, where communication, consent, and self-awareness create space for diverse and intentional relationship dynamics. Lexi shares insights into how these relationship structures can offer new ways of experiencing connection, desire, and personal freedom.

Throughout the episode, Eve and Lexi emphasize the importance of curiosity, openness, and non-judgment when exploring both body acceptance and relationship possibilities. This is a conversation about expanding perspective—on bodies, boundaries, and the many ways people choose to connect.

This episode invites you to question norms, release shame, and explore a more liberated, conscious approach to intimacy and self-expression.

What You’ll Learn

• How societal views on nudity influence body image and self-perception

• Why reframing nudity can support confidence and self-acceptance

• An introduction to ethical non-monogamy and relationship diversity

• The role of communication and consent in alternative relationships

• How to explore intimacy and connection without judgment

• Expanding your perspective on bodies, relationships, and freedom

Connect With the Guest

Lexi

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this expansive and thought-provoking episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by Nate for a journey into deeper connection, consciousness, and the potential of mind, body, and intimacy.

Nate shares his personal path—exploring purpose, energy, and the ways in which awareness and presence can transform not only how we experience life, but also how we experience connection and lovemaking. This conversation invites listeners to look beyond the physical aspects of intimacy and into a more holistic, energetic understanding of pleasure and connection.

Together, Eve and Nate discuss how tuning into the body, breath, and awareness can elevate intimacy into something more intentional and expansive. They explore the idea that sexual energy is not just physical, but deeply connected to emotional, mental, and even spiritual states.

Nate also introduces listeners to his work and philosophy, offering insight into how individuals can tap into their own potential, break through limitations, and experience a deeper sense of alignment in both life and relationships.

This episode is an invitation to expand your perspective, explore new dimensions of connection, and approach intimacy with curiosity, presence, and openness.

What You’ll Learn

• How awareness and presence can deepen intimacy

• The connection between energy, mind, and sexual experience

• Ways to tune into your body for more intentional connection

• How purpose and personal growth influence relationships

• Expanding your understanding of pleasure beyond the physical

• How to explore intimacy from a holistic perspective

Connect With the Guest

Nate Zeleznick

Website: https://iampure.energy

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this vibrant and empowering episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by Ann Bell for a playful yet deeply meaningful conversation about embracing pleasure, intimacy, and sexual wellness at every stage of life.

Together, they explore the idea that pleasure has no age limit—challenging societal narratives that often silence conversations around sexuality as we grow older. Eve and Ann highlight how staying curious, open, and connected to your body can lead to a more fulfilling and joyful intimate life, regardless of age or experience.

The conversation also emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy in healthcare, especially when it comes to discussing sexual health. They offer practical insights on how to confidently communicate with doctors—even when those conversations feel uncomfortable—so you can get the support and information you deserve.

Beyond traditional views of sex, this episode expands the definition of pleasure to a more holistic experience, recognizing that the entire body can be a source of connection, sensation, and enjoyment. Eve and Ann encourage listeners to approach intimacy with playfulness, experimentation, and a sense of curiosity—free from shame or pressure.

This episode is a celebration of pleasure, confidence, and self-expression—inviting you to “lubricate your life” with knowledge, laughter, and a more open relationship with your sexuality.

What You’ll Learn

• Why pleasure and intimacy are important at every stage of life

• How to break free from societal taboos around aging and sexuality

• The importance of advocating for your sexual health with healthcare providers

• How to approach intimacy with playfulness and curiosity

• Expanding your understanding of pleasure beyond traditional norms

• How open communication leads to a more satisfying sexual experience

Connect With the Guest

Ann Bell

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this honest and empowering episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Rachel Lavin to explore the complex relationship between body image, self-sabotage, and self-acceptance—especially within the world of fitness and performance.

Rachel opens up about her personal struggles with negative self-talk and the pressure to maintain a certain image as a fitness professional. She shares how self-sabotaging thoughts can quietly impact confidence, identity, and overall well-being, even for those who appear strong and disciplined on the outside.

Together, Eve and Rachel unpack the deeper emotional layers behind body image, highlighting how true confidence isn’t built through perfection, but through self-awareness, compassion, and acceptance. They explore the journey of learning to trust your body, challenge internal narratives, and redefine what it means to feel good in your own skin.

