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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:38 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 1

3:56 - Episode 1 Kick Off

9:57 - Paradise Is Open

32:18 - Jesse Threatens The Group

36:17 - Evening

36:40 - Andrew And Teddi

42:29 - Genevieve And Justin

44:23 - Andrew And Teddi, Continued

45:47 - Johnny And Hunter

46:23 - Lace

51:29 - Lace And Logan

1:02:35 - Sierra And Michael

1:04:09 - Jill

1:04:29 - Jill And Romeo

1:05:53 - Kira

1:07:43 - Kira And Romeo

1:11:07 - Kira Versus Jill

1:13:46 - The Next Day

1:14:26- Victoria F

1:14:39 - Credits

1:15:08 - Andy’s A-Game

1:16:42 - Shandy Word Watch

1:19:09 - Who We Would Go For

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you like a guy but not his pet name for you, is it worth saying something? If reconnecting with a former flame via LinkedIn has reached a roadblock, when is it OK to up the ante? Plus a classic Andy-I-Need-Your-Male-Perspective-On-This-Guy's-Intentions question! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! 

0:00 - Q1: I Like The Guy But Hate His Pet Name For Me

6:29 - Q2: What Are His Intentions?

13:45 - Q3: I’m Finding Myself Attracted To Someone I Should NOT Be Attracted To—Am I Normal?

23:04 - Q4: My Partner Keeps Making Jokes About What’s Obviously An Insecurity—Thoughts?

37:03 - Q5: Our Libidos Don’t Line Up—Thoughts?

50:37 - Q6: Rekindling With A Former Flame Via LinkedIn—Should I Try Again? 

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 12, aka the GRAND FINALE!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:35 - Finale Kick Off

3:43 - Last Week, Continued

7:14 - Rachel’s Last Date With Tino

10:32 - The Ladies Chat In Mexico

12:29 - Rachel’s Proposal

17:37 - The Breakup House: Gabby And Rachel

24:57 - The Breakup House: Tino And Rachel

48:11 - Live: Rachel 

49:27 - Live: Rachel And Tino

53:20 - Aven

57:21 - Gabby’s Proposal

1:04:03 - Live: Rachel And Erich

1:12:09 - Wrapping The Season

1:12:27 - Next Bachelor

1:16:54 - BUT WAIT THERE’S MORE

1:21:14 - Shandy Word Watch

1:21:40 - Reviewing Premiere Predictions

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Kenny Braasch (The Bachelorette, Season 16) and Mari Pepin (The Bachelor, Season 25), who you watched meet and get engaged on Bachelor In Paradise Season 7! They're now over a year into their relationship (just ask Andy about his famous bet!) and they live together in Chicago. Today they join Shandy to share their first impressions, how their 15 year age gap works for—not against—them, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game that will have you on the edge of your seat! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Kenny And Mari!

2:24 - How Familiar Were They With Each Other Before Meeting On Paradise?

5:16 - First Impressions

8:41 - How They Complement Each Other

11:29 - The Most Common Misconception About Their Relationship

16:00 - What About This Partnership Makes It Successful Versus Past Ones?

22:27 - Early Hurdle

23:14 - How They Fight

21:05 - How Do They Actively Work On Their Relationship?

32:03 - Shandy’s Bet

33:08 - Getting To Know Mari And Kenny

38:48 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

41:41 - The Newlyweds Game

1:04:45 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 11, aka the Finale, Part 1!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:37 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 11

4:17 - Episode 11 Kick Off

4:54 - Zach Speaks With Rachel

11:16 - Rose Ceremony

12:39 - Live: Zach And Rachel

18:46 - Aven Meets Rachel’s Family

32:21 - Rachel Chats With Her Friends

37:02 - Rachel Chats With Aven

47:34 - Erich Meets Gabby’s Family

51:15 - Tino Meets Rachel’s Family

56:46 - Aven’s “Last Shot”

1:06:04 - Rachel

1:11:54 - Live: Aven And Rachel

1:14:00 - Gabby’s Final Date With Erich

1:22:24 - Shandy Word Watch

1:24:13 - Shandy's Predictions

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It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Hanna, is happily married with 3 young children. Everything's as it should be in their very small town, but she feels drawn to nurture her personal and social lives with a move elsewhere. Sounds simple enough, but when she considers one option, she can't help but weigh the pros of the other. At what point does a fear of a choice not taken become a fear of making any choice at all? Listen on for the Shandy take!

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Hanna!

50:43 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 9 and 10, aka Fantasy Suites Part 1 and 2!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 9 & 10

2:45 - Episode 9 Kick Off

5:45 - Erich’s Overnight

10:13 - Evening

13:36 - The Next Morning

16:35 - Meanwhile, Tino

16:53 - Aven’s Overnight

18:06 - Meanwhile, Jesse Chats With Tino

22:44 - Evening

26:50 - The Next Morning

27:59 - Tino’s Overnight

29:30 - Evening

33:39 - Johnny’s Overnight

39:30 - Jesse Chats With Jason

40:43 - Erich

55:11 - Episode 10 Kick Off

59:44 - Gabby Chats With Jesse

1:02:09 - Jason’s Overnight

1:05:20 - Evening

1:17:49 - The Next Morning

1:19:00 - Gabby Chats With Jason

1:24:19 - Zach’s Overnight

1:25:47 - Evening

1:26:27 - The Next Morning

1:29:29 - Zach Chats With Jesse

1:32:35 - Rose Ceremony

1:33:49 - Gabby Visits Erich

1:35:16 - Cliffhanger

1:36:35 - Andy’s A-Game

1:37:30 - Shandy Word Watch

1:39:43 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 2 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and you sure delivered with quite the variety of Qs about this podcast, our relationship, and in general, our thoughts on a ALL THE THINGS. Thank you, Shandies, for another year of making us feel so seen, understood, and appreciated. Come join us in our living room to chat!

