Please Me! Podcast with Eve

In this layered, vulnerable, and intellectually powerful episode of the Kink Series, we go far beyond basic BDSM concepts and drop directly into the psychology, ritual, and emotional architecture of kink with Mistress Audry Lu Black — a professional dominatrix, lifestyle FemDomme, educator, and respected kink community leader.

Together we explore how bondage, ritual, humiliation, sexual sadism, and power exchange can serve not only erotic expression but also nervous system regulation, trauma processing, and emotional liberation. What begins as a conversation about rope quickly expands into a rich discussion about worship, devotion, fear release, identity, surrender, and the transformative role of a Dominant who leads with intention and precision.

This episode opens the door to understanding kink as both art and psychology, and how deep DS dynamics can create safety, stillness, and meaning for those who crave structure, containment, or catharsis.

Topics Covered

• Why 20% of the body’s energy feeds the brain and how cognitive load, overthinking, and perfectionism show up in bondage scenes

• Bondage as nervous system regulation — creating stillness, presence, and relief for anxious or neurodivergent minds who struggle with meditation

• Somatic containment through rope and restraint for anxiety, trauma, and hypermobility conditions (including Ehlers-Danlos and other connective tissue differences)

• The paradox of safety through restriction — how removing choice, movement, and anticipated pressure can reduce anxiety and soothe a dysregulated nervous system

• Femme Domme philosophy and energetic leadership — what it means to embody dominance, hold power, and create psychological structures for surrender

• Sexual sadism and humiliation — how intention, emotional tone, and negotiated meaning differentiate harm from healing, and cruelty from catharsis

• The psychology of worship and groveling — why submission, devotion, and being at Her feet can be grounding, erotic, or spiritually significant

• Ritual in kink — how structure, ceremony, and symbolic actions frame scenes, build trust, and regulate the body’s response to intensity

• Lifestyle vs. professional domination — the differences in purpose, boundaries, emotional bandwidth, and the Dominant’s role in each dynamic

• Deep-dive negotiation practices — understanding limits, desires, tone, chemistry, and psychological triggers before entering a scene

• A full, realistic BDSM pre-scene negotiation role play so listeners can hear how safe, ethical, consent-based kink is structured before any play begins

• The Dominant’s internal process — emotional labor, reading the submissive’s physiology, and creating a safe container for intensity

• How humiliation can be affirming, transformative, or erotic depending on the submissive’s psychology and agreed roles

• Bondage as an anchor for embodiment — helping the mind exit constant vigilance and enter stillness, surrender, or erotic presence

Touch Me There: Vaginal Reflexology, Squirting Secrets & Orgasmic Magic — available here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0AsOZmGPvMiR3pQfVZKfxR?si=fFDg8SQqS7OCQQn5ptYGoA

Connect with the Guest

To follow, learn more, or get in touch with Mistress Audry Lu Black:

Her Substack: https://audrylublack.substack.com/

Her official website: https://mistresslublack.com/

Mentioned Resources

Hani Cheng – Talk to the Peach: Sensual healing, feminine pleasure, and reconnecting with your body (Listen here)

Hani Cheng – Reflexology: Mapping female genitals with reflexology for pleasure and body awareness (Listen here)

Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing: shamelesscare.com

World Vision — Support survivors of typhoon & earthquake: worldvision.org

Eve’s Substack — Q&A, workshops, & exclusive content : https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/

Please Me Podcast Patreon — Extended episodes & bonus content: patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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In this layered, vulnerable, and intellectually rich episode of the Kink Series, Eve sits down with Mistress Audry Lu Black—a professional dominatrix, lifestyle FemDomme, educator, and respected kink community leader—to explore the deeper psychological, ritualistic, and emotional architecture of BDSM.

Moving beyond surface-level kink concepts, the conversation examines how power exchange, bondage, humiliation, ritual, and structured dominance can serve not only erotic expression but also nervous system regulation, identity exploration, and emotional release. What begins with rope quickly expands into a nuanced discussion of devotion, surrender, fear release, and the intentional leadership required within Dominant/submissive dynamics.

A central theme of the episode is the idea that kink can function as both art and psychology. Mistress Audry explains how carefully structured scenes can create safety through containment, offering relief for individuals who experience anxiety, neurodivergence, or chronic overthinking. The conversation highlights how restriction and removal of choice—when consensual and negotiated—can paradoxically create grounding, clarity, and emotional ease.

The episode also explores the Femme Domme philosophy, emphasizing dominance as an embodied, intentional practice rooted in awareness, emotional intelligence, and responsibility. Rather than performance, dominance is framed as energetic leadership that creates space for surrender and transformation.

Other key topics include the distinction between lifestyle and professional domination, the role of ritual in establishing trust and structure, and the psychological nuances of humiliation, worship, and submission. The conversation emphasizes that meaning is always co-created and negotiated, and that intensity in kink is only safe when grounded in communication, consent, and care.

A detailed pre-scene negotiation role-play is included, offering listeners a real-world example of how ethical BDSM dynamics are structured before any physical or psychological play begins.

This episode presents kink as a multidimensional practice—one that intersects with psychology, embodiment, ritual, and relational trust—while reinforcing the importance of consent, emotional responsibility, and informed exploration.

What You’ll Learn

• How bondage and restraint can regulate the nervous system

• Why structured dominance can reduce anxiety and overthinking

• The psychological role of worship, devotion, and surrender in kink

• How humiliation can be consensual, therapeutic, or erotic depending on context

• Differences between lifestyle and professional domination

• The importance of negotiation, consent, and scene structure

• How ritual enhances trust, safety, and emotional depth in BDSM

• The Dominant’s emotional and psychological responsibilities

• How kink can support embodiment and presence

• Real examples of pre-scene negotiation in ethical BDSM practice

Connect With the Guest

Mistress Audry Lu Black

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of the Please Me! Podcast, Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series, inspired by DomCon New Orleans, offering a deeper, trauma-informed exploration of BDSM, embodiment, and culturally grounded pleasure practices. This installment expands beyond technique into the historical, neurological, and somatic dimensions of kink.

A central focus of the episode is the often-overlooked BIPOC history of kink and altered-state practices. Eve highlights African and Indigenous influences, including references to Yoruba traditions and the deity Oshun, to contextualize trance, ritual, and embodied pleasure as practices with deep cultural lineage that predate modern BDSM frameworks. The conversation emphasizes the importance of acknowledging these roots while engaging in contemporary kink spaces.

The episode also breaks down the neurochemistry of BDSM, exploring how subspace and domspace are shaped by a “chemical cocktail” of dopamine, endorphins, cortisol, and adrenaline. Eve explains how these altered states mirror experiences found in meditation, hypnosis, and somatic therapy, and why structured aftercare is essential to prevent emotional and physiological crashes such as sub-drop and dom-drop.

Another key theme is neurodiverse pleasure, with insight into how autistic and ADHD individuals may experience kink through sensory regulation, structure, predictability, and heightened body awareness. Eve discusses how kink can become a framework for identity exploration and nervous system regulation when practiced with consent and intention.

The episode also introduces various forms of consensual role exploration, including pet play (puppy, kitten, pony, cow dynamics), as well as sensory-based practices like foot play, anal play, and the use of masks and hoods as tools for identity, embodiment, and psychological transformation. These are framed through a lens of safety, hygiene, communication, and informed consent.

Throughout the episode, Eve reinforces a trauma-informed, sex-positive approach to kink, including clear guidance on negotiation, boundary-setting, and aftercare. Clinical concepts such as medical play are also introduced in a non-sexual, educational context to highlight the spectrum of therapeutic role-play possibilities.

This episode serves as both an educational guide and a cultural reflection on kink, offering listeners practical tools, historical context, and embodied practices for exploring pleasure safely and consciously.

What You’ll Learn

• The BIPOC historical roots of kink and ritualized altered states

• The cultural significance of Yoruba traditions and Oshun in embodiment practices

• How subspace and domspace affect the nervous system and brain chemistry

• Why aftercare is essential to prevent sub-drop and dom-drop

• The connection between BDSM, meditation, and somatic therapy

• How neurodivergence influences kink preferences and sensory experience

• The basics of pet play and sensory identity exploration

• Safe practices for masks, gear, and role-based dynamics

• Trauma-informed approaches to kink negotiation and consent

• The role of medical play and structured role-play in therapeutic exploration

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this intimate and creatively rich episode of the Please Me! Podcast, Eve sits down with dark romance author Bria Rose, known for her seductive, emotionally layered, and morally complex fairy-tale retellings. Together, they explore how themes of trauma, healing, sexuality, empowerment, and feminine archetypes shape Bria’s storytelling and the immersive worlds she creates.

Bria shares the inspiration behind Her Dark Promise, her twisted retelling of Beauty and the Beast, and offers exclusive insight into upcoming projects, including a dark Pinocchio retelling and a new morally gray romance currently in development. She also reflects on her Disney-influenced upbringing and how innocence and darkness coexist within adult fantasy, shaping the tone and emotional depth of her work.

The conversation dives into why readers are drawn to morally gray characters and emotionally intense narratives, and how dark romance can serve as a space for exploring shadow, desire, power, and transformation in safe, imaginative ways.

A standout moment in the episode is a raw, vulnerable role-play segment that explores boundaries, communication, desire, self-worth, erotic identity, and feminine reclamation. Through this, Eve and Bria highlight how storytelling can become a tool for emotional processing, empowerment, and embodied expression.

This episode is a must-listen for fans of dark romance, romantasy, erotic storytelling, and trauma-informed narrative work, offering both creative insight and emotional depth.