Of course, the conversation also touches on intimacy and “sexy time,” discussing how body confidence directly influences desire, connection, and the ability to be present in intimate experiences.

This episode is a relatable and insightful conversation for anyone navigating self-image, confidence, and the ongoing journey toward self-love.

What You’ll Learn

• How self-sabotaging thoughts impact body image and confidence

• The pressure of appearance in the fitness industry

• How to shift negative self-talk into self-acceptance

• The connection between body image and intimacy

• Why confidence comes from self-awareness, not perfection

• Practical insights for building a healthier relationship with your body

Connect With the Guest

Rachel Lavin

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this eye-opening episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes back Julieta Chiara for a candid and educational conversation on penis size, sexual expectations, and the realities behind what we see in porn.

Together, they break down common myths around size, including the differences between growers and showers, and how these variations are often misunderstood or exaggerated in mainstream media. Julieta offers a grounded perspective on how porn can create unrealistic expectations around bodies, performance, and pleasure—and how these narratives can impact confidence and intimacy.

The conversation also highlights what truly enhances sexual satisfaction beyond size, including communication, presence, technique, and emotional connection. Julieta and Eve emphasize that pleasure is not defined by physical attributes, but by awareness, trust, and mutual understanding between partners.

A key part of the discussion focuses on aftercare—an often-overlooked aspect of intimacy that can significantly deepen connection, safety, and satisfaction. Julieta explains how intentional aftercare practices can support both emotional and physical well-being after intimacy.

This episode is packed with practical insights, myth-busting education, and empowering reminders that great sex is about connection, not comparison.

What You’ll Learn

• The truth about penis size and common misconceptions

• The difference between growers and showers

• How porn shapes unrealistic expectations about sex and bodies

• What actually contributes to satisfying intimacy and pleasure

• The importance of communication and confidence in the bedroom

• How aftercare enhances connection and emotional safety

Connect With the Guest

Julieta Chiara

Website: https://www.julietachiara.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this deeply personal episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Edward Miskie to explore how sexuality, identity, and resilience can become powerful tools during life’s most challenging moments.

Edward opens up about his experience navigating a rare cancer diagnosis and the intense physical and emotional changes that came with treatment. During a time that felt uncertain and out of control, he shares how he turned to his sexuality as a way to reconnect with himself—using it as a grounding force to feel desired, human, and alive.

This conversation highlights how intimacy, self-expression, and body connection can play a meaningful role in coping, healing, and maintaining a sense of normalcy during illness. Edward reflects on how this journey reshaped his perspective on life, helping him move toward deeper self-love, purpose, and personal empowerment.

Eve and Edward also explore the emotional layers of facing mortality, reclaiming identity, and finding strength through vulnerability. This episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the many ways healing can take shape.

This is a powerful and inspiring conversation for anyone navigating illness, identity shifts, or seeking to reconnect with themselves during difficult transitions.

What You’ll Learn

• How sexuality can serve as a coping tool during illness

• Navigating identity and self-worth through major life changes

• The emotional impact of a cancer diagnosis and recovery journey

• How intimacy can support resilience and healing

• Reclaiming a sense of control and self during uncertainty

• The role of self-love and perspective in transformation

Connect With the Guest

Edward Miskie

Instagram: https://instagram.com/edwardmiskie

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this enlightening episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Adrianne Grayson, master herbalist and founder of Peacock Mama, to explore the powerful role of herbal remedies in enhancing intimacy, sexual health, and overall well-being.

Adrianne shares her journey into herbalism and how her passion for natural healing led her to focus on supporting intimacy and connection within relationships. She introduces the concept of using herbs as part of a holistic approach to sexual wellness—supporting the body’s natural rhythms, energy, and responsiveness.

The conversation dives into specific herbs and their benefits, including how they may support arousal, circulation, and overall vitality. Adrianne also opens up about her personal experiences integrating herbal practices into her own relationship, offering a candid look at both the challenges and transformations along the way.

Eve and Adrianne discuss the importance of education and community, highlighting how Adrianne uses her platform to share accessible, empowering information about herbal solutions for sexual health. They also cover essential safety considerations, emphasizing informed and intentional use when incorporating herbs into your wellness routine.