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:24 - Who Is On Each Of Your Celebrity Hall Pass Lists?

5:59 - Do You Have An All-Time Favorite Podcast Episode?

8:19 - Would You Ever Do A Live Show?

9:28 - What’s Something Your Partner Does That Instantly Calms You?

11:09 - What Have Been Your Favorite Places To Travel To Together?

12:17 - Will You Always Live In New York?

14:38 - Does Traveling Together Test Your Relationship?

15:48 - What Were Your Top 3 Dating Dealbreakers?

20:44 - Didn’t You Guys Have A Cat At One Time?

24:05 - If You Could Have Any Animal As A Pet, What Would It Be?

25:00 - What’s The Most Annoying Thing About Having A Podcast?

33:30 - Do You Follow The News? How Do You Deal With All The Bad Things Happening In The World?

35:50 - What Has Been Your Weirdest Fan Encounter?

40:48 - I Can’t Imagine Andy Living In San Francisco. Why Did He Move There?

46:06 - How Did Sharleen Come To Be An Opera Singer And If She Could Do Anything Else, What Would It Be?

55:55 - What Are Your Favorite Quirks About Each Other?

1:02:20 - Could We Hear Your Thoughts On Your Age Difference?

1:05:35 - What Are Your Thoughts On Aliens, Ghosts, And The Supernatural?

1:18:06 - Thank You

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Aven's Hometown and Men Tell All.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

0:57 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 8/Men Tell All

1:57 - Episode 8 Kick Off

3:52 - Aven’s Hometown

10:53 - Evening

14:15 - “Rose Ceremony”

14:45 - Men Tell All Kick Off

22:28 - Chris

24:46 - Hayden

26:20 - Logan

34:14 - Nate

38:50 - Paradise

39:44 - Jesse

41:56 - Gabby And Rachel Arrive

42:07 - Mario

44:18 - Jordan V

44:45 - Jacob

45:19 - Tyler

46:19 - Shameless Movie Plug

49:11 - Shandy Word Watch

50:55 - Predictions

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend accidentally sees your fetish in your search history, should you address it or leave it be? Is it worth it to explore a crush on your tutor? And is a relationship with a man 25 years older doomed to fail? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! 

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0:00 - Q1: How Should I Break Up With Him If I’d Have To Travel To Do It In Person?

11:18 - Q2: Does He Only Want What He Can’t Have?

24:37 - Q3: I Exchanged A Gift My Boyfriend’s Mother Gave Me And Now She Won’t Drop It—What Should I Do?

40:12 - Q4: My Boyfriend Saw My Fetish In My Search History And Now I Want To Hide Forever 

51:21 - Q5: I’ve Had A Longtime Crush On My Tutor—Should I Make Move?

1:04:44 - Q6: I’m Dating A Man 25 Years Older—Are We Doomed To Fail?

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping (And Other Tangents)

3:25 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 7

4:13 - Episode 7 Kick Off

5:53 - Jason’s Hometown

10:24 - Evening

14:12 - Zach’s Hometown

15:21 - Evening

23:00 - Johnny’s Hometown

25:26 - Evening

29:06 - Tyler’s Hometown

42:53 - Erich’s Hometown

50:36 - Evening

53:09 - Tino’s Hometown

1:10:05 - Credits

1:10:36 - Andy’s A-Game

1:10:55 - Shandy Word Watch

1:13:06 - Predictions: Gabby

1:14:53 - Predictions: Rachel

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Blake Horstmann (The Bachelorette, Season 16) and Giannina Gibelli (Love Is Blind, Season 1), who met filming Paramount Plus' All-Star Shore! They share how familiar they were with each other prior, some early hurdles post-filming, how they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a questionable Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game but all's well that ends well! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome Blake And Giannina!

4:19 - Were They Familiar With Each Other Before Meeting On All-Star Shore?

6:13 - First Impressions

12:07 - Do They Think The Powers That Be Intended For Them To Meet?

14:13 - How They Complement Each Other

22:19 - What’s The Most Common Misconception About Their Relationship?

24:21 - How They Fight

27:01 - What Was An Early Hurdle In Their Relationship?

29:44 - What Has It Been Like Being Exposed To The Other’s Dating Show Culture?

33:25 - What Makes This Relationship Successful Versus Past Relationships?

42:32 - The Newlyweds Game

59:29 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 6

2:24 - Episode 6 Kick Off

4:00 - 1-On-1 Date Cards

7:20 - Jesse Chats With The Bachelorettes

10:03 - Nate’s 1-On-1 With Gabby

15:46 - Zach’s 1-On-1 With Rachel

25:57 - Evening

33:37 - Gabby Visits Her Guys

35:24 - Gabby’s Group Date

40:21 - Evening (aka Logan)

44:58 - Rachel’s Group Date

46:52 - Evening

58:47 - The Next Day

1:02:22 - Rose Ceremony

1:06:57 - Andy’s A-Game

1:07:45 - Shandy Word Watch

1:10:56 - Predictions: Gabby

1:13:09 - Predictions: Rachel

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It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Abby, has a family dynamic she has been navigating her entire adult life. While her parents divorced well over a decade ago, her father continues to badmouth Abby's mother and stepfather while deflecting his responsibility in the marriage's demise. Should Abby just "keep the peace" by continuing to bite her tongue, or is it time for a confrontation? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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0:00 - Welcome To Caller Abby!

