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One of the most common questions Shandy has received over the years has been around keeping the *SPARK* alive in a long term relationship. Who better to help us answer that age old question than legendary writer and sex educator Emily Nagoski, PhD! You know Emily for "Come As You Are", the mega bestseller that—no biggie—REDEFINED WOMEN'S SEXUALITY. Her latest book, "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections", could not be more on topic for today's conversation!

Today Emily teaches how to navigate mismatched libidos, expert tips for orgasming, the 4 big questions couples need to ask themselves, and how to find time for sexy time in a schedule full of to-do lists! Do not miss this one!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Emily Nagoski!

3:29 - Long Term Relationship Sex Myths

7:34 - Mismatched Libidos

12:57 - Creating Context/The 4 Questions

15:59 - When You Wish You Wanted It More

17:43 - Sense Of Obligation

26:38 - Orgasm

41:12 - Control

43:51 - Long Term Relationships

48:10 - Body Confidence

50:36 - Emily’s Vibrator Picks

52:58 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 2 of Grant Ellis' season!

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2:38 - Episode 2 Kick Off

4:06 - Group Date #1

21:13 - The Next Day

21:48 - Alexe’s 1-On-1

27:53 - Group Date #2

38:20 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

40:47 - Rose Ceremony

42:58 - Andy’s A-Game

44:33 - Fashion

46:10 - Shandy Word Watch

48:40 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by The Golden Bachelorette herself, the one and only Joan Vassos, and her fiancé, Chock Chapple!

Today Joan and Chock chat apartment hunting in NYC, their early relationship hurdle, and of course, how they fight! Plus, Andy gets to ask Chock about his name! Finally, a delightfully juvenile Newlyweds Game that will have you laughing! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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0:00 - Welcome To Joan & Chock!

2:08 - The Name Chock

4:47 - Was It Love At First Sight?

8:34 - Three Adjectives

10:38 - New York & Decorating

13:28 - How They Complement Each Other

18:33 - How They’re Different Than They Imagined For Themselves

24:15 - Early Hurdle

30:16 - How They Fight

34:41 - Beliefs That Have Changed

42:02 - The Newlyweds Game

52:17 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

2:48 - Episode 1 Kick Off

12:07 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails

18:57 - Grant’s Toast

19:59 - Notable 1-On-1 Time

44:11 - First Impression Rose

44:26 - Rose Ceremony

44:36 - Previews

45:28 - Andy’s A-Game

47:01 - Fashion Police

49:36 - Shandy Word Watch

53:06 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick Nick Tramontin's brain since we recapped his season of The Ultimatum, and that day is officially here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled everyone's favorite Tortured Artist agreed to join us!

Today Nick shares the most common misconceptions about him, whether or not he thinks Netflix plied him with alcohol on purpose, his HONEST thoughts on Sandy, Mariah and Vanessa. We also find out whether or not it's possible to make great art without being a little bit "tortured". Bonus: We get the dirt on Bob Ross and Nick judges Andy's own "La Banane" painting! 🍌 We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Nicholas Tramontin!

1:50 - Why He Went On The Ultimatum

5:30 - Did He Really Want To Marry Sandy?

7:15 - Have He And Sandy Ever Been To A Swingers Party?

8:12 - What Did He Learn About Himself?

9:26 - Does He Feel Like The Show Preyed On Him Regarding Alcohol?

10:45 - What Response Has Surprised Him?

11:07 - Vanessa

15:25 - What Did He Expect To Happen?

16:05 - His Homeschooling

16:57 - Does He Wish He’d Left The Show

18:21 - Mariah

20:20 - What Has He Learned About Human Nature?

22:28 - Most Common Misconception

27:54 - His Art

32:25 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Tortured?

34:48 - Does He Feel His Paintings From The Show Were Some His Better Work?

35:50 - Is It Ever Hard Letting His Art Go?

38:08 - Who Is His Favorite Artist?

41:00 - “Dating An Artist Is Hard” & The Creation Of Art

43:45 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Sensitive?

44:30 - Dogs

45:39 - His Girlfriend

46:39 - Does He Feel Gratitude To Sandy?

47:47 - Rapid Fire

49:49 - Does He Believe In Ultimatums?

51:05 - Is He A Cuckold?

51:45 - Shandy Debrief

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Happy 2025, Shandies!!! We're excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... we're back with volume 5 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks!