This episode offers a grounded and holistic perspective on intimacy—reminding listeners that sexual health is deeply connected to physical, emotional, and energetic well-being.

What You’ll Learn

• How herbal remedies can support sexual health and intimacy

• The role of natural ingredients in boosting vitality and arousal

• Adrianne’s personal journey with herbalism and relationship wellness

• Practical ways to incorporate herbs into your daily routine

• Safety considerations when using herbs for sexual enhancement

• How holistic health supports deeper connection and pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Adrianne Grayson

Instagram: https://instagram.com/peacockmamatv

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Mizzy Bender to explore her powerful journey of personal liberation, sexual discovery, and entrepreneurial success.

Mizzy shares how she transitioned from a restrictive and unfulfilling marriage into the world of ethical non-monogamy, where she began to reconnect with her authentic self. She opens up about entering the swinger lifestyle, the emotional growth that came with it, and how concepts like compersion reshaped her understanding of love, relationships, and fulfillment.

The conversation also dives into Mizzy’s evolution as an entrepreneur. Inspired by her experiences within the lifestyle community, she and her partner began hosting events and building businesses centered around connection, pleasure, and education. From organizing lifestyle parties to launching ventures in the erotic product space, Mizzy reflects on how embracing her truth led to new opportunities and purpose.

Eve and Mizzy also explore taboo topics, including the intersection of sexual wellness and alternative approaches like medical marijuana, as well as the importance of challenging societal norms around relationships and pleasure.

This episode is an honest and empowering look at what it means to step outside conventional expectations, embrace authenticity, and build a life aligned with desire, freedom, and personal truth.

What You’ll Learn

• Mizzy Bender’s journey from marriage to ethical non-monogamy

• What the swinger lifestyle can teach about relationships and fulfillment

• The concept of compersion and how it shifts perspectives on love

• How personal transformation can lead to entrepreneurial opportunities

• The role of community in sexual exploration and growth

• How to navigate taboo topics with openness and awareness

• What it means to live authentically and unapologetically

Connect With the Guest

Mizzy Bender

Website: https://www.mizzybender.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this encore episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve explores the powerful connection between nutrition, gut health, and sexual wellness—and how what you eat can directly influence libido, stamina, and pleasure.

This conversation breaks down the science behind how a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole foods supports gut health, which in turn plays a key role in hormonal balance, energy levels, and overall sexual function. Eve highlights how small, intentional dietary shifts can have a meaningful impact on confidence and intimacy in the bedroom.

The episode also addresses the often-taboo topic of anal sex, offering an open, educational, and non-judgmental discussion around safety, comfort, communication, and preparation. Eve provides practical guidance aimed at reducing stigma while supporting informed, pleasurable experiences for those who choose to explore it.

Overall, this episode emphasizes the idea that sexual wellness is holistic—rooted not only in mindset and communication, but also in physical health and daily lifestyle choices. By understanding the link between nutrition and sexuality, listeners are empowered to make choices that support both pleasure and wellbeing.

This is a grounded, educational episode for anyone looking to improve sexual health through nutrition, deepen body awareness, and approach intimacy with more confidence and knowledge.

What You’ll Learn

• How nutrition affects libido, stamina, and sexual performance

• The connection between gut health and sexual wellness

• How diet supports hormonal balance and energy

• Practical ways to improve sexual health through food choices

• Safe, informed guidance on anal sex and preparation

• How physical wellness supports intimacy and pleasure

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this encore episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve explores how lingerie, self-love, and body confidence can be powerful gateways to cultivating Big Clit Energy (BCE) and stepping into a more embodied sense of sexual empowerment.

This conversation breaks down what BCE truly represents—not just as a playful concept, but as a movement rooted in authenticity, pleasure, and owning your sexual identity without shame. Eve explores how BCE is less about external validation and more about internal alignment with your desires, confidence, and self-expression.

A key focus of the episode is how lingerie can be used as a tool for self-connection rather than performance. Eve discusses how intentional self-adornment can shift body perception, enhance sensual awareness, and support a deeper relationship with confidence and pleasure.