What You’ll Learn

• How trauma and healing influence dark romance storytelling

• Why morally gray characters resonate with readers

• The inspiration behind Her Dark Promise and upcoming retellings

• How innocence and darkness coexist in adult fairy-tale narratives

• The role of fantasy in exploring desire and emotional complexity

• How storytelling can support empowerment and identity exploration

• Why readers are drawn to emotionally intense romantic dynamics

• How communication and boundaries appear even in fantasy narratives

• The connection between erotic identity and creative expression

Connect With the Guest

Bria Rose

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this insightful and education-focused episode, Eve sits down with Maeve McBride—a BDSM educator, intuitive top, sexological herbalist, and Executive Director of KinkFest—to explore the foundations of Intuitive Topping, consent-based power exchange, and embodied awareness within kink dynamics.

Drawing from teachings shared at DomCon and Maeve’s signature “Intuitive Topping” framework, this conversation breaks down what it really means to engage in BDSM with presence, communication, and responsibility. Rather than relying on assumptions or scripted dynamics, Maeve emphasizes intuitive topping as a skill built through observation, feedback, and real-time attunement.

Together, Eve and Maeve explore how different roles—Dom, Sub, Top, Bottom, Switch, and Vers—function within negotiated scenes, and how clarity, consent, and aftercare form the foundation of safe and meaningful kink experiences. The episode also highlights how kink is not always sexual, but can instead serve as a space for emotional release, embodiment, exploration, and connection.

A key focus of the conversation is how intuitive topping is not “psychic ability,” but a refined practice of reading subtle cues such as breath patterns, movement shifts, vocal responses, and body language. Maeve also discusses how neurodivergence can influence sensation, communication styles, and the way individuals express pleasure or discomfort.

The episode includes a real-time negotiation demonstration between Eve and Maeve, offering listeners a grounded example of how consent conversations, boundaries, and scene structure are established in practice.

This episode provides a compassionate and practical entry point into BDSM education—centering safety, awareness, and connection as the core of all kink experiences.

What You’ll Learn

• The differences between Dom, Sub, Top, Bottom, Switch, and Vers roles

• How power exchange is built through negotiation and consent

• What intuitive topping is—and how it develops through observation

• How to read body language, breath, and vocal cues in real time

• Why kink is not always sexual and can be deeply therapeutic

• How neurodivergence affects sensation and communication in scenes

• The importance of safewords, boundaries, and structured negotiation

• Why aftercare is essential for emotional and physical integration

• How real-life kink negotiations are structured and practiced

Connect With the Guest

Maeve McBride

Executive Director of KinkFest

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this powerful and eye-opening episode, host Eve Hall sits down once again with Shawn Shutt and Amanda Courier of the Touchy Subjects Podcast for a critical conversation on human trafficking awareness and prevention. Together, they unpack the realities of sex trafficking and labor trafficking while challenging common myths that often obscure how trafficking actually operates.

The discussion highlights how trafficking is frequently rooted in manipulation, coercion, and exploitation within everyday systems, rather than the narrow and often misunderstood portrayals seen in media. Shawn and Amanda explain how predators increasingly use online platforms and grooming tactics to target vulnerable individuals, particularly youth.

They also shed light on populations at higher risk, including runaway and homeless youth, LGBTQ+ individuals, foster care youth, and other marginalized communities. Throughout the conversation, the focus remains on education, awareness, and early intervention as key tools for prevention.

Listeners are guided through practical strategies for parents, caregivers, and educators—such as setting healthy digital boundaries, recognizing warning signs, and having age-appropriate conversations about consent, bodily autonomy, and personal safety. The episode also emphasizes the importance of community involvement in supporting survivors and disrupting systems that enable trafficking.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between sex trafficking and labor trafficking

• Common myths and misconceptions about human trafficking

• How online grooming and exploitation typically occur

• Why certain populations are at higher risk

• Practical digital safety strategies for families and youth

• How early education supports long-term resilience and self-advocacy

• The role of communities in prevention and survivor support

• How men and allies can contribute to advocacy and cultural change

Connect With the Guests

Shawn Shutt

Amanda Courier

of the Touchy Subjects Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this special guest appearance on the Liquor Talk Podcast, Eve joins host Vic for an uncensored and thought-provoking conversation about sexual wellness in 2025, modern relationship dynamics, and what it really means to reclaim pleasure on your own terms.

Together, they explore how shifting cultural norms are reshaping intimacy, communication, and expectations in dating and long-term relationships. The conversation blends sexual health education, relationship psychology, and pleasure-focused empowerment—offering a grounded, real-world perspective on how people can build healthier, more fulfilling connections.

Eve shares insights from her work in sexual wellness and pelvic health, helping break down the barriers of shame and misinformation that often surround sex education. The discussion also highlights how self-awareness, communication, and emotional safety play a critical role in creating satisfying sexual experiences for all genders.

This episode is both educational and conversational, offering listeners practical tools and mindset shifts to deepen intimacy, improve communication, and approach sexuality with confidence and curiosity.

What You’ll Learn

• Why sexual wellness conversations are evolving in 2025

• How relationship dynamics are shaped by communication and emotional safety

• The connection between sexual psychology and physical intimacy

• How to reclaim pleasure without shame or cultural pressure

• Why open dialogue is key to better sex and stronger relationships

• How education and awareness improve intimacy and confidence

• Practical mindset shifts for healthier, more connected relationships

Connect With the Show

Liquor Talk Podcast featuring Eve as guest host

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this special episode of Please Me Podcast, licensed physical therapist and sexual wellness expert Eve Hall shares one of her most popular live webinars, now available for listeners everywhere. This episode takes a science-based, holistic look at sexual health—bridging physiology, mindset, and lifestyle to help listeners better understand how to improve pleasure, performance, and confidence at any age.

Eve explores how factors such as nutrition, hormones, circulation, stress, and arousal all work together to influence libido, sexual function, and overall intimacy. She breaks down how improving blood flow, supporting nervous system regulation, and cultivating a positive mindset can naturally enhance both male and female sexual experiences.

The episode also highlights cutting-edge, evidence-informed approaches to sexual wellness, including acoustic wave therapy (shockwave therapy) and emerging regenerative treatments such as stem cell-based therapies. Eve explains how these modalities may support tissue repair, improve vascular health, and enhance sensitivity, lubrication, and erectile function.

Alongside clinical insights, the webinar emphasizes practical, everyday strategies for improving sexual wellbeing—helping listeners reconnect with their bodies, deepen intimacy with partners, and build long-term sexual vitality.

This episode is designed for anyone looking to better understand their sexual health, optimize performance naturally, and reclaim confidence and pleasure from the inside out.

What You’ll Learn

• How nutrition, hormones, and blood flow impact sexual performance

• The connection between mindset, arousal, and intimacy

• Natural ways to boost libido and sexual confidence

• How to improve erections, lubrication, and sensitivity at any age

• An overview of acoustic wave therapy (shockwave therapy) for sexual health

• Emerging insights on stem cell and regenerative approaches

• How lifestyle factors influence long-term sexual vitality

• Practical tools to support pleasure and body awareness

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this powerful and eye-opening conversation from Neff Inspiration, Eve Hall—Licensed Physical Therapist, Certified Health Coach, and host of the Please Me! podcast—dives deep into the orgasm gap, female pleasure, and the growing movement toward reclaiming women’s sexual confidence.

Eve explores how the orgasm gap reflects broader issues in sexual communication, education, and societal conditioning, and why addressing it is essential for building healthier, more fulfilling intimate relationships. She introduces the concept of “Big Clit Energy™” as a framework for sexual confidence, body awareness, and unapologetic self-ownership that extends beyond the bedroom into everyday life.

Throughout the discussion, Eve emphasizes that sexual empowerment is not just about performance, but about understanding your body, communicating your needs, and removing shame from conversations about pleasure. She shares practical, science-informed strategies for enhancing sexual wellbeing, improving intimacy, and fostering deeper connection with partners.

The episode also highlights the importance of open dialogue about sex and pleasure as a tool for empowerment, education, and personal transformation. Eve invites listeners to reconnect with their bodies, embrace curiosity, and step into a more confident, pleasure-positive identity.

This conversation serves as both an educational foundation and a call to action for anyone ready to challenge outdated narratives around female sexuality and embrace a more empowered relationship with their body.

What You’ll Learn

• What the orgasm gap is and why it still exists

• How “Big Clit Energy™” represents sexual confidence and self-ownership

• Practical, science-backed ways to improve sexual wellness and intimacy

• Why communication about sex is key to empowerment and satisfaction

• How to release shame and reconnect with your body and pleasure

• The role of sexual education in closing the orgasm gap

• How confidence and body awareness influence overall wellbeing

• Why pleasure-positive conversations matter in modern relationships

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Dr. Jen Kennedy, leading sexologist, couples therapist, and founder of pleasureproject.com, for an honest and grounded conversation about sexual dissatisfaction, low libido, and intimacy challenges in long-term relationships.

Together, they unpack the reality that “low libido” is often not a fixed condition, but a reflection of emotional disconnection, stress, anxiety, and unmet relational needs. Dr. Kennedy explains how desire is deeply responsive to psychological safety, communication, and self-care, and why rebuilding intimacy often starts outside the bedroom.

The conversation explores how couples can navigate mismatched desire with empathy and curiosity rather than shame or pressure. Eve and Dr. Kennedy also highlight the importance of vulnerability, consent, and emotional attunement in reigniting passion and sustaining long-term erotic connection.