We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!

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0:00 - Housekeeping & News

6:05 - Episode 91, from Caller Kiera: “My Boyfriend’s Sister Is Increasingly Rude To Me—Should I Confront Her?”

9:44 - Episode 133, Q1 from Jess: “I Always Seem To Catch The Ick From My Dates—Am I Being Too Picky?”

14:42 - Episode 184, Q5 from Anonymous: “The Guy I’ve Been Seeing For 1.5 Years Won’t Commit—Snap Me Out Of It”

19:07 - Episode 189, Q4 from Liz: “I Am In Love With A Man 28 Years Older—Am I Wasting My Youth?”

31:10 - Episode 231, Q4 from Maybe Shallow: “I Love My Husband Except For One Cosmetic Flaw—Should I Bring It Up Or Am I Just Shallow?”

35:29 - Episode 304, Q1 from One Bored Babe: “Does Healthy = Boring?”

41:55 - Episode 307, Q3 from Triply Baffled: “Strangers Constantly Ask Me A Question I Hate—How Should I Respond?”

45:55 - Episode 313, Q6 from Sarah P: “My Aunt’s Sold A Belonging Of My Grandparents’ That I Really Wanted—Should I Let This Grudge Go?”

58:35 - Episode 321, Q1 from Passenger Princess: “Is Imitation—Of My Bumble Profile—Really Flattery?”

1:02:42 - Episode 340, Q4 from Songless Bird: “My Boyfriend Dislikes My Singing So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter?”

1:05:57 - Episode 346, Q4 from KB: “I’m The Paparazzi In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help!”

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by Love Is Blind's latest (and coolest) power couple: the iconic Taylor Krause and Garrett Josemans, now the Josemans-Krauses!

Today Taylor and Garrett chat their true first impressions of one another, the early relationship hurdle they're still navigating, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a competitively uncompetitive Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Garrett And Taylor!

2:04 - Their Surnames

7:13 - First Impressions & How Those Have Changed

12:47 - How They Complement Each Other

17:13 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves

22:10 - Early Hurdle

31:53 - Having A 5 Year Plan

33:19 - How They Fight

36:32 - Common Misconceptions

39:36 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

42:39 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game

57:25 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps, *finally* recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the third batch of season 3, aka the Finale and Reunion!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:51 - Cliffhanger: Sandy & JR

10:44 - Ultimatum: Zaina & JR

14:37 - Ultimatum: Mariah & Caleb

20:34 - Ultimatum: Sandy & Nick

29:54 - Ultimatum: Aria & Scotty

33:58 - Reunion: Mariah & Caleb

39:54 - Reunion: Aria & Scotty

46:23 - Reunion: Zaina & JR

56:26 - Nail QR code

58:57 - Vanessa & Dave

1:14:57 - Reunion: Sandy & Nick

1:19:53 - Final Thoughts

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It's our last non-recap episode of 2024 and today's all about reflecting on past year! In keeping with tradition, we're answering YOUR questions about our personal bests and worsts of 2024. THANK YOU, lovely Shandies, for yet another year of being the friends we've never met (but in some cases have!) Happy, happy holidays and see you in 2025!

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0:00 - Introduction

4:01 - Favorite Place Visited

8:07 - Best Animal Encounter

9:17 - Favorite Meal

10:14 - Best Movie

11:00 - Best Escape Room

12:19 - Best Experience

16:09 - Favorite Pair Of Andy’s Socks

16:20 - Best Food With Cheese Eaten

19:34 - Best Thing You Spent Money On

21:28 - Worst Movie

23:21 - Worst Book

26:25 - Least Favorite Show That We Recapped

26:35 - Biggest First World Problem

28:53 - Worst Reality TV Villain

30:26 - Biggest Podcast-Related Lesson Learned

38:23 - Most Memorable Fan Encounter 

41:38 - Will You Consider Becoming Full-Time Podcasters in 2025?

44:53 - Hardest Lesson

49:00 - New Routines

54:40 - Proudest Moment

57:15 - F*ck, Marry, Kill: Japan, Ireland, New Zealand?

