The Best of You

Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Genesis 37:2-24

Topics covered:

• The family wound nobody names
• Different family roles & how they wound
• Signs of a healthy family

Go Deeper:

Episode 85: The Goal of a Healthy Family & 6 Roles We Take On In Dysfunction

Episode 161: Healing from Dysfunctional Family Patterns with Jerry Wise

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Matthew 10:16

Topics covered:

• What “wise as serpents, innocent as doves” looks like in real relationships
• How to stay anchored in love while facing what’s real—without naivety or hypervigilance

Go Deeper:

Read Should I Turn The Other Cheek? on my blog

For more on healthy boundary setting check out the first 3 chapters of The Best of You here.

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Psalm 4:4–8

Topics covered:

• How to acknowledge anger without letting it hijack your nervous system
• A simple practice for calming anger and choosing groundedness without denial

Go Deeper:

Episode 44: Why Anger is a Surprising Friend, What Happens When You Avoid It, and How to Create Space for Healthy Expression of Anger in Your Family

Get a free guided journal + read the first 3 chapters of I Shouldn't Feel This Way here!

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: 1 Corinthians 3:3–7

Topics covered:

• Why comparison isn’t just a “social media issue"
• The deeper ache underneath envy & comparison
• A grounding reframe to use when you're tempted to compare

Go Deeper:

Episode 183: The Real Reason You Compare Yourself & How to Heal It

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What do you do when the person who was supposed to nurture you becomes the source of your deepest wounds?

In this episode, Dr. Alison sits down with writer, speaker, and host of the Big Boo Cast, Melanie Shankle to explore the complicated terrain of mother wounds, emotional enmeshment, and the long road toward healing.

From the outside, it can look like “normal family tension.”

But in the body, something feels off.

Together, they explore:

• What happens when your nervous system knew something wasn’t safe before you had language for it
• The impact of criticism, competitiveness, and emotional parentification
• How shame can keep you believing the problem is you
• he difference between honoring a parent and tolerating hard
• Why distance sometimes becomes part of healing

This isn't a conversation about blame. It's a conversation about truth-telling.

About untangling enmeshment.

About breaking generational patterns.

About discovering what safety actually feels like.

If you’ve ever felt torn between loyalty and self-protection…

If you’ve wondered whether what you experienced “counts”…

If you’re learning to trust what your body has always known…

This episode is honest, nuanced, and ultimately hopeful.

Because healing one life can change a generation.

More Resources:

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Order Melanie’s latest book Here Be Dragons.

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If you liked this episode, then you’ll love:

Episode 144: Healing the Soul Through Encounters with Jesus Featuring John Eldredge

Episode 128: Generational Trauma—Overcoming Inherited Dysfunction & Legacy Burdens with therapist Gina Birkemeier

📖 Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Isaiah 41:10

Topics covered:

• There's no shame in fear
• What God promises
• Strength that doesn’t come from striving

Go Deeper:

Episode 41: Boundaries with Fear & Anxiety

Episode 156: Why Fear Shows Up When You’re About to Grow & How to Break Free from Self-Sabotage with Mary Marantz

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Luke 17:1-5

Topics covered:

• Why Jesus starts with the reality of harm
• How to forgive without minimizing
• The relationship between forgiveness & boundaries

Go Deeper:

Episode 79: Surviving Trauma & A Path to Forgiveness with Esau McCaullay

Episode 78: The Mental Health Benefits of Forgiveness & Thoughts on Grace with Max Lucado

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Psalm 25:1-7

Topics covered:

• Why shame makes you want to hide

• A prayer to steady you through shame

• How to return to connection & trust

Go Deeper:

See The Soul of Shame, by Curt Thompson

Episode 74: The Neurobiology of Hope and How to Find Hope in Hard Times with Dr. Curt Thompson

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Phillipians 2:1-11

Topics covered:

• Humility that isn’t self-erasure
• How to cultivate true inner strength
• A daily reset for uncovering confident humility

Go Deeper:

Episode 18: Selfhood vs. Selfishness

Episode 56: Am I Really Supposed to Die to Myself? Misconstrued Messages and How to Disentangle From Them

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Have you ever wondered if there’s something spiritual happening beneath what you’re carrying?

You’re doing the work.You’re praying.You’re going to therapy.You’re trying to take responsibility.

And still… something feels off.

In this episode, Dr. Alison sits down with Theologian Joel Muddamalle to explore spiritual warfare — not through fear or sensationalism, but through clarity and discernment.

Together, they examine:

• How the enemy works through systems, structures, and misaligned desires
• The difference between personal responsibility and spiritual opposition
• Why obsession with darkness is just as unhelpful as dismissing it
• How to stay grounded in Christ’s victory rather than panic

This conversation reframes spiritual warfare as something far more ordinary — and far more hopeful — than we often imagine.

Not demon hunting.Not blame shifting.But cultivating wholeness.

Because the center of the Christian story is not darkness.It’s restoration.

If you’ve ever felt confused about this topic — or unsure how to integrate faith, mental health, and spiritual reality — this episode offers grounded wisdom for everyday life.

