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Where the sexual and spiritual come together. Sex and relationship coach and vaginal weight lifter Kim Anami gives you the sex education and orgasms you never had. www.kimanami.com
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Published 2023-05-15

Plagiarists Are Underf**ked

39 min
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99.9% of people are underf**ked. Does that mean 99.9% of people can't come up with original ideas? 

In this episode: 

- Why plagiarists are by definition rabidly underf**ked
- The relationship between being original, well-f**ked and expressing your creative genius
- Why women stealing content from other women is not "women supporting women"
- How people defending plagiarism (bizarre, I know) are also wildly underf**ked and also likely plagiarists
- Why most people truly are not creative and original and how you can be

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99.9% of people are underf**ked. Does that mean 99.9% of people can't come up with original ideas? 

In this episode: 

- Why plagiarists are by definition rabidly underf**ked
- The relationship between being original, well-f**ked and expressing your creative genius
- Why women stealing content from other women is not "women supporting women"
- How people defending plagiarism (bizarre, I know) are also wildly underf**ked and also likely plagiarists
- Why most people truly are not creative and original and how you can be

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Published 2023-04-20

The FÜKMOR Parenting Method

67 min
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One of the most common and socially acceptable excuses for not having sex as a couple, is when you have children. No one will fault you for that.


Oh, you have a new baby? Of course you aren’t having sex! You haven’t had sex in a few years? Well you have so many children, how could you ever find the time?” 


The irony here is that the more you have sex, the easier and more effective your parenting will be. The better the sex you have, you’ll find that your whole life, especially as a parent, flows with ease and grace and harmony. 


Wanna know why? 


Because your bed is the epicentre of your family. The energy that you cultivate from your intimate life radiates out and reverberates into everything you do. Especially your children and family. 


You, as the couple, are the engine. When you are in love and having passionate, life-changing, life-building sex, you are feeding and nourishing yourselves and everyone around you. 


In this episode: 

  • Couple with six children magically finds/makes the time to have regular sex
  • Mom of 6 has 30 cervical orgasms in a row
  • They share how the delicacy of the connection between them as parents/lovers impacts their children 
  • Hot sex life = hot business life. 
  • Getting two hours of sleep because you’ve been up most of the night making love and having so much energy from each other that you float through the day, unfaze-able 
  • How much easier it is to magnetize opportunities in your life when you put your relationship first 


More description

One of the most common and socially acceptable excuses for not having sex as a couple, is when you have children. No one will fault you for that.


Oh, you have a new baby? Of course you aren’t having sex! You haven’t had sex in a few years? Well you have so many children, how could you ever find the time?” 


The irony here is that the more you have sex, the easier and more effective your parenting will be. The better the sex you have, you’ll find that your whole life, especially as a parent, flows with ease and grace and harmony. 


Wanna know why? 


Because your bed is the epicentre of your family. The energy that you cultivate from your intimate life radiates out and reverberates into everything you do. Especially your children and family. 


You, as the couple, are the engine. When you are in love and having passionate, life-changing, life-building sex, you are feeding and nourishing yourselves and everyone around you. 


In this episode: 

  • Couple with six children magically finds/makes the time to have regular sex
  • Mom of 6 has 30 cervical orgasms in a row
  • They share how the delicacy of the connection between them as parents/lovers impacts their children 
  • Hot sex life = hot business life. 
  • Getting two hours of sleep because you’ve been up most of the night making love and having so much energy from each other that you float through the day, unfaze-able 
  • How much easier it is to magnetize opportunities in your life when you put your relationship first 


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Published 2023-04-14

Tantra + Slow Sex for Ecstatic Orgasms

37 min
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Orgasms that last for hours and days. Can you handle that much bliss? 

In this episode: 
- The importance of marathon f**king
- Harvesting sexual energy as a creative power source 
- The relationship between "fast sex" and sexual trauma 
- 3-day sex dates
- Enlightened sex acts like yoni and lingam massage, in our all star interview with Jim and Meg 

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Orgasms that last for hours and days. Can you handle that much bliss? 

In this episode: 
- The importance of marathon f**king
- Harvesting sexual energy as a creative power source 
- The relationship between "fast sex" and sexual trauma 
- 3-day sex dates
- Enlightened sex acts like yoni and lingam massage, in our all star interview with Jim and Meg 

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Published 2023-04-07

Polarity: The Hottest Sexual Chemistry

80 min
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The hottest sexual chemistry and couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, generally have exaggerated feminine and masculine energies at play.


Archetypically speaking, feminine energy is softer, open, receptive, and embodies the spiritual notion of surrender. The goddess archetype. 


Masculine energy is more active, achievement-oriented, driven, takes charge, makes things happen. The warrior archetype.


We all have these energies. Our sex life gives us a chance to explore and play with these themes, to experiment, try them on, and bring dormant parts of us to the surface.

Today we’re talking to Well-F**ked All Stars Jim and Meg. They’ve done every Anami Salon since they began their journey last year with Coming Together. 

In this episode: 

  • Why gender neutrality was killing their marriage and sex life 
  • How embodying their respective masculine and feminine energies revived their relationship, leading to the best sex ever: “We can’t keep our hands off each other. Everyone thinks we’re newlyweds!” 
  • Can you be gender neutral and well-f**ked? 
  • What it looks and feels like to be surrendered and in the feminine and masculine: sexually, and in work/life 
  • The exhaustion of denying polarity vs. the wet, hard, wild energy of letting it inside you 

The Coming Together for Couples Salon is now open! 


This is my 10-week online salon for couples. 


In it, we go deep into how to break out of the buddies and sexless rut and into the wild and orgasmic reality of sexuality polarity, helping you to reconnect with and own your potent masculine and feminine essences. 


We also go into all things Orgasmapedia: from full-body and energy orgasms, G-Spot orgasms for her AND him, cervical orgasms, and Supercock stamina building so he can get here there! 


You’ll receive tutorials in Tantric breathing and energy practices, yoni and lingam massage, how to use sexual reflexology maps and sexual positions for healing and rejuvenation. 


And much more! 


Signup now.


More description

The hottest sexual chemistry and couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, generally have exaggerated feminine and masculine energies at play.


Archetypically speaking, feminine energy is softer, open, receptive, and embodies the spiritual notion of surrender. The goddess archetype. 


Masculine energy is more active, achievement-oriented, driven, takes charge, makes things happen. The warrior archetype.


We all have these energies. Our sex life gives us a chance to explore and play with these themes, to experiment, try them on, and bring dormant parts of us to the surface.

Today we’re talking to Well-F**ked All Stars Jim and Meg. They’ve done every Anami Salon since they began their journey last year with Coming Together. 

In this episode: 

  • Why gender neutrality was killing their marriage and sex life 
  • How embodying their respective masculine and feminine energies revived their relationship, leading to the best sex ever: “We can’t keep our hands off each other. Everyone thinks we’re newlyweds!” 
  • Can you be gender neutral and well-f**ked? 
  • What it looks and feels like to be surrendered and in the feminine and masculine: sexually, and in work/life 
  • The exhaustion of denying polarity vs. the wet, hard, wild energy of letting it inside you 

The Coming Together for Couples Salon is now open! 


This is my 10-week online salon for couples. 


In it, we go deep into how to break out of the buddies and sexless rut and into the wild and orgasmic reality of sexuality polarity, helping you to reconnect with and own your potent masculine and feminine essences. 


We also go into all things Orgasmapedia: from full-body and energy orgasms, G-Spot orgasms for her AND him, cervical orgasms, and Supercock stamina building so he can get here there! 


You’ll receive tutorials in Tantric breathing and energy practices, yoni and lingam massage, how to use sexual reflexology maps and sexual positions for healing and rejuvenation. 


And much more! 


Signup now.


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Published 2023-03-31

From Fighting to F**king

82 min
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If you aren’t f**king enough, or f**king well, you are going to be fighting. Whether you’re in a relationship where the sex is infrequent, or subpar, and you are bickering and testy with each other. Or, if you are single, and you create opportunities to yell at shop clerks and road rage at someone for not going fast enough on their way to the stoplight.

All of this is misdirected sexual energy.


In today’s all star interview, we’re talking with Premala and David. We speak about:

  • Premala’s history of severe sexual abuse and her journey to become a well-fucked all star
  • How they went from fighting to f**king and barely having sex in two years to now having it 3-4 times a day
  • Fight, flight and freeze as responses to unhealed trauma
  • Our lady of perpetual wetness
  • Buying special towels for all the squirting ejaculate
  • Both needing to work out more to stay fitter for all the f**king
  • Premala having the full range of Orgasmpedia in her daily repertoire: G-Spot orgasms for lunch, cervical orgasms for dinner
  • Manifesting their dream lives from all the amazing f**king they are doing

The Coming Together for Couples Salon opens for registration next week! This is my premier online program for showing you how to come together emotionally and sexually.


In the meantime, you can sign up for my free 7-Day Sex Cleanse. This mini-program starts as soon as you register for it. You’ll receive an email each day with a lesson to view and then assignments which will be a blend of emotional connection exercises and Tantric practices. 


Go Coming Together for Couples and you’ll find the signup for the Sex Cleanse there. 


 

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If you aren’t f**king enough, or f**king well, you are going to be fighting. Whether you’re in a relationship where the sex is infrequent, or subpar, and you are bickering and testy with each other. Or, if you are single, and you create opportunities to yell at shop clerks and road rage at someone for not going fast enough on their way to the stoplight.

All of this is misdirected sexual energy.


In today’s all star interview, we’re talking with Premala and David. We speak about:

  • Premala’s history of severe sexual abuse and her journey to become a well-fucked all star
  • How they went from fighting to f**king and barely having sex in two years to now having it 3-4 times a day
  • Fight, flight and freeze as responses to unhealed trauma
  • Our lady of perpetual wetness
  • Buying special towels for all the squirting ejaculate
  • Both needing to work out more to stay fitter for all the f**king
  • Premala having the full range of Orgasmpedia in her daily repertoire: G-Spot orgasms for lunch, cervical orgasms for dinner
  • Manifesting their dream lives from all the amazing f**king they are doing

The Coming Together for Couples Salon opens for registration next week! This is my premier online program for showing you how to come together emotionally and sexually.


In the meantime, you can sign up for my free 7-Day Sex Cleanse. This mini-program starts as soon as you register for it. You’ll receive an email each day with a lesson to view and then assignments which will be a blend of emotional connection exercises and Tantric practices. 


Go Coming Together for Couples and you’ll find the signup for the Sex Cleanse there. 


 

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Published 2023-03-26

F**k Medicine: Kim's Sex Rx

14 min
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Did you know that you can fuck your problems away? That cock can heal your depression? And open your heart? That pussy juice can take away your back pain? And give you energy? Did you know that certain sexual positions can make you smarter? 


That’s right. You have a veritable pharmacy in your bed. Sex Rx or Good-fuck medicine, as I like to call it, is healing power that you have at your fingertips. 


And your genitals. 

Every time you have sex with your partner, you have the power to give them—and yourself—a rejuvenating, anti-aging, anti-depressant, weight loss drug and psychedelic experience all at once. 

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Did you know that you can fuck your problems away? That cock can heal your depression? And open your heart? That pussy juice can take away your back pain? And give you energy? Did you know that certain sexual positions can make you smarter? 


That’s right. You have a veritable pharmacy in your bed. Sex Rx or Good-fuck medicine, as I like to call it, is healing power that you have at your fingertips. 


And your genitals. 

Every time you have sex with your partner, you have the power to give them—and yourself—a rejuvenating, anti-aging, anti-depressant, weight loss drug and psychedelic experience all at once. 

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Published 2023-03-16

Meditate, Masturbate, Create

17 min
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I don’t do coffee. I do orgasms. 


My legendary Meditate, Masturbate, Create three-step formula will help you to break out of the habit of using sex as a genital sneeze and sleep aid and instead show you how to rewire yourself to get high, tap your creative genius, and infuse ecstasy into all of your waking life. 

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I don’t do coffee. I do orgasms. 


My legendary Meditate, Masturbate, Create three-step formula will help you to break out of the habit of using sex as a genital sneeze and sleep aid and instead show you how to rewire yourself to get high, tap your creative genius, and infuse ecstasy into all of your waking life. 

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Published 2023-02-17

How Casual Is Casual Sex?

31 min Transcript
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“Casual” sex is a massive contradiction and oxymoron. How casual sex really impacts you, in ways you’ve likely never thought of before.

  • Casual sex vs. gourmet sex 
  • What’s the true impact of casual sex 
  • 10 reasons why to go f**k yourself instead
  • The false liberation of The Pill 
  • Do you need many partners to be “experienced”? 
  • Are men and women built differently for casual sex? 
  • Is it worth getting a "practice partner"? 



More description

“Casual” sex is a massive contradiction and oxymoron. How casual sex really impacts you, in ways you’ve likely never thought of before.

  • Casual sex vs. gourmet sex 
  • What’s the true impact of casual sex 
  • 10 reasons why to go f**k yourself instead
  • The false liberation of The Pill 
  • Do you need many partners to be “experienced”? 
  • Are men and women built differently for casual sex? 
  • Is it worth getting a "practice partner"? 



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Published 2023-02-03

Toss Your Lubes!!

19 min
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"You’re always wet!” 

This is one of the things my lovers have said to me most often.

They’re shocked. 

They aren’t used to touching a women and she’s already dripping wet. 

It’s normally something in the past that they have to work at to create, or need to squeeze out of a plastic tube.

Most men and women have been conditioned to think that lube doesn’t actually come from inside a woman’s vagina! 

Well. 

Me and thousands of vaginas are here to tell you that you’re wrong.

Lubrication definitely comes from vaginas.

Kung fu vaginas, anyway.

In this episode: 

  • 5 tips for natural, gushing lubrication 
  • Why women actually “dry up” 
  • A woman can be wet at any age and stage of her life
  • Lube and the American Dream 
  • The great menopause psyop 
More description

"You’re always wet!” 

This is one of the things my lovers have said to me most often.

They’re shocked. 

They aren’t used to touching a women and she’s already dripping wet. 

It’s normally something in the past that they have to work at to create, or need to squeeze out of a plastic tube.

Most men and women have been conditioned to think that lube doesn’t actually come from inside a woman’s vagina! 

Well. 

Me and thousands of vaginas are here to tell you that you’re wrong.

Lubrication definitely comes from vaginas.

Kung fu vaginas, anyway.

In this episode: 

  • 5 tips for natural, gushing lubrication 
  • Why women actually “dry up” 
  • A woman can be wet at any age and stage of her life
  • Lube and the American Dream 
  • The great menopause psyop 
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Published 2023-01-27

Healing Sexual Trauma with the Yoni Egg

51 min
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"I don't stargaze; I vagina-gaze." 