The episode also highlights practical self-love practices that help build body confidence and emotional safety within your own skin. From mindset shifts to embodied rituals, Eve emphasizes that sexual empowerment begins with how you relate to yourself.

Finally, the conversation expands into communication—exploring how BCE supports clearer expression of boundaries, desires, and needs in intimate relationships, helping listeners step into a more confident and empowered version of themselves.

This episode is an uplifting and practical guide for anyone looking to reconnect with their body, embrace their sensuality, and cultivate a more confident, pleasure-centered life.

What You’ll Learn

• What Big Clit Energy (BCE) means as a movement for sexual empowerment

• How lingerie can enhance confidence and sensual self-expression

• Self-love practices that support body confidence and empowerment

• Why BCE is rooted in authenticity, pleasure, and identity

• How to communicate boundaries and desires with confidence

• Ways to reconnect with your body and embrace sensuality

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this Season 1 finale of the Please Me Podcast, Eve reflects on a transformative journey through conversations centered on sexual liberation, education, and empowerment.

This episode revisits the most impactful moments from the season, highlighting key insights that helped listeners feel more confident, informed, and open in their sexual lives. Across these conversations, a clear theme emerges: many women are seeking more stimulation, deeper communication, and greater confidence in their intimate experiences.

Eve brings these threads together by exploring how embracing Big Clit Energy can serve as a powerful framework for sexual empowerment—centered on self-awareness, pleasure, and unapologetic confidence. The finale underscores the importance of breaking down shame, normalizing honest conversations about sex, and prioritizing both pleasure and communication in relationships.

More than a recap, this episode is a celebration of growth, learning, and the ongoing journey toward sexual liberation. It reminds listeners that empowerment is not a destination, but a continuous process of self-discovery, healing, and expression.

This Season 1 finale is an invitation to reflect, integrate, and continue evolving—both individually and collectively—toward a more open, pleasure-positive relationship with sexuality.

What You’ll Learn

• Key takeaways from Season 1 conversations on sexual health and empowerment

• Why communication and stimulation are central to sexual satisfaction

• How Big Clit Energy supports confidence and self-expression

• The importance of breaking shame around sex and desire

• How sexual liberation is an ongoing personal journey

• Ways to continue growing in confidence, pleasure, and connection

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this revealing episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Julieta Chiara, a submissive and Shibari practitioner who has trained with experts in Japan, to explore the intersection of kink, consent, and conscious intimacy.

Julieta shares her personal journey into BDSM and Shibari, offering insight into how these practices require deep trust, presence, and ongoing communication. She emphasizes that consent is not a one-time agreement, but a continuous, evolving dialogue that forms the foundation of safe and ethical kink experiences.

The conversation explores how negotiation, boundaries, and emotional awareness create a framework where exploration can happen safely and intentionally. Julieta also reflects on what the broader “vanilla” world can learn from kink culture—particularly the value of openly discussing desires, limits, and the freedom to stop or adjust at any time without shame or pressure.

Eve and Julieta highlight how these principles can strengthen not only erotic experiences but also emotional intimacy and communication in all types of relationships. This episode reframes kink not as something separate from everyday intimacy, but as a space that models radical consent, clarity, and respect.

This is an educational and empowering conversation for anyone curious about BDSM, Shibari, or how consent-centered practices can enhance connection, safety, and pleasure.

What You’ll Learn

• What Shibari is and its role in kink and connection

• Why consent in BDSM is continuous, not one-time

• How communication and negotiation create safe erotic experiences

• The importance of boundaries and emotional awareness in kink

• What mainstream relationships can learn from kink culture

• How consent-centered practices enhance intimacy and trust

Connect With the Guest

Julieta Chiara

Website: https://www.julietachiara.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this special episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve presents “Love’s Legacy,” a powerful exploration of African American relationship history, cultural inheritance, and the evolving landscape of modern love.

This conversation examines the historical roots of African American marriage and how generations of lived experience, resilience, and cultural identity continue to influence modern relationship dynamics today. Eve explores how love, partnership, and family structures have been shaped over time, and how those patterns still echo in contemporary relationships.