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps, *finally* recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the second batch of season 3, aka episodes 6-8!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:43 - Trial Marriages, Cont’d

2:01 - Zaina & Scotty

7:54 - Aria & Caleb

11:33 - Sandy & JR

17:29 - Nick

24:17 - The Changeover

37:55 - Second Trial Marriages

38:46 - Sandy & Nick

53:01 - Zaina & JR

1:00:19 - Mariah & Caleb

1:04:07 - Aria & Scotty

1:10:40 - Shandy’s Predictions

1:11:51 - Who We Think Is The Cuckold Couple

1:12:55 - Who We Would Go For

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your maid of honor feels you should have a dry wedding to accommodate your mutual friend, are you the A-hole for taking issue with that? Is it normal for your boyfriend to follow numerous "Instagram models", or is it just today's culture? If you dig up past dirt on your husband's phone, who's more wrong: him for lying, or you for spying? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:18 - Q1: My Maid Of Honor Thinks I Should Have A Dry Wedding To Accommodate Our Mutual Friend—Help!

7:45 - Q2: I Hate That My Boyfriend Follows Several Instagram Models—Am I Overreacting?

24:01 - Q3: I’ve Sleuthed My Husband’s Phone And Found A Past I Can’t Get Over—Help!

43:52 - Q4: I Can’t Stand My In-Laws’ Gift Giving Etiquette—Am I Wrong?

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Shandies, you asked, and you shall receive! By VERY popular demand, Shandy is recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 3, episodes 1-5!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

4:05 - Introduction

11:37 - Couples’ Final Night Together

14:44 - Speed Dating

19:02 - Dating Week

29:08 - The Choice

33:10 - Trial Marriages

1:07:25 - Girls’ Night/Boys’ Night

1:14:50 - Shandy’s Predictions

1:18:09 - Who We Think Is The Cuckold Couple

1:18:49 - Who We Would Go For

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Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the FINALE and REUNION for season 7, aka episodes 10-12!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:20 - Alex & Tim

9:47 - Hannah & Nick

31:13 - Marissa & Ramses

48:10 - Reunion: Monica & Stephen

50:07 - Reunion: Leo & Brittany

51:23 - Ashley & Tyler

1:04:03 - Garrett & Taylor

1:09:45 - Special Announcement

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HAPPY THANKSGIVING, SHANDIES!!! It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! We're all told not to quit growing up, but when you're an adult making adult decisions, is it ok to be a "quitter"? Is there anything wrong with a "sexless" but otherwise happy marriage? And if your friend who owes you $1000 then has the audacity to ghost you, what should you do? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

4:50 - Q1: Is It OK To Be A Quitter?

10:58- Q2: Is A Sexless Marriage Destined For Failure?

25:20 - Q3: My Friend Owes Me $1000 And Is Now Ghosting Me—Help!

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Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 7-9!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

4:51 - Garrett & Taylor

18:08 - Monica & Stephen

36:10 - Marissa & Ramses

1:02:29 - Hannah & Nick

1:14:10 - Ashley & Tyler

1:25:39 - Who We Would Go For

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Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by not one, but TWO lovely callers: Sally and Cat! Sally's situation is from several years ago but she still wonders if she was the A-hole for sharing what her husband told her about their mutual acquaintance. Where is the line when it comes to "breaking" the Bro Code, and are you the A-hole if you're the one to then share that information? Cat, meanwhile, is at a crossroads with two platonic friendships. She has felt disappointed by both friends, and being a direct person, she's willing to air her grievances head on. But with the passing of time and different priorities, are some friendships simply meant to fade? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sally!

21:21 - Shandy Debrief

26:22 - Welcome To Caller Cat!

56:49 - Shandy Debrief

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Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 1-6!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

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16:12 - Ashley A & Tyler

25:13 - Monica & Stephen

40:06 - Marissa & Ramses

48:41 - Alex & Tim

1:01:40 - Leo & Brittany

1:12:09 - Hannah & Nick

1:34:23 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand Finale of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:34 - Finale Kick Off

10:25 - Bora Bora

43:55 - After The Final Rose

50:08 - Grant

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find out your therapist used to be your mother's therapist, should you "break up" with them, and if so, how? If your friend keeps asking bothersome requests of you, is there a way to get them to stop? If your partner is against marriage, is that a dream you should let go? And if you tend to play photographer to your friend group but are saddened when they never seem to reciprocate, is this a fixable friendship dynamic? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - A Very Random Introduction

3:15 - Q1: How Do I Break Up With My Therapist?