This is one of the most profound podcast episodes I've done. 

I interview our Well-F**ked All-Star Katie, who shares how she healed her sexual trauma primarily through using the jade yoni egg.

“I was one of those women you talk about who never even looked at my own vagina. I was terrified to. I couldn’t touch myself because of a longstanding history of childhood sexual trauma.”

She’d tried countless other therapies to address not only her trauma history, but the resulting expressions of it, like her endometriosis and painful periods. 

I always say that ALL—and I mean ALL—reproductive ailments are symptoms of stuck sexual energy. 

The source is often unresolved trauma. 

It gets lodged in the body. 

And to the body we must go, in order to find it, illuminate it, and transform it. 

Exactly as Katie has done. 

Through taking both VKF and WFW, Katie threw herself into this and applied ALL of the tools I offered her. 


“My endometriosis is gone. Gone! No heavy periods, no painful bleeding. It is normal and healthy. I had tried lots of remedies and herbs…It was healing the sexual trauma. That’s what my body was crying out for.”

I used to associate being a woman with pain and trauma and blood. But now I dance around the house naked, reveling in the magical, sacred, special witch-iness of this woman’s body.

I went from being a highly sensitive person, to having a highly sensitive pussy.”

Katie also has some words for the skeptical and self-doubting: 


“I know what it’s like to feel like you’re the one woman who can’t and who won’t. Now, from my experience, if I can, anyone can. If you keep showing up for yourself, your body will show up for you and you can be part of The Anami Guarantee.”

If you are new around these parts, The Anami Guarantee states that:

ALL people can.

All women can have ravenous libidos, experience multiple orgasms: G-Spot, ejaculatory and cervical. All women can have blissful periods and menopause. All men can last for hours in bed, have rock-hard erections into their 90s and learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation.

I truly love this interview, because it shows you that all the healing power you need, is right inside you.

If you’re ready for your own vaginal odyssey, you can join Vaginal Kung Fu now.

In the salon, you receive:

- The tools and techniques to uncover and recover from sexual trauma.
- Guided instructions to perform your own healing yoni massage
- Full jade egg workout routines
- Guided visualizations to help you with higher level subconscious healing and re-patterning: As above, so below.
- Breast massage techniques to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
- Sexual position prescription mood guide—this tells you which sexual positions to be in to balance out different moods. For example, if you are angry, sad, depressed.
- Taoist qi gong practices to rid yourself of difficult PMS, periods and menopause
- How to use your sexual energy to create and attract abundance in your life 

All this and more! 

The salon is open for registration for another week, until Feb 4th.


Click here to signup!

More description

"I don't stargaze; I vagina-gaze." 


This is one of the most profound podcast episodes I've done. 

I interview our Well-F**ked All-Star Katie, who shares how she healed her sexual trauma primarily through using the jade yoni egg.

“I was one of those women you talk about who never even looked at my own vagina. I was terrified to. I couldn’t touch myself because of a longstanding history of childhood sexual trauma.”

She’d tried countless other therapies to address not only her trauma history, but the resulting expressions of it, like her endometriosis and painful periods. 

I always say that ALL—and I mean ALL—reproductive ailments are symptoms of stuck sexual energy. 

The source is often unresolved trauma. 

It gets lodged in the body. 

And to the body we must go, in order to find it, illuminate it, and transform it. 

Exactly as Katie has done. 

Through taking both VKF and WFW, Katie threw herself into this and applied ALL of the tools I offered her. 


“My endometriosis is gone. Gone! No heavy periods, no painful bleeding. It is normal and healthy. I had tried lots of remedies and herbs…It was healing the sexual trauma. That’s what my body was crying out for.”

I used to associate being a woman with pain and trauma and blood. But now I dance around the house naked, reveling in the magical, sacred, special witch-iness of this woman’s body.

I went from being a highly sensitive person, to having a highly sensitive pussy.”

Katie also has some words for the skeptical and self-doubting: 


“I know what it’s like to feel like you’re the one woman who can’t and who won’t. Now, from my experience, if I can, anyone can. If you keep showing up for yourself, your body will show up for you and you can be part of The Anami Guarantee.”

If you are new around these parts, The Anami Guarantee states that:

ALL people can.

All women can have ravenous libidos, experience multiple orgasms: G-Spot, ejaculatory and cervical. All women can have blissful periods and menopause. All men can last for hours in bed, have rock-hard erections into their 90s and learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation.

I truly love this interview, because it shows you that all the healing power you need, is right inside you.

If you’re ready for your own vaginal odyssey, you can join Vaginal Kung Fu now.

In the salon, you receive:

- The tools and techniques to uncover and recover from sexual trauma.
- Guided instructions to perform your own healing yoni massage
- Full jade egg workout routines
- Guided visualizations to help you with higher level subconscious healing and re-patterning: As above, so below.
- Breast massage techniques to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
- Sexual position prescription mood guide—this tells you which sexual positions to be in to balance out different moods. For example, if you are angry, sad, depressed.
- Taoist qi gong practices to rid yourself of difficult PMS, periods and menopause
- How to use your sexual energy to create and attract abundance in your life 

All this and more! 

The salon is open for registration for another week, until Feb 4th.


Click here to signup!

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I often use the hashtag: #poweredbyvagina

Which means: my vagina created this.

Vaginas aren’t just for making babies, you know!

They’re also for creating your dreams.

I’m always talking about how our sexual energy is creative, life-force energy.

If you aren’t creating babies with it, you can use it to build your life.

When your vagina is happy and healthy and it’s getting well-f**ked on a regular basis, it is very productive.

In fact, your life and work output is directly related to your vaginal satisfaction.

Turn on your vagina and you turn on your life.

With a switched on, aroused and activated vagina, your creative powers are at their maximum potential.

Your vagina is your mover and shaker. This is your ultimate power source.

Sexual energy is creative energy.

If you aren’t birthing babies with this energy, you can channel it out into the world and birth—and rebirth—every part of your life.

In this episode:

  • The sex and money connection
  • How I stabilized my weight and sculpted my body
  • Attracting high caliber partners without even trying
  • The evolution and elevation of my own business
  • How deep throating leads to amazing business opportunities
  • Where I get all my viral media campaign ideas from
  • Four steps to manifest everything you want in your life
More description

I often use the hashtag: #poweredbyvagina

Which means: my vagina created this.

Vaginas aren’t just for making babies, you know!

They’re also for creating your dreams.

I’m always talking about how our sexual energy is creative, life-force energy.

If you aren’t creating babies with it, you can use it to build your life.

When your vagina is happy and healthy and it’s getting well-f**ked on a regular basis, it is very productive.

In fact, your life and work output is directly related to your vaginal satisfaction.

Turn on your vagina and you turn on your life.

With a switched on, aroused and activated vagina, your creative powers are at their maximum potential.

Your vagina is your mover and shaker. This is your ultimate power source.

Sexual energy is creative energy.

If you aren’t birthing babies with this energy, you can channel it out into the world and birth—and rebirth—every part of your life.

In this episode:

  • The sex and money connection
  • How I stabilized my weight and sculpted my body
  • Attracting high caliber partners without even trying
  • The evolution and elevation of my own business
  • How deep throating leads to amazing business opportunities
  • Where I get all my viral media campaign ideas from
  • Four steps to manifest everything you want in your life
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Published 2023-01-13

Clitoral Orgasms Are for Amateurs

53 min
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In this episode:

  • My top FOUR tips for moving from the clitoris into the holy land of the vaginas 
  • Not one, not two, but THREE epic all-star stories of women sharing their sexual and life transformations via their vaginas and cervical orgasms 
  • Why do people fight for the right not to orgasm? 
  • The fastest way to de-numb your vagina
  • Why only having clitoral orgasms leaves you underf**ked 
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In this episode:

  • My top FOUR tips for moving from the clitoris into the holy land of the vaginas 
  • Not one, not two, but THREE epic all-star stories of women sharing their sexual and life transformations via their vaginas and cervical orgasms 
  • Why do people fight for the right not to orgasm? 
  • The fastest way to de-numb your vagina
  • Why only having clitoral orgasms leaves you underf**ked 
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Published 2023-01-06

A Strong Vagina Keeps the Botox Away

11 min
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Do you have an uplifting vagina?

Did you know that lifting weights with your vagina does all of the following?

  • Creates an overall lift in your mood
  • Lifts the pelvic floor, and all your internal organs so they don’t fall out—um yes, this is a thing that happens to 50% of women after childbirth
  • Gives you a facelift. Bye bye Botox.
  • Prevents leakage: energetic and otherwise. 

Yes, having a strong, uplifted vagina uplifts every part of your life.

When you lift at the genitals, you create an energetic uplift throughout the entire body.

In women, this translates into a natural facelift, breast lift.

Your sexual energy is one of your greatest and most creative tools.

When you are properly accessing it, you’ll see how it inspires your life, giving you a buoyancy, a resilience, and an ability to go with the flow.

It gets you high.

I always say—if you want to get high, have more sex.

If you want to get higher, have sex with a strong set of genitals that can pump up your sexual energy from your lower centres to your higher ones, cultivating higher potency encounters.

In this episode: 

  • Natural face lifts and breast lifts: for realz. 
  • How are you leaking energy? Seal it and pull it up.
  • Tap into the Fountain of Youth
  • Vaginal acupressure treatments with the jade egg 

All my vaginal power secrets and practices will be revealed in the upcoming Vaginal Kung Fu Salon.

The salon opens for registration on January 18th. Get on the list to be notified when it does, and check out my free preview video series for the salon now, which includes an exercise you can do tonight!

Click here to signup

More description

Do you have an uplifting vagina?

Did you know that lifting weights with your vagina does all of the following?

  • Creates an overall lift in your mood
  • Lifts the pelvic floor, and all your internal organs so they don’t fall out—um yes, this is a thing that happens to 50% of women after childbirth
  • Gives you a facelift. Bye bye Botox.
  • Prevents leakage: energetic and otherwise. 

Yes, having a strong, uplifted vagina uplifts every part of your life.

When you lift at the genitals, you create an energetic uplift throughout the entire body.

In women, this translates into a natural facelift, breast lift.

Your sexual energy is one of your greatest and most creative tools.

When you are properly accessing it, you’ll see how it inspires your life, giving you a buoyancy, a resilience, and an ability to go with the flow.

It gets you high.

I always say—if you want to get high, have more sex.

If you want to get higher, have sex with a strong set of genitals that can pump up your sexual energy from your lower centres to your higher ones, cultivating higher potency encounters.

In this episode: 

  • Natural face lifts and breast lifts: for realz. 
  • How are you leaking energy? Seal it and pull it up.
  • Tap into the Fountain of Youth
  • Vaginal acupressure treatments with the jade egg 

All my vaginal power secrets and practices will be revealed in the upcoming Vaginal Kung Fu Salon.

The salon opens for registration on January 18th. Get on the list to be notified when it does, and check out my free preview video series for the salon now, which includes an exercise you can do tonight!

Click here to signup

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Published 2022-11-11

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

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I did a podcast a couple of years back called “When One Person Wants to Grow”.

In it, I talked about what to do when one person in the relationship is more keen on growth and healing, and the other is not.

In Anami Land, a conscious, gourmet sex relationship requires both people to be actively participating.
It doesn’t work if one person is consistently putting in more effort than the other.

The magic only happens when both people dive deep and commit to 150% effort.

I highly recommend listening to the “When One Person Wants to Grow” episode. Consider this a follow up. 

Let's say you tried what I suggested in that episode and your partner is still consistently uninterested in growing with you and cockblocks you and your relationship. 


Here is my straight Anami-style talk about what I suggest. 

In this episode:

  • At what point do you call it quits in a relationship
  • What is an acceptable pace to move and grow at
  • The lie of limbo 
  • The impact of stagnation on your overall life 
  • What it looks and feels like in a relationship where both people are committed to growth. Hint: it’s sheer jubilation and nothing less. 
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I did a podcast a couple of years back called “When One Person Wants to Grow”.

In it, I talked about what to do when one person in the relationship is more keen on growth and healing, and the other is not.

In Anami Land, a conscious, gourmet sex relationship requires both people to be actively participating.
It doesn’t work if one person is consistently putting in more effort than the other.

The magic only happens when both people dive deep and commit to 150% effort.

I highly recommend listening to the “When One Person Wants to Grow” episode. Consider this a follow up. 

Let's say you tried what I suggested in that episode and your partner is still consistently uninterested in growing with you and cockblocks you and your relationship. 


Here is my straight Anami-style talk about what I suggest. 

In this episode:

  • At what point do you call it quits in a relationship
  • What is an acceptable pace to move and grow at
  • The lie of limbo 
  • The impact of stagnation on your overall life 
  • What it looks and feels like in a relationship where both people are committed to growth. Hint: it’s sheer jubilation and nothing less. 
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Published 2022-10-27

Fertile at 45!

39 min
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There are so many pregnancy myths and misinformation that it’s truly a delight to bust them all. 

Birth is painful? 

Nope. Birth is actually meant to be the biggest orgasm of your life. 

The safest place to have a baby is in a hospital? 

Nope. It’s actually the most dangerous. The safest place to have a baby is at home. 

You need an OBYGN to “deliver” your baby for you. 

Lol, nope. 

Your body and eons of encoded wisdom know exactly what to do if you can remove all of the bullshit programming and in-doctor-nation that tells you otherwise. 

It’s “risky” to have a baby over the age of 30 or 35 or whatever the arbitrary number is they invent. 

NOPE. So long as you are healthy and create space, you can get pregnant whenever you want. 

And that is the topic of today’s podcast: 

Conscious conception and a woman who is pregnant with her first child at age 45. 

Today’s well-f**ked all star interview features Katalin, a first time mother who conceived her baby at age 45. 

She’s taken a few of my salons and then signed up for Sexy Mama. 

Within months of trying, she and her partner conceived. In her words: 

“We never went to see a doctor, we just trusted that it will happen naturally.”

She was terrified of birth prior to taking Sexy Mama. 

She’d bought into the fear mongering for most of her life—the sole purpose of which is to shepherd women into hospitals by convincing them of the lie that childbirth is far too dangerous to go through on their own—and she transcended it to the point where now after completing the salon she is “totally comfortable and will not even consider a hospital birth.”

In today’s episode: 

  • My top 3 tips for natural conception at any age and stage 
  • The deeper problem with IVF and forced fertility 
  • The role of the quality of your relationship in your fertility journey 
  • Vaginal reconnaissance 
  • Well-f**ked all star Katarin shares how she went from skeptical to firmly committed to home birth and how she conceived naturally at age 45

The Sexy Mama Salon begins today! 