40:55 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.

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Time Stamps:

00:41 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 5

01:41 - Episode 5 Kick Off

2:30 - Logan Visits Rachel

7:47 - Rachel’s Group Date

9:15 - Jesse Visits Rachel

13:42 - Logan Visits Gabby

17:36 - Gabby Visits Rachel

28:00 - Evening

31:24 - Gabby’s Group Date

34:50 - Evening

44:15 - Aven’s 1-On-1 With Rachel

45:29- Evening

50:07 - Johnny’s 1-On-1 With Gabby

51:30 - Evening

55:16 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

56:51 - Rose Ceremony

58:29 - Andy’s A-Game

59:50 - Shandy Word Watch

1:02:13 - Predictions: Gabby

1:05:58 - Predictions: Rachel

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Today's conversation has been a loooong time coming! So many of your questions over the last 2 years have swirled around whether or not to become a parent, or seeking #parenthoodclarity. Since Shandy is far from qualified to give you advice on the matter, we're thrilled to be joined by clarity coach Keltie Maguire who also happens to be #ChildfreeByChoice. Obviously none of us can answer this deeply personal question for you, but what we can do is have a conversation. We chat about everything from how Keltie came to make her decision, the shades of grey of uncertainty, "but who will look after you when you're old", and our thoughts on regret. Just as this is personal for you, it's personal for Shandy, too, so please respect us and each other when discussing.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Clarity Coach Keltie Maguire!

3:07 - Getting To Know Keltie

5:03 - When And How Did She Decide To Be Childfree?

14:07 - Does She Get This Question As A Clarity Coach?

17:30 - How Much Does She Think Her Lifestyle Has Informed Her Decision?

20:30 - Her Thoughts On The Following: "Having a baby is like getting a tattoo on your face. You really need to be certain it’s what you want before you commit.”

24:44 - Does She Find People Get Defensive When They Hear Her Choice?

26:01 - Advice For Dealing With Friends And Family Who Judge Or Don't Accept Your Choice?

29:03 - How Did Her Parents/In-Laws Handle Her Choice?

31:24 - "But You Would Make Such Great Parents"

33:36 - "But Who Will Look After You When You're Old?"

36:23 - Freedom

39:28 - The Happiness Quotient

43:27 - Why Is It Such An Emotional Topic?

45:06 - Regret

51:45 - What Are Her Husband's Feelings?

55:06 - The State Of The World

1:01:54 - Are We Overthinking This?

1:04:52 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:27 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 4

2:36 - Episode 4 Kick-Off

8:13 - France!!!

11:37 - 1-On-1 Dates

27:12 - Gabby's Group Date

35:22 - Rachel Confronts Her Guys

38:57 - Rachel's Group Date

49:36 - Logan

50:00 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

1:00:24 - Rose Ceremony

1:02:19 - Andy's A-Game

1:03:42 - Shandy Word Watch

1:05:02 - Predictions: Gabby

1:07:08 - Predictions: Rachel

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a woman is open to dating older, what should that actual bracket be on the apps? If a guy won't let you see his place, is that a red flag? And how does Sharleen *really* feel about Andy's white V-neck uniform? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! 

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0:00 - Q1: What Should Be My "Max" Age When Dating Online?

12:08 - Q2: My Boyfriend Won't Let Me Visit His Apartment—Is He Hiding Something?

26:35 - Q3: "Can Flatulence Portend The Waning Of Sexual Attraction?"

45:37 - Q4: Shandy's Thoughts On A Woman Accompanying Her Boyfriend Engagement Ring Shopping?

56:20 - Q5: How Does Sharleen Feel About Andy's White V-Neck Uniform? And Does Andy's Age Beliefs Apply To Women In Their 70s?

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:42 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 3

4:31 - Episode 3 Kick-Off

6:32 - Zach's 1-On-1 With Rachel

15:06 - Matt White (Platinum Package)

16:10 - Zach's Date, Resumed

22:29 - Erich's 1-On-1 With Gabby

34:35 - Group Date

51:08 - The Next Day

56:23 - Rose Ceremony

1:04:36 - Credits

1:05:02 - Andy's A-Game...?

1:05:54 - Shandy Word Watch

1:07:11 - Predictions: Gabby

1:08:31 - Predictions: Rachel

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Abigail Heringer (The Bachelor, Season 25) and Noah Erb (The Bachelorette, Season 16), who you saw meet and date on Bachelor In Paradise, Season 7! They share the behind-the-scenes we didn't see on Paradise, when and how Noah reached back out to Abigail post-filming, how they complement each other today, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Abigail And Noah!

1:57 - Did They Watch Each Other's Seasons and First Impressions

6:31 - How First Impressions Have Changed

9:41 - How They Complement Each Other

14:01 - The Biggest Misconceptions About Their Relationship

18:27 - Had They Not Broken Up On Camera, Would Their Edit Have Played Out Differently?