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Order The Unseen Battle.

If you liked this episode, then you’ll love:

Episode 144: Healing the Soul Through Encounters with Jesus Featuring John Eldredge

Episode 122: Navigating Anxiety, Therapy, and Spiritual Formation—Balancing Mental, Emotional, & Spiritual Health with John Mark Comer

📖 Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Genesis 3:12–13

Go Deeper:

Episode 178: How to Recognize Toxic Tactics & Stop Taking the Bait

Episode 149: 5 Toxic Behaviors & How to Protect Your Soul

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Luke 15:11–32

Go Deeper:

Episode 78: Thoughts on Grace with Max Lucado

Episode 136: Escaping Spiritual Exhaustion and Trusting in Divine Love with Michael John Cusick

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Psalm 23

Go Deeper:

Episode 176: Intimacy with God in a Noisy World

Episode 191: The 5 Most Important Things I've Learned About Faith, Attachment, & The Inner Life

Find rest for your soul through a guided audio reflection here or check out my book with Kimberly Miller, Boundaries For Your Soul.

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Romans 12:9–18

Go Deeper:

Episode 194: Discernment in Relationships: How to Stay Connected Without Losing Yourself

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“A joyful heart is good medicine.”

But not the kind of joy you fake.

In this episode, Dr. Alison explores the difference between healthy humor and harmful humor — and why that distinction matters for your nervous system, your relationships, and your spiritual formation.

Humor can soothe.

It can bond.

It can bring relief.

But it can also deflect.

Minimize.

Or quietly wound.

You’ll learn:

• Why humor can feel safe for one person and threatening for another
• How teasing can create intimacy… or erode it
• What it looks like to practice discernment without shaming yourself
• Why “getting your joy back” is often a sign of real healing
  

This conversation is part of Pillar Three in Dr. Cook’s Four Pillars series: Joy & Delight — not as a personality trait or a passing mood, but as a practice of inner formation.

Because joy is not just an emotional expression.

It’s a signal.

When your nervous system begins to feel safe enough to soften, laughter shifts.

Delight becomes accessible.

Connection deepens.

And sometimes the kind of humor you practice reveals more about your healing than you realize.

More Resources:

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If you liked this episode, then you’ll love:

Episode 191: The 5 Most Important Things I've Learned About Faith, Attachment, & The Inner Life

Episode 194: When Relationships Start to Drain You—Using Discernment to Stay Connected Without Losing Yourself

Episode 111: How to Transforms Parenting Triggers & Blind Spots Into Growth & Connection With Beth McCord

📖 Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Lamentations 3:19–26

Go Deeper:

Episode 190: Self-Brain Surgery, Overcoming Trauma, and the Courage to Change How You Think with Dr. Lee Warren

Episode 158: Your Pain Has a Name: The Deeper Hurt Behind Distressing Thoughts with Monica DiCristina

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: John 20:24–29

Go Deeper:

Episode 159: Spiritual Drowning, Honest Questions, and a God Who Doesn’t Let Go with Heather Thompson Day

Episode 74: The Neurobiology of Hope and How to Find Hope in Hard Times with Dr. Curt Thompson

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Psalm 146 1:-10

Go Deeper:

Episode 119: Drawing Strength From the Past—The Spirit of Justice with Dr. Jemar Tisby

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: 2 Corinthians 4:7–10

Go Deeper:

Learn more about strength through fragility through inner parts work here or check out my book with Kimberly Miller, Boundaries For Your Soul.

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Have you ever felt exhausted — not because you don’t care, but because you’re carrying more than you can name?

Dr. Alison is joined by therapist and New York Times bestselling author Nedra Glover Tawwab to reflect on why caring deeply can sometimes leave us depleted — and why the answer isn’t trying harder or pulling away.

This conversation doesn’t offer quick fixes.

Instead, it invites you to pause and consider a different question—one that has less to do with effort and more to do with mutuality.

If you’ve been feeling tired, responsible, or overwhelmed while trying to do the right thing, this episode offers perspective and hope—without pressure or oversimplification.

📖 ⁠The Balancing Act by Nedra Tewaab⁠

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Episode 194: When the Relationship Starts to Drain You—Using Discernment to Stay Connected Without Losing Yourself

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is Proverbs 26:4–5

Go Deeper:

Episode 1: What is Narcissism Really?

Read: Gaslighting & the Bible: How to Respond When Someone is Manipulating You

When Narcissism Comes to Church, by Chuck Degroat

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is Luke 8:43–48

Go Deeper:

Episode 4: What do I need to know about trauma?

Episode 114: Healing Trauma with Kobe Campbell

Try Softer, by Aundi Kolber

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is Psalm 16:5–11

Go Deeper:

Episode 172: Daring Joy & Breaking Free From Toxic Positivity with Nicole Zasowski

Episode 188: Tiny Joys, Big Healing : Retraining the Brain for Hope with Dr. MaryCatherine Mcdonald

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: 1 Corinthians 13:1–7

Go Deeper:

Read more on my blog here: Gaslighting & the Bible: How to Respond When Someone is Manipulating You

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Connection matters deeply — and yet for many of us, it’s never felt more confusing.