This is my 8-week online salon on all things holistic pregnancy and ecstatic childbirth.

It's my view and experience that just like all women can have vaginal orgasms and voracious libidos, so too can they have orgasmic, transcendent, blissful births.

Yes, every woman can.

She just need to clear the blockages and programming she's taken on via a corrupt medical system and culture at large that seeks to remove a woman from this power.

I seek to restore her to it.

That's what we do in Sexy Mama. We systematically go through every stage from conception through pregnancy, birth and postpartum to "reprogram" you with all the strength and power and ecstasy to make these peak, life-affirming experiences and create an imprint of bliss for life.

Yes, it's possible for everyone.

These women are living proof. And so too can you be.

Even if you aren't currently pregnant or have immediate plans for children, I would suggest signing up so you can begin the "reprogramming" process and create confidence in your choices, knowing they are backed up by facts and impeccable research.

See you inside! 

~Kxx

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There are so many pregnancy myths and misinformation that it’s truly a delight to bust them all. 

Birth is painful? 

Nope. Birth is actually meant to be the biggest orgasm of your life. 

The safest place to have a baby is in a hospital? 

Nope. It’s actually the most dangerous. The safest place to have a baby is at home. 

You need an OBYGN to “deliver” your baby for you. 

Lol, nope. 

Your body and eons of encoded wisdom know exactly what to do if you can remove all of the bullshit programming and in-doctor-nation that tells you otherwise. 

It’s “risky” to have a baby over the age of 30 or 35 or whatever the arbitrary number is they invent. 

NOPE. So long as you are healthy and create space, you can get pregnant whenever you want. 

And that is the topic of today’s podcast: 

Conscious conception and a woman who is pregnant with her first child at age 45. 

Today’s well-f**ked all star interview features Katalin, a first time mother who conceived her baby at age 45. 

She’s taken a few of my salons and then signed up for Sexy Mama. 

Within months of trying, she and her partner conceived. In her words: 

“We never went to see a doctor, we just trusted that it will happen naturally.”

She was terrified of birth prior to taking Sexy Mama. 

She’d bought into the fear mongering for most of her life—the sole purpose of which is to shepherd women into hospitals by convincing them of the lie that childbirth is far too dangerous to go through on their own—and she transcended it to the point where now after completing the salon she is “totally comfortable and will not even consider a hospital birth.”

In today’s episode: 

  • My top 3 tips for natural conception at any age and stage 
  • The deeper problem with IVF and forced fertility 
  • The role of the quality of your relationship in your fertility journey 
  • Vaginal reconnaissance 
  • Well-f**ked all star Katarin shares how she went from skeptical to firmly committed to home birth and how she conceived naturally at age 45

The Sexy Mama Salon begins today! 

This is my 8-week online salon on all things holistic pregnancy and ecstatic childbirth.

It's my view and experience that just like all women can have vaginal orgasms and voracious libidos, so too can they have orgasmic, transcendent, blissful births.

Yes, every woman can.

She just need to clear the blockages and programming she's taken on via a corrupt medical system and culture at large that seeks to remove a woman from this power.

I seek to restore her to it.

That's what we do in Sexy Mama. We systematically go through every stage from conception through pregnancy, birth and postpartum to "reprogram" you with all the strength and power and ecstasy to make these peak, life-affirming experiences and create an imprint of bliss for life.

Yes, it's possible for everyone.

These women are living proof. And so too can you be.

Even if you aren't currently pregnant or have immediate plans for children, I would suggest signing up so you can begin the "reprogramming" process and create confidence in your choices, knowing they are backed up by facts and impeccable research.

See you inside! 

~Kxx

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The Lie of Postpartum Depression

74 min
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In this episode I chat with Rachelle Garcia Seliga of Innate Traditions and we discuss: 

  • The five pillars of a restorative postpartum
  • The role of birth trauma in postpartum depression
  • Indigenous traditions in postpartum care around the world
  • The role of community and how to create it 
  • A man’s role and its impact on their relationship overall 
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In this episode I chat with Rachelle Garcia Seliga of Innate Traditions and we discuss: 

  • The five pillars of a restorative postpartum
  • The role of birth trauma in postpartum depression
  • Indigenous traditions in postpartum care around the world
  • The role of community and how to create it 
  • A man’s role and its impact on their relationship overall 
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Published 2022-10-13

Psychedelic Birth

53 min
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Birth is an initiation that unifies you with the cosmos and solidifies your role as a channel for the divine. 


You are the vessel for life-force to come through. You are a portal to other dimensions. 


In accessing these places, you ascend to higher states of consciousness. And you stay there. Because you’ve earned it. 


Yes, this is what birth was meant to be. 


The fact that most women’s birth experiences and the collective cultural understanding—or shall I say misunderstanding—of what birth is, is so FAR FROM this, tells us a lot about the problems in the current paradigm of the allopathic treatment of pregnant women. 


Left to our their own devices, our bodies, and nature will create the most perfect and even orgasmic, psychedelic birth experience. 

In today’s interview, we have the legendary Well-F**ked Star Amanda. We chat about: 

  • What it’s like to walk through pregnancy and birth without seeing anyone about anything vs. her first two pregnancies with a midwife 
  • Psychedelic visions she received in each birth
  • How being surrendered and UN-INTERFERED with allowed these visions to come through 
  • Orgasms as pre-natal care
  • Plant medicine vs. birth and cervical orgasms 
  • How birthing from her own intuition has transformed her as a person to become her truest, highest and most confident self and mother 

The Sexy Mama Salon is open for registration!

https://kimanami.com/sexy-mama

This is my 8-week online salon on all things holistic pregnancy and ecstatic childbirth.


It's my view and experience that just like all women can have vaginal orgasms and voracious libidos, so too can they have orgasmic, transcendent, blissful births. 


Yes, every woman can. 


She just need to clear the blockages and programming she's taken on via a corrupt medical system and culture at large that seeks to remove a woman from this power. 


I seek to restore her to it. 


That's what we do in Sexy Mama. We systematically go through every stage from conception through pregnancy, birth and postpartum to "reprogram" you with all the strength and power and ecstasy to make these peak, life-affirming experiences and create an imprint of bliss for life. 


Yes, it's possible for everyone. 


These women are living proof. And so too can you be. 


Even if you aren't currently pregnant or have immediate plans for children, I would suggest signing up so you can begin the "reprogramming" process and create confidence in your choices, knowing they are backed up by facts and impeccable research.

Register now: 
https://kimanami.com/sexy-mama


More description

Birth is an initiation that unifies you with the cosmos and solidifies your role as a channel for the divine. 


You are the vessel for life-force to come through. You are a portal to other dimensions. 


In accessing these places, you ascend to higher states of consciousness. And you stay there. Because you’ve earned it. 


Yes, this is what birth was meant to be. 


The fact that most women’s birth experiences and the collective cultural understanding—or shall I say misunderstanding—of what birth is, is so FAR FROM this, tells us a lot about the problems in the current paradigm of the allopathic treatment of pregnant women. 


Left to our their own devices, our bodies, and nature will create the most perfect and even orgasmic, psychedelic birth experience. 

In today’s interview, we have the legendary Well-F**ked Star Amanda. We chat about: 

  • What it’s like to walk through pregnancy and birth without seeing anyone about anything vs. her first two pregnancies with a midwife 
  • Psychedelic visions she received in each birth
  • How being surrendered and UN-INTERFERED with allowed these visions to come through 
  • Orgasms as pre-natal care
  • Plant medicine vs. birth and cervical orgasms 
  • How birthing from her own intuition has transformed her as a person to become her truest, highest and most confident self and mother 

The Sexy Mama Salon is open for registration!

https://kimanami.com/sexy-mama

This is my 8-week online salon on all things holistic pregnancy and ecstatic childbirth.


It's my view and experience that just like all women can have vaginal orgasms and voracious libidos, so too can they have orgasmic, transcendent, blissful births. 


Yes, every woman can. 


She just need to clear the blockages and programming she's taken on via a corrupt medical system and culture at large that seeks to remove a woman from this power. 


I seek to restore her to it. 


That's what we do in Sexy Mama. We systematically go through every stage from conception through pregnancy, birth and postpartum to "reprogram" you with all the strength and power and ecstasy to make these peak, life-affirming experiences and create an imprint of bliss for life. 


Yes, it's possible for everyone. 


These women are living proof. And so too can you be. 


Even if you aren't currently pregnant or have immediate plans for children, I would suggest signing up so you can begin the "reprogramming" process and create confidence in your choices, knowing they are backed up by facts and impeccable research.

Register now: 
https://kimanami.com/sexy-mama


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It’s a commonly accepted and very socially validated reason not to have sex: You have kids Especially young kids. 


Haven’t had sex in a few years? Of course! You have children! This is one of the most acceptable excuses there is. 


No one will judge you or admonish you. They’ll just cluck their tongues and nod. Often, because they’ve been there too. Or, because it’s a convenient narrative to buy into, instead of looking at the real reasons this has happened. 


In this episode: 

  • The three biggest reasons why couples stop having sex after children 
  • Why having children ought to make you have more sex rather than less 
  • How to ensure your sex life stays intact through pregnancy, birth and through early childhood 
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It’s a commonly accepted and very socially validated reason not to have sex: You have kids Especially young kids. 


Haven’t had sex in a few years? Of course! You have children! This is one of the most acceptable excuses there is. 


No one will judge you or admonish you. They’ll just cluck their tongues and nod. Often, because they’ve been there too. Or, because it’s a convenient narrative to buy into, instead of looking at the real reasons this has happened. 


In this episode: 

  • The three biggest reasons why couples stop having sex after children 
  • Why having children ought to make you have more sex rather than less 
  • How to ensure your sex life stays intact through pregnancy, birth and through early childhood 
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Published 2022-09-16

Power Thrusters

8 min
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I often say that it’s not “behind every good man is a woman”. 

Au contraire. 

Behind every good woman is a man, on his knees and ferociously thrusting and giving her everything he’s got. 

In order to transform your partner into  well-f**ked woman, your thrusting game needs to be on point. 

To get to the deeper, vaginal, life-changing orgasms—G-Spot and cervical, women need SUSTAINED penetration. 

A two-pump chump just ain’t gonna cut it. 

In this video: 

- Thrusting do’s and don’ts 
- Techniques and maneuvers to be a power thruster 
- The best position for cervical orgasms
- Strengthening the cock for Supercock-status thrusting

******
SEXUAL MASTERY FOR MEN: Supercock for Life! 

In my signature 8-week online salon Sexual Mastery for MEN, you can learn how to: 

- Achieve superstar stamina and be a marathon f**ker. 
- Learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation 
- Take that sexual creative power and manifest in your life with it 
- Give your woman multiple G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms 
- Build a Supercock with exercises to increase strength, length and girth 
- Occupy your alpha, dominant masculine power and take charge in bed and in life

And much, much more! 

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course. 

Are you coming??? 

Register now: 
https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

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I often say that it’s not “behind every good man is a woman”. 

Au contraire. 

Behind every good woman is a man, on his knees and ferociously thrusting and giving her everything he’s got. 

In order to transform your partner into  well-f**ked woman, your thrusting game needs to be on point. 

To get to the deeper, vaginal, life-changing orgasms—G-Spot and cervical, women need SUSTAINED penetration. 

A two-pump chump just ain’t gonna cut it. 

In this video: 

- Thrusting do’s and don’ts 
- Techniques and maneuvers to be a power thruster 
- The best position for cervical orgasms
- Strengthening the cock for Supercock-status thrusting

******
SEXUAL MASTERY FOR MEN: Supercock for Life! 

In my signature 8-week online salon Sexual Mastery for MEN, you can learn how to: 

- Achieve superstar stamina and be a marathon f**ker. 
- Learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation 
- Take that sexual creative power and manifest in your life with it 
- Give your woman multiple G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms 
- Build a Supercock with exercises to increase strength, length and girth 
- Occupy your alpha, dominant masculine power and take charge in bed and in life

And much, much more! 

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course. 

Are you coming??? 

Register now: 
https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

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Published 2022-09-09

All Men Can Orgasm without Ejaculation

32 min
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An essential life skill of a Supercock is having total control over his ejaculation. 

He is a marathon f**ker who can go for hours if he chooses to. 

Being a man who knows how to separate orgasm from ejaculation? 

THIS is probably the ultimate Supercock achievement. 

Yes, it’s totally possible. 

The Anami Guarantee states that:

All men can have rock solid erections into their 90s, master their orgasmic control and be able to go for an hour, three hours and all night if they wish. 

And. All men can learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation. 

I guarantee it. 

This is something I teach in my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon. 

In today’s All Star interview, we’re speaking with Steve. 

Steve mastered this practice in two weeks. 

In today’s episode: 

  • Why does it matter? Ancient Taoist and Tantric wisdom, NoFap and “Don’t have sex before the big game!” all add up to something. 
  • How to feel energized after sex rather than needing a nap. 
  • Steve talks about going from coming after 10 minutes of penetration to now having multiple orgasms, being able to have 10 to 15 orgasms in a row, and separating orgasms from ejaculation.
  • Short sessions are now an hour and longer ones are 3+ hours on the weekends. 

In my signature 8-week online salon Sexual Mastery for MEN, you can learn how to: 

  • Achieve superstar stamina and be a marathon f**ker. 
  • Learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation 
  • Take that sexual creative power and manifest in your life with it 
  • Give your woman multiple G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms 
  • Build a Supercock with exercises to increase strength, length and girth 
  • Occupy your alpha, dominant masculine power and take charge in bed and in life
  • And much, much more! 

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course. 


Register now: https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

More description

An essential life skill of a Supercock is having total control over his ejaculation. 

He is a marathon f**ker who can go for hours if he chooses to. 

Being a man who knows how to separate orgasm from ejaculation? 

THIS is probably the ultimate Supercock achievement. 

Yes, it’s totally possible. 

The Anami Guarantee states that:

All men can have rock solid erections into their 90s, master their orgasmic control and be able to go for an hour, three hours and all night if they wish. 

And. All men can learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation. 

I guarantee it. 

This is something I teach in my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon. 

In today’s All Star interview, we’re speaking with Steve. 

Steve mastered this practice in two weeks. 

In today’s episode: 

  • Why does it matter? Ancient Taoist and Tantric wisdom, NoFap and “Don’t have sex before the big game!” all add up to something. 
  • How to feel energized after sex rather than needing a nap. 
  • Steve talks about going from coming after 10 minutes of penetration to now having multiple orgasms, being able to have 10 to 15 orgasms in a row, and separating orgasms from ejaculation.
  • Short sessions are now an hour and longer ones are 3+ hours on the weekends. 