Dr. Kennedy also introduces insights from her signature program, Pleasure Circle, which helps individuals and couples rebuild sexual confidence and connection through guided practice and communication tools. The episode includes a realistic role-play demonstration showing how to initiate conversations about sex, navigate discomfort, and co-create mutually satisfying intimacy without defensiveness or blame.

This episode is a practical and compassionate guide for anyone navigating desire discrepancies, relationship stress, or seeking a deeper understanding of sexual wellbeing in long-term partnerships.

What You’ll Learn

• Why low libido is often linked to stress, anxiety, and emotional disconnection

• How emotional safety and communication influence sexual desire

• Ways couples can navigate mismatched libido with empathy and curiosity

• The importance of vulnerability in rebuilding sexual connection

• How self-care and mental wellbeing impact arousal and intimacy

• Practical tools for talking about sex without shame or defensiveness

• How to handle timing differences and desire discrepancies in relationships

• Insights from Dr. Kennedy’s Pleasure Circle program

• Real-life role-play on initiating conversations about sex and intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Jen Kennedy

Founder of pleasureproject.com

Creator of Pleasure Circle

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes Robert Johnson and Anna Osmon from Shameless Care for a forward-looking conversation on the future of sexual health, intimacy, and STI prevention.

Together, they explore how modern medicine and virtual care are reshaping the way people approach pleasure, connection, and sexual confidence. The discussion highlights the importance of comprehensive STI testing—including often-overlooked oral and anal swabs—and how Shameless Care connects patients with sex-positive, board-certified doctors for discreet at-home testing and online prescriptions.

Robert and Anna also break down how emerging tools like DoxyPEP are being used to reduce bacterial STIs such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis, and why prevention strategies are evolving alongside modern dating and non-monogamous relationship dynamics.

The conversation further expands into the role of sexual wellness medications and tools—including sildenafil, tadalafil, oxytocin nasal spray, and topical arousal creams—and how they can support blood flow, desire, and intimacy across different bodies and needs.

The episode closes with a grounded, real-life role-play demonstrating how to confidently communicate about STI testing, consent, and boundaries with new partners—offering listeners practical language for safer, more empowered sexual experiences.

What You’ll Learn

• Why comprehensive STI testing (including oral and anal swabs) matters

• How at-home STI testing and telehealth improve access and privacy

• What DoxyPEP is and how it reduces risk of bacterial STIs

• How modern dating is changing sexual health conversations

• The role of medications like sildenafil, tadalafil, and oxytocin nasal spray

• How topical arousal creams can support intimacy and desire

• Why open communication about testing and consent is essential

• How to confidently talk to new partners about sexual health and boundaries

Connect With the Guests

Robert Johnson

Anna Osmon

with Shameless Care

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this informative episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes back Robert Johnson and Anna Osmon from Shameless Care for a candid conversation about modern sexual health, STI prevention, and the importance of self-advocacy in healthcare.

Together, they break down the evolving landscape of STI prevention and testing, highlighting the limitations of standard panels and the importance of more comprehensive approaches that include oral and anal screening. Robert and Anna also discuss emerging prevention tools like Doxy PEP and how it is changing the way people approach STI risk reduction.

The conversation further explores the role of HPV vaccination for adults, including access considerations and insurance coverage, and emphasizes the importance of proactive sexual health care for people in all relationship structures—including non-monogamous and LGBTQ+ communities.

Beyond the medical insights, the episode addresses the stigma that often surrounds STI testing and sexual health discussions, and encourages listeners to advocate for themselves within healthcare systems. Robert and Anna also share how Shameless Care is helping bridge gaps in access through at-home testing kits and telehealth services, making sexual health care more accessible and judgment-free.

This episode is a practical, stigma-free guide to understanding sexual health in the modern world and taking control of your wellbeing with confidence.

What You’ll Learn

• How Doxy PEP helps reduce risk of gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis

• Why comprehensive STI testing (including oral and anal swabs) matters

• The importance and accessibility of HPV vaccines for adults

• How sexual health needs differ in LGBTQ+ and non-monogamous communities

• How at-home STI testing and telehealth services work

• Ways to overcome stigma and advocate for your sexual health

• Why proactive testing is essential in modern relationships

Connect With the Guests

Shameless Care

Robert Johnson & Anna Osmon

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this candid and educational live webinar, host Eve Hall takes a deep dive into male sexual health, offering straightforward, evidence-based guidance on erectile dysfunction (ED), premature ejaculation, and natural enhancement strategies that support long-term sexual wellbeing.

Drawing on clinical insight and audience Q&A, Eve breaks down the physical, emotional, and lifestyle factors that influence sexual performance and confidence. The session emphasizes a holistic approach to male sexual health—one that prioritizes blood flow, nervous system regulation, and overall body awareness rather than quick fixes.

Eve explores a range of tools and treatments, including acoustic wave therapy, dry needling, penis pumps, and extenders, while also explaining how to use them safely and effectively. She also highlights emerging technology like wearable devices that track erection quality and support cardiovascular health insights.

Beyond devices and treatments, the webinar focuses on foundational habits that improve sexual function naturally—such as pelvic floor training, hydration, nutrition, mindful masturbation, and edging practices. The conversation also reinforces the importance of confidence, self-connection, and reducing shame around male sexual health.

This episode is a practical, no-nonsense guide for men who want to understand their bodies better, improve performance, and build sustainable sexual wellness from the inside out.

What You’ll Learn

• The root causes of erectile dysfunction and how to prevent it

• Evidence-based treatments like acoustic wave therapy and dry needling

• Safe use of penis pumps, including sizing and injury prevention

• How penile extenders work and realistic expectations for results

• How wearable tech like FirmTech tracks erection health and cardiovascular risk

• Why masturbation, edging, and mindful touch improve sexual function

• The role of nutrition, hydration, and the “watermelon challenge” in blood flow

• How pelvic floor health improves erections and ejaculation control

• What actually works (and what doesn’t) in sexual enhancement tools

• How confidence and self-awareness impact performance and pleasure

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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In this empowering episode of Please Me Podcast, host Eve welcomes Karen Bigman, certified sex educator and sex and dating coach, for a bold and refreshing conversation about sexuality, intimacy, and self-love after 50.

Together, they break open the often-silenced realities of midlife sexuality, exploring how desire, confidence, and connection can evolve—not disappear—with age. Karen shares insight into how hormonal shifts, life transitions, and changing relationship dynamics can all impact libido, and why midlife can actually be a powerful time for sexual rediscovery.

The conversation also dives into practical, real-world topics like dating after divorce, navigating new relationships with clear consent and communication, and the importance of STI testing when re-entering the dating world. Karen also highlights the role of sex toys, vibrators, and solo exploration in building confidence, pleasure, and body awareness.

From online dating etiquette and sexting boundaries to spotting red flags and rebuilding self-esteem, this episode offers grounded, shame-free guidance for women stepping into a new chapter of intimacy. Above all, it’s a celebration of body positivity, curiosity, and sexual empowerment at every stage of life.

What You’ll Learn

• How sexuality and desire can evolve and thrive after 50

• The impact of hormones and aging on libido and sexual health

• How to navigate dating and intimacy after divorce

• The importance of consent, communication, and STI testing in new relationships

• How sex toys and vibrators support exploration and pleasure

• Online dating tips, sexting etiquette, and recognizing red flags

• Ways to build body confidence and sexual self-esteem in midlife

• How self-love and curiosity support a fulfilling sex life at any age

Connect With the Guest

Karen Bigman

Host of Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50

Founder of Hotter Wilder Wiser adult sex-ed masterclass

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with urologist Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer for a candid and educational conversation on sexuality, sexual wellness, hormones, and the often-misunderstood realities of genital and pelvic health.

Together, they unpack common concerns like low libido, vaginal dryness, erectile dysfunction, recurrent UTIs, and bacterial vaginosis (BV), offering clear, science-based explanations and practical treatment options. Dr. Zwonitzer highlights how hormonal changes—especially during perimenopause and menopause—can affect mood, energy, joint health, desire, and sexual function.

The conversation explores evidence-based solutions including topical vaginal estrogen, hormone replacement therapy (HRT), acoustic wave therapy, and the role of masturbation and orgasm in maintaining healthy sexual function for all genders. They also address men’s health topics such as prostate wellness, ejaculation frequency, and its relationship to long-term health outcomes.

Beyond hormones and treatment, the episode also provides honest guidance on sexual practices like anal sex, emphasizing communication, preparation, and comfort. Throughout the discussion, Eve and Dr. Zwonitzer normalize conversations around sex, remove stigma, and encourage listeners to advocate for their own sexual health needs.

This episode is a straightforward, empowering guide to understanding your body, improving sexual wellbeing, and making informed choices about your health.

What You’ll Learn

• The orgasm gap and what orgasm equality really means

• Why topical vaginal estrogen helps with dryness, UTIs, and incontinence

• How hormone replacement therapy (HRT) supports perimenopause and menopause symptoms

• The link between hormones, mood changes, joint pain, and libido

• How masturbation and orgasm support sexual health and function

• Prostate health, ejaculation frequency, and long-term wellness in men

• How acoustic wave therapy improves blood flow and erectile function

• Safe and comfortable approaches to anal sex, including communication and preparation

• Causes and treatments of BV, including overlooked triggers and options like boric acid

• How to talk openly with partners and healthcare providers about sexual concerns

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer

Host, Between the Sheets

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this powerful, stigma-breaking episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer, board-certified urologist and host of Between the Sheets, for an evidence-based conversation on sexuality, sexual health, hormones, and pleasure.