The episode also touches on behavioral epigenetics and the idea that generational experiences can influence relational patterns, emotional responses, and attachment styles. Eve invites listeners to consider how awareness of these patterns can support healing, growth, and more intentional relationship choices.

A significant part of the discussion also explores ethical non-monogamy as one of many valid relationship structures, highlighting how communication, consent, and cultural awareness can expand how people approach love and connection today.

This episode is a reflective and educational journey through history, identity, and intimacy—offering insight into how cultural legacy and personal choice intersect in modern relationships, particularly within BIPOC communities.

What You’ll Learn

• The historical evolution of African American marriage and relationships

• How cultural heritage influences modern relationship dynamics

• The basics of behavioral epigenetics in relation to intimacy and attachment

• Ethical non-monogamy as a valid relationship structure

• How communication and awareness support healthier relationships

• The role of legacy and culture in shaping love and connection

Connect With the Guest

Taylor Sparks

Instagram: https://instagram.com/organicloven

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this inspiring episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Edwin Olivieri, passionate wine connoisseur and global traveler, to explore a journey of identity, self-discovery, and personal healing.

Edwin shares his experiences traveling the world in search of exceptional wines, offering insight into the artistry, culture, and appreciation behind wine tasting. Beyond his professional passion, he opens up about a deeply personal path of self-love, self-acceptance, and self-worth.

The conversation touches on Edwin’s experience navigating depression and suicidal thoughts during his twenties, while also coming to terms with his identity as a gay man. He reflects on the challenges of coming out, the importance of emotional healing, and the process of rebuilding a sense of self from the inside out.

Eve and Edwin also discuss sexual health, boundaries, and his personal decision to choose abstinence as a path toward self-alignment and fulfillment. The episode highlights how different forms of self-expression and self-care can support healing, especially when navigating identity and mental health.

This conversation is a powerful reminder that healing is deeply personal, and that self-discovery can take many forms—through passion, reflection, boundaries, and self-compassion.

What You’ll Learn

• Edwin Olivieri’s journey as a wine connoisseur and global traveler

• How identity, self-worth, and sexual health intersect

• Navigating depression and mental health while coming out

• The role of self-love and acceptance in healing

• Understanding boundaries and personal choices like abstinence

• How passion and purpose can support emotional recovery

• The importance of self-discovery in personal growth

Connect With the Guest

Edwin Olivieri

Instagram: https://instagram.com/edwino67

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this informative and sex-positive episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve explores the science, anatomy, and lived experience of female lubrication and arousal—offering a clear and empowering breakdown of how the body actually responds to pleasure.

This conversation challenges long-standing myths and misinformation around wetness, desire, and sexual readiness, helping to replace confusion and shame with education and understanding. Eve explains how lubrication is a complex physiological response influenced by arousal, emotional safety, stimulation, and the nervous system—not a simple indicator of attraction or performance.

The episode also dives into the anatomy involved in arousal and lubrication, including the Bartholin’s glands, Skene’s glands, vaginal walls, and cervix, while clarifying the differences between lubrication, arousal, and orgasm. Eve further addresses common misconceptions around squirting, offering a grounded and non-judgmental perspective on what the body is capable of.

Beyond anatomy, this episode highlights how understanding your body can directly improve intimacy, communication, and sexual confidence. Eve emphasizes that sexual response is not something to perform or “get right,” but something to understand, respect, and explore with curiosity.

This episode is a supportive and educational guide for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of the female arousal system and reconnect with their body in a more informed, shame-free way.

What You’ll Learn

• How female arousal and lubrication actually work

• The difference between lubrication, arousal, and orgasm

• The role of key glands and anatomy in sexual response

• Common myths about wetness, desire, and attraction

• The truth about squirting and how it is often misunderstood

• Why lubrication is not a measure of worth or consent

• How body literacy enhances intimacy and sexual confidence

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this bold and enlightening episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by Lexi Sylver, swinger lifestyle educator and award-winning erotica author, for an open and sex-positive conversation about alternative relationships, pleasure, and sexual freedom.

Lexi Sylver offers a grounded and educational perspective on the swinger lifestyle, challenging common misconceptions and stereotypes while highlighting the importance of communication, consent, and intentionality. Together, she and Eve explore how non-traditional relationship structures can be deeply fulfilling when built on honesty, boundaries, and mutual respect.