In my signature 8-week online salon Sexual Mastery for MEN, you can learn how to: 

  • Achieve superstar stamina and be a marathon f**ker. 
  • Learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation 
  • Take that sexual creative power and manifest in your life with it 
  • Give your woman multiple G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms 
  • Build a Supercock with exercises to increase strength, length and girth 
  • Occupy your alpha, dominant masculine power and take charge in bed and in life
  • And much, much more! 

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course. 


Register now: https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

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Published 2022-09-02

Supercock Superpowers

68 min
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Cock is magical thing.

It’s healing, rejuvenating, recalibrating and it opens me up to life, bliss and the divine.

The best cock activates a pussy, setting it on fire so it can realize its true potential.

It functions as a barometer for the man and how he is showing up in his life.

Is he potent, solid and strong?

Then his erections will be as well.

I spoke in last week’s episode about the necessity of a man being able to f**k his woman into oblivion.

You do that with your Supercock.

A Supercock, as opposed to a regular ole’ cock, has realized its true nature and owns its power.

And wields it wisely.

And wildly.

In today’s episode on Supercock Superpowers I chat with Well-F**ked All Star Max on:

– Six qualities a Supercock has
– How to create your dream life—with your cock
– Using your cock as a healer
– Your cock as the great antenna to “point you in the right direction”
– Ejecting your sexual energy vs. using it to create with

Two of my favourite quotes from this interview:

“The old me would reach for a Red Bull. Now I reach for my cock.”

and

“If you have a goal and you want to reach it—sexuality is the way. It is the primary fuel. It is the primary building block. When you lead the way with the cock, things just fall into place.”

Spoken like a true Supercock.

Supercock training camp is open now for registration! 

This 8-week virtual salon is all about harnessing male sexual power and rocking her world.

The salon covers all things sexual mastery:

  • Foreplay
  • How to last for hours…
  • Testosterone boosting
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises
  • How to give your woman G-Spot and cervical vaginal orgasms
  • Cockfidence: inhabiting your cock and your masculine alpha self.
    and even sex acts that will boost your business.

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course.

Register today.

Are you coming???

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Cock is magical thing.

It’s healing, rejuvenating, recalibrating and it opens me up to life, bliss and the divine.

The best cock activates a pussy, setting it on fire so it can realize its true potential.

It functions as a barometer for the man and how he is showing up in his life.

Is he potent, solid and strong?

Then his erections will be as well.

I spoke in last week’s episode about the necessity of a man being able to f**k his woman into oblivion.

You do that with your Supercock.

A Supercock, as opposed to a regular ole’ cock, has realized its true nature and owns its power.

And wields it wisely.

And wildly.

In today’s episode on Supercock Superpowers I chat with Well-F**ked All Star Max on:

– Six qualities a Supercock has
– How to create your dream life—with your cock
– Using your cock as a healer
– Your cock as the great antenna to “point you in the right direction”
– Ejecting your sexual energy vs. using it to create with

Two of my favourite quotes from this interview:

“The old me would reach for a Red Bull. Now I reach for my cock.”

and

“If you have a goal and you want to reach it—sexuality is the way. It is the primary fuel. It is the primary building block. When you lead the way with the cock, things just fall into place.”

Spoken like a true Supercock.

Supercock training camp is open now for registration! 

This 8-week virtual salon is all about harnessing male sexual power and rocking her world.

The salon covers all things sexual mastery:

  • Foreplay
  • How to last for hours…
  • Testosterone boosting
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises
  • How to give your woman G-Spot and cervical vaginal orgasms
  • Cockfidence: inhabiting your cock and your masculine alpha self.
    and even sex acts that will boost your business.

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course.

Register today.

Are you coming???

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Published 2022-08-26

How to F**k Your Woman into Oblivion

77 min
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What does this even mean? To get fucked into oblivion?

It’s to get fucked so well, so thoroughly, so artfully, so heart-fully that it blows away all the pre-conceived, false notions of who you are, and leaves behind a more true, authentic and beautiful version of you.

Yes, all that and more from a good f**king.

If you’ve followed my work at all, you know that in Anami Land, a good f**king isn’t some version of superficial sex.

It’s deep mind, body, soul penetration.

It’s been seen and held at the deepest level of who you are, having anything that isn’t true or real in your life, blown to smithereens.

THAT is the true power of good-f**k medicine.

So how do you get there? HOW DO you fuck a woman like that?

Today’s all star Jim is going to share with you exactly that, how he went from wanting to end his marriage, to being more in love with his wife than ever, and giving her life-changing, God-seeing, multiple orgasms.

In our vulnerable and often hilarious conversation, we talk about:

- "The number of orgasms has increased along with the type of orgasms. Our highest number for Meg is 6 in one session. 2 cervical, 2 G-Spot, 1 clitoral.”
- Masculine dominance as a key to f**king your woman into oblivion—all hail masculine men
- Salvaging a marriage from the brink of “splitsville” by going all in
- The power of the radical-est radical honesty and the aphrodisiac of truth. Hint, the seemingly hardest truths to tell get you the most wet, hard and orgasmic.
- Witnessing a successful, Fortune 500 company “bulldog” of a woman find the bliss of her feminine flow
- Falling deeply in love with your partner after years of disconnection

 
We cover ALL of this in my legendary 8-week online salon—Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, where you’ll learn: 

  • How to last longer in bed: my massively effective techniques to eliminate premature ejaculation permanently and extend your staying power for as long as you want. 
  • Orgasms without ejaculation. 
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women. 
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises.
  • How to occupy your masculine power and dominance to embody the alpha male energy that all women want.  
  • How to use your sexual energy and relationship as a power source in your life to bring you more cash, business success and overall life abundance. 
  • And much more!

https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

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What does this even mean? To get fucked into oblivion?

It’s to get fucked so well, so thoroughly, so artfully, so heart-fully that it blows away all the pre-conceived, false notions of who you are, and leaves behind a more true, authentic and beautiful version of you.

Yes, all that and more from a good f**king.

If you’ve followed my work at all, you know that in Anami Land, a good f**king isn’t some version of superficial sex.

It’s deep mind, body, soul penetration.

It’s been seen and held at the deepest level of who you are, having anything that isn’t true or real in your life, blown to smithereens.

THAT is the true power of good-f**k medicine.

So how do you get there? HOW DO you fuck a woman like that?

Today’s all star Jim is going to share with you exactly that, how he went from wanting to end his marriage, to being more in love with his wife than ever, and giving her life-changing, God-seeing, multiple orgasms.

In our vulnerable and often hilarious conversation, we talk about:

- "The number of orgasms has increased along with the type of orgasms. Our highest number for Meg is 6 in one session. 2 cervical, 2 G-Spot, 1 clitoral.”
- Masculine dominance as a key to f**king your woman into oblivion—all hail masculine men
- Salvaging a marriage from the brink of “splitsville” by going all in
- The power of the radical-est radical honesty and the aphrodisiac of truth. Hint, the seemingly hardest truths to tell get you the most wet, hard and orgasmic.
- Witnessing a successful, Fortune 500 company “bulldog” of a woman find the bliss of her feminine flow
- Falling deeply in love with your partner after years of disconnection

 
We cover ALL of this in my legendary 8-week online salon—Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, where you’ll learn: 

  • How to last longer in bed: my massively effective techniques to eliminate premature ejaculation permanently and extend your staying power for as long as you want. 
  • Orgasms without ejaculation. 
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women. 
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises.
  • How to occupy your masculine power and dominance to embody the alpha male energy that all women want.  
  • How to use your sexual energy and relationship as a power source in your life to bring you more cash, business success and overall life abundance. 
  • And much more!

https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

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Published 2022-08-19

From Porn to Power

57 min
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To porn or not to porn. That is the question!


A recent study showed that 94% of men had viewed pornography in the last six months. 


And 82% considered themselves “regular viewers” of pornography.


There’s A LOT of information out there on the negative impacts of porn, from the depletion of testosterone and dopamine and its impact on erections, to how addictive it is, to keep its effects going. 


And then there’s how porn effects a man’s relationships with women in general, and a regular partner especially. 


Instead of rattling off a bunch more stats for you, I’m going to let Jonathon share with you directly.  


He started using porn at age 17 and within a year had ED issues. 


He’s had the classic porn trajectory, and now has come out the other side of it. 


He says: 


"Quitting porn was the best thing I ever did for my sex life.”


and 


 "Since starting the Sexual Mastery for Men course, I have not even thought of porn. The fire in our relationship has exploded once we got on the same sheet of music.”


In our raw and intimate conversation we talk about: 

  • Porn as a formative sexual influence in many young male lives 
  • The additive nature of porn
  • What porn does to your cock 
  • What porn does to your relationship to yourself, and your partner 
  • Why watching porn is akin to being a cuckhold 
  • Porn’s contribution to the beta-fication of men
  • The parasitic nature of porn 
  • The problem with depleting your fluids constantly 

****

My Sexual Mastery for Men Salon opens in late August. In this 8-week online program for men you’ll learn everything from how to: Become a marathon fucker and be able to last for hours in bed 

  • How to separate orgasm from ejaculation - yes, this is possible, and every man can. 
  • How to occupy your more masculine, dominant, alpha male self. 
  • Exercises to increase your cock strength, length and girth 
  • Give your woman the full range of orgasmic experiences, bringing her to G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms on the daily. 

And much more. 


You can signup for the salon and check out the free video preview series for the salon at:

https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

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To porn or not to porn. That is the question!


A recent study showed that 94% of men had viewed pornography in the last six months. 


And 82% considered themselves “regular viewers” of pornography.


There’s A LOT of information out there on the negative impacts of porn, from the depletion of testosterone and dopamine and its impact on erections, to how addictive it is, to keep its effects going. 


And then there’s how porn effects a man’s relationships with women in general, and a regular partner especially. 


Instead of rattling off a bunch more stats for you, I’m going to let Jonathon share with you directly.  


He started using porn at age 17 and within a year had ED issues. 


He’s had the classic porn trajectory, and now has come out the other side of it. 


He says: 


"Quitting porn was the best thing I ever did for my sex life.”


and 


 "Since starting the Sexual Mastery for Men course, I have not even thought of porn. The fire in our relationship has exploded once we got on the same sheet of music.”


In our raw and intimate conversation we talk about: 

  • Porn as a formative sexual influence in many young male lives 
  • The additive nature of porn
  • What porn does to your cock 
  • What porn does to your relationship to yourself, and your partner 
  • Why watching porn is akin to being a cuckhold 
  • Porn’s contribution to the beta-fication of men
  • The parasitic nature of porn 
  • The problem with depleting your fluids constantly 

****

My Sexual Mastery for Men Salon opens in late August. In this 8-week online program for men you’ll learn everything from how to: Become a marathon fucker and be able to last for hours in bed 

  • How to separate orgasm from ejaculation - yes, this is possible, and every man can. 
  • How to occupy your more masculine, dominant, alpha male self. 
  • Exercises to increase your cock strength, length and girth 
  • Give your woman the full range of orgasmic experiences, bringing her to G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms on the daily. 

And much more. 


You can signup for the salon and check out the free video preview series for the salon at:

https://kimanami.com/sexual-mastery-for-men-salon/

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Published 2022-08-12

Rewilding Sexuality

34 min
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Before I heard the term, “re-wilding”, I used to talk about the process of “de-civilizing”, which I defined as removing all of the false, super-imposed layers of conditioning we’ve taken on over the course of our lives, and leaving in their place, a purer, more authentic version of the self.

So there’s two parts to this journey then:

  1. Removing what isn’t natural and pulls us out of sync.
  2. Adding back into our lives and routines what brings us back into flow and harmony with ourselves and nature.

If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you’ll see that I don’t recommend ANY artificial interferences in the sexual realm: that includes lube, Viagra, hormones—whether you want to call them “bioidentical” or not—and all ph-Harma_ceutical drugs.

I believe that pretty much anything can be healed naturally, through a combination of physical, emotional, mental and spiritual work to find the energetic root cause.

In this episode:

  • My top recommendations for what to remove from your sexual repertoire
  • What to add in for optimum sexual health, hormonal balance and life-changing orgasms
  • General rewilding practices I recommend
  • Things I’m especially into right now that I incorporate into my daily routine
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Before I heard the term, “re-wilding”, I used to talk about the process of “de-civilizing”, which I defined as removing all of the false, super-imposed layers of conditioning we’ve taken on over the course of our lives, and leaving in their place, a purer, more authentic version of the self.

So there’s two parts to this journey then:

  1. Removing what isn’t natural and pulls us out of sync.
  2. Adding back into our lives and routines what brings us back into flow and harmony with ourselves and nature.

If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you’ll see that I don’t recommend ANY artificial interferences in the sexual realm: that includes lube, Viagra, hormones—whether you want to call them “bioidentical” or not—and all ph-Harma_ceutical drugs.

I believe that pretty much anything can be healed naturally, through a combination of physical, emotional, mental and spiritual work to find the energetic root cause.

In this episode:

  • My top recommendations for what to remove from your sexual repertoire
  • What to add in for optimum sexual health, hormonal balance and life-changing orgasms
  • General rewilding practices I recommend
  • Things I’m especially into right now that I incorporate into my daily routine
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Published 2022-08-05

From Toxic to Divine Masculinity

23 min
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Most men grow up with role models that are “toxic” or “beta".

The thing is, neither the “toxic” version nor the “beta” version are actual masculine energy.

They are devoid of it.

So what is true masculine energy? What are the qualities men can strive to develop in themselves, embodying the divine Supercock that is fulfilling for them and that women are craving?

In today’s episode we’ll talk:

  • Is “toxic” masculinity real or just a rejection of masculine energy?
  • The energy females really want in their men
  • Qualities of the divine masculine
  • The masculinity that gets women wet and weak in the knees

For many men, they are going to have to chisel away at the parts of themselves that have been superimposed, traumatized and programmed through their upbringing and the culture surrounding them, to birth this divine masculine warrior and Supercock for the ages.

He’s there.

And as women, we. want. him.

So give him to us.

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Most men grow up with role models that are “toxic” or “beta".

The thing is, neither the “toxic” version nor the “beta” version are actual masculine energy.

They are devoid of it.

So what is true masculine energy? What are the qualities men can strive to develop in themselves, embodying the divine Supercock that is fulfilling for them and that women are craving?