22:38 - Early Hurdle

25:15 - How Long After The Show Did They Get Back Together?

30:12 - How They Fight

39:36 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

45:21 - The Newlyweds Game

1:04:50 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

4:00 - Episode 2 Kick-Off

5:39 - Group Date/"Pageant Of Sorts"

9:15 - Evening

14:12 - Jordan V's 1-On-1 With Rachel

20:27 - Evening

25:46 - Nate's 1-On-1 With Gabby

28:12 - Evening

32:12 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

34:29 - Chris

42:43 - Rose Ceremony

45:21 - Andy's A-Game

46:04 - Shandy Word Watch

48:56 - Predictions: Gabby

52:20 - Andy's A-Game Revisited

54:05 - Predictions: Rachel

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It's a 2-for-1 Caller Day! Today's first caller, Nicki, is in the thick of wedding planning, and while she and her fiancé agree on just about everything, they don't see eye to eye on wedding vows. He wants to opt out of writing them at all. Should she insist or prioritize his comfort zone?

Our second caller, Kate, finds herself involved in a confusing "friendship", years after extricating herself from the emotionally manipulative ex they have in common. How should she handle this relationship, and should she be concerned by the old emotions that still seem to linger? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Nicki!

23:35 - Shandy Debrief

32:00 - Welcome To Caller Kate!

1:04:06 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:42 - Overall Thoughts

9:08 - Intro Videos (Or Lack Therof)

9:58 - Opening

13:46 - Night One

19:36 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails

26:13 - Notable 1-On-1 Time

41:10 - First Impression Roses

42:25 - Eliminations

50:39 - Rose Ceremony

52:33 - Credits

53:04 - Andy's A-Game (New Segment!)

55:23 - Shandy Word Watch

57:49 - Predictions: Gabby

1:06:02 - Wild Cards: Gabby

1:07:21 - Predictions: Rachel

1:12:50 - Wild Cards: Rachel

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a dealbreaker if a guy asks you to Venmo him for your first date together? Is it reasonable to expect your date to be as invested in safe sex as you are? Where's the line between sharing the laughs and respecting your partner? Finally, a beautiful letter written by a Shandy. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! 

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0:00 - Q1: My Date Asked Me To Venmo Him Back For Our First Date—Is This Weird?

11:40 - Q2: How Can I Make Sure HIs Parents Like Me?

24:50 - Q3: I'm East Asian And My New Guy Has A History Of Mainly Dating East Asians—Am I Being Fetishized? 

38:18 - Q4: Is It Reasonable In A New Relationship To Expect Both Partners To Make An Equal Effort In Protection?

56:37 - Q5: My Boyfriend's Upset I Shared His "Personal Medical Information" With Our Friends—Am I The Asshole?

1:09:49 - A Shandy's Letter

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It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Emily, is at her wit's end. Her boyfriend still lives with his ex, and while he has his reasons, she's wondering how patient she should be. At what point is having empathy detrimental to our own selves, and is this relationship automatically doomed by its rocky start? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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49:06 - Shandy Debrief

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This is Sharleen's all-time favorite Hot Topic conversation. You will probably also learn more about Andy's mind and thought process here than in any other episode Shandy's ever done. Are you deeply moved by sad music? Do you find comfort in a rainy day? Does the word "poignant" resonate with you? If you answered "yes" to these, you just may be the Bittersweet type. (Spoiler alert: so are both Sharleen and Andy!) According to our esteemed guest, author Susan Cain: "Bittersweetness is a tendency to states of long­ing, poignancy, and sorrow; an acute aware­ness of passing time; and a curiously piercing joy at the beauty of the world." She argues there's great power in the bittersweet outlook on life and why our society has been so blind to its value. We discuss everything from being inherently melancholic in a happiness-obsessed culture, to navigating being a Bittersweet type's partner, to several existential questions of Andy's.To say this episode was a highlight of Shandy's near two years of podcasting is an understatement. And be sure to listen to the Shandy Debrief to understand why speaking with Susan meant so much to Sharleen!

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0:00 - Welcome To Our Esteemed Guest, Author Susan Cain!

3:21 - What Does “Bittersweet” Mean?

4:35 - What Strengths And Weaknesses Do Bittersweets Have And How Do Those Play Out In Relationships?

6:56 - Advice For Non-Bittersweets In Relationships With Bittersweets?

9:50 - Is There A Correlation Between Bittersweetness And Introversion?

11:24 - Sad Songs And Lullabies And Fragility And Mortality

21:35 - Are Some People More Predisposed To Melancholy And Is It Cultural?

26:41 - Is Sadness More Potent An Emotion Than Happiness Or Contentment?

29:27 - Is There A Correlation Between Bittersweetness And Intelligence?

31:37 - Is It Possible To Be Truly Happy And A Great Artist?

33:55 - Are We Sadder Than We Would Be If We Weren’t In A Happiness-Obsessed Society?

35:53 - What Might Bittersweetness Or Melancholy Actually Be Depression?

38:14 - How Can One Overcome The Fear Of Joy When Joy Is Fleeting And The Loss Of Joy Hurts More Than Joy Itself?

40:22 - Is It Possible To Let Go Of All Of Life’s What-Ifs?

42:00 - Is Ignorance Of The Bittersweet Bliss, Or Is Bliss Discovered Through The Bittersweet?