Together, they break down the gaps in modern sexual health education and explore what it really means to advocate for your wellbeing in a system that often overlooks sexual function. Dr. Zwonitzer shares expert insight into how hormones influence libido, mood, energy, and overall vitality, and why these conversations are essential for both men and women.

The discussion also dives into the realities of STI testing—what standard panels often miss, which tests people should actually be requesting, and how stigma continues to impact sexual health outcomes. From HPV and herpes education to testosterone imbalance, vaginal and penile atrophy, and pelvic floor dysfunction, this episode offers clear, science-backed information designed to empower listeners.

Dr. Zwonitzer also explains how pelvic floor therapy can transform intimacy and function, and highlights practical tools and treatments that support long-term sexual wellness. Throughout the episode, Eve and Dr. Zwonitzer emphasize the importance of open communication, self-advocacy, and removing shame from conversations around sex and health.

This episode is a comprehensive guide to understanding your body, improving your sexual wellbeing, and confidently navigating conversations with healthcare providers.

What You’ll Learn

• Why sexual health education needs to evolve for all genders

• The truth about common STIs and the stigma surrounding them

• What standard STI panels often miss—and what to ask for instead

• Who should get the HPV vaccine and why it matters

• How to advocate for your sexual health in medical settings

• Symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment of low testosterone

• How hormones impact libido, mood, and energy

• Causes and treatments for vaginal and penile atrophy

• What pelvic floor dysfunction is and how pelvic PT helps

• Practical tools for improving sexual wellness and function

• How to normalize conversations around sex, pleasure, and health

Connect With the Guest

Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer

Host, Between the Sheets

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes back relationship and attachment expert Bev Mitelman for Part 2 of their insightful conversation on attachment, sexuality, intimacy, and connection.

Together, they explore how attachment styles influence sexuality, emotional intimacy, and the ways we relate to our partners both inside and outside the bedroom. Bev shares how attachment patterns can shape communication, vulnerability, desire, conflict, and emotional safety within relationships.

The conversation highlights the unique challenges and strengths associated with different attachment styles, helping listeners better understand their own relationship dynamics and the patterns that may be impacting their connections. Bev also offers practical guidance for creating healthier communication, building trust, and fostering deeper emotional and sexual intimacy.

Whether you identify as anxiously attached, avoidant, secure, or somewhere in between, this episode provides valuable tools to help you strengthen your relationships and create more meaningful connections.

What You’ll Learn

• How attachment styles influence sexuality and desire

• The connection between attachment and emotional intimacy

• Common relationship patterns associated with different attachment styles

• How attachment impacts communication and conflict resolution

• Ways to create greater emotional safety with a partner

• Strategies for building trust and deeper connection

• How self-awareness can improve both emotional and sexual relationships

• Steps toward developing more secure attachment patterns

Connect With the Guest

Bev Mitelman

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes Bev Mitelman, an expert in attachment theory, for an insightful conversation about how our earliest relationships shape the way we connect, communicate, and experience intimacy & sexuality throughout our lives.

Together, they break down the foundations of attachment theory and explore the four primary attachment styles: secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant. Bev explains how these patterns develop in childhood, how they influence romantic relationships, sexuality, friendships, and even workplace dynamics, and why attachment styles are not fixed for life.

The conversation also dives into emotional regulation, communication challenges, and the ways attachment patterns can affect trust, vulnerability, and connection. Bev shares practical insights for recognizing your own attachment style, fostering healthier relationships, and breaking generational cycles to create more secure attachments for future generations.

Whether you're navigating dating, partnership, parenting, or personal growth, this episode offers valuable tools for understanding yourself and building stronger, more fulfilling connections.

What You’ll Learn

• The fundamentals of attachment theory and why it matters

• The four main attachment styles and how they develop

• How attachment patterns influence relationships, intimacy, and sexuality

• The impact of attachment on emotional regulation and communication

• Why attachment styles can change over time

• How childhood experiences shape adult relationship behaviors

• Ways to foster more secure attachment in yourself and your relationships

• Strategies for breaking generational trauma and supporting secure attachment in children

Connect With the Guest

Bev Mitelman

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes back Emma Lyons, trauma healer, energy worker, and creator of The Inner Narcissist, for Part 2 of their powerful conversation on sexuality, trauma, shame, self-worth, and healing.

Together, they explore how trauma can remain stored in the nervous system long after a difficult experience has ended, shaping the way we show up in relationships, intimacy, business, and everyday life. Emma shares practical somatic tools to help listeners reconnect with their bodies, create a sense of safety, and break free from patterns rooted in shame and survival.

The conversation also examines the surprising connection between self-worth, sexuality, and money, revealing how overgiving, people-pleasing, and difficulty receiving can impact every area of life. Through a realistic dating role-play, Emma demonstrates how to navigate breadcrumbing with confidence, healthy boundaries, and self-respect.

This episode is an empowering invitation to reclaim your worth, trust your body, and step into deeper authenticity in love, work, and pleasure.

What You'll Learn

• How trauma remains stored in the nervous system after danger has passed

• Somatic practices that help create safety in the body

• The connection between overgiving, people-pleasing, and self-worth

• How shame blocks pleasure, authenticity, and receiving

• Daily embodiment practices to support healing and nervous system regulation

• What the "inner narcissist" is and how to dismantle it

• How to respond to breadcrumbing with clarity and confidence

• The links between sexuality, money, and personal empowerment

Connect With the Guest

Emma Lyons

Founder, Trauma Matrix

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this powerful episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Emma Lyons, founder of Trauma Matrix, for a thought-provoking conversation about shame around sexuality, trauma, and the path to reclaiming your authentic self.

Together, they explore how shame becomes deeply embedded in the nervous system, influencing self-worth, relationships, health, and personal growth. Emma explains how shame often fuels self-sabotage, perfectionism, and negative self-talk, while reinforcing patterns that keep people disconnected from their power and pleasure.

The conversation examines the links between shame, emotional suppression, chronic stress, and overall wellbeing. Emma also introduces her BREAK method—a practical framework designed to help listeners identify shame-based thinking, interrupt harmful patterns, and reconnect with their own truth and sovereignty.

Throughout the episode, Eve and Emma challenge cultural conditioning and inherited beliefs that keep people trapped in cycles of guilt and self-judgment, offering a new perspective on healing, self-compassion, and personal liberation.

This episode is an invitation to recognize shame for what it is, release the stories that no longer serve you, and step into a more empowered relationship with yourself.

What You’ll Learn

• Why shame is often at the root of trauma and emotional suffering

• How shame contributes to self-sabotage, perfectionism, and negative self-talk

• The connection between emotional suppression and overall wellbeing

• How the inner critic can mirror harmful external dynamics

• Emma’s BREAK method for disrupting shame-based patterns

• Ways to reconnect with self-trust, sovereignty, and personal truth

• Why healing requires more than simply managing shame—it requires freedom from it

• How self-compassion can become a powerful tool for transformation

Connect With the Guest

Emma Lyons

Founder, Trauma Matrix

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this follow-up episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes back Sam Itzhaki, founder of Mr. Get Bigger Now, for a practical and informative conversation focused on male sexuality, sexual health, enhancement tools, and confidence.

Building on their previous discussion, Eve and Sam move beyond the theory to explore the safe use of penis extenders and pumps, including how these devices work, realistic expectations for results, and the importance of proper conditioning and safety protocols. Sam shares common mistakes people make when starting enhancement routines and explains how to approach these tools responsibly.

The conversation also expands into broader topics of sexual wellness, including erectile health, confidence, intimacy, and the connection between sexual function and overall cardiovascular wellbeing. They discuss emerging technologies such as the FirmTech smart ring, which helps track erection quality and provides valuable insights into men's health.

To round out the episode, Eve and Sam engage in a candid role-play exploring dating, attraction, boundaries, and communication—highlighting how confidence, honesty, and presence often matter far more than physical measurements alone.

This episode is a practical guide for anyone interested in understanding sexual health tools, improving confidence, and taking a holistic approach to intimacy and wellbeing.

What You’ll Learn

• How penis extenders work and what results are realistic

• The benefits and risks of penis pumps for blood flow and girth

• Essential safety tips for using enhancement devices responsibly

• Common mistakes that can lead to injury or disappointment

• Why confidence and presence matter more than size alone

• How the FirmTech smart ring tracks erection quality and health metrics

• The connection between erectile health and cardiovascular wellness

• Healthy approaches to communication, dating, and intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Sam Itzhaki

Founder, Mr. Get Bigger Now

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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In this special empowered sexuality episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down at the kitchen counter with Tig & Nadine and Jerry & Eunice to explore the intimate, complex, and unexpectedly fun world of kitchen table polyamory.

In this in-person conversation, they unpack ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging from lived experience—sharing what it’s really like when multiple relationships, friendships, and shared living dynamics exist under one roof. The guests open up about the joys, challenges, and everyday realities of building a life rooted in openness, communication, and personal sovereignty.

Together, they explore how each couple defines their relationship style, how jealousy and insecurity are navigated through radical honesty, and what it takes to maintain trust in non-traditional relationship structures. The conversation also highlights the importance of community, chosen family, and emotional safety in sustaining these dynamics long-term.

This episode offers an honest, grounded, and human look at alternative relationship models—beyond stereotypes and into the real lived experience of connection, negotiation, and care.

