#867: Dr. Becky Kennedy — Parenting Strategies for Raising Resilient Kids, Plus Word-for-Word Scripts for Repairing Relationships, Setting Boundaries, and More (Repost)
Dr. Becky Kennedy is the founder and CEO of Good Inside, a parenting movement that overturns a lot of conventional, modern parenting practices to empower parents to become sturdy, confident leaders and raise sturdy, confident kids. She is the author of the bestselling book Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, a chart-topping podcast, a TED talk with more than 5 million views on the power of repair.
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This episode was originally published in December 2024. Show notes and links: https://tim.blog/2024/12/27/dr-becky-kennedy-good-inside/
TIMESTAMPS:
[00:00:00] Start.
[00:01:55] The power of repair.
[00:04:50] "It's never your fault when I yell at you."
[00:08:55] What does it mean to be a "good" parent?
[00:10:32] Activating curiosity over judgment.
[00:13:33] Alternatives to saying "Good job" as a confidence builder.
[00:20:50] Making kids happy vs. building capability.
[00:24:18] A pilot metaphor for sturdy leadership.
[00:29:30] Role confusion.
[00:32:04] Defining boundaries.
[00:35:07] How parenting becomes a two-way mirror for growth.
[00:40:09] The MGI (Most Generous Interpretation) approach.
[00:42:52] Biggest challenges in parenting.
[00:46:52] Recommended reading for someone with kids in their life.
[00:52:11] Advisable prerequisites for singles who aim to build a family.
[00:56:18] Setting boundaries with grandparents and dealing with different parenting styles.
[01:01:42] Handling frustration when a child is pushing your buttons.
[01:09:58] Lessons learned from working with eating disorders.
[01:13:26] Managing troublemaker behavior.
[01:17:38] Bad influence intervention.
[01:22:52] Cultivating resilience in "deeply feeling" kids (DFKs).
[01:28:58] The trials and errors that birthed Good Inside.
[01:32:53] "Our words are not our wishes. Our words are our fears."
[01:40:07] Billboard messages and mantras.
[01:48:00] Fan-favorite scripts on saying no, boundaries, and repair.
[01:51:15] The tennis court metaphor for boundaries.
[01:55:45] Resources and parting thoughts.
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Dr. Becky Kennedy is the founder and CEO of Good Inside, a parenting movement that overturns a lot of conventional, modern parenting practices to empower parents to become sturdy, confident leaders and raise sturdy, confident kids. She is the author of the bestselling book Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, a chart-topping podcast, a TED talk with more than 5 million views on the power of repair.
This episode is brought to you by:
- Monarch track, budget, plan, and do more with your money: Monarch.com/Tim
- Shopify global commerce platform, providing tools to start, grow, market, and manage a retail business: Shopify.com/tim
*
This episode was originally published in December 2024. Show notes and links: https://tim.blog/2024/12/27/dr-becky-kennedy-good-inside/
TIMESTAMPS:
[00:00:00] Start.
[00:01:55] The power of repair.
[00:04:50] "It's never your fault when I yell at you."
[00:08:55] What does it mean to be a "good" parent?
[00:10:32] Activating curiosity over judgment.
[00:13:33] Alternatives to saying "Good job" as a confidence builder.
[00:20:50] Making kids happy vs. building capability.
[00:24:18] A pilot metaphor for sturdy leadership.
[00:29:30] Role confusion.
[00:32:04] Defining boundaries.
[00:35:07] How parenting becomes a two-way mirror for growth.
[00:40:09] The MGI (Most Generous Interpretation) approach.
[00:42:52] Biggest challenges in parenting.
[00:46:52] Recommended reading for someone with kids in their life.
[00:52:11] Advisable prerequisites for singles who aim to build a family.
[00:56:18] Setting boundaries with grandparents and dealing with different parenting styles.
[01:01:42] Handling frustration when a child is pushing your buttons.
[01:09:58] Lessons learned from working with eating disorders.
[01:13:26] Managing troublemaker behavior.
[01:17:38] Bad influence intervention.
[01:22:52] Cultivating resilience in "deeply feeling" kids (DFKs).
[01:28:58] The trials and errors that birthed Good Inside.
[01:32:53] "Our words are not our wishes. Our words are our fears."
[01:40:07] Billboard messages and mantras.
[01:48:00] Fan-favorite scripts on saying no, boundaries, and repair.
[01:51:15] The tennis court metaphor for boundaries.
[01:55:45] Resources and parting thoughts.
For show notes and past guests on The Tim Ferriss Show, please visit tim.blog/podcast.
For deals from sponsors of The Tim Ferriss Show, please visit tim.blog/podcast-sponsors
Sign up for Tim’s email newsletter (5-Bullet Friday) at tim.blog/friday.
For transcripts of episodes, go to tim.blog/transcripts.
Discover Tim’s books: tim.blog/books.
Follow Tim:
Twitter: twitter.com/tferriss
Instagram: instagram.com/timferriss
YouTube: youtube.com/timferriss
Facebook: facebook.com/timferriss
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/timferriss
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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