43:57 - Without Death, Would There Be Human Motivation To Do Anything Ambitious?

45:29 - Andy’s Dark “Would You Rather” Question

52:14 - Awareness Versus Acceptance Of Importance

54:13 - Is One Of The Reasons For Today’s Prevalence Of Mental Health Issues Because Parents Are Not Giving Children A Proper Version Of Reality?

57:46 - Her Advice For Finding Purpose And Motivation After A Long Period Of Sadness

1:00:05- From A Shandy: “I Feel The Most Sadness After I Make A Big Life Decision, Even When I know It’s The Right Choice. Why Is This?”

1:03:49 - Tips For How To Not Absorb Others’ Grief

1:05:14 - Another Existential Question Of Andy’s

1:08:50 - Shandy’s Final And Self-Indulgent Question

1:13:10 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you like the guy but not his style, is it superficial to want to change it? Andy has long said the "maturity threshold" for men is age 36—does he have an age equivalent for women? And is refusing to go down on your partner a potential dealbreaker in the world of dating? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! 

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0:00 - Q1: What Is The Straight Woman's Equivalent To Andy's "You're Not A Mature Man Until Age 36"?

11:12 - Q2: When Can I Tell My Friend She Sucks At Dating?

26:44 - Q3: I Have Zero Interest In Giving A Blowjob—Shandy's Thoughts?

39:59 - Q4: I Was A Covid Bride And Can't Decide If We Should Have A Wedding Do-Over—Shandy's Thoughts?

54:51 - Q5: I Like My New Guy But I Hate His Style—Am I Superficial For Wanting To Change It?

1:01:16 - Q6: My Husband And I Squabble Over The Fact That I Don't Like Hanging With His Friend—Thoughts?

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by a true ambassador for body positivity, Sarah Nicole Landry, and her partner in crime, her husband Shane Landry.

You already know Sarah from her massive The Birds Papaya empire, spanning her Instagram, blog, app, and podcast, and we're thrilled Shane agreed to join so we could talk the dynamics of their partnership in true Shandy fashion! We learn about their "high school"-like courtship, how parenting four (yes, FOUR!) children affects their relationship, how their prior divorces influenced their mindset in dating, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Newlyweds Game outcome we were not expecting! Who knows who better? Listen on to find out!

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0:00 - Welcome To Sarah And Shane!

3:12 - How They Met

6:01 - First Impressions

20:30 - How They Complement Each Other

25:57 - Early Hurdle

31:42 - Jealousy

36:37 - Divorce

46:35 - How They Fight

59:40 - How Parenthood Plays Into Their Partnership & How Shane Grew Into Being A Father Figure To Sarah's First 3 Children

1:06:11 - The Newlyweds Game

1:16:36 - Shandy Debrief

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And just like that... it's Caller Day again! Today's lovely caller, Taylor, was in a passionate romance that felt like The One. But when she confronted her partner about something that made her uncomfortable, things unraveled pretty quickly. Who was in the right, and did she overreact or execute poorly? And looking bigger picture, was this relationship always doomed? Listen on for the Shandy take!

0:00 - Welcome to Caller Taylor!

45:50 - Shandy Debrief

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Today we have the pleasure of speaking with Blair, the “exvangelical” brains behind @TalkPurityToMe, a humorous account dedicated to unlearning the shame taught by purity culture, both on Instagram and TikTok. Purity culture, based on the belief that sex should be had only within heterosexual marriage and that all lustful thoughts before marriage are sinful, has been a theme among our Shandies' questions, so we're excited to finally have a conversation on the topic. 

With Blair's help, we unpack everything from how to go from sex being bad to suddenly a beautiful part of marriage, navigating judgment from friends and family, and the ways in which purity culture resembles abuse. If you're currently struggling to shed the shame "purity" has cursed you with, or if you experience shame but aren't exactly sure where it comes from, today's conversation just might be for you.

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Time stamps:

0:00 - Welcome to Talk Purity To Me's Blair!

2:52 - Defining Purity Culture

4:54 - Blair's History With Purity Culture

10:10 - How Far Into Her Own "Deconstruction Process" Is She And Does She Still Struggle?

13:12 - Her First Sexual Experience

14:04 - What Inspired Her To Start An Account Dedicated To Unlearning Purity Culture?

15:35 - How Have Her Family And Friends Reacted?

20:39 - What Are The Most Common Themes She's Seen In Terms Of The Damage Purity Culture Can Cause?

23:52 - Has She Found A Stronger Response From A Particular Age Range?

24:14 - Have Any Responses She's Gotten Taken Her By Surprise?

25:48 - Are There Any Less Obvious Ways She Thinks Purity Culture Manifests?

27:05 - Tips For Shedding The Deeply Ingrained Mindset That Sex = Shame

29:17 - Do People Who Leave Purity Culture Tend To Swing In The Opposite Direction?

32:21 - Tips For Being More Open-Minded Sexually

35:53 - What Advice Would She Give To Someone Staying With Their First Sexual Partner Solely Due To Their History With Purity Culture?

40:28 - Tips For Trusting Your Intuition/Hearing That Inner Voice

42:06 - Was There A Pivotal Moment That Changed Her Mindset?

49:03 - Her Advice To Anyone Wanting To Go On Their Own "Deconstruction" Journey While Maintaining Meaningful Relationships With Loved Ones

51:30 - What Is Her Relationship With Christianity Like Today?