11:15 - Q2: How Do I Get My Friend To Stop Asking Me This Question?

21:04 - Q3: I Love My Partner But She Never Wants Marriage Or Kids—How Do I Bury These Dreams?

32:38 - Q4: I’m The “Paparazzi” In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help!

52:18 - Q5: How Do I Befriend My Online Match-Turned-Coworker?

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All for the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:18 - Men Tell All

36:50 - Bloopers

41:30 - Preview

44:02 - Andy’s A-Game

46:52 - Shandy Word Watch

48:34 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

5:36 - Episode 7 Kick Off

11:58 - Guy’s Overnight

39:45 - Pascal

42:04 - Pascal’s Overnight

51:51 - Andy’s A-Game

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find yourself in a flirty dynamic with your (married) boss, is this pre-mistress territory? If your sister is interested in your brother-in-law but you question their compatibility, how honest should you be? If your friend sleeps with the ex of another friend of yours, is this friendship-ending messy behavior? And how do you make friends if you're not "pretty"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

4:49 - Q1: Am I About To Become The Mistress?

18:39 - Q2: My Sister Is Interested In My Brother-In-Law—What Should I Do?

29:37 - Q3: My Friend’s Recent Behavior Disgusts Me—Is She Too Messy?

45:39 - Q4: Can I Avoid Visiting My In-Laws?

1:01:40 - Q5: I Wish I Had More Friends & Think It’s Because I’m Not “Pretty”—Shandy’s Advice?

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:27 - Guy’s Hometown

13:14 - Pascal’s Hometown

28:50 - Jordan’s Hometown

37:09 - Chock’s Hometown

49:00 - Rose Ceremony

1:00:14 - Andy’s A-Game

1:00:38 - Shandy Word Watch

1:02:11 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

3:50 - Episode 5 Kick Off

12:41 - Keith’s 1-On-1

18:43 - Mark

24:55 - Back On The Date

32:58 - Group Date

39:46 - Mark’s 1-On-1

47:47 - The Next Day

50:27 - Rose Ceremony

56:06 - Andy’s A-Game

57:44 - Shandy Word Watch

1:00:36 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When in a relationship, is it inappropriate to get dinner alone with your opposite-sex friend and his parents? Is closure within reach when the object of your affection was hot and cold to begin with? And if your boyfriend tells you your singing annoys him, is that a nothing burger or dealbreaker territory? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

5:00 - Q1: In A Relationship, Is Getting Dinner Alone With An Opposite-Sex Friend And Their Parents Appropriate? 

13:00 - Q2: Should I Reach Out To My Hot-And-Cold Date For Closure?

23:20 - Q3: Am I The Asshole For Feeling Neglected By My Friend Since She Met Her New Boyfriend?

33:23 - Q4: My Boyfriend Told Me My Singing Annoys Him So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter?

55:22 - Shandy’s Favorite Flavors

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

4:15 - Episode 4 Kick Off

5:04 - Group Date

22:59 - The Next Day

26:00 - Jordan’s 1-On-1

33:50 - Guy’s 1-On-1

39:33 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

51:19 - Rose Ceremony

53:35 - Andy’s A-Game

54:26 - Shandy Word Watch

57:27 - Shandy’s Predictions

1:03:30 - F***, Marry, Kill

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

3:37 - Episode 3 Kick Off

6:02 - Pascal’s 1-On-1

13:18 - Sharleen’s Frant

25:14 - Group Date

39:45 - Jonathan’s 1-On-1

49:13 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

57:20 - Gerry

1:03:21 - Rose Ceremony

1:03:53 - Andy’s A-Game

1:04:09 - Shandy Word Watch

1:07:48 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you name your friend your baby's guardian but she doesn't live up to the role, is it OK to rescind the title? Does not wanting to attend your friends' kids' birthday parties make you an A-hole? How to choose between Mister Nice Guy and Mister Good In Bed? And finally, the age old question: Just HOW does one go about hitting on their COUSIN?!?!! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:19 - Q1: I Celebrate My Friend’s Birthdays But She Often Forgets Mine—Is She A Hypocrite Or Are We Not As Close As I Think?

11:43 - Q2: Am I The Asshole For Not Wanting To Attend My Friend’s 2-Year Old’s Birthday Party?