In today’s episode we’ll talk:

  • Is “toxic” masculinity real or just a rejection of masculine energy?
  • The energy females really want in their men
  • Qualities of the divine masculine
  • The masculinity that gets women wet and weak in the knees

For many men, they are going to have to chisel away at the parts of themselves that have been superimposed, traumatized and programmed through their upbringing and the culture surrounding them, to birth this divine masculine warrior and Supercock for the ages.

He’s there.

And as women, we. want. him.

So give him to us.

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Published 2022-07-06

F**king Is Better than Therapy

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Yes, f**king is better than therapy. 

I would know. I’ve done a lot of both.  

Save thousands of dollars and hours.

Work it out in bed instead.

More effective, works faster and much better fun.

I mean, what is the purpose of therapy? 

To confront your demons. 

To heal. 

To be honest with yourself. 

To alchemize your wounds and past pain into wisdom and pleasure. 

Well, my orgasms do that. 

My cervical ones do, anyway. 

They have for years. 

And the fact that they do is why I do what I do. 

Everything I teach about sex and intimacy is guiding you to the place where you can be your own self-healer and master creator of your reality. 

And you can get there through your vagina. 

Specifically, through your vaginal—and especially—cervical orgasms. 

My big barometric question is: Does sex leave you feeling energized, rejuvenated, transformed, ecstatic and like it changed your life? 

IF not, you are doing it wrong. 

You can have sex in a way that depletes you. 

Or energizes you. 

I’m all about getting high through sex. 

And if you are doing that, you are harnessing that super potent energy source that will enable you to do all kinds of things from manifest a new job, to a new partner and heal your body. 

This is exactly what Alexa did. 

She learned how to use this energy, consciously cultivating it, so that it became a tangible source of power, creativity and revitalization in her life. 

Her story is mind and body-blowing and you can hear the well-f**ked radiance OOZE from her voice. 

Hear how Alexa’s vagina helped her to: 

  • Go from being $34k in debt, to mega-prosperity and a TV show in the works 
  • Unleash her creativity: she picked up the songwriting and performing career she’d put on the backburner for years, using my Meditate, Masturbate, Create sequence 
  • Lose 70 lb in body weight and emotional “baggage” 
  • Move from sexual shame and early childhood trauma to not giving a f**k with total confidence 
  • Heal her throat and vulva cysts—they totally disappeared 
  • Find God. In her vagina. 

"I would say 100% that the course that I did with you recently, and just your work in general, was a catalyst for healing for me in all levels of my life.”

The Well-F**ked Woman Salon—the ultimate guide to how to live, love and orgasm in a female body—is now OPEN for registration. 

In the salon we cover:

  • All the different vaginal orgasms and how to get there: G-Spot, cervical and squirting 
  • Self-pleasuring 101 
  • Using your feminine energy to achieve anything you want: from relationships to cash 
  • The secrets of surrender: in bed and in life 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • BDSM 101  
  • Cock whispering secrets from yours truly, the “cock witch” 
  • And much, much more!

Register for WFW now.

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Yes, f**king is better than therapy. 

I would know. I’ve done a lot of both.  

Save thousands of dollars and hours.

Work it out in bed instead.

More effective, works faster and much better fun.

I mean, what is the purpose of therapy? 

To confront your demons. 

To heal. 

To be honest with yourself. 

To alchemize your wounds and past pain into wisdom and pleasure. 

Well, my orgasms do that. 

My cervical ones do, anyway. 

They have for years. 

And the fact that they do is why I do what I do. 

Everything I teach about sex and intimacy is guiding you to the place where you can be your own self-healer and master creator of your reality. 

And you can get there through your vagina. 

Specifically, through your vaginal—and especially—cervical orgasms. 

My big barometric question is: Does sex leave you feeling energized, rejuvenated, transformed, ecstatic and like it changed your life? 

IF not, you are doing it wrong. 

You can have sex in a way that depletes you. 

Or energizes you. 

I’m all about getting high through sex. 

And if you are doing that, you are harnessing that super potent energy source that will enable you to do all kinds of things from manifest a new job, to a new partner and heal your body. 

This is exactly what Alexa did. 

She learned how to use this energy, consciously cultivating it, so that it became a tangible source of power, creativity and revitalization in her life. 

Her story is mind and body-blowing and you can hear the well-f**ked radiance OOZE from her voice. 

Hear how Alexa’s vagina helped her to: 

  • Go from being $34k in debt, to mega-prosperity and a TV show in the works 
  • Unleash her creativity: she picked up the songwriting and performing career she’d put on the backburner for years, using my Meditate, Masturbate, Create sequence 
  • Lose 70 lb in body weight and emotional “baggage” 
  • Move from sexual shame and early childhood trauma to not giving a f**k with total confidence 
  • Heal her throat and vulva cysts—they totally disappeared 
  • Find God. In her vagina. 

"I would say 100% that the course that I did with you recently, and just your work in general, was a catalyst for healing for me in all levels of my life.”

The Well-F**ked Woman Salon—the ultimate guide to how to live, love and orgasm in a female body—is now OPEN for registration. 

In the salon we cover:

  • All the different vaginal orgasms and how to get there: G-Spot, cervical and squirting 
  • Self-pleasuring 101 
  • Using your feminine energy to achieve anything you want: from relationships to cash 
  • The secrets of surrender: in bed and in life 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • BDSM 101  
  • Cock whispering secrets from yours truly, the “cock witch” 
  • And much, much more!

Register for WFW now.

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Published 2022-06-30

The Multi-Million Dollar Blow Job

51 min
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Blow jobs can do all kinds of things.

They give pleasure.

And orgasms.

They can land you massive business deals.

And grow cocks.

They can make your yoga practice better.

And your children are calmer and happier.

They can make a man into a warrior, confident, alpha god.

And turn a woman into a sensual goddess.

Did you know that blow jobs are all that and more?

Their ecstatic and reality-bending powers are unlocked when you dive deep into the mysteries of cock love.

This magic bestows itself upon the recipient—and the giver.

In this interview we have Amanda, from our legendary All-Stars couple, Amanda and Mark.

We’ve featured them on the show several times already, and she writes in to give us regular updates on their adventures and their evolution, which are always amazing to hear.

This time they had a very powerful and miracle-worthy, experience with their oral sex explorations.

They had the biggest breakthrough EVER in their business, powered by a 90-minute oral sex session.

Yes, some devoted cocksucking made them rich.

We featured Amanda on the episode “Cock Lovers of the World Unite” where she shared her experience of dissolving a growth in her thyroid from doing lots of deep throating. 

See? I told you. Sucking cock is a truly magical thing.

In the Well-F**ked Woman, which is my 8-week online Salon for all things female sexual mastery, you’ll receive my full tutorials on: 

  • Enlightened cock sucking, deep throating, and manual techniques to make you a champion cock whisperer. 
  • The full orgasmapedia of vaginal orgasms: how to have G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms. 
  • Self-pleasuring 101
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts
  • Taoist techniques to convert sexual energy into creative energy.
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself and your body 
  • And much more! 

The salon begins on July 7th and registration closes on July 8th. Signup now! 

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Blow jobs can do all kinds of things.

They give pleasure.

And orgasms.

They can land you massive business deals.

And grow cocks.

They can make your yoga practice better.

And your children are calmer and happier.

They can make a man into a warrior, confident, alpha god.

And turn a woman into a sensual goddess.

Did you know that blow jobs are all that and more?

Their ecstatic and reality-bending powers are unlocked when you dive deep into the mysteries of cock love.

This magic bestows itself upon the recipient—and the giver.

In this interview we have Amanda, from our legendary All-Stars couple, Amanda and Mark.

We’ve featured them on the show several times already, and she writes in to give us regular updates on their adventures and their evolution, which are always amazing to hear.

This time they had a very powerful and miracle-worthy, experience with their oral sex explorations.

They had the biggest breakthrough EVER in their business, powered by a 90-minute oral sex session.

Yes, some devoted cocksucking made them rich.

We featured Amanda on the episode “Cock Lovers of the World Unite” where she shared her experience of dissolving a growth in her thyroid from doing lots of deep throating. 

See? I told you. Sucking cock is a truly magical thing.

In the Well-F**ked Woman, which is my 8-week online Salon for all things female sexual mastery, you’ll receive my full tutorials on: 

  • Enlightened cock sucking, deep throating, and manual techniques to make you a champion cock whisperer. 
  • The full orgasmapedia of vaginal orgasms: how to have G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms. 
  • Self-pleasuring 101
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts
  • Taoist techniques to convert sexual energy into creative energy.
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself and your body 
  • And much more! 

The salon begins on July 7th and registration closes on July 8th. Signup now! 

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This is one of my favourite things to put out there to people: 


The promise that everyone CAN. 


Whatever age or stage you are in your life, you can achieve all of the epic sexual adventures and milestones I talk about. 


I guarantee it. 


All women can:

  • Produce tsunamis of lubrication. Yes, even when menopausal, pregnant or postpartum. 
  • Ejaculate across the room. 
  • Have multiple, daily, G-Spot, cervical, nipple and energy and anal orgasms. 
  • Shoot ping pong balls with their vaginas. 

These things are possible for every woman. 


But Mila didn’t think they were possible for her. 


She says: “I felt like I would probably be that one woman who didn’t get there.

I thought it was probably true for everybody, but given my whole sexual history from childhood onward and how I’ve always thought about sex, I didn’t think it was possible for me.”


How wrong she was. 


After some Anami schooling, now she says things like: 

“I want to have sex every single day.” 

“I have cervical orgasms all the time now.”
 “I want to get my husband’s pants off as soon as possible.”

“I’m pretty much always turned on.” 

“I love giving him blow jobs.”


It was possible for Mila and it’s possible for you. 


One of the reasons I LOVE featuring our All Stars, is so you know that you, too, can overcome any seeming obstacle, and turn yourself into a well-f**ked woman. 


Every. Woman. Can. 


I guarantee it. 


***


The Well-F**ked Woman Salon—the ultimate guide to how to live, love and orgasm in a female body—is now OPEN for registration. 


In the salon we cover:


  • All the different vaginal orgasms and how to get there: G-Spot, cervical and squirting 
  • Self-pleasuring 101 
  • Using your feminine energy to achieve, magnetize and navigate the world 
  • The secrets of surrender: in bed and in life 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • BDSM 101 
  • Cock whispering secrets from yours truly, the “cock witch” 
  • And much, much more!

Signup here: 
https://kimanami.com/the-well-fked-woman/

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This is one of my favourite things to put out there to people: 


The promise that everyone CAN. 


Whatever age or stage you are in your life, you can achieve all of the epic sexual adventures and milestones I talk about. 


I guarantee it. 


All women can:

  • Produce tsunamis of lubrication. Yes, even when menopausal, pregnant or postpartum. 
  • Ejaculate across the room. 
  • Have multiple, daily, G-Spot, cervical, nipple and energy and anal orgasms. 
  • Shoot ping pong balls with their vaginas. 

These things are possible for every woman. 


But Mila didn’t think they were possible for her. 


She says: “I felt like I would probably be that one woman who didn’t get there.

I thought it was probably true for everybody, but given my whole sexual history from childhood onward and how I’ve always thought about sex, I didn’t think it was possible for me.”


How wrong she was. 


After some Anami schooling, now she says things like: 

“I want to have sex every single day.” 

“I have cervical orgasms all the time now.”
 “I want to get my husband’s pants off as soon as possible.”

“I’m pretty much always turned on.” 

“I love giving him blow jobs.”


It was possible for Mila and it’s possible for you. 


One of the reasons I LOVE featuring our All Stars, is so you know that you, too, can overcome any seeming obstacle, and turn yourself into a well-f**ked woman. 


Every. Woman. Can. 


I guarantee it. 


***


The Well-F**ked Woman Salon—the ultimate guide to how to live, love and orgasm in a female body—is now OPEN for registration. 


In the salon we cover:


  • All the different vaginal orgasms and how to get there: G-Spot, cervical and squirting 
  • Self-pleasuring 101 
  • Using your feminine energy to achieve, magnetize and navigate the world 
  • The secrets of surrender: in bed and in life 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • BDSM 101 
  • Cock whispering secrets from yours truly, the “cock witch” 
  • And much, much more!

Signup here: 
https://kimanami.com/the-well-fked-woman/

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Published 2022-06-17

How to Manifest Your Dream Partner

65 min
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Everyone wants to know: How to find "the one"!


First off, I don’t think there is just ONE person in a lifetime we’re meant to be with. 


I believe there are several “ones” out there waiting for us. 


How DO we find them? 


How do we draw them into our lives and our hearts and our beds? 


How do we find the people who will be most suited to us, who will match us and also help us reach our next stages of evolution? 


When people are serious about drawing in new love, I encourage them to embark on a rigorous self-pleasure practice, to explore ways to amplify their feminine and masculine energies, and clear any blockages they have to fully owning and expressing as sexual beings. 


As you clear out your old baggage and interferences, that make it harder for people—and the right people—to find and really see you, the signal you broadcast becomes super clear. 


And you magnetize in your vibrational match.


I have countless stories from women who began their self-pleasuring practice in the Anami style: Meditate, Masturbate, Create or through using their jade egg for ONE DAY and they go out the next day in sweats, no makeup, not looking for anything or anyone, and guys come up to them at the gas pump, or run across the street to ask them for their number. 

That energy is so palpable, that people are drawn to it like moths to the flame. 

*** 

In today’s all star interview, I’m talking to Freya. She took the Well-F**ked Woman Salon a couple years back and has had a radical transformation, going from being sexually numb to ejaculating all over the place. I interviewed her earlier this year on her experiences with squirting, which you can find in the episode entitled …. 9 Steps to Make You a Squirting Master.
https://kimanami.com/9-steps-to-make-you-a-squirting-master


I wanted to bring her back on to share on other aspects of her transformation, including finding her voice as a poet. 


Today, we discuss how she attracted in a beautifully matched life partner. (The wedding is in a couple of months). 


In this episode: 

  • Unconscious vs. conscious attracting 
  • The secret to manifesting anything: partners, cash and a new body 
  • The inspiring and heart-opening story of how Freya put her heart (and vagina’s) desire out there and the universe brought her the perfect match 
  • The poem that cracked the code of the universe 
  • Internal feng shui: the clearing of your inner space to bring in a beautiful match

    The Well-F**ked Woman Salon opens for registration next week! In the salon, I show you how you can be well-f*ked, whether you are single or coupled. 

In the Well-F**ked Woman, we explore: 

  • Self-pleasuring 101 
  • How to use your sexual energy as the ultimate healer and cleanser 
  • Harnessing sexual energy as s creative power to manifest what you want in your life, including a new partner
  • The Anami Orgasmapedia - how to achieve the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • My cock whisperer tutorials on all things manual and oral pleasure for your man 
  • The connection between sex, creativity and money. More sex + better sex = more cash. 
  • And much more! 
More description

Everyone wants to know: How to find "the one"!