What You’ll Learn

• How polyamory, swinging, and open relationships differ

• What kitchen table polyamory looks like in everyday life

• How jealousy and insecurity are handled with radical honesty

• The importance of communication and boundaries in ENM relationships

• What it’s like sharing a home with multiple partners

• How community and friendship strengthen alternative relationship styles

• Why authenticity and sovereignty matter in love and intimacy

Connect With the Guests

Tig & Nadine

Jerry & Eunice

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this special episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down at the kitchen counter with Tig & Nadine and Jerry & Eunice to explore the intimate, complex, and unexpectedly fun world of kitchen table polyamory and their journey of empowered sexuality.

In this in-person conversation, they unpack ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging from lived experience—sharing what it’s really like when multiple relationships, friendships, and shared living dynamics exist under one roof. The guests open up about the joys, challenges, and everyday realities of building a life rooted in openness, communication, and personal sovereignty.

Together, they explore how each couple defines their relationship style, how jealousy and insecurity are navigated through radical honesty, and what it takes to maintain trust in non-traditional relationship structures. The conversation also highlights the importance of community, chosen family, and emotional safety in sustaining these dynamics long-term.

This episode offers an honest, grounded, and human look at alternative relationship models—beyond stereotypes and into the real lived experience of connection, negotiation, and care.

What You’ll Learn

• How polyamory, swinging, and open relationships differ

• What kitchen table polyamory looks like in everyday life

• How jealousy and insecurity are handled with radical honesty

• The importance of communication and boundaries in ENM relationships

• What it’s like sharing a home with multiple partners

• How community and friendship strengthen alternative relationship styles

• Why authenticity and sovereignty matter in love and intimacy

Connect With the Guests

Tig & Nadine

Jerry & Eunice

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this informative episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve dives into the root causes of erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness—and explores practical, natural approaches to restoring sexual health, pleasure, performance & empowered sexuality.

She breaks down how both erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness are closely tied to blood flow, explaining why circulation plays a central role in arousal, sensitivity, and orgasm. Eve also highlights the importance of clitoral stimulation, reframing it as essential for pleasure and orgasm equality rather than optional foreplay.

The episode also explores common medical interventions like Viagra, Cialis, and Trimix injections, while discussing their limitations and emphasizing the importance of addressing underlying causes. Eve introduces alternative and supportive treatments such as Acoustic Wave Therapy (including shockwave therapies), alongside lifestyle-based approaches to improving sexual vitality.

Listeners are guided through practical tools including nutrition strategies, herbal supports, supplements, and simple practices like edging, masturbation awareness, and the “watermelon challenge” to enhance blood flow and sexual response.

This episode is a blend of education and empowerment, helping listeners better understand their bodies and take an active role in their sexual wellness journey.

What You’ll Learn

• Why erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness are often blood-flow related

• The role of the clitoris in arousal, orgasm, and sexual function

• How masturbation and edging support sexual health and awareness

• The pros and limitations of medications like Viagra, Cialis, and Trimix

• How Acoustic Wave Therapy and shockwave treatments work

• Nutrition and herbs that support circulation and libido

• Supplements and lifestyle practices that enhance sexual vitality

• The importance of addressing root causes instead of only symptoms

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this educational webinar episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve explores the causes, prevalence, and practical solutions for painful sex, including dyspareunia and vaginismus. Drawing from her expertise as a pelvic floor physical therapist, she breaks down how physical, hormonal, and emotional factors can all contribute to discomfort during intimacy—and what can be done to support healing, pleasure & empowered sexuality.

Eve explains how conditions like vaginal dryness, infections, hormonal changes, pelvic floor dysfunction, and endometriosis can all play a role in pain during sex. She also clarifies the difference between dyspareunia and vaginismus, helping listeners better understand their symptoms and when to seek support.

Beyond education, this episode offers actionable guidance—focusing on foreplay, full-body arousal, relaxation techniques, and communication with partners. Eve also highlights how certain positions and mindful body awareness can reduce discomfort and support more pleasurable, connected intimacy, while addressing the importance of clitoral stimulation in closing the orgasm gap.

This episode is a supportive and practical resource for anyone looking to transform painful experiences into more informed, empowered, and pleasurable intimacy.

What You’ll Learn

• What dyspareunia is and why it affects so many people

• The common causes of painful sex, including hormonal and physical factors

• The difference between dyspareunia and vaginismus

• How foreplay and arousal impact comfort and pleasure

• The importance of clitoral stimulation in closing the orgasm gap

• Sex positions that support relaxation and reduce pain

• Techniques for relaxation, body awareness, and pelvic floor support

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this empowering webinar episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve explores the concept of Big Clit Energy—a playful yet powerful framework for embodied sexuality, sexual confidence, curiosity, and self-expression.

Through this conversation, she breaks down how cultivating a deeper connection to your sensual self can positively impact not only intimacy, but also communication, relationships, and overall personal empowerment. Eve encourages listeners to approach pleasure with openness and curiosity, using it as a tool for self-discovery and growth.

She also highlights how couples can use podcast episodes as conversation starters to deepen connection and explore desires together, while sharing ways to continue the journey through Patreon, YouTube, and her monthly SDC webinars.

This episode is a reminder that confidence and pleasure are not separate from everyday life—they are skills that can be practiced, embodied, and shared.

What You’ll Learn

• What Big Clit Energy means and how it builds sexual confidence

• How curiosity can deepen intimacy and relational connection

• Ways to use podcast listening as a tool for couples’ communication

• The benefits of joining the Please Me Patreon community

• How webinars and community spaces support ongoing pleasure education

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this fascinating bonus episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with scientist Daniel Tausan, founder of Timeline Science and researcher in stem cell biology, proteomics, and biological aging, for a conversation that bridges cutting-edge science with everyday practices for vitality, sexuality, longevity, and sexual wellness.

Together, they explore how your blood acts as a real-time reflection of your overall health, and why early warning signs are often missed in conventional medical testing. Daniel breaks down how lifestyle factors like fasting, meal timing, breathwork, and cold exposure can influence energy levels, recovery, and even sexual function.

The conversation also dives into the surprising connections between metabolic health and pleasure—revealing how practices that support “clean blood,” improved circulation, and mitochondrial function can enhance libido, orgasmic response, and long-term wellbeing. From digestion as an energy drain to the role of sleep, mood, and movement, this episode reframes health as a foundation for both longevity and pleasure.

This episode is a powerful reminder that optimizing your body isn’t just about living longer—it’s about feeling more alive, connected, and embodied in every stage of life.

What You’ll Learn

• What “clean blood” means and why it reflects overall health

• Why early disease signals are often missed in standard bloodwork

• How fasting and meal timing can influence libido and energy

• The impact of late eating on aging, recovery, and sleep quality

• Why digestion is one of the body’s most energy-intensive processes

• Daniel’s Five Pillars of Longevity: recovery, mood, fasting, digestion, movement

• How breathwork and lung capacity relate to heart and sexual health

• The benefits of cold exposure for recovery, sleep, and pleasure

• How mental state, imagery, and community impact long-term vitality

• Erectile dysfunction as an early warning sign of cardiovascular health

Connect With the Guest

Daniel Tausan

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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It’s the grand finale of Season Five, and Eve is closing things out in style with returning guest Anthony Weaver for part two of this highlights reel—revisiting the most thought-provoking, funny, and liberating moments from the season.

Together, Eve and Anthony reflect on a wide-ranging mix of conversations that define what Please Me Podcast is all about: breaking taboos, deepening connection, and reclaiming pleasure in all its forms. From communication as the foundation of intimacy, to the myths shaped by porn culture, to the real role of sex work in fantasy, healing, and human connection—they unpack it all with honesty and humor.

They also explore surprising health insights from sexual wellness tech, including how erectile function can be a window into overall cardiovascular health, along with personal reflections on healing, trauma, and self-love. The conversation takes a deeper turn into relationship dynamics, including the difference between ethical exploration and coercive behavior, and why consent and boundaries are non-negotiable.

To close it out, Eve and Anthony bring lightness and laughter with a playful role play that demonstrates how real conversations around intimacy, love languages, and lifestyle preferences can actually sound in practice.

This episode is a celebration of everything the season stood for—truth-telling, liberation, and learning to speak about the things we’re often told to keep quiet.

What You’ll Learn

• Why communication is the foundation of intimacy and connection

• How porn can shape desire—and why it’s not real-life sex education

• The role of sex workers in fantasy, support, and emotional fulfillment

• How sexual health data can reflect overall heart health and wellbeing

• Personal stories of healing, trauma recovery, and self-acceptance

• The difference between ethical swinging and coercive sexual dynamics

• How to have honest conversations about desire, boundaries, and intimacy

• Why pleasure and emotional safety must coexist in relationships

Connect With the Guest

Anthony Weaver

Host of About That Wallet Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this special Season Five finale of Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by her good friend and fellow podcaster Anthony Weaver of About That Wallet for a reflective and energizing conversation revisiting the most powerful, thought-provoking, and unforgettable moments of the season.

Together, they look back on standout episodes that explored everything from emotional abuse and the Power and Control Wheel, to marital consent laws, sovereignty in relationships, and behind-the-scenes realities of the adult entertainment industry. Anthony shares his biggest takeaways, favorite episodes, and surprising insights gained along the way—including unexpected learnings about sexual health, performance, and intimacy.

Eve also opens up about her evolution as a creator over five seasons, including her shift toward bilingual content, her deepening focus on sexual health and liberation, and what it’s been like to hold space for such raw and taboo conversations over the years. The episode serves as both a celebration of growth and a grounded reflection on the impact of storytelling around sex, relationships, money, and power.

This finale is a reminder of why these conversations matter—and how much we grow when we’re willing to speak about what’s often left unsaid.