16:32 - Q3: My Baby’s Guardians Have Really Disappointed Me—Can I Rescind Their Role?

37:37 - Q4: How Do I Hit On My Cousin?

46:26 - Q5: Mister Nice Guy Vs Mister Good In Bed—How Do I Choose?

59:25 - Q6: To Dye Or Not To Dye My Grey Hair?

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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3:11 - Episode 2 Kick Off

8:52 - Group Date #1

18:26 - Chock’s 1-On-1

25:34 - The Next Day

27:40 - Group Date #2

34:40 - BBQ

46:59 - Rose Ceremony

52:26 - Andy’s A-Game

55:21 - Shandy Word Watch

57:19 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere of the Golden Bachelorette!

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Time Stamps:

Coming soon!

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It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 4 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received a particularly fabulous selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of making us feel seen, understood, and like we're in the company of found family. We love you guys! Come join us in our living room to chat!

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2 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE8112889855.mp3?updated=1694627652

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:47 - What Advice Would You Give Aspiring (But Intimidated) Podcasters?

3:58 - What’s The Best, Most Non-Intrusive Way To Approach You In Person?

6:00 - If You Could Only Watch One TV Show For The Rest Of Your Life, What Would It Be?

15:38 - Is Andy Tired Of Watching The Bachelor Yet?

18:51 - Which One Of You Would Win Survivor? 

22:01 - What Animal is Truly The King Of The Jungle?

24:15 - If Asked, Would You Both Host A Reality TV Show?

25:07 - What Type Of Natural Disaster Are You Most Afraid Of?

28:31 - At 4 Years Of Podcasting, What Is More Frustrating Than When You Started And What Is Less?

35:37 - When Are Andy And Thomas Reuniting?

35:36 - When Wiping, Do You Bunch Or Fold Your Toilet Paper?

36:26 - Describe Yourself As A Kitchen Utensil

37:51 - Do You Break Your KitKats Or Bite Into Them With Disregard For The Breaking Line?

40:25 - What Is Something New That Ruby Has Brought Out In Your Relationship?

43:15 - How Did You Choose Ruby’s Name?

44:07 - I Know Sharleen Loves Video Games But Has Andy Ever Played One And Enjoyed It?

47:46 - If You Could Each Go Back And Tell Your Partner’s Younger Self Something, What Would It Be?

51:45 - How Many 3-Year Olds Do You Think You Could Fight Off Before They Overtook You?

55:29 - If You Could Drop Everything Right Now, Money Is Not An Object, Where And How Would You Go And Live?

58:40 - Thank You

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does breaking a promise more than once make you a "bad" friend? What about costing your friend $$$ because you bailed on her birthday? If your roommate won't stop "complaining" about getting hit on—after always wanting to get hit on—how should you proceed? And another GYM question!!! Woohoo! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

4:35 - Q1: Am I Delusional For Wanting To Be Friends With This Ex?

11:47 - Q2: Am I A Bad Friend If I Break My Promise Twice?

27:06 - Q3: My Friend Bailed On My Birthday Trip At The 11th Hour—How Do I Address This?

45:53 - Q4: My Roommate Keeps “Complaining” About Getting Hit On—What Should I Say?

1:05:45 - Q5: This Gym Guy Is So Honest But Also Confusing—What’s My Next Move?

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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the shocking FINALE of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

2:00 - Jenn’s Family In Hawaii

27:58 - Devin’s Final Date

30:26 - Doctor Odyssey

31:42 - Marcus

38:19 - Neil Lane

40:26 - Record Scratch

1:00:33 - Proposal

1:13:09 - Golden Bachelorette Preview

1:13:43 - Andy’s A-Game

1:19:12 - Fashion

1:22:32 - Shandy Word Watch

1:23:35 - Night One Predictions

1:24:35 - Overall Thoughts

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by a Bachelor Nation POWER COUPLE who has been married for nearly a year. You got to know Caelynn on Colton Underwood's season of The Bachelor, and Dean on Rachel Lindsay's season of The Bachelorette, but it was on season 6 of Bachelor in Paradise where we saw them escape reality TV, hand-in-hand!

Today Caelynn and Dean chat their true first impressions of one another, the ways in which their partner isn't what they might have predicted for themselves, what the biggest misconceptions about them are, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a relaxed but very fun Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome Caelynn & Dean Bell!