First off, I don’t think there is just ONE person in a lifetime we’re meant to be with. 


I believe there are several “ones” out there waiting for us. 


How DO we find them? 


How do we draw them into our lives and our hearts and our beds? 


How do we find the people who will be most suited to us, who will match us and also help us reach our next stages of evolution? 


When people are serious about drawing in new love, I encourage them to embark on a rigorous self-pleasure practice, to explore ways to amplify their feminine and masculine energies, and clear any blockages they have to fully owning and expressing as sexual beings. 


As you clear out your old baggage and interferences, that make it harder for people—and the right people—to find and really see you, the signal you broadcast becomes super clear. 


And you magnetize in your vibrational match.


I have countless stories from women who began their self-pleasuring practice in the Anami style: Meditate, Masturbate, Create or through using their jade egg for ONE DAY and they go out the next day in sweats, no makeup, not looking for anything or anyone, and guys come up to them at the gas pump, or run across the street to ask them for their number. 

That energy is so palpable, that people are drawn to it like moths to the flame. 

*** 

In today’s all star interview, I’m talking to Freya. She took the Well-F**ked Woman Salon a couple years back and has had a radical transformation, going from being sexually numb to ejaculating all over the place. I interviewed her earlier this year on her experiences with squirting, which you can find in the episode entitled …. 9 Steps to Make You a Squirting Master.
https://kimanami.com/9-steps-to-make-you-a-squirting-master


I wanted to bring her back on to share on other aspects of her transformation, including finding her voice as a poet. 


Today, we discuss how she attracted in a beautifully matched life partner. (The wedding is in a couple of months). 


In this episode: 

  • Unconscious vs. conscious attracting 
  • The secret to manifesting anything: partners, cash and a new body 
  • The inspiring and heart-opening story of how Freya put her heart (and vagina’s) desire out there and the universe brought her the perfect match 
  • The poem that cracked the code of the universe 
  • Internal feng shui: the clearing of your inner space to bring in a beautiful match

    The Well-F**ked Woman Salon opens for registration next week! In the salon, I show you how you can be well-f*ked, whether you are single or coupled. 

In the Well-F**ked Woman, we explore: 

  • Self-pleasuring 101 
  • How to use your sexual energy as the ultimate healer and cleanser 
  • Harnessing sexual energy as s creative power to manifest what you want in your life, including a new partner
  • The Anami Orgasmapedia - how to achieve the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • My cock whisperer tutorials on all things manual and oral pleasure for your man 
  • The connection between sex, creativity and money. More sex + better sex = more cash. 
  • And much more! 
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Published 2022-06-08

Lose Belly Fat Overnight! With Orgasms

48 min
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Did you know that orgasms are one of the best fat-busters going? Science says! 

I’ve worked with people who have done EVERYTHING to lose weight. 


They had trainers, nutritionists, they were disciplined about eating and working out and there would be that last 10 or 15 pounds they just couldn’t seem to lose. 


And then they’d start having gourmet sex. 


The kind of sex I teach about, where they are being seen, fed and nourished. 


Their hearts and genitals are open, and they are being changed by the potency of this deep, sexual love. 


And then the extra weight evaporates. 


They don’t do anything different - no changes in their diet or exercise. 


They just got well-f**ked. 


Deep, cataclysmic, vaginal orgasms, powerful connections. 


And suddenly those abs were svelte and chiseled. 


Like magic. 


From your orgasms. 


In this episode: 

  • 5 tips to lose belly fat overnight 
  • The relationship between cortisol, stress and belly fat 
  • Why orgasms burn fat like nothing else 
  • How cataclysmic sex transforms your baggage and emotional “weight” 
  • Well-f**ked all star Robin shares her story of becoming a widow, being diagnosed with the big C-word, and using her sexuality to alchemize her way through it all, healing herself, working through her grief and losing 60 lb in the process. All through the magical power of orgasms. 



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Did you know that orgasms are one of the best fat-busters going? Science says! 

I’ve worked with people who have done EVERYTHING to lose weight. 


They had trainers, nutritionists, they were disciplined about eating and working out and there would be that last 10 or 15 pounds they just couldn’t seem to lose. 


And then they’d start having gourmet sex. 


The kind of sex I teach about, where they are being seen, fed and nourished. 


Their hearts and genitals are open, and they are being changed by the potency of this deep, sexual love. 


And then the extra weight evaporates. 


They don’t do anything different - no changes in their diet or exercise. 


They just got well-f**ked. 


Deep, cataclysmic, vaginal orgasms, powerful connections. 


And suddenly those abs were svelte and chiseled. 


Like magic. 


From your orgasms. 


In this episode: 

  • 5 tips to lose belly fat overnight 
  • The relationship between cortisol, stress and belly fat 
  • Why orgasms burn fat like nothing else 
  • How cataclysmic sex transforms your baggage and emotional “weight” 
  • Well-f**ked all star Robin shares her story of becoming a widow, being diagnosed with the big C-word, and using her sexuality to alchemize her way through it all, healing herself, working through her grief and losing 60 lb in the process. All through the magical power of orgasms. 



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Published 2022-06-03

From Toxic Femininity to the Divine Feminine

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In this episode: 

  • Examples of toxic femininity 
  • What the balanced and divine feminine looks like 
  • How to cultivate it in your daily life 
  • Using sex as your greatest access point into your divine feminine nature 
  • Kim's forays into conscious BDSM as a powerful and erotic tool to learn to truly surrender and embody my feminine 

IN the Well-F**Ked Woman Salon, I help you to identify, excavate and transform your blocks and weaknesses into your greatest power. 


I go into depth and share my personal journey in my nearly year long BDSM relationship where I went deeper than I ever had, and came into balance with my feminine self, learned the art of surrender and came out truly not giving a fuck anymore. 


I’ll show you how to have the deeper vaginal orgasms, which are what help you to burn through the dross of your life and elevate yourself into your highest potential. 


La petite mort" the little death and rebirth, indeed. 


The Well-F**ked Woman salon begins in early July. In the meantime, you can signup for the free preview video series where I dive deeper into feminine power, vaginal orgasms and becoming a well-f**ked woman. 

https://kimanami.com/the-well-fked-woman/

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In this episode: 

  • Examples of toxic femininity 
  • What the balanced and divine feminine looks like 
  • How to cultivate it in your daily life 
  • Using sex as your greatest access point into your divine feminine nature 
  • Kim's forays into conscious BDSM as a powerful and erotic tool to learn to truly surrender and embody my feminine 

IN the Well-F**Ked Woman Salon, I help you to identify, excavate and transform your blocks and weaknesses into your greatest power. 


I go into depth and share my personal journey in my nearly year long BDSM relationship where I went deeper than I ever had, and came into balance with my feminine self, learned the art of surrender and came out truly not giving a fuck anymore. 


I’ll show you how to have the deeper vaginal orgasms, which are what help you to burn through the dross of your life and elevate yourself into your highest potential. 


La petite mort" the little death and rebirth, indeed. 


The Well-F**ked Woman salon begins in early July. In the meantime, you can signup for the free preview video series where I dive deeper into feminine power, vaginal orgasms and becoming a well-f**ked woman. 

https://kimanami.com/the-well-fked-woman/

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Published 2022-05-27

Boobs vs. Breasts

38 min
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In this episode: 

- How to unlock the orgasmic bliss in your breasts
- Owning and loving the breasts 
- Breast massage to reconnect and increase sensation
- Reclaiming the breasts after breastfeeding 
- From "boob" to "breast": the journey of taking our breasts back from public commodities to our own sentient, alchemical pleasure portals 

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In this episode: 

- How to unlock the orgasmic bliss in your breasts
- Owning and loving the breasts 
- Breast massage to reconnect and increase sensation
- Reclaiming the breasts after breastfeeding 
- From "boob" to "breast": the journey of taking our breasts back from public commodities to our own sentient, alchemical pleasure portals 

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Published 2022-05-12

Roe vs. Wade. Do I Give a Shit?

50 min
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This episode is a recording of an Instagram Live I did. I cover: 

  • Natural birth control 
  • The ludicrousness of having a 95-97.5% elective abortion rate, which tells us that most women have no idea how their reproductive systems work 
  • The dark history of OB/GYNs and why I would never send a woman to one. Plus, what I suggest as alternative care. 
  • The power of self-responsibility and self-governance in all things: especially your vagina 
  • Some great crowd-sourced questions about healing reproductive aliments like fibroids, cysts, and my take on STDs 


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This episode is a recording of an Instagram Live I did. I cover: 

  • Natural birth control 
  • The ludicrousness of having a 95-97.5% elective abortion rate, which tells us that most women have no idea how their reproductive systems work 
  • The dark history of OB/GYNs and why I would never send a woman to one. Plus, what I suggest as alternative care. 
  • The power of self-responsibility and self-governance in all things: especially your vagina 
  • Some great crowd-sourced questions about healing reproductive aliments like fibroids, cysts, and my take on STDs 


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Published 2022-04-28

Genital Sunning

11 min
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Genital sunning is all the rage. For good reason: it's incredibly good for you. I love my genital sun time, and I do it (nearly) every day. 

In today’s episode:

  • Yoni sunning as a treatment for depression 
  • Historical use of the sun as medicine in treating disease 
  • Studies showing how genital sun exposure increase testosterone and sexual satisfaction levels 200-300%
  • My scientifically-endorsed method for getting daily sun exposure between the prime hours of 12 and 2; when people are typically told to "avoid the sun". 
  • Why getting sun in your shadow places is so lit! 🔥

https://www.instagram.com/kimanami/

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Genital sunning is all the rage. For good reason: it's incredibly good for you. I love my genital sun time, and I do it (nearly) every day. 

In today’s episode:

  • Yoni sunning as a treatment for depression 
  • Historical use of the sun as medicine in treating disease 
  • Studies showing how genital sun exposure increase testosterone and sexual satisfaction levels 200-300%
  • My scientifically-endorsed method for getting daily sun exposure between the prime hours of 12 and 2; when people are typically told to "avoid the sun". 
  • Why getting sun in your shadow places is so lit! 🔥

https://www.instagram.com/kimanami/

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Published 2022-04-15

50 Shades of Anami: BDSM 101

11 min
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Many people have misconceptions about what BDSM really is. 

For anyone who doesn’t know, BDSM stands for: 

  • Bondage
  • Discipline
  • Domination
  • Submission
  • Sadism
  • Masochism

Even me, before I learned about what it was, and how deep it could be, thought: “oh, whips and chains!”.

And, like with anything, there are superficial versions of it, and there are deeper, sacred and sophisticated versions of it.

Just like how I teach about sex.

i would say that the most “junk food” version of sex is to jerk off to porn, racing to the finish line of the goal of just having an orgasm for stress relief or to you put yourself to sleep.

The gourmet sex version, that I teach, is about having sexual experiences that take you to heights of ecstasy and bliss, give you orgasms that last for hours, and through that you are transformed. 

You become a better, more self-realized of yourself. 

It’s the same in BDSM. 

The deepest themes for me in my BDSM exploration have been playing with surrender and control, and with archetypal feminine and masculine energies. 


The hottest sexual chemistry and couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, generally have exaggerated feminine and masculine energies at play. 

In today’s episode: 

  • Using conscious BDSM to generate explosive chemistry in your relationship 
  • Why 50 Shades of Grey was a worldwide hit. Hint: these are primal energies we are all turned on by and crave 
  • Amplifying the divine masculine and feminine through conscious and sensual BDSM
  • How BDSM is a fantastic tool for shadow work 
  • Sexy demo examples of some classic BDSM moves  

Signup for the Coming Together for Couples salon: 
https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

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Many people have misconceptions about what BDSM really is. 

For anyone who doesn’t know, BDSM stands for: 

  • Bondage
  • Discipline
  • Domination
  • Submission
  • Sadism
  • Masochism

Even me, before I learned about what it was, and how deep it could be, thought: “oh, whips and chains!”.

And, like with anything, there are superficial versions of it, and there are deeper, sacred and sophisticated versions of it.

Just like how I teach about sex.

i would say that the most “junk food” version of sex is to jerk off to porn, racing to the finish line of the goal of just having an orgasm for stress relief or to you put yourself to sleep.

The gourmet sex version, that I teach, is about having sexual experiences that take you to heights of ecstasy and bliss, give you orgasms that last for hours, and through that you are transformed. 

You become a better, more self-realized of yourself. 

It’s the same in BDSM. 

The deepest themes for me in my BDSM exploration have been playing with surrender and control, and with archetypal feminine and masculine energies. 


The hottest sexual chemistry and couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, generally have exaggerated feminine and masculine energies at play. 

In today’s episode: 

  • Using conscious BDSM to generate explosive chemistry in your relationship 
  • Why 50 Shades of Grey was a worldwide hit. Hint: these are primal energies we are all turned on by and crave 
  • Amplifying the divine masculine and feminine through conscious and sensual BDSM
  • How BDSM is a fantastic tool for shadow work 
  • Sexy demo examples of some classic BDSM moves  

Signup for the Coming Together for Couples salon: 
https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

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Published 2022-04-10

F*ck Them Until You Change Them

62 min
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I'm always talking about the transformative power of sex.

It's where the whole "well-f**ked woman" and “well-f**ked man” memes comes from.

This is the idea that the changes and effects of really good lovemaking are written all over someone's face and body.

And so are the bad ones.

It becomes so obvious that other people can see and feel them.

As a lover, it's your duty to f*ck your partner open.

To penetrate them (man or woman) so deeply, that they forget who they are, they drop all the preconceived, civilized notions of who they are, and a truer, deeper, more real and powerful version of themselves rises to the surface.

F*ck them until you change them.

If you've finished making love with your partner and they aren't glowing, if they aren't looking at you like you are some kind of messiah god (does this seem lofty? I promise you it isn't), then you have further to go.

My big, barometric question is always: Does sex leave you feeling rejuvenated, energized, transformed, ecstatic and fuck-changed?

If not, you are doing it wrong.

My work is all about showing you how to do it right.

Of all the years—about 30—and all the different therapies—a shit ton—that I've experimented with over the years, none have changed me so quickly, so profoundly and so permanently as really. good. f*cking.

The kind of f*cking that replaces addictive behaviours, loses weight, turns anger into patience and depression into action.

To help create the kind of f*cking that changes you, listen to today’s episode.

In the Coming Together Salon, it’s all about the art of the Phoenix f-ck change. 
 
 How to have the kind of sex that changes your life. 
 