56:24 - Does She Think There's A Correlation Between Being Raised In Purity Culture And Difficulty Orgasming?

57:24 - Does She Consider Purity Culture A Form Of Abuse?

59:02 - Does It Ever Get Better?

1:01:07 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does "The Ick" speak to good instincts or just being overly picky? Should we trust that if a man wants to make a move, he will? Is sending an ex a letter always a bad call or are there exceptions? Finally, a great "Am I An Asshole?" question. (Turns out we like those!) Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! 

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0:00 - Q1: I Always Seem To Catch The "Ick" From My Dates—Am I Being Too Picky?

18:31 - Q2: Is "If He Wanted To, He Would?" Always True?

33:08 - Q3: My Engagement Ended Recently And I Want To Send My Ex A Letter—Yay or Nay?

57:32 - Q4: I'm Dating A Guy My Girlfriend Introduced Me To And She Doesn't Speak To Me Anymore—What's Shandy's Take? 

1:18:25 - Q5: To Kill Or Not To Kill?

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by a Bachelor Nation icon, Courtney Robertson Preciado, and her husband, Humberto Preciado!

You certainly know Courtney as the winner of season 16 of The Bachelor (and the New York Times Bestselling Author of her subsequent tell-all, "I Didn't Come Here To Make Friends") and we're thrilled Humberto agreed to join for his first ever pod appearance! These lovely parents struggled finding a sitter for their 5 month old daughter, Paloma, so we get a very cute cameo partway through. :)

Today we learn how meeting in your 30s just may be reflected in a relationship, how Courtney and Humberto feel parenthood has affected their bond, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a tight race of a Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Listen on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome to Courtney and Humberto!

2:06 - How They Met

10:23 - First Impressions

15:56 - How They Complement Each Other

21:53 - Early Hurdles

26:13 - Andy Has Some Questions

27:28 - How They Fight

31:27 - How Parenthood Has Affected Their Partnership

36:57 - What's Different About This Relationship Versus Past Ones?

40:20 - Has Humberto Seen Courtney's Bachelor Season?

49:29 - Relationship Beliefs That Have Changed

54:05 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game

1:08:49 - Shandy Debrief

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Today's guest, Allison Raskin, is a New York Times best selling author and mental health advocate. Her 3rd and latest book, “Overthinking About You: Navigating Romantic Relationships When You Have Anxiety, OCD, and/or Depression” just came out on Tuesday (May 3). When we polled you, our Shandies, over on Instagram about this topic, the floodgates of messages and emails opened, so we do our best to cover the most common themes today, including when to reveal your mental health struggles in a new relationship, how to communicate your needs (and what to leave out), and how to tell the difference between your anxiety and your gut instincts. If you've ever found yourself obsessively agonizing over whether or not someone's right for you, today's conversation just might be for you.

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0:00 - Welcome To Allison Raskin!

5:19 - When Should One Share Their Mental Health Struggles With Someone They're Dating?

9:32 - The Difference Between Process And Content—How Much Should You Share?

15:43 - Where's The Line Between Unnecessary Anxiety And Listening To Your Gut?

17:28 - Attraction

21:24 - How To Combat A Lifetime Of Being Told What A "Right" Relationship Looks Like

25:21 - What If Your Partner Doesn't Know How To Help Or Understand?

28:35 - Thoughts On If One's Partner (Or Partner-To-Be) Expresses Hesitation Because Of Their OCD?

36:01 - How To Prevent Your Partner From Eventually Taking Things Personally?

39:58 - Must One Have Their Mental Health Struggles Under Control Before Dating?

41:40 - Tips For Navigating Dating When It's A Cause Of Anxiety

48:16 - What To Do If Your Partner Refuses To Help Themself?

51:43 - Advice For Couples Where Both Parties Are Struggling Individually

53:34 - Medication

57:31 - What's The Gold Star Response To Give When Your Partner Opens Up About Their Struggles To You?

58:49 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Kelsey, introduces us to a popular new term (Platonic Life Partner, or "PLP"), redefining what one's "soulmate" might look like. But Kelsey also has quite the conundrum: she has developed romantic feelings for her PLP. Are these feelings real and should she act on them, even at the risk of the special platonic bond and partnership they've developed? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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0:00 - Welcome to Caller Kelsey!

52:06 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it wrong to fantasize about other people if you're in a committed and happy partnership? If you find someone great but just can't come to find them attractive, is that worth ending things over? And just how important does Shandy find sleep compatibility? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! 

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0:00 - Q1: I'm Happily Married But Fantasize About Someone From The Gym—Help!

6:45 - Q2: Should I Tell My Friend That I Slept With Our Mutual Friend?

23:08 - Q3: My Boyfriend Talks In His Sleep And It's Affecting My Ability To Function By Day—Help!

33:12 - Q4: My Crush Is In A Relationship With A Clear Expiration Date And He's Already Emotionally Cheated With Me—Thoughts On Possibly Being The Other Woman?

56:03 - Q5: I've Been Seeing An Amazing Guy But Just Can't Find Him Attractive—Should I End It?

1:08:28 - Q6: My Boyfriend Won't Sell The Ring From His Former Engagement—Thoughts?

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's couple has been hotly requested for so many months, it's about time we brought them into the Shandy fold for a double date!

