you can’t self-optimize yourself into finding love – ep. 134

in this week’s episode, we’re talking about self-optimization and the impact of luck in finding love! MAJOR… THEY DON’T WANT YOU TO KNOW THIS!!! and we’re also chatting about surveillance culture and the impact of find my friends on the whimsy of surprises and dealing with regret around a friendship ending.

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04:19 – grief check-in and crying at boa steakhouse
14:20 – surveillance culture, find my friends, and the art of the surprise
25:00 – dealing with longing/regret around a friendship ending
35:07 – self-optimization and the impact of luck in finding love
45:28 – dating in nature vs. dating in a city

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