 The kind that brings you daily, good-f**k medicine, wildly ecstatic orgasms, a deeper connection than you ever thought possible, both with yourself and your partner, 

In the salon, we touch on every aspect I’ve covered in today’s episode including: 

  • Guided, step-by-step lingam and yoni massage 
  • Clarity and communication techniques 
  • How to build stamina and become a marathon fucker for men
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women 
  • My secrets to marathon sex and getting high via your 3-hour sex dates. 
  • And much more! 

To check out the free preview video series for the salon and to signup, go to: 

https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

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I'm always talking about the transformative power of sex.

It's where the whole "well-f**ked woman" and “well-f**ked man” memes comes from.

This is the idea that the changes and effects of really good lovemaking are written all over someone's face and body.

And so are the bad ones.

It becomes so obvious that other people can see and feel them.

As a lover, it's your duty to f*ck your partner open.

To penetrate them (man or woman) so deeply, that they forget who they are, they drop all the preconceived, civilized notions of who they are, and a truer, deeper, more real and powerful version of themselves rises to the surface.

F*ck them until you change them.

If you've finished making love with your partner and they aren't glowing, if they aren't looking at you like you are some kind of messiah god (does this seem lofty? I promise you it isn't), then you have further to go.

My big, barometric question is always: Does sex leave you feeling rejuvenated, energized, transformed, ecstatic and fuck-changed?

If not, you are doing it wrong.

My work is all about showing you how to do it right.

Of all the years—about 30—and all the different therapies—a shit ton—that I've experimented with over the years, none have changed me so quickly, so profoundly and so permanently as really. good. f*cking.

The kind of f*cking that replaces addictive behaviours, loses weight, turns anger into patience and depression into action.

To help create the kind of f*cking that changes you, listen to today’s episode.

In the Coming Together Salon, it’s all about the art of the Phoenix f-ck change. 
 
 How to have the kind of sex that changes your life. 
 
 The kind that brings you daily, good-f**k medicine, wildly ecstatic orgasms, a deeper connection than you ever thought possible, both with yourself and your partner, 

In the salon, we touch on every aspect I’ve covered in today’s episode including: 

  • Guided, step-by-step lingam and yoni massage 
  • Clarity and communication techniques 
  • How to build stamina and become a marathon fucker for men
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women 
  • My secrets to marathon sex and getting high via your 3-hour sex dates. 
  • And much more! 

To check out the free preview video series for the salon and to signup, go to: 

https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

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In a loving, passionate, dedicated yoni massage, we are aiming to awaken, activate and bring deep, life-changing pleasure to the vagina and a woman’s overall sexual being.

Over the decades of doing my work, as a holistic sex and relationship coach, the thing I hear over and over from women is how numb their vaginas are. 

One of the biggest tools I recommend for de-numbing and re-pleasuring the vagina is the jade yoni egg. 

By building strength, sentience and articulation in the vagina, increasing circulation and oxygen flow, ALL things flow better: from lubrication to hormone transport to orgasms. 

The other practice I recommend is yoni massage. 

With focused, loving attention, we can transform a numb vagina into a multi-orgasmic and highly aroused one. 

In today’s episode: 

  • Benefits of yoni massage, including increased libido, lubrication and vaginal orgasms 
  • 15 techniques for a blissful, life-changing yoni massage 
  • Our epic flower mandala yoni 
  • All star interview with Tania sharing how she initially had pain in her vagina, and through yoni massage that gave way to numbness, and then pleasure.  

You'll find my fully guided yoni massage routine in the Coming Together for Couples Salon.

This is my 10-week signature online program for couples where we cover everything from squirting techniques in my entire Orgasmapedia, male stamina and marathon sex, communication skills and Tantric and Taoist practices.

Click here to sign up now. 

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In a loving, passionate, dedicated yoni massage, we are aiming to awaken, activate and bring deep, life-changing pleasure to the vagina and a woman’s overall sexual being.

Over the decades of doing my work, as a holistic sex and relationship coach, the thing I hear over and over from women is how numb their vaginas are. 

One of the biggest tools I recommend for de-numbing and re-pleasuring the vagina is the jade yoni egg. 

By building strength, sentience and articulation in the vagina, increasing circulation and oxygen flow, ALL things flow better: from lubrication to hormone transport to orgasms. 

The other practice I recommend is yoni massage. 

With focused, loving attention, we can transform a numb vagina into a multi-orgasmic and highly aroused one. 

In today’s episode: 

  • Benefits of yoni massage, including increased libido, lubrication and vaginal orgasms 
  • 15 techniques for a blissful, life-changing yoni massage 
  • Our epic flower mandala yoni 
  • All star interview with Tania sharing how she initially had pain in her vagina, and through yoni massage that gave way to numbness, and then pleasure.  

You'll find my fully guided yoni massage routine in the Coming Together for Couples Salon.

This is my 10-week signature online program for couples where we cover everything from squirting techniques in my entire Orgasmapedia, male stamina and marathon sex, communication skills and Tantric and Taoist practices.

Click here to sign up now. 

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Published 2022-04-01

How to Give an Ecstatic Penis Massage

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The purpose of lingam massage is to awaken the true power of your man’s cock.

We want him to own and inhabit it, amplifying his capacity for pleasure.

And yours.

Then he can penetrate you with it, bringing both of you to ecstasy and obliterating you to smithereens, with an awakened and self-actualized cock.

Lingam massage can be totally transformational for your partner and your relationship.

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The purpose of lingam massage is to awaken the true power of your man’s cock.

We want him to own and inhabit it, amplifying his capacity for pleasure.

And yours.

Then he can penetrate you with it, bringing both of you to ecstasy and obliterating you to smithereens, with an awakened and self-actualized cock.

Lingam massage can be totally transformational for your partner and your relationship.

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Published 2022-03-24

9 Steps to Be a Squirting Master

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Squirting has been written about for millennia. We find it referenced in text and teachings all over the world. 

 
It is often described as: Food of the Gods. Nectar. Ambrosia. Amrita. The Fountain of Youth.


Even though squirting tends to be a highly sought after check-the-box sex act inspired by porn, it’s a profound experience to have and share with an intimate partner. 


An anointing! 


To coax these emissions out of a woman requires trust, openness and surrender.  


These qualities are INFUSED into her essence. 


Which is why it’s such a potent gift to receive, for both. 

In this episode: 

- Why squirting is an essential life skill for women
- Five facts about squirting
- How it feels in the body and emotionally 
- Nine steps to squirting mastership
- The benefits of ingesting “amrita” 
- How our all star Freya went from low interest in sex, to becoming a prolific, soak-the-sheets squirting sensation 

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Squirting has been written about for millennia. We find it referenced in text and teachings all over the world. 

 
It is often described as: Food of the Gods. Nectar. Ambrosia. Amrita. The Fountain of Youth.


Even though squirting tends to be a highly sought after check-the-box sex act inspired by porn, it’s a profound experience to have and share with an intimate partner. 


An anointing! 


To coax these emissions out of a woman requires trust, openness and surrender.  


These qualities are INFUSED into her essence. 


Which is why it’s such a potent gift to receive, for both. 

In this episode: 

- Why squirting is an essential life skill for women
- Five facts about squirting
- How it feels in the body and emotionally 
- Nine steps to squirting mastership
- The benefits of ingesting “amrita” 
- How our all star Freya went from low interest in sex, to becoming a prolific, soak-the-sheets squirting sensation 

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Published 2022-03-18

Energy Sex in the Wild

8 min Transcript
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Energy orgasms are orgasms that take place without and kind of touch whatsoever. You know the spiritual axiom that “thoughts are things.”  Well, here we see that in action. Orgasms are things too and we can have them whenever and wherever we want! 

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Energy orgasms are orgasms that take place without and kind of touch whatsoever. You know the spiritual axiom that “thoughts are things.”  Well, here we see that in action. Orgasms are things too and we can have them whenever and wherever we want! 

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Published 2022-03-11

9 Unusual Foreplay Techniques for Epic Sex and Orgasms

12 min Transcript
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How long can you make it last? How good can you take it? What’s it like to live in a perpetual state of bliss? 

Slowing down and prolonging your foreplay not only primes you for marathon sex and the deeper orgasmic experiences, but afterward you feel even higher, ecstatic, transformed and like you’ve been reborn. 

You are tapping into the rejuvenating, enlivening power of your sexual energy. 

The more you treat foreplay like its own sex act and endgame, the deeper your sexual experiences will be. 

There are stories in ancient Tantric texts about the ultimate battle for lovers: 


To make the other come first. 

Your job is to tantalize, tease and stimulate your partner so they live in an ongoing state of arousal. 

Yes, this is possible. 

In this episode, we'll discuss how: 

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How long can you make it last? How good can you take it? What’s it like to live in a perpetual state of bliss? 

Slowing down and prolonging your foreplay not only primes you for marathon sex and the deeper orgasmic experiences, but afterward you feel even higher, ecstatic, transformed and like you’ve been reborn. 

You are tapping into the rejuvenating, enlivening power of your sexual energy. 

The more you treat foreplay like its own sex act and endgame, the deeper your sexual experiences will be. 

There are stories in ancient Tantric texts about the ultimate battle for lovers: 


To make the other come first. 

Your job is to tantalize, tease and stimulate your partner so they live in an ongoing state of arousal. 

Yes, this is possible. 

In this episode, we'll discuss how: 

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Published 2022-02-18

Conscious Celibacy

22 min
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Celibacy gets a bad rap because people don’t do it very well.

I would never counsel someone to just “give up sex” without any intention behind it.

Or, without learning how to channel their sexual energy.

That would be “unconscious celibacy”.

Doing it consciously is deciding to contain yourself for a while, to put an invisible “not available” sign on your forehead, and direct your energy inward. 

This could be for any number of reasons, such as: 

  • to recover and heal after a breakup 
  • to take stock and try and change patterns and behaviours in relationships before starting a new one 
  • Up-levelling parts of your life before your next relationship, so that you are in a better place to welcome someone into your space and life

I often talk having had some of my most well-fucked periods of my life, when I was single.

If you know anything about my work, the way I define “well-f**ked” isn’t just about “having lots of sex”.

It’s having lots of gourmet, conscious, life-changing sex and channeling your sexual, pro-creative energy out into the world as a manifesting power to birth and shape your reality.

So how do we do this?

Show notes and product links here:

https://kimanami.com/conscious-celibacy/

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Celibacy gets a bad rap because people don’t do it very well.

I would never counsel someone to just “give up sex” without any intention behind it.

Or, without learning how to channel their sexual energy.

That would be “unconscious celibacy”.

Doing it consciously is deciding to contain yourself for a while, to put an invisible “not available” sign on your forehead, and direct your energy inward. 

This could be for any number of reasons, such as: 

  • to recover and heal after a breakup 
  • to take stock and try and change patterns and behaviours in relationships before starting a new one 
  • Up-levelling parts of your life before your next relationship, so that you are in a better place to welcome someone into your space and life

I often talk having had some of my most well-fucked periods of my life, when I was single.

If you know anything about my work, the way I define “well-f**ked” isn’t just about “having lots of sex”.

It’s having lots of gourmet, conscious, life-changing sex and channeling your sexual, pro-creative energy out into the world as a manifesting power to birth and shape your reality.

So how do we do this?

Show notes and product links here:

https://kimanami.com/conscious-celibacy/

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Published 2022-02-03

Everyone Is Creative: Just Ask Your Vagina!

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This is the ultimate creative power of the universe and it flows through  you.

Instead of tuning into this ad riding this wave, most people are totally disconnected from and have disowned this power.

All of my work is about helping you get it back.

“Unexpressed creativity is not benign. It metastasizes”
~ Brene Brown 

I say the same thing about your sexual energy: whatever you aren’t expressing and owning, inverts back on you and creates all kinds of stagnation and blockage in your life.

In today’s episode:

  • Are creatives born or made?
  • The fastest way to achieve creative genius
  • The connection between the deeper vaginal orgasms and being divinely inspired
  • Sex and self-actualization
  • #poweredbyvagina is the mantra I live by. How I create my own life–via my vagina
  • Three techniques to activate your creative and orgasmic brilliance

Plus, we have THREE Well-F**ked All Stars today sharing on how they have fuelled their creative projects and lives.

With their orgasms and vaginas.

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is now open for registration until tomorrow—Friday February 4th at midnight PST.

In this 8-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. We cover everything talked about in today’s episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.

You'll learn:

  • How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vagina;
  • How to channel your sexual energy into creative power
  • Step-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practice, thereby putting yourself in the running for the Guinness Record for world’s strongest vagina;
  • My guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage.
  • How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina.

Come and get it.

After tomorrow, it's gone until 2023!

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This is the ultimate creative power of the universe and it flows through  you.

Instead of tuning into this ad riding this wave, most people are totally disconnected from and have disowned this power.

All of my work is about helping you get it back.

“Unexpressed creativity is not benign. It metastasizes”
~ Brene Brown 

I say the same thing about your sexual energy: whatever you aren’t expressing and owning, inverts back on you and creates all kinds of stagnation and blockage in your life.

In today’s episode:

  • Are creatives born or made?
  • The fastest way to achieve creative genius
  • The connection between the deeper vaginal orgasms and being divinely inspired
  • Sex and self-actualization
  • #poweredbyvagina is the mantra I live by. How I create my own life–via my vagina
  • Three techniques to activate your creative and orgasmic brilliance

Plus, we have THREE Well-F**ked All Stars today sharing on how they have fuelled their creative projects and lives.

With their orgasms and vaginas.

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is now open for registration until tomorrow—Friday February 4th at midnight PST.

In this 8-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. We cover everything talked about in today’s episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.

You'll learn:

  • How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vagina;
  • How to channel your sexual energy into creative power
  • Step-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practice, thereby putting yourself in the running for the Guinness Record for world’s strongest vagina;
  • My guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage.
  • How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina.

Come and get it.

After tomorrow, it's gone until 2023!

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While the clitoris is good for a laugh or a warmup, if you really want to harness the power of your sexual energy, you need to go deeper.

A few inches deeper.

These deeper, vaginal orgasms are like the Loch Ness Monsters of sexuality. They are mysterious and subject to much skepticism and known only to some.

The reason why they elude many people, and especially laboratory analysis (though they’ve been sighted in some labs; mainly French, and not English), is because they involve far more than just technique.

In fact, I’d say that technique is less than 10% of what will take you there.

In this episode we cover the other 90%. 

We also talk to Well-F**ked All Star Robin, who is a 44-year-old from our Well-F**ked Hall of Fame. She’s taken my salons for women and emerged out the other side a radiant, lubricating, ejaculating, vaginal orgasming-on-the-regular, sexual powerhouse. 