The conversation also dives into sexual health, safe sex practices, and pleasure-centered intimacy, emphasizing the importance of informed choices and ongoing communication with partners. Lexi shares how curiosity, openness, and erotic imagination—often expressed through erotica—can expand desire and deepen sexual expression.

Eve and Lexi create a space that encourages exploration without judgment, inviting listeners to rethink assumptions about monogamy, sexuality, and connection. This episode centers empowerment, autonomy, and the idea that pleasure is most meaningful when it is consensual, informed, and authentic.

This is a candid and educational discussion for anyone curious about ethical non-monogamy, swinging, erotica, and expanding their understanding of sexual expression beyond traditional norms.

What You’ll Learn

• What the swinger lifestyle actually looks like beyond stereotypes

• How communication and consent function in alternative relationships

• The importance of sexual health and safe sex practices

• How erotica influences desire and sexual imagination

• Ways curiosity can enhance intimacy and pleasure

• How to explore sexual autonomy without shame or stigma

Connect With the Guest

Lexi Sylver

Blog: https://blog.lexisylver.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this deeply moving episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Lateefa Fleming, known as the Yoga Goddess and founder of Empower Fit Wellness, for an honest and compassionate conversation about healing, self-care, and reclaiming the body after trauma.

Together, Eve and Lateefa share their personal experiences of surviving sexual abuse and explore what it means to come back into the body after trauma. The conversation centers on the importance of presence, safety, and nervous system awareness as foundational steps in the healing journey.

Lateefa shares how yoga, mindfulness, and intentional movement can support sexual health, emotional regulation, and the rebuilding of trust with one’s own body. She also offers insight into her transformational yoga retreats, which blend travel, community, and embodied healing to help women reconnect with themselves through movement, reflection, and self-discovery.

This episode highlights the power of self-care, embodied practices, and supportive communities in creating space for healing, pleasure, and personal empowerment. Eve and Lateefa emphasize that healing is not linear, but a continuous return to the body with patience and compassion.

This is a grounding and empowering conversation for anyone navigating trauma recovery, seeking deeper self-connection, or looking to integrate body-based healing into their wellness journey.

What You’ll Learn

• How trauma affects the body and nervous system

• The role of yoga and mindfulness in healing and sexual health

• How to safely reconnect with the body after trauma

• Why presence is essential in trauma recovery

• How movement supports emotional regulation and self-trust

• The connection between self-care, pleasure, and empowerment

• How retreats and community can support healing journeys

Connect With the Guest

Lateefa Fleming

Instagram: https://instagram.com/empowerfitchick_travels

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this powerful and deeply honest episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve explores relationship dynamics, red flags, healing, and the ongoing journey toward self-love with guest Roze Red, music artist and creative voice.

Through personal stories and lived experience, this conversation unpacks how to recognize unhealthy relationship patterns, understand emotional red flags, and make empowered decisions about when to stay and when to walk away in order to protect your peace. Eve and Roze reflect on how self-worth shapes the relationships we choose—and how choosing ourselves can be a radical act of healing.

The episode also gently explores the impact of past sexual trauma on intimacy, trust, and emotional safety in relationships. With compassion and honesty, they discuss how healing is not linear, and how self-care, boundaries, and self-love are essential parts of rebuilding confidence in both personal identity and romantic connection.

Roze shares insights from her experience in the music industry, highlighting how performance, creativity, and self-expression can become powerful tools for emotional processing and healing. The conversation weaves together themes of feminism, mental health, music, and relationship education into a grounded and empowering dialogue.

This episode is a reminder that your voice matters, your healing matters, and your story—whether spoken or expressed through art—has the power to transform pain into strength.

What You’ll Learn

• How to recognize red flags in relationships

• Why self-worth influences relationship choices

• How to navigate relationship dynamics with self-respect

• The impact of sexual trauma on intimacy and trust

• How healing and self-love support emotional recovery

• The role of boundaries in protecting your peace

• How creativity and music can support healing and expression

Connect With the Guest

Roze Red

Instagram: https://instagram.com/rozeredmusic

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this provocative episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve explores the art of seduction, flirting, and teasing—and why sexual anticipation can often feel more powerful than the act itself.