3:42 - Their New Surname

8:25 - First Impressions

21:13 - The Podcast

26:33 - How They Complement Each Other

33:39 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves

40:07 - How They Fight

45:22 - Common Misconceptions

52:01 - What They’ve Learned Through Working Together

58:18 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

59:15 - The Newlyweds Game

1:12:00 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're doing double, we're breaking down both Episode 8 and Men Tell All of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

0:53 - Episode 8 Kick Off

2:27 - Devin’s Overnight

12:50 - Jonathon’s Overnight

19:05 - Marcus

24:30 - Marcus’ Overnight

38:03 - Episode 9 Kick Off

41:58 - Rose Ceremony

46:00 - Men Tell All

51:00 - Sam M’s Hot Seat

56:10 - Jonathon’s Hot Seat

56:47 - Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives Promo

58:10 - Grant

1:00:53 - Jenn 

1:14:03 - Andy’s A-Game

1:14:40 - Fashion

1:19:20 - Shandy Word Watch

1:22:28 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Today's guest has come hotly requested by many of you and we're so happy to dissect the not-so-happy topic of childhood trauma with her. Anna Runkle, aka the one and only  @CrappyChildhoodFairy , is the author of the upcoming book "Re-Regulated" (releases October 1, 2024 - preorder below). She has amassed a whopping 860K+ Youtube subscribers with her content covering how to heal from Complex PTSD—or as she has coined, Childhood PTSD.

If you struggle with regulating your emotions, if you get stuck in “looping,” repetitive, negative thoughts, if you struggle with anxiety, depression or overwhelm, or if you always find yourself with unavailable or inappropriate partners, it's highly possible a childhood of neglect or abuse might be to blame. Anna knows the experience well because she lived it herself. Today she breaks down the symptoms of CPTSD as well as her tried and true techniques to regulate your emotions and regain control of your life and your relationships. Listen on to heal!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Anna Runkle, Aka The Crappy Childhood Fairy!

3:00 - What Is CPTSD?

4:18 - Loneliness And How It Relates To Childhood

5:59 - Can One Truly Heal Childhood Trauma?

7:15 - Anna’s Story

15:25 - What Do These Patterns Look Like?

17:40 - Anna’s Techniques

20:35 - Is To Heal To Find Closure Or Forgiveness?

26:25 - What An Adult Child Should Do About A Parent Who Still Exhibits The Behavior From Their Crappy Childhood

30:53 - What If The Adult Child Is The Sole Provider For That Parent?

32:50 - “My Codependent Mother Wants To Be My Friend. Is It Ok To Tell Her I Need A Parent?”

34:47 - Does Childhood Trauma Affect One’s Own Decision To Have (Or Not Have) Children?

39:00 - Anna’s Own Twice Daily Practice

44:33 - Analysis Paralysis

48:24 - “Why Don’t I Remember My Childhood?”

49:09 - Narcissism

50:16 - The Word “Because”

53:35 - The Parent’s Perspective

57:22 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7, aka Hometown Week of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

3:05 - Devin’s Hometown

14:56 - Jeremy’s Hometown

28:32 - Jonathon’s Hometown

33:42 - Marcus’ Hometown

36:34 - Pub Man Chat

42:39 - Rose Ceremony

45:43 - Previews

46:02 - Grant

48:51 - Andy’s A-Game

51:12 - Fashion

55:18 - Shandy Word Watch

59:07 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your long distance boyfriend suddenly stops texting you without warning to go play video games, is that a sign of disrespect or a silly nothing burger? If your friends say they'll visit but routinely show up late (or not at all), what's a Shandy to do? If your dating situation makes you feel like one of the final two women on The Bachelor, how long is too long to give him to make his choice? And if your friend's public breastfeeding makes you uncomfortable, is it OK to say so? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

3:04 - Q1: My Boyfriend Didn’t Make Me Feel Prioritized—Am I Overreacting?

12:21 - Q2: Our Friends Are Chronically Tardy And Have Even Stood Us Up—Help!

21:33 - Q3: I Feel Like I’m Final Two On The Bachelor—How Long Do I Give Him To Decide?

46:06 - Q4: I Told My Friend She Should Be Done Breastfeeding—AITA?

55:56 - Q5: My Brother’s Habit Is Driving Me Nuts—Tell Me What To Do, Shandy!

