E250: What Do Men Really Think About…? Part 4 (Heated Rivalry, mental load + areolas)

Ever wish you could get a straight answer about what’s actually going on in his head? 🧠

We’re back with Part 4 of our “What Do Men Really Think About…?” series — and this time we’re diving into everything from Heated Rivalry and seeing gay sex on screen… to mental load, breadwinning, and why it takes them so long to poop.

💛 In this episode, you’ll hear:

• How men feel about watching gay sex on screen (including the Heated Rivalry phenomenon).

• Whether they actually believe mental load is real.

• What they think about baggy sweats and messy hair at home.

• How they feel when their partner earns more money than they do.

• The truth about submissiveness — and whether they want women to take more control.

• If they care about going down on you if you haven’t showered.

• And what they really notice about areolas.

Xander’s not holding back… and some answers may surprise you!

🔗 Links & Resources:

🎧 What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 1 ➡️ https://vmtherapy.com/episode56

🎧 What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 2 ➡️ https://vmtherapy.com/episode69

🎧 What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 3 ➡️https://vmtherapy.com/episode213

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