This conversation reframes seduction not as manipulation or performance, but as a practice rooted in confidence, presence, communication, and playful connection. Eve breaks down how flirting builds emotional and sexual attraction, and how teasing can create tension, excitement, and deeper intimacy between partners.

The episode also dives into the psychology behind anticipation and erotic energy—exploring why desire often intensifies in the space of “not yet” and how that space can be used to deepen connection in both new and long-term relationships.

Eve shares insights on how to flirt and seduce with authenticity and consent, emphasizing that true seduction is about mutual enjoyment, self-awareness, and emotional safety. Whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or reconnecting with your sensual confidence, this episode offers practical ways to bring more playfulness and intention into your intimate life.

This is an empowering and playful guide to understanding desire—not as something to chase, but something to cultivate through presence, curiosity, and connection.

What You’ll Learn

• What seduction truly is (and what it is not)

• How flirting builds attraction and emotional intimacy

• Why teasing enhances sexual anticipation and desire

• The psychology behind erotic tension and pleasure

• How to flirt confidently with authenticity and consent

• Ways seduction can deepen communication and connection

• How to embrace playful desire without shame or pressure

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this powerful episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve explores body positivity, body image, and the long-standing shame placed on women’s bodies across generations.

From unrealistic beauty standards to media influence and cultural conditioning, this conversation unpacks how body shaming has shaped women’s self-worth, sexual confidence, mental health, and overall relationship with their bodies. Eve highlights how deeply ingrained societal messages can disconnect women from pleasure, confidence, and embodied self-acceptance.

This episode is centered on reclaiming autonomy, self-love, and pleasure in a world that has historically scrutinized and controlled women’s bodies. Eve guides listeners through understanding how these narratives are formed—and more importantly, how to begin unlearning them.

The conversation also explores the direct connection between body image and sexuality, including how shame can impact intimacy, confidence, and the ability to experience pleasure fully. Eve offers compassionate insight and practical tools for shifting internal dialogue and cultivating a more supportive, loving relationship with the body.

This episode is a grounding and empowering reminder that your body is not something to fix—it is something to reconnect with, honor, and accept.

What You’ll Learn

• How body shaming has evolved and its impact on women today

• The influence of media and cultural beauty standards on self-image

• The connection between body image, sexuality, and pleasure

• How to challenge negative self-talk and internalized shame

• Practical ways to build body acceptance and self-love

• How to support others in their body positivity journey

• Why reclaiming your body is an act of empowerment

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve explores the world of kinks and fetishes—breaking down their differences, what they reveal about desire, and how to approach them with awareness, respect, and consent.

Eve explains how kinks and fetishes can be part of a healthy and expressive sexual identity, offering insight into how these preferences develop and how they can enhance intimacy and personal exploration. She emphasizes that curiosity and openness are key to understanding your desires without shame or judgment.

A core focus of this conversation is consent—highlighting it as the foundation of all kink exploration. Eve shares how clear communication, mutual agreement, and boundaries create a safe and empowering space for individuals and partners to explore their interests responsibly.

The episode also touches on trends and evolving conversations around kink, showing how greater awareness and education are helping normalize diverse expressions of sexuality. Eve encourages listeners to approach this topic with curiosity, self-respect, and a commitment to ethical, consensual experiences.

This episode is an informative and non-judgmental guide for anyone interested in understanding kinks and fetishes while prioritizing safety, communication, and personal empowerment.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between kinks and fetishes

• How desires and preferences can develop and evolve

• Why consent is essential in all forms of sexual exploration

• How to communicate boundaries and interests safely

• The role of curiosity and self-awareness in sexual expression

• How exploring desires can enhance intimacy and satisfaction

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve explores the powerful connection between nutrition and sexual health—revealing how what you eat can directly impact your energy, libido, and overall intimacy.

Eve breaks down how incorporating nutrient-rich foods like fruits and vegetables supports not just general wellbeing, but also key factors that influence sexual vitality, including circulation, hormone balance, and gut health. She highlights how a well-nourished body can lead to increased stamina, enhanced sensation, and more satisfying intimate experiences.