What You’ll Learn

• How Please Me evolved in content, reach, and depth over Season 5

• Why the Power and Control Wheel episode resonated so strongly

• Surprising insights from conversations on adult entertainment and performance

• Lessons on sovereignty, healing, and relationships from guest Britton & Carolee

• Eve’s reflections on her growth as a host over two years

• Why taboo topics like sex, money, and power are essential to discuss

• Key personal “aha” moments from both Eve and Anthony

Connect With the Guest

Anthony Weaver

Host of About That Wallet Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this deeply personal and vulnerable bonus episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve shares her first experience with ayahuasca—a powerful plant medicine known for its intense emotional, physical, and spiritual effects.

After years of healing from childhood sexual abuse, Eve chose to embark on this journey to deepen her womb healing and reconnect with the most tender and fragmented parts of herself. What unfolded was not only a series of psychedelic visions, but a profound experience of inner peace, emotional release, and reconnection with her inner child.

Eve walks listeners through the full arc of her experience—from preparation and intention setting to the ceremony itself under the stars, and the unexpected clarity and liberation that followed. She reflects on the physical and emotional process of purging, the moments of surrender, and the deep sense of safety and self-compassion that emerged throughout the journey.

This episode is an intimate exploration of how plant medicine can support trauma healing, embodiment, and the reclamation of pleasure and power for survivors and seekers alike.

What You’ll Learn

• Why Eve chose to experience ayahuasca for healing

• What womb healing is and why it can be transformative

• The link between trauma, dissociation, and intimacy

• The experience of meeting and reconnecting with the inner child

• The emotional and physical process of plant medicine “purging”

• The importance of cultural respect and responsible plant medicine use

• Reflections on integration and post-journey healing

• How plant medicine can support emotional and sexual liberation

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this powerful and transformative episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes Susannah Rose Stokes—military veteran, sexual health advocate, co-founder of House of Embodied Metamorphosis, and spiritual guide—for a deeply honest and expansive conversation on healing, sexuality, and spiritual reclamation.

Together, they explore the cultural conditioning around virginity and purity, and how these narratives can shape identity, relationships, and self-worth long into adulthood. Susannah shares her personal journey through military service, trauma, and spiritual awakening, offering insight into how she began deconstructing inherited beliefs around sexuality, religion, and love.

The conversation moves into her experiences with psilocybin and plant medicine as tools for emotional and womb healing, as well as her evolution through different relationship structures—from toxic monogamy to chaotic polyamory, and ultimately toward a more grounded sense of Sacred Union. Eve and Susannah also explore embodied healing practices, sacral chakra work, and the importance of integrating pleasure education as a pathway to mutual healing and connection.

This episode is a soulful exploration of what it means to reclaim your body, release shame, and reconnect with your inner truth through embodiment, spirituality, and conscious intimacy.

What You’ll Learn

• How purity culture and the concept of virginity shape identity and sexuality

• Susannah’s journey through military service, trauma, and spiritual awakening

• The idea that sexual experiences can carry energetic imprints and how to heal them

• How psilocybin and plant medicine support womb and emotional healing

• The evolution from toxic monogamy and chaotic polyamory to Sacred Union

• The role of sacral chakra healing and embodied practices in transformation

• Why pleasure education can be a tool for healing for both partners

• How inner child work and integration support long-term healing

Connect With the Guest

Susannah Rose Stokes

Co-founder, House of Embodied Metamorphosis

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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In this empowering bonus episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Colette Fahr, licensed couples’ therapist and co-host of Insights from the Couch, for an honest and insightful conversation about sexuality, sexual health, midlife, and holistic wellness.

Together, they explore the often-overlooked realities of perimenopause and menopause, including pelvic floor dysfunction, painful sex, incontinence, and the emotional impact these changes can have on intimacy and relationships. Colette and Eve also discuss innovative approaches such as acoustic wave therapy, hormone health, and the role of estrogen in maintaining sexual function and overall vitality.

The conversation expands beyond symptoms to focus on empowerment—highlighting how small, consistent lifestyle shifts can help women reclaim pleasure, strengthen connection with their partners, and feel more at home in their changing bodies. They also reflect on how menopause is experienced differently across cultures and communities, emphasizing the need for more inclusive and informed conversations around midlife health.

This episode is a reminder that midlife is not a decline, but a powerful opportunity to reconnect with your body, your pleasure, and your sense of self.

What You’ll Learn

• How Eve and Colette met and the story behind their collaboration

• The impact of pelvic floor dysfunction on intimacy and confidence

• How acoustic wave therapy supports sexual health and blood flow

• The science behind vaginal dryness, erectile dysfunction, and hormones

• The role of estrogen and evolving perspectives on HRT

• How menopause experiences vary across different communities

• The importance of daily habits in supporting midlife wellness

• Why midlife can be a powerful chapter of sexual renewal and empowerment

Connect With the Guest

Colette Fahr

Licensed Couples’ Therapist & Co-Host of Insights from the Couch

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this deeply powerful and transformative episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined by energy and consciousness coach Kanika Vasudeva to explore the healing potential of the sacral chakra—our energetic center of creativity, emotional flow, sensuality, and divine feminine power.

Kanika shares her personal journey through profound grief after the loss of her daughter, and how that experience became a catalyst for deep healing through energy work, womb healing, and spiritual reconnection. Together, she and Eve explore the sacral chakra as a source of life force energy—not only tied to physical creation, but also to emotional expression, creativity, and personal empowerment.

The conversation dives into how trauma, conditioning, and suppressed emotions can create energetic blockages in this center, impacting pleasure, identity, and emotional well-being. Kanika also guides listeners through a grounding and emotional release visualization, offering a practical entry point into healing and reconnection with joy and inner flow.

This episode is both a teaching and a gentle invitation to reconnect with your body’s wisdom, release stored emotional pain, and reclaim your creative and sensual energy.

What You’ll Learn

• What the sacral chakra is and its role in creativity and emotional flow

• How trauma and suppressed emotions create energetic blockages

• The connection between womb healing, self-love, and embodiment

• Why sexual energy is considered a life force energy

• How orgasmic and meditative states can support manifestation

• Kanika Vasudeva’s journey from grief to healing and purpose

• A guided visualization for emotional release and reconnection

Connect With the Guest

Kanika Vasudeva

Energy & Consciousness Coach

Website: https://kanikavasudeva.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this electrifying continuation of Please Me Podcast’s two-part series with intimacy and Tantra coach Hani Cheng, Eve and Hani go even deeper into the world of orgasmic potential, energetic release, and embodied pleasure & sexuality.

Together, they explore how pleasure can extend far beyond traditional definitions of orgasm, moving into full-body waves, emotional release, and spiritual connection. Hani introduces the concept of the “mystery orgasm”—a fluid, intuitive experience of pleasure that evolves beyond technique and into presence, awareness, and energetic flow.

The conversation also breaks down the different layers of orgasmic experience, including clitoral, G-spot, cervical, and full-body orgasms, while emphasizing the importance of breath, voice, and emotional expression in unlocking deeper states of pleasure. Rather than focusing on performance or outcome, Hani encourages listeners to shift toward presence, curiosity, and daily embodiment practices that expand sensitivity and awareness.

This episode is a powerful invitation to release pressure, reconnect with your body, and explore pleasure as a living, evolving experience.

What You’ll Learn

• What the “mystery orgasm” is and how to explore it

• The differences between clitoral, G-spot, cervical, and full-body orgasms

• How breath, sound, and emotion influence sexual energy

• Why presence matters more than orgasm as a goal

• How to build a daily practice of pleasure and body awareness

• Ways to co-create deeper intimacy and novelty with a partner

• An introduction to vaginal reflexology and emotional body mapping

• How to release performance pressure and reconnect with authentic pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Hani Cheng

Intimacy & Tantra Coach

Website: https://hanicheng.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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In this juicy and soul-stirring episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with transformational coach, healer, and author Hani Cheng to explore sexuality, sensual embodiment, healing through movement, and the deep intelligence of the body—especially the parts we’ve been taught to disconnect from or silence.

Hani shares her powerful journey from living with undiagnosed bulimia for 15 years to becoming a global teacher in tantra, Taoist sexuality, and energetic healing. Through learning to listen to her body—what she affectionately calls her “peach”—she discovered a path toward liberation, purpose, and embodied pleasure. Together, she and Eve explore how reconnecting with the body can transform not only sexuality, but creativity, confidence, and life direction.

The conversation also dives into the role of dance, particularly Brazilian Zouk, as a form of emotional processing and somatic healing, and how sensual movement can become a gateway to deeper self-trust and presence. Hani shares insights from her Sensual Liberation work, offering tools for reconnecting breath, body awareness, and erotic energy in a grounded and empowering way.

This episode is an invitation to return home to your body, reclaim your desire, and explore sensuality as a source of healing, creativity, and personal power.

What You’ll Learn

• Hani Cheng’s journey from eating disorder to embodied healing

• Why the body holds deep emotional and intuitive wisdom

• What it means to “speak to the peach” and reconnect with sensuality

• How dance (especially Zouk) supports emotional and sexual healing

• The role of breath and movement in sensual embodiment practices

• How orgasmic energy can influence creativity, confidence, and abundance

• Using sexual energy as a source of personal and professional power

• The importance of presence, trust, and co-creation in intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Hani Cheng

Transformational Coach & Sensual Embodiment Teacher

Website: https://hanicheng.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this vulnerable and enlightening Part 2 conversation with Britton and Carolee Beckham, Eve continues the exploration of what it means to truly rewrite the rules around love, sex, healing, and relationships after betrayal and religious conditioning.