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is open for registration! 

www.kungfuvagina.com 

Having a Kung Fu Vagina is every woman’s birthright and within her natural abilities.  

With the right tools! 

This is what is possible for every single vagina, on the daily: 

  • Multiple, vaginal and ejaculating orgasms 
  • Insane, life-changing pleasure 
  • A vagina that is so responsive that it gets wet just from hearing your lover’s voice. 
  • Produces a tsunami of wetness 
  • A ravenous libido 
  • Gives your lover a vaginal handjob with your sensational articulation skills. Aka "voodoo pussy". 
  • Shoots ping pong balls. This is the normal, healthy baseline for every vagina. 
  • Zero urinary incontinence. Some women reverse this in a week. 
  • Iron-clad pelvic floor strength that maintains your internal organs. Yep. You were meant to keep them. 

In short: Ecstasy and power on tap. Courtesy of your Kung Fu Vagina. 


Come and get it: www.kungfuvagina.com 

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While the clitoris is good for a laugh or a warmup, if you really want to harness the power of your sexual energy, you need to go deeper.

A few inches deeper.

These deeper, vaginal orgasms are like the Loch Ness Monsters of sexuality. They are mysterious and subject to much skepticism and known only to some.

The reason why they elude many people, and especially laboratory analysis (though they’ve been sighted in some labs; mainly French, and not English), is because they involve far more than just technique.

In fact, I’d say that technique is less than 10% of what will take you there.

In this episode we cover the other 90%. 

We also talk to Well-F**ked All Star Robin, who is a 44-year-old from our Well-F**ked Hall of Fame. She’s taken my salons for women and emerged out the other side a radiant, lubricating, ejaculating, vaginal orgasming-on-the-regular, sexual powerhouse. 

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is open for registration! 

www.kungfuvagina.com 

Having a Kung Fu Vagina is every woman’s birthright and within her natural abilities.  

With the right tools! 

This is what is possible for every single vagina, on the daily: 

  • Multiple, vaginal and ejaculating orgasms 
  • Insane, life-changing pleasure 
  • A vagina that is so responsive that it gets wet just from hearing your lover’s voice. 
  • Produces a tsunami of wetness 
  • A ravenous libido 
  • Gives your lover a vaginal handjob with your sensational articulation skills. Aka "voodoo pussy". 
  • Shoots ping pong balls. This is the normal, healthy baseline for every vagina. 
  • Zero urinary incontinence. Some women reverse this in a week. 
  • Iron-clad pelvic floor strength that maintains your internal organs. Yep. You were meant to keep them. 

In short: Ecstasy and power on tap. Courtesy of your Kung Fu Vagina. 


Come and get it: www.kungfuvagina.com 

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Published 2022-01-06

5 Techniques to Create a Super Pussy!

57 min
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Most vaginas are numb. They aren't pleasured or exercised well, and they atrophy into a place of disconnection and lackluster existence. You can change that, and instead cultivate a Super Pussy that is: 

- Strong, articulate and powerful.
- Orgasms wherever, however, whenever it wants, with the full range of orgasmic pleasure: clitoral, G-Spot, cervical orgasms 

- Feels blissful during sex 
- Has a voracious libido

- Can give hand jobs. Just like with your actual hand, a super pussy can push, pull, squeeze and isolate different sections of the muscles, playing the proverbial flute.
- Produces “tsunamis of lubrication”
- Shoots ping pong balls. This is every woman’s God-given right. 

In this episode, we’ll cover:

  • Super Pussy mythbusting: Common reasons why you think you might not be able to have one. I’ll prove you wrong.
  • My #1 tool for creating Super Pussies. Plus four more.
  • On removing blocks from our reproductive organs, freeing them up to be orgasmic and blissful. Constantly.
  • Is lube really a girl’s best friend?
  • Well-F**ked All Star Mara shares how she started her Super Pussy journey at eight months pregnant, had her first cervical orgasm on her birthday six weeks later, and how they use sex to keep them energized with a young baby and four other children.

 All my vaginal power secrets and practices will be revealed in the upcoming Vaginal Kung Fu Salon. The salon opens for registration on January 19th. You can get on the list to be notified when it does, and check out my free preview video series for the salon now: 

https://kimanami.com/vaginal-kung-fu/

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Most vaginas are numb. They aren't pleasured or exercised well, and they atrophy into a place of disconnection and lackluster existence. You can change that, and instead cultivate a Super Pussy that is: 

- Strong, articulate and powerful.
- Orgasms wherever, however, whenever it wants, with the full range of orgasmic pleasure: clitoral, G-Spot, cervical orgasms 

- Feels blissful during sex 
- Has a voracious libido

- Can give hand jobs. Just like with your actual hand, a super pussy can push, pull, squeeze and isolate different sections of the muscles, playing the proverbial flute.
- Produces “tsunamis of lubrication”
- Shoots ping pong balls. This is every woman’s God-given right. 

In this episode, we’ll cover:

  • Super Pussy mythbusting: Common reasons why you think you might not be able to have one. I’ll prove you wrong.
  • My #1 tool for creating Super Pussies. Plus four more.
  • On removing blocks from our reproductive organs, freeing them up to be orgasmic and blissful. Constantly.
  • Is lube really a girl’s best friend?
  • Well-F**ked All Star Mara shares how she started her Super Pussy journey at eight months pregnant, had her first cervical orgasm on her birthday six weeks later, and how they use sex to keep them energized with a young baby and four other children.

 All my vaginal power secrets and practices will be revealed in the upcoming Vaginal Kung Fu Salon. The salon opens for registration on January 19th. You can get on the list to be notified when it does, and check out my free preview video series for the salon now: 

https://kimanami.com/vaginal-kung-fu/

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Organic sex toys. Is that even a thing?


There definitely are #thingsIwouldputintomyvagina and things I would not. 


The whole Anami philosophy is about cultivating the highest quality experiences and using the healthiest and most holistic products in our intimate lives. 


I created the Anami Alchemia online shop so that we could feature exactly that: 


Erotic accessories you could trust to be an extension of the Anami way of life: 


Beautiful, (functional), impeccable quality, and nourishment for your body and spirit. 


So let’s talk about clean, organic and body-friendly erotic accessories to uplevel your orgasmic enlightenment. 

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Organic sex toys. Is that even a thing?


There definitely are #thingsIwouldputintomyvagina and things I would not. 


The whole Anami philosophy is about cultivating the highest quality experiences and using the healthiest and most holistic products in our intimate lives. 


I created the Anami Alchemia online shop so that we could feature exactly that: 


Erotic accessories you could trust to be an extension of the Anami way of life: 


Beautiful, (functional), impeccable quality, and nourishment for your body and spirit. 


So let’s talk about clean, organic and body-friendly erotic accessories to uplevel your orgasmic enlightenment. 

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Published 2021-11-19

5 Laws of Female Orgasms

16 min
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They apply to all women, all vaginas, everywhere.

They are true in every circumstance, 100% of the time.

There are NO exceptions to these rules.

None.

Ever.

It doesn’t matter if a woman has had everything from sexual trauma, to reproductive organs removed, to a strict religious and shaming upbringing to being in menopause, to having emerged out of a 20-year shitty marriage or whether she is straight or gay, single or coupled.

These laws apply to EVERY WOMAN at any and every stage of her life.

We don’t do excuses in Anami Land. Or Band-Aids.

Only solutions.

So buck up bitches and let’s go.

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They apply to all women, all vaginas, everywhere.

They are true in every circumstance, 100% of the time.

There are NO exceptions to these rules.

None.

Ever.

It doesn’t matter if a woman has had everything from sexual trauma, to reproductive organs removed, to a strict religious and shaming upbringing to being in menopause, to having emerged out of a 20-year shitty marriage or whether she is straight or gay, single or coupled.

These laws apply to EVERY WOMAN at any and every stage of her life.

We don’t do excuses in Anami Land. Or Band-Aids.

Only solutions.

So buck up bitches and let’s go.

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Published 2021-10-21

From C-Section to Free Birth

63 min
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One of the things I hear most often from women who had a transcendent, empowering, largely independent, birth experience, is that it wipes out the residue of former births they may have had, where they were more entrenched in the allopathic system.

Women who had C-sections have gone on to have triumphant free-births at home, which we’ll hear about in today’s episode.

All of the education I put out around this topic is to reassure and REMIND you that YOU can do this.

Yourself.

In order to have this kind of orgasmic, ecstatic birth experience means taking the reins early on in your journey.

Even during conception.

As you work out the kinks and blocks in yourselves and the collective of your relationship, you free up the flow for a smoother conception, pregnancy and birth.

Anything significant that is NOT resolved between you, will show up in your birth.

And even before that in your pregnancy and even before THAT in your conception journey.

Combine all of that with the programming and imprinting you receive around birth, you’ve got a lot of work to do to clear the space.

The most important “preparation” you can do is on your mindset, your fears, your internalized beliefs and then setting to work on reframing and recreating all of that to fit the vision YOU want to have.

In today’s episode, we are talking with our Well-F**ked All Star couple of the year, Mark and Amanda.

Their story is amazing, and encapsulates ALL of the concepts I’ve just described.

Amanda’s first child was breech, and she was told that she’d have to have a C-section.

Her fourth child was born at home, in her bed, with just her husband present. This was a free birth, with no one attending her pregnancy either.

In between all of that was FIVE miscarriages.

Their story is amazing, inspirational and super entertaining, as they share what happened and how they evolved along the way.

Anyone can take their power back, and recreate their lives.

Including you.

The Sexy Mama Salon begins today!

This 8-week online class is ALL about how to educate yourself, deprogram and reprogram yourself as the powerful portal you truly are. 

We cover everything from conscious conception, blissful pregnancy, birth orgasms, breastfeeding and early childhood education. 

This is the ultimate condensed and enlightened guide on how to use pregnancy and birth as an ascension experience and raise independent, free thinkers in the process. 


It all starts with birth.

Check out Sexy Mama now

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One of the things I hear most often from women who had a transcendent, empowering, largely independent, birth experience, is that it wipes out the residue of former births they may have had, where they were more entrenched in the allopathic system.

Women who had C-sections have gone on to have triumphant free-births at home, which we’ll hear about in today’s episode.

All of the education I put out around this topic is to reassure and REMIND you that YOU can do this.

Yourself.

In order to have this kind of orgasmic, ecstatic birth experience means taking the reins early on in your journey.

Even during conception.

As you work out the kinks and blocks in yourselves and the collective of your relationship, you free up the flow for a smoother conception, pregnancy and birth.

Anything significant that is NOT resolved between you, will show up in your birth.

And even before that in your pregnancy and even before THAT in your conception journey.

Combine all of that with the programming and imprinting you receive around birth, you’ve got a lot of work to do to clear the space.

The most important “preparation” you can do is on your mindset, your fears, your internalized beliefs and then setting to work on reframing and recreating all of that to fit the vision YOU want to have.

In today’s episode, we are talking with our Well-F**ked All Star couple of the year, Mark and Amanda.

Their story is amazing, and encapsulates ALL of the concepts I’ve just described.

Amanda’s first child was breech, and she was told that she’d have to have a C-section.

Her fourth child was born at home, in her bed, with just her husband present. This was a free birth, with no one attending her pregnancy either.

In between all of that was FIVE miscarriages.

Their story is amazing, inspirational and super entertaining, as they share what happened and how they evolved along the way.

Anyone can take their power back, and recreate their lives.

Including you.

The Sexy Mama Salon begins today!

This 8-week online class is ALL about how to educate yourself, deprogram and reprogram yourself as the powerful portal you truly are. 

We cover everything from conscious conception, blissful pregnancy, birth orgasms, breastfeeding and early childhood education. 

This is the ultimate condensed and enlightened guide on how to use pregnancy and birth as an ascension experience and raise independent, free thinkers in the process. 


It all starts with birth.

Check out Sexy Mama now

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Published 2021-10-14

Intuitive Birth: Trusting Yourself and the Divine

43 min Transcript
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A natural, sovereign, empowered pregnancy and birth brings you:

  • Confidence, boldness and the ability to stand up and speak your truth.
  • Knowing that you can do anything in your life. If you can do this.
  • An even stronger link with your intuition and divine guidance, that leads you through pregnancy, birth and into all parts of your life. You’ve earned this. And you get to keep it.
  • A transcendent, pleasurable and orgasmic birth
  • A deepened relationship and love of yourself and your body
  • A strengthened bond with your partner
  • An un-traumatized child—which is a rarity in this world—who will also have a stronger connection to their innate knowing and the divine
  • You emerge from birth in a state of euphoria that lasts weeks, months and even years.

The Sexy Mama Salon is now open for registration.

This 8-week online class is ALL about how to educate yourself, deprogram and re-program yourself as the powerful portal you truly are.

We cover everything from conscious conception, blissful pregnancy, birth orgasms, breastfeeding and early childhood education.

This is the ultimate condensed and enlightened guide on how to use pregnancy and birth as an ascension experience and raise independent, free thinkers in the process.

It all starts with birth.

 

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A natural, sovereign, empowered pregnancy and birth brings you:

  • Confidence, boldness and the ability to stand up and speak your truth.
  • Knowing that you can do anything in your life. If you can do this.
  • An even stronger link with your intuition and divine guidance, that leads you through pregnancy, birth and into all parts of your life. You’ve earned this. And you get to keep it.
  • A transcendent, pleasurable and orgasmic birth
  • A deepened relationship and love of yourself and your body
  • A strengthened bond with your partner
  • An un-traumatized child—which is a rarity in this world—who will also have a stronger connection to their innate knowing and the divine
  • You emerge from birth in a state of euphoria that lasts weeks, months and even years.

The Sexy Mama Salon is now open for registration.

This 8-week online class is ALL about how to educate yourself, deprogram and re-program yourself as the powerful portal you truly are.

We cover everything from conscious conception, blissful pregnancy, birth orgasms, breastfeeding and early childhood education.

This is the ultimate condensed and enlightened guide on how to use pregnancy and birth as an ascension experience and raise independent, free thinkers in the process.

It all starts with birth.

 

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Published 2021-10-08

Med-Wives vs. Mid-Wives

88 min
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Birth either becomes an initiation into your own power, autonomy and sovereignty, or it becomes a massive imprinting on your psyche and body of the outsourcing of it. Do modern midWhat has happened to the modern midwife? With Yolande Norris-Clark.
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Birth either becomes an initiation into your own power, autonomy and sovereignty, or it becomes a massive imprinting on your psyche and body of the outsourcing of it. Do modern midWhat has happened to the modern midwife? With Yolande Norris-Clark.
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