Dave Neal, standup comedian and host of the wildly popular Bachelor Nation News Youtube channel, and his fiancée, blogger Tasha Courtney, join us to chat. We learn about the long journey that led to their courtship (complete with a grand gesture or two), how their first impressions have changed, how they navigate working together, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game with the most shocking score to date. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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0:00 - Welcome to Dave and Tasha!

5:17 - How They Met

23:33 - First Impressions And If/How Those Have Changed

28:00 - What Is Different About This Relationship Versus Previous Ones?

30:13 - How Do They Fight?

34:38 - How Do They Navigate Working Together?

36:42 - How Involved Is Tasha In Dave's Bachelor Empire?

41:31 - Is Tasha Surprised By Dave's Youtube Success?

49:16 - Any Beliefs About Relationships That Have Been Changed By This One?

56:04 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game

1:09:13 - Shandy Debrief

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Today's lovely guest, Nicole Sodoma, is a seasoned divorce attorney of over two decades and the managing principal at Sodoma Law, based in Charlotte NC. Her debut book, "Please Don't Say You're Sorry: An Empowering Perspective on Marriage, Separation, and Divorce from a Marriage-Loving Divorce Attorney" will be released on May 24. She has also been through a divorce of her own, so needless to say, she's beyond qualified for today's "Confessions" episode! Nicole answers all of YOUR burning questions, and our conversation covers everything from her personal observations to (oftentimes surprising) divorce stats to invaluable life advice.

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Time Stamps

3:57 - Did She Always Want To Be A Divorce Attorney?

5:41 - If She Could Go Back In Time And Do Something Else, What Would It Be?

8:54 - Is Divorce One Of The Most Expensive Things In The World?

13:40 - What's The Average Time A Divorce Takes From Beginning To End?

16:32 - If You Get Married In One State But Reside In Another, Which State's Divorce Laws Apply?

17:22 - What Percentage Of The Divorces She's Dealt With Had Prenups? (Are Prenups In And Of Themselves An Indicator For Separation?)

23:50 - What Are The Top 3 Reasons She Sees For Divorce?

26:16 - What Percentage Of Divorces Are Amicable Versus Contentious?

29:53 - What's The Most Common Thing Couples Fight Over, And What's The Most Shocking Thing She's Seen A Couple Fight Over?

32:46 - Do Couples Ever *Not* Fight Over Custody?

36:35 - What Percentage Of Couples Who Make It To Her Office End Up Not Going Through With It?

38:10 - What's The Most Romantic Thing She's Ever Seen During A Divorce?

39:14 - How Is Debt Calculated?

42:32 - What Are Her General Thoughts On Prenups?

52:50 - How Many Years Into Marriage Are The Most Common For Divorce?

54:39 - What Are The Most Common Ages She Sees?

56:04 - What Are Some Things She Wishes Couples Would Consider Before Marriage?

59:08 - Did She Represent Herself In Her Own Divorce?

59:59 - What Are Some Red Flags She Wishes People Would Look Out For?

1:01:34 - Let's Say You Know It's Over—What Are The Best First Steps?

1:04:17 - What Advice Would You Give To Someone Going Through A Divorce Right Now?

1:06:02 - Is Marriage Worth The Risk?

1:07:42 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Caller Day! Today's call will likely be very relatable for those dating out there. Today we're joined by Lauren, a young single mom who knows what she wants and has been crystal clear in what she's looking for. However, the guy in question says one thing and does another. Is this a dealbreaker? And how much does "double dipping" affect things? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How should you proceed if you love your partner but not his very frequent, very loud hobby? Why do guys stop trying when they get the girl? And what are Shandy's thoughts on the woman proposing to the man? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! 

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0:00 - Q1: Why Do Men Stop Trying When They Get The Girl?

13:42 - Q2: I Want To Ask A Semi-Celebrity Out Via DM—Any Tips?

27:23 - Q3: I'm A Woman And Am Considering Being The One To Propose To My Boyfriend—Thoughts?

39:09 - Q4: I Have A Crush On My Manager—How Should I Make A Move Or Is It Too Risky?

50:27 - Q5: I Love My Fiancé But Can't Stand His Constant Singing—What Should I Do?

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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand finale.

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04:09 - Overall Thoughts On The Finale

04:26 - Finale Part 1 Kick Off

7:41 - The Rose Ceremony From Hell

33:37 - Clayton's Family

35:35 - Gabby Meets Clayton's Family

36:23 - Rachel Meets Clayton's Family

47:41 - Finale Part 2 Kick Off

52:06 - Susie

56:15 - The Breakup

1:05:21 - Live: Gabby

1:10:46 - The Breakup, Continued

1:13:45 - Live: Rachel

1:20:28 - The Show Resumes

1:21:41 - In The Countryside

1:25:29 - After The Final Rose

1:27:56 - Next Bachelorette

1:29:44 - Overall Thoughts

1:32:59 - Recapping Our Original Predictions

1:34:54 - Shandy Word Watch

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Parasocial relationships are defined as one-sided relationships, where one person extends emotional energy, interest and time, and the other party, the persona, is completely unaware of the other’s existence.

Have you ever wondered how the celebrity in this situation, or the "persona", feels about this dynamic? Today we're joined by accomplished actor, writer, and Youtuber Josh Peck, to chat how it feels to be on the other side. With 3.5 million Youtube subscribers, 7 million TikTok followers, 12.6 million Instagram followers, and having been on TV since age 10, it's safe to say Josh is on the receiving end of millions of parasocial relationships.