Building on their earlier story, Britton and Carolee share how they rebuilt their connection through shadow work, ritual, astrology, and sacred sexuality—turning pain into a pathway for deeper awareness and conscious intimacy. Together, they now support others navigating spiritual awakening and relational transformation.

This episode dives into how they used moon cycles and intentional ritual to anchor new patterns of healing, and how practices like sex magic and embodied intimacy became tools for reclaiming desire, trust, and personal sovereignty. The conversation also opens up nuanced discussions around relationship structures, including monogamy, polyamory, kink, and the importance of radical honesty and clear boundaries.

At its core, this episode is an unfiltered look at healing inside relationship—messy, expansive, and deeply transformative.

What You’ll Learn

• What shadow work is and how it supports emotional and generational healing

• How astrology and moon cycles can be used in personal ritual

• Reclaiming sexuality after betrayal, shame, or religious conditioning

• The role of sovereignty and self-agency in relationships

• How sex magic and sacred intimacy are used in healing practices

• Navigating monogamy, polyamory, and relationship fluidity

• The importance of boundaries, kink, and radical honesty

• Embodiment practices for reconnecting with divine feminine energy

Connect With the Guests

Britton & Carolee Beckham

Spirituality & Conscious Relationship Educators

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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In this deeply personal and transformational episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Britton and Carolee Beckham, a married couple who share their powerful journey of healing, reconnection, and radical redefinition of love, sex, and spirituality.

Raised within the Mormon church and shaped by purity culture, Britton and Carolee open up about the infidelity that disrupted their marriage and the way institutional responses to sexuality deepened their struggle. Together, they reflect on how traditional frameworks of healing fell short—and how a path of spiritual deconstruction, plant medicine, and sacred sexuality ultimately helped them rebuild their relationship on a foundation of truth and liberation.

The conversation explores the role of psilocybin ceremonies in their awakening, alongside practices such as moon rituals and embodiment work that helped reconnect them to self-love and feminine empowerment. They also discuss the impact of sexual reeducation, ISTA training, and the importance of radical honesty in transforming not only their marriage but their individual sense of identity and desire.

This episode is a powerful exploration of what it means to step outside inherited beliefs, heal relational wounds, and consciously create a new paradigm for love, intimacy, and spiritual connection.

What You’ll Learn

• How religious conditioning can shape sexuality, shame, and identity

• The impact of infidelity and institutional responses on relationships

• How plant medicine can support spiritual awakening and healing

• The role of ritual, moon cycles, and embodiment in self-reconnection

• Why sexual reeducation and ISTA training can be transformative

• How radical honesty can rebuild trust and intimacy

• What it means to redefine love and spirituality outside of religion

Connect With the Guests

Britton & Carolee Beckham

Marriage & Spirituality Educators

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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In this powerful continuation of Please Me Podcast, Eve reunites with Shawn Schutt and Amanda Courier from the Touchy Subjects podcast to go deeper into the often-invisible dynamics of emotional and social abuse.

While physical violence is more widely recognized, this episode highlights how coercion, control, isolation, and emotional manipulation can be just as damaging—and often far more difficult to identify. Together, they explore the Power & Control Wheel, breaking down the eight key tactics commonly used in abusive relationships, including emotional abuse, economic control, intimidation, isolation, and the misuse of privilege or authority.

Shawn and Amanda offer both expert insight and grounded, real-world understanding of how these patterns show up in everyday relationships, as well as practical tools for recognizing red flags in your own life or in the lives of those you care about.

The episode also includes a role-play segment that demonstrates how to respond when someone discloses abuse, emphasizing the importance of empathy, safety, and non-judgmental support in these critical moments.

This conversation serves as both an educational guide and a compassionate resource for understanding the deeper layers of abuse and how to support healing and awareness.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between emotional, social, and physical abuse

• The 8 tactics in the Power & Control Wheel explained in real-life context

• How abusers use isolation, privilege, and economic control

• Why coercion undermines true consent in relationships

• How to recognize patterns of abuse early

• What supportive responses to disclosure of abuse should look like

• The importance of safety, empathy, and validation

Connect With the Guests

Shawn Schutt & Amanda Courier

Co-hosts of Touchy Subjects Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast

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In this powerful and eye-opening episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Shawn Schutt and Amanda Courier, co-hosts of the Touchy Subjects podcast, for an important conversation about how abuse can often hide behind the appearance of love, jealousy, and care.

Together, they unpack the early warning signs of domestic violence and sexual assault, focusing on the subtle but dangerous patterns of control that can begin long before any physical violence occurs. Shawn and Amanda share their expertise in exposing how abusers often use emotional manipulation, isolation, surveillance, and possessiveness to gain power in relationships while disguising these behaviors as affection or concern.

The conversation also explores how societal norms can normalize unhealthy jealousy, making it harder to recognize red flags, and why marginalized communities may face unique risks and barriers when trying to seek help. They also address the complexities and dangers of leaving abusive relationships, emphasizing the importance of safety planning and support systems.

This episode is a vital resource for anyone seeking to better understand relationship dynamics, recognize warning signs, and support themselves or others in navigating unsafe situations.

What You’ll Learn

• The definitions and realities of domestic violence and sexual assault

• How jealousy can be an early and normalized red flag

• Common manipulation tactics used in abusive relationships

• How abuse can disguise itself as love, care, or protection

• Why leaving abusive relationships is complex and potentially dangerous

• The importance of safety planning and support networks

• How marginalized communities may experience unique vulnerabilities

Connect With the Guests

Shawn Schutt & Amanda Courier

Co-hosts of Touchy Subjects Podcast

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

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In this special Friday bonus episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve pays tribute to the life, courage, and authenticity of Koby Falks — an LGBTQ+ creator, advocate, and unforgettable voice within the community.

Eve reflects on Koby’s journey of self-expression, from his success as an OnlyFans creator to his unapologetic embrace of identity, sexuality, and queer visibility. Through their past conversations on the show, she honors the impact he made by living his truth and encouraging others to do the same.

This episode also acknowledges the deeper conversations surrounding mental health within the LGBTQ+ community, highlighting the importance of compassion, connection, and checking in on those we care about. Eve emphasizes the value of community support and the role we all play in fostering safer, more open spaces for honesty and healing.

At its core, this episode is a heartfelt remembrance and a reminder of the importance of visibility, authenticity, and mental health awareness.

What You’ll Learn

• Koby Falks’ journey of authenticity and queer self-expression

• The importance of representation in the LGBTQ+ community

• How open conversations about sexuality can reduce shame

• The mental health challenges faced within queer communities

• How to support friends, chosen family, and loved ones

• Why checking in and reaching out matters

• The importance of suicide prevention awareness and support

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this candid and playful episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes back Kels and Tess, the bold duo behind Porn Nerds and Get Squirmy, for a continued conversation about porn, pleasure, and the beautifully “squirmy” parts of human sexuality.

Together, they explore how fantasy and curiosity shape desire, and how engaging with these inner worlds—without shame—can lead to greater self-awareness and stronger intimacy in relationships. The conversation breaks down the difference between fantasy and real-life experience, highlighting how each can serve a different role in understanding our needs, boundaries, and turn-ons.

Kels and Tess also share insights on how porn can be used as a healthy tool for exploration when approached consciously, and how couples can transform vulnerable conversations about sex into opportunities for deeper connection and trust.

At its core, this episode is about dismantling stigma, normalizing desire, and learning how to communicate what we want with honesty and confidence.

What You’ll Learn

• How porn can support healthy curiosity and sexual exploration

• The difference between fantasy and real-life intimacy

• What porn preferences may reveal about emotional or physical needs

• How to talk about porn and desire without shame

• Ways to turn sexual conversations into deeper connection

• How fantasy can improve communication in relationships

• Tools for exploring curiosity safely and consciously

Connect With the Guests

Kels & Tess

Creators of Porn Nerds & Get Squirmy

Website: https://www.squirm.fm

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this powerful and reflective episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve shares a deeply personal conversation around sexual identity, community, and the ongoing journey of self-acceptance within the LGBTQ+ experience.

Eve opens up about her own path toward understanding her sexuality and what it means to step into and belong within the LGBTQ+ community. The episode also honors the resilience of trans and non-binary individuals, especially in the face of harmful policies and ongoing social challenges.

Together, the discussion explores the importance of allies, long-time advocates, and those newly awakening to their identity in building a more informed, supportive, and empowered community. Eve also emphasizes that coming out is not a single moment but a personal, evolving journey shaped by self-love and individual timing.

This episode also highlights resources and organizations supporting trans rights and healthcare access, while paying tribute to the many LGBTQ+ guests who have courageously shared their stories on Please Me.

What You’ll Learn

• Eve’s personal journey with sexual identity and the LGBTQ+ community

• The resilience and lived experiences of trans and non-binary individuals

• How allies and community members can show up in meaningful ways

• Why coming out is a personal and evolving process

• The importance of self-love in identity exploration

• Resources supporting trans rights and healthcare access

• The power of shared stories in LGBTQ+ visibility and empowerment

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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In this candid and thought-provoking episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Kels and Tess, creators of the Porn Nerds podcast miniseries and founders of Squirm, for an honest conversation about sexuality, porn, pleasure, and the importance of communication in sexual wellness.

Together, they challenge the idea that porn should serve as sexual education and explore healthier, more effective ways to build confidence, curiosity, and connection in intimate relationships. Kels and Tess share how porn can be a source of inspiration and fantasy while highlighting the importance of understanding the difference between entertainment and real-life intimacy.