The conversation also dives into the role of gut health in sexual wellness, explaining how digestion, microbiome balance, and internal health all contribute to how we feel in our bodies—both physically and sexually. Eve shares practical tips on how to integrate simple, nourishing foods into your daily routine to support both health and pleasure.

This episode is an eye-opening and actionable guide for anyone looking to elevate their sex life through better nutrition, increased body awareness, and a more holistic approach to wellbeing.

What You’ll Learn

• How nutrition impacts sexual health and libido

• The role of fruits and vegetables in boosting vitality and energy

• Why gut health is essential for overall and sexual wellbeing

• How diet influences stamina, circulation, and hormone balance

• Simple ways to incorporate nutrient-rich foods into your routine

• The connection between nourishment and sexual satisfaction

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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In this episode of Please Me! A Sexuality Podcast, Eve explores the essential foundations of consent and safe sex—breaking down how respect, communication, and awareness create healthier, more fulfilling intimate relationships.

Eve dives into why consent is not just a one-time agreement, but an ongoing, mutual process that supports safety, trust, and pleasure. She shares practical insights on how to navigate consent conversations with clarity and confidence, helping listeners feel more empowered in expressing their boundaries and desires.

The conversation also highlights the role of open communication in creating positive sexual experiences, emphasizing that safety and pleasure go hand in hand. Eve discusses how fostering a culture of consent can transform not only individual relationships but also the broader way we approach intimacy and connection.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to build respectful, conscious, and empowered sexual relationships rooted in trust and communication.

What You’ll Learn

• Why consent is essential in all sexual experiences

• How to communicate boundaries and desires effectively

• The difference between informed, enthusiastic, and ongoing consent

• How communication enhances both safety and pleasure

• Practical ways to navigate consent conversations with partners

• How to foster a culture of respect and accountability in relationships

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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In this episode of Please Me! A Sexuality Podcast, Eve explores the evolving landscape of modern relationships—unpacking how marriage, monogamy, and open relationship structures have shifted alongside cultural change.

Eve takes a deeper look at the historical roots of marriage and how traditional norms have shaped expectations around love, commitment, and partnership. She then expands into how modern relationships are evolving, including different expressions of monogamy, open relationships, and the growing acceptance of diverse relationship dynamics.

This conversation also highlights inclusivity within the LGBTQ+ community, emphasizing how expanding perspectives on identity and connection have created more space for people to design relationships that align with their values and desires. Eve explores how cultural shifts have influenced dating, intimacy, and what it means to build meaningful connections today.

This episode is a thoughtful and expansive exploration of relationship options—perfect for anyone curious about love beyond traditional frameworks and interested in creating more conscious, aligned partnerships.

What You’ll Learn

• The historical evolution of marriage and relationship norms

• How monogamy is changing in modern relationships

• What open relationships are and why they’re becoming more accepted

• The role of inclusivity in shaping diverse relationship structures

• How cultural shifts are influencing dating and connection

• How to explore relationship styles that align with your values

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve explores the empowering concept of Big Clit Energy (BCE)—a bold reframe of confidence, sexual health, and unapologetic pleasure for women.

Eve breaks down how cultivating sexual confidence can transform not only your intimate experiences but also your sense of self-worth and personal power. She introduces BCE as a mindset rooted in self-awareness, embodiment, and owning your desires—challenging traditional narratives that have long centered male pleasure.

The conversation dives into practical ways to support sexual health and function, helping listeners better understand their bodies and what they need for optimal pleasure. Eve also offers guidance on deepening body awareness, building confidence, and creating a more fulfilling relationship with intimacy.

By comparing BCE to the cultural idea of Big Dick Energy (BDE), Eve reframes the conversation around pleasure and empowerment—placing women’s experiences, needs, and confidence at the center.

This episode is an empowering invitation to step into your sexual power, embrace your body, and redefine confidence on your own terms.

What You’ll Learn

• What Big Clit Energy (BCE) means and why it matters

• How sexual confidence impacts overall empowerment

• Ways to improve sexual health and enhance pleasure

• How to build a deeper connection with your body

• The difference between BCE and BDE

• Practical strategies for cultivating confidence and fulfillment

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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