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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:14 - Episode 6 Kick Off

7:08 - Marcus’ 1-On-1

19:48 - Group Date

44:27 - The Next Day

46:00 - Jeremy’s 1-On-1

51:12 - The Next Day

1:04:34 - Rose Ceremony

1:05:52 - Andy’s A-Game

1:06:06 - Fashion

1:11:44 - Shandy Word Watch

1:15:36 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's that time again, Shandies!!! We're back with volume 4 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks!

We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:30 - Episode 61: Q2, from M: https://youtu.be/kNoYuDE8Pp0?si=nLXIbkxAV-AOfquD

5:54 - Episode 139: Caller Emily: https://youtu.be/wHMVz9lKNCA?si=232hcGf_EwATI4pJ

12:59 - Episode 182 - Q3, from M: https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos?si=pbqYK3YhbUFHew6H

26:01 - Episode 206: Q5, from Jess: https://youtu.be/r4HxaRb6V6o?si=vlKL7Ma_UISDEvBv

32:15 - Episode 235 - Caller Cierra: “https://youtu.be/Kb6eHaAoyKs?si=CqKfWSoOsXQQOqX8

37:19 - Episode 245 - Q1, from Anonymous: https://youtu.be/4qeFKaVTQxA?si=aYNdxdgdE6ISqHLu

44:57 - Episode 247 - Caller Elizabeth: https://youtu.be/-vDRYxqpFPs?si=aF2s7oW8YzXDKOVF

48:48 - Episode 274 - Q4, from Carlie: https://youtu.be/U9h3heqGdpQ?si=upXNLSNZ4cm7sT-X

54:18 - Episode 277 - Q4, from J: https://youtu.be/0Ry4ja3wptk?si=4zFWEjzMkytrQCxV

57:35 - Episode 281 - Q3, from Anonymous: https://youtu.be/cUZ57oKjNMk?si=61lkrg5pihkvuWQW

1:04:36 - Episode 306 - Caller Erin: https://youtu.be/T5abB9KuNIU?si=4TnKBUHQt2A51mJ7

1:08:26 - Episode 309 - Q4, from J: https://youtu.be/jOI51eF3XRs?si=Z8XbR6nEHfznFLDT

1:15:48 - Episode 316 - Q5, from L: https://youtu.be/SfJyODiCxR0?si=W9NO-Y2admzFLUkR

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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:39 - Episode 5 Kick Off

11:58 - Rose Ceremony

14:04 - The Next Day

15:28 - Jonathon’s 1-On-1

25:40 - Group Date

40:50 - Grant’s 1-On-1

45:14 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

47:41 - Rose Ceremony 2

48:15 - Previews

48:45 - Andy’s A-Game

49:43 - Fashion

57:33 - Shandy Word Watch

1:00:55 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by lovely Elaine. She's on the exciting precipice of transitioning from grad school to career, but she feels a sense of obligation to her longtime boyfriend who's followed her to support her dreams. When it comes to the sacrifices we make for a relationship, is there such a thing as quid pro quo? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Elaine!

34:39 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps, and we're joined by a very special guest, Wells Adams, bartender extraordinaire and host of Your Favorite Thing podcast! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:55 - Episode 3 Kick Off

2:53 - Spencer’s 1-On-1 

8:09 - Group Date #1

28:34 - The Next Day

28:50 - Group Date #2

32:24 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

41:48 - Rose Ceremony

43:13 - Andy’s A-Game

45:39 - Fashion

49:23 - Shandy Word Watch

52:24 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a guy you meet online copies something from your dating profile and pastes it to his while you're still dating, is it a secret message or just straight-up plagiarism? If you know you're bi-curious but your (straight) wedding isn't far away, is it now or never to act on your curiosity? And if your sister purposely reads your journal and finds the not-so-nice things you wrote about her, who's the A-hole? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:35 - Q1: Is Imitation—Of My Bumble Profile—Really Flattery?

13:17 - Q2: AITA If I Give My Friend Unsolicited Career Plan Advice?

26:58 - Q3: Might Bi-Curiosity Kill This Cat?

46:02 - Q4: I Vented About My Sister In My Journal & She Found And Read It—Help!

59:05 - Q5: To What Lengths Should My Friend Go To Get Paid Back By Her Ex?