The conversation also dives into shame, stigma, desire, boundaries, and the role communication plays in creating fulfilling sexual experiences. From discussing fantasies with a partner to navigating relationship dynamics, including non-monogamous relationships, this episode offers practical tools for anyone looking to deepen connection and improve communication around sex.

Whether you're single, partnered, or simply curious about how media shapes our understanding of sexuality, this episode provides a thoughtful and empowering perspective on pleasure, consent, and authentic connection.

What You'll Learn

• Why porn is not a substitute for comprehensive sexual education

• How to communicate desires, fantasies, and boundaries with confidence

• The role of fantasy in solo and partnered pleasure

• How watching porn together can spark meaningful conversations

• Why desire should be explored rather than judged

• Strategies for navigating boundaries in relationships and non-monogamy

• How Squirm helps normalize open conversations about sex

Connect With the Guests

Kels & Tess

Founders of Squirm

Website: https://www.squirm.fm

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this powerful bonus episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve continues the conversation on sexuality & abortion by exploring the legal, emotional, and practical realities of pregnancy options in today’s post-Roe landscape.

With reproductive rights varying dramatically across the United States, Eve breaks down abortion access, gestational limits, and the challenges many women face when seeking reproductive healthcare. She also provides a compassionate overview of all pregnancy options—including abortion, adoption, and parenting—empowering listeners to make informed decisions based on their own values, circumstances, and needs.

In addition, Eve addresses some of the most common myths and misconceptions surrounding abortion, separating fact from fiction and encouraging women to seek accurate information rather than fear-based narratives. This episode is designed to educate, empower, and support anyone navigating reproductive health decisions or seeking a deeper understanding of their rights and options.

No matter where you stand or what situation you may face, this conversation reinforces one simple truth: knowledge is power, and every person deserves access to information without shame, pressure, or judgment.

What You’ll Learn

• How abortion laws and access vary across the United States

• What gestational limits are and why they matter

• The differences between abortion, adoption, and parenting options

• Common myths and misconceptions about abortion

• How to make informed reproductive healthcare decisions

• Why bodily autonomy and informed consent matter

• Resources for understanding your reproductive rights

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this eye-opening episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Robert Johnson, founder of Shameless Care, for an honest conversation about the hidden gaps in traditional STI testing and what everyone should know about protecting their sexuality & sexual health.

Robert shares the personal experience that led him to create Shameless Care after discovering that a routine STI panel—which came back negative—failed to detect an oral gonorrhea infection. That experience revealed a larger problem within standard sexual health screening and inspired him to advocate for more comprehensive, accessible testing.

Together, Eve and Robert explore the limitations of so-called “full panel” STI testing, why oral and asymptomatic infections are often missed, and the importance of understanding your testing options. They also discuss herpes testing, common misconceptions surrounding sexual health, and how stigma can prevent people from having honest conversations about risk and responsibility.

This episode is packed with practical information to help listeners make informed decisions, communicate openly with partners, and take a more proactive approach to sexual wellness.

What You’ll Learn

• Why many “full panel” STI tests are not as comprehensive as people think

• How oral gonorrhea and other asymptomatic infections can go undetected

• The limitations and controversies surrounding herpes testing

• Common gaps in traditional sexual healthcare

• How Shameless Care is improving access to sexual health resources

• Important conversations to have before becoming sexually active with a partner

• How to take a proactive approach to STI testing and prevention

Connect With the Guest

Robert Johnson

Founder, Shameless Care

Website: https://shamelesscare.com

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this unapologetically bold episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve tackles one of the most important and often censored topics in sexuality & women’s health: abortion.

With Roe v. Wade overturned and reproductive rights under increasing scrutiny, Eve cuts through the stigma, fear, and political noise to provide clear, practical information about abortion care, bodily autonomy, and informed decision-making. She explores why abortion is fundamentally a healthcare issue and discusses the real-world consequences of restricted access to safe reproductive care.

Eve also breaks down the differences between emergency contraception and medical abortion, explains how medical abortion works, and shares important facts about safety, effectiveness, and access. This episode is designed to empower listeners with knowledge, encourage informed choices, and support open conversations about reproductive health without shame or judgment.

Whether you've personally faced this decision, supported someone who has, or simply want to better understand the realities of reproductive healthcare, this episode offers education, empowerment, and compassion.

What You’ll Learn

• Why abortion is considered healthcare

• The difference between the morning-after pill and abortion pills

• How medical abortion works and its safety profile

• The risks associated with unsafe abortions

• Why bodily autonomy is essential to health and wellbeing

• How access to reproductive healthcare impacts women's lives

• Ways to stay informed and support reproductive rights

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

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Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this eye-opening and empowering episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve is joined once again by lifestyle educator, author, and sexuality coach Lexi Sylver for her third appearance on the show. Together, they clarify the critical differences between consensual ethical non-monogamy and coercive or abusive behavior, especially in response to public confusion surrounding high-profile allegations involving so-called “lifestyle parties.”

Lexi breaks down what truly defines the swinger and ethical non-monogamy communities, emphasizing that consent, communication, and mutual respect are the foundation of all interactions. She also explains the structured safety practices often used in these spaces, including boundaries, health awareness, and accountability systems that prioritize participant wellbeing.

The conversation further explores how power dynamics can exist within kink and play while still remaining fully consensual, and why clear communication is always essential. Lexi and Eve also highlight how these communities can serve as spaces for empowerment, particularly for women exploring their sexuality on their own terms.

The episode concludes with a roleplay segment that demonstrates what healthy, explicit consent conversations actually look like in practice, offering listeners a grounded example of communication in action.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between ethical non-monogamy and abusive dynamics

• Why consent and communication are non-negotiable in lifestyle spaces

• How safety practices help create responsible adult environments

• The role of power dynamics in consensual kink and play

• How ethical non-monogamy can support sexual empowerment

• What real consent conversations sound like in practice

• How to distinguish healthy exploration from coercion

Connect With the Guest

Lexi Sylver

Lifestyle Educator, Author & Coach

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

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In this powerful Friday series episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve explores the difference between being a passive receiver and an active participant in your sex life—and why this shift can completely transform your experience of pleasure, confidence, and embodied sexuality.

Eve breaks down how subtle changes in awareness and movement can help you reconnect with your body, including simple techniques like hip engagement, pelvic tilts, breathwork, and Kegel exercises. She also emphasizes the importance of understanding your own anatomy and building confidence through solo exploration and practice.

The conversation expands beyond sex, inviting listeners to consider how presence, agency, and embodiment influence every area of life. This episode is a call to step into your power, take up space in your body, and show up more fully in intimacy and beyond.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between passive receiving and active participation in sex

• How movement and breath can enhance pleasure and sensation

• Simple techniques like pelvic tilts and Kegels for body awareness

• Why solo exploration builds confidence in partnered sex

• The importance of understanding your own anatomy

• How presence and embodiment increase pleasure and connection

• Why sexual agency translates into everyday empowerment

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this bold and emotionally rich episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with reality TV star Lanette West from MILF Manor for an honest conversation about sexuality, healing, and self-love.

Lanette opens up about her experience on reality television, including the realities behind filming a provocative dating show, navigating personal boundaries on set, and what it means to publicly reclaim identity in a highly sexualized environment. Together, she and Eve explore how labels like “MILF” can be redefined and reclaimed as a source of confidence and empowerment rather than shame.

The conversation also goes deeper into Lanette’s personal journey through divorce, dating, and rebuilding intimacy afterward. She shares her experiences with modern dating apps, navigating emotional connections, and learning to trust herself again after major life transitions.

Lanette also speaks candidly about her recovery journey, including her mental health challenges, addiction, and reaching over 1,000 days of sobriety. This becomes a powerful thread throughout the episode as she reflects on healing, self-worth, and the role pleasure and self-acceptance can play in recovery.

This episode is a raw, real, and inspiring exploration of resilience, identity, and the freedom that comes from owning your story without shame.

What You’ll Learn

• How reality TV shapes and challenges personal boundaries

• What reclaiming sexual labels like “MILF” can mean

• The realities of dating after divorce and starting over

• How addiction recovery intersects with identity and self-worth

• Why shame blocks pleasure, connection, and healing

• How self-love supports emotional and sexual recovery

• The importance of boundaries in dating and intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Lanette West

Reality TV Star (MILF Manor)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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In this deeply empowering episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with trauma therapist Laurel Roberts Meese for an honest and supportive conversation about sexuality, sexual trauma, healing, and how to navigate intimacy with care, understanding, and communication.

Laurel explains that sexual trauma is not about sex itself, but about power, and explores how that distinction is essential for both survivors and their partners to understand. Together, she and Eve discuss the emotional complexity of disclosing trauma, and how creating a safe, non-judgmental space can make all the difference in building trust and connection.

The conversation also offers practical guidance for partners on how to respond when trauma is shared, what language supports healing versus harm, and how to recognize trauma responses during intimacy. Tools such as sensate focus are introduced as ways to gently rebuild safety, connection, and pleasure in the body over time.

This episode is a compassionate reminder that healing is possible, communication is essential, and survivors deserve both agency and pleasure in their relationships.

What You’ll Learn

• Why sexual trauma is about power, not sex

• How to safely disclose trauma to a partner

• What supportive responses to trauma disclosure look like

• How to recognize trauma responses during intimacy

• How sensate focus can help rebuild safety and connection

• Why communication is essential in healing relationships

• How survivors can reclaim agency, boundaries, and pleasure

Connect With the Guest

Laurel Roberts Meese

Trauma Therapist

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

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