Can he even process that so many people caring about him or feeling like they know him? How does it feel to know he could be shaping the identities of so many? And does he ever feel a reverse dynamic, where he feels attached to his fans or even betrayed by them? Listen on for a fascinating discussion about human nature, our relationship with ourselves, and the strange dynamic that is parasocial relationships.

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It's Caller Day! Today's is Andy's all-time favorite call. We're joined by Fiona, who is in a one year old relationship. As things have become long distance she finds herself and her partner fighting more than usual. However, the more questions we asked, the more we learned there's more to her story and her reservations. Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down Overnights.

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0:00 - Housekeeping

2:53 - Women Tell All

4:31 - Cassidy

6:54 - Shanae

14:27 - Sarah

17:30 - Teddi

20:40 - Serene

22:33 - Clayton

29:39 - Bloopers

30:00 - Jesse's Season Recap

34:34 - Episode 9 Kick Off

37:51 - Rachel's Overnight

48:12 - Gabby's Overnight

57:27 - Susie

1:34:26 - Credits

1:35:29 - Shandy Word Watch

1:36:47 - Shandy's Predictions

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After Our Wedding Story episode, we were overwhelmed by follow-up questions. We asked if you wanted a Part 2 and you said yes! So, combining your emails, comments, DMs, and Instagram poll questions, here are our answers!

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0:00 - Introduction

1:58 - Who Was At Our City Hall Wedding?

6:47 - What Was The City Hall Process Like?

8:38 - Did Anyone Give Us a Hard Time For Doing City Hall Initially?

9:16 - Thoughts On First Look Versus Waiting Until The Aisle?

10:54 - Did Either Of Us Have Last Minute Jitters/Cold Feet?

17:59 - Advice On Plus-Ones? And What About Kids?

23:25 - Did You Take It Personally If Someone Did Not Come?

27:05 - What Was Our First Dance Song? 

29:14 - Did We Do A Choreographed Dance?

32:03 - Did We Drink?

35:19 - Thoughts On Guests Who Only Attend The Reception?

41:13 - How Did You Pick Your Photographer?

50:28 - How Did You Pick Your Wedding Party?

58:06 - How Can We Have Energy For The Bedroom That Night?

59:43 - Did Either Of Us Experience Guilt Trips From Our Families During Planning?

1:02:16 - What Did We Do For A Gift Registry?

1:03:37 - Did We Have A Honeymoon?

1:04:11 - What Did Guests Compliment The Most?

1:04:21 - What's Something You Wish You'd Had On Hand?

1:04:39 - If You Could Have A Do Over, Would You Do Anything Differently?

1:05:35 - Which Anniversary Do You Celebrate?

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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down Hometown week.

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0:00 - Housekeeping

0:34 - Overall Thoughts on Episode 8

2:13 - Susie's Hometown 

11:34 - Gabby's Hometown

32:43 - Serene's Hometown

52:46 - Rachel's Hometown

1:07:56 - Back In Los Angeles

1:08:52 - Rose Ceremony

1:09:57 - Shandy Word Watch

1:12:30 - Shandy's Predictions

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there *ever* a case to be made for keeping the engagement ring after the relationship ends? Is a DWI an absolute dealbreaker, or should one focus instead on the honesty in revealing it? And is it cause for concern if your new boyfriend reveals he misses his ex's family? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

0:00 - Q1: After A Broken Engagement, Should The Woman *Always* Return The Ring, Regardless Of Circumstance?

6:40 - Q2: Is A Recent DWI A Dealbreaker?

18:01 - Q3: Should I Still Make The Guy Chase If The First "Date" Was Virtual?

39:10 - Q4: I've Been With My Partner For 11 Years But Still Wonder About Our Mutual Friend With Whom I've Had An Emotional Affair

56:42 - Q5: My New Boyfriend Is 6 Months Out Of A 6-Year Relationship And Has Expressed Missing Parts Of That Life—Should I Be Concerned?

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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode7.

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0:00 - Housekeeping

2:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 7

3:12 - Episode 7 Kick Off

6:08 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

12:54 - Rose Ceremony

15:45 - Vienna, Austria

20:52 - Susie's 1-On-1

27:02 - Group Date

56:58 - Serene's 1-On-1

1:01:44 - Rose Ceremony

1:04:43 - Shandy Word Watch

1:06:30 - Shandy's Predictions

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Bachelor Nation's most iconic women, Krystal Nielson and her partner, Miles Bowles!

You may remember Krystal from Arie's season of The Bachelor and season 5 of Bachelor In Paradise. We learn how Krystal and Miles balance each other out, how parenthood has changed their lifestyle, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game with questionable scoring but sufficient entertainment to make it A-OK. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.

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0:00 - Housekeeping

2:29 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 6

5:29 - Episode 6 Kick Off (2-On-1 Date Resumes)

25:02 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

30:19 - Rose Ceremony

32:39 - Hvar, Croatia

35:42 - Teddi's 1-On-1

42:40 - Group Date

55:43 - The Clocktower "Date Card"

57:51 - The Next Day

59:46 - Sarah's "1-On-1"

1:06:38 - Credits

1:07:23 - Shandy Word Watch

1:09:24 - Shandy's Predictions

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Anna, newly single and looking to mingle. Her casual fling was great while it lasted, but things have taken a turn. Does this guy think he played a role in her career-driven move? Watch on for the Shandy take!

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