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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:55 - Episode 3 Kick Off

2:53 - Spencer’s 1-On-1 

8:09 - Group Date #1

28:34 - The Next Day

28:50 - Group Date #2

32:24 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

41:48 - Rose Ceremony

43:13 - Andy’s A-Game

45:39 - Fashion

49:23 - Shandy Word Watch

52:24 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

4:28 - Episode 2 Kick Off

4:54 - Group Date #1

20:57 - Marcus’ 1-On-1

26:58 - Group Date #2

38:47 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

47:05 - Rose Ceremony

37:38 - Fashion

49:50 - Andy’s A-Game

51:49 - Shandy Word Watch

55:40 - Shandy's Predictions

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We're thrilled to debut a new series in our episode lineup, A Day In The Life! These are episodes dedicated to meaningful, intimate conversations with your favorite people!

Our first ever A Day In The Life guest is none other than Dave Neal, standup comedian and host of The Rush Hour podcast! This is a man who never seems to sleep, and our curiosity finally got the best of us so we decided to ask him for ourselves: Where does he find the time to do so much? What's the hardest thing about running his empire? Where is the weirdest place he's ever recorded, and what has been a "pinch me" moment in his meteoric growth? Listen on to find out!

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- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TashaAndDave

Our Love Fest with Dave and Courtney:

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Referenced video of Dave watching The Bachelor with Gilbert Galon (our producer Gabby's brother):

https://youtu.be/eDvnH94Awfs?si=rPT0Dl06I0alykw4

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Dave Neal!

6:42 - A Day In Dave’s Life

8:30 - Is It Ever Too Much?

15:22 - How Does His Online Business Affect His Comedy And Vice Versa?

18:52 - What’s The Hardest Part Of The Dave Neal Empire?

41:10 - The Clayton Echard Story

50:05 - Has He Ever Recorded In His Underwear

51:56 - Does He Have Help?

53:35 - Dave Neal Vs Reality Steve

57:35 - Imposter Syndrome

1:05:04 - Anyone He’s Been Starstruck To Have Met

1:12:38 - What Did Dave Neal Want To Be When He Grew Up?

1:14:43 - His Top 3 Podcasts 

1:18:26 - How Did A Baseball-Loving, American Shirt-Wearing, Blue-blooded American Male Get Into Reality Dating TV?

1:20:03 - Rapid Fire Questions

1:26:32 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:27 - Episode 1 Kick Off

7:04 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails

15:24 - Jenn’s Toast

15:58 - Notable 1-On-1 Time

20:17 - Truth Or Dare

22:36 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Cont’d

35:31 - First Impression Rose

37:14 - Andy’s A-Game

38:41 - Fashion

40:40 - Shandy Word Watch

43:40 - Shandy’s Predictions

53:32 - Wild Cards

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If the guy you're seeing is TOO good-looking, how to escape the insecurity spiral? If you've planned your friend's bachelorette party AND bridal shower and she can't even remember your birthday, is it worth the confrontation or does she get a bride pass? And if he was the right guy at the wrong time, when circumstances change, could the time be right? Finally, Shandy gives a pep talk to a Shandy newly out of a situationship of 14 YEARS. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:32 - Q1: The Guy I’m Seeing Is TOO Attractive—Help!

14:41 - Q2: I’ve Planned Her Bachelorette AND Bridal Shower And She Can’t Even Wish Me A Happy Birthday??

22:31 - Q3: Was It Right Guy But Wrong Timing? If So, What If Circumstances Have Changed?

33:20 - Q4: My Future Sister-In-Law Doesn’t Seem To Like Me—What Should I Do?

43:21 - Q5: I’m Newly Out Of A 14-Year On-And-Off-Again Situationship—Help Me, Shandy!

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Caller sessions are back in session! Today we're joined by two lovely callers: Our first caller, Ali, has found herself PLANNING the reunion of an old friend group. However, she's been feeling ostracized and like maybe she's outgrown this circle. Should she simply not attend the reunion that she's planned, or is that more trouble than it's worth? Our second caller, Kat, is a Shandy who we've actually met in person (in Switzerland!) Her close relationship with her aunt has been strained lately and she's not sure why or what to do. Is it better to let this sleeping dog lie, or should she confront her beloved aunt? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Ali

18:25 - Shandy Debrief

26:11 - Welcome To Caller Kat

44:23 - Shandy Debrief

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