In this solo episode, Dr. Alison explores the tension many people are navigating right now: how to stay open and loving toward others without losing clarity, discernment, or yourself.

Many of us were taught that love means endless accommodation, that boundaries are unkind, or that distance equals failure. Others, weary of being hurt, find themselves pulling back — unsure how to stay connected without feeling drained or unsafe.

This episode sits right in the middle of that tension.

Rather than offering formulas or quick fixes, Dr. Alison invites listeners to slow down and notice what’s happening beneath the surface of relationships — especially the ones that feel confusing, heavy, or hard to interpret.

If you’ve found yourself asking:

• How do I stay loving without losing myself?
• How do I know when to lean in — and when to pause?
• What does discernment look like in real, imperfect relationships?

This conversation creates space to reflect without pressure to decide everything right away.

More Resources:

📥 Download 3 free chapters + guided journal of I Shouldn’t Feel This Way and the FRAME exercise mentioned in today's episode here.

If you liked this episode, then you’ll love the following:

Episode 191: The 5 Most Important Things I've Learned About Faith, Attachment, & The Inner Life

Episode 179: Building Wise Trust - How to Protect Your Heart Without Closing it Off

📖 Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Genesis 32:22–30

Go Deeper:

For more deep dive episodes: www.dralisoncook.com

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Luke 17:11–19

Go Deeper:

Episode 188: Tiny Joys, Big Healing : Retraining the Brain for Hope with Dr. MaryCatherine Mcdonald

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Psalm 116:5-7

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Episode 141: How Self-Compassion Strengthens Resilience with Aundi Kolber

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Galatians 5:22–25

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Episode 96: Signs of Emotional Immaturity & How to Bring More Emotional Health to Your Relationships

Episode 70: Mastering the Art of Emotional IntelligenceFollow Dr. Alison on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dralisoncook/?hl=en

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Have you ever left a conversation thinking, That’s not what I meant — and still felt the distance linger?

Do you ever wonder why relationships feel exhausting, confusing, or fragile… even when you genuinely try to do the right thing?

Dr. Alison is joined by counselor and author Debra Fileta for a conversation that names a quiet tension many people live with but rarely articulate.

Sometimes the hardest part of relationships isn’t a lack of love—it’s the gap between what we intend and what others experience.

Together, you'll explore:

• Why do the same relational patterns keep repeating?
  
• Why does communication break down so quickly under stress?
  
• Why do good intentions sometimes land as hurt or distant?
  
• Why does love feel like it should be enough… but often isn’t?
  

If you’ve ever thought, Why does this still feel so hard when I care so much? — this episode creates space to ask better questions, without pressure to already have the answers.

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Episode 179: Building Wise Trust—How to Protect Your Heart Without Closing It Off

Episode 86: Embracing Conflict—Why It's Essential & 4 Simple Ways to Tackle It

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Exodus 31:1–6

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Episode 192: The Work Only Humans Can Do—Why Connection, Vocation, and Meaning Still Matter in a World of AI

Episode 53: How to Claim Your Strengths & Thrive at Home & Work

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Matthew 7:15–20

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Episode 178: How to Recognize Toxic Tactics & Stop Taking the Bait

Episode 149: 5 Toxic Behaviors & How to Protect Your Soul

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Psalm 42:1–5

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Episode 77: The Dark Night of the Soul—Why It Happens & What It Means

Episode 99: Exploring a Broken Spirit & the Dark Night of the Soul

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today's Scripture: Hebrews 12:11.

Hebrews 12 uses language about discipline and parenthood that may feel tender or painful if you’ve experienced harm from a parent or authority figure. If that’s you, please feel free to skip this episode or return when it feels safer. (We're reading from The Message today to help soften the edges and highlight the heart of the passage.)

Episode 128: Healing Generational Trauma
Episode 182: Self-Esteem Culture, Therapy, & Wholeness in Christ

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What does it mean to live out our calling in a world increasingly shaped by technology, efficiency, and automation?

In this episode, Dr. Alison explores the deeper meaning of vocation — not simply as a job or career path, but as the unique way each of us is meant to bring care, creativity, and connection into the world.

Joined by sociologist Dr. Allison Pugh, professor at Johns Hopkins University and author of The Last Human Job, they reflect on what Dr. Pugh calls “connective labor” — the deeply human work of seeing others and allowing ourselves to be seen.

This episode explores:

-Why the most important part of vocation has almost nothing to do with your resume

-The hidden kind of work you’re doing every day-The small moment that can restore dignity in an instant (and why most of us miss it)

-The tradeoff nobody talks about: when “more efficient” becomes “less human”

-The uncomfortable question technology can’t answer for you — and why it matters right now

-The choice you still have (even in a system that feels unchangeable)

As workplaces change and technologies like AI reshape how we interact, this conversation offers a grounding reminder: while tools may deliver information, they can never replace mutual presence, empathy, and relational connection.

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Episode 53: How to Claim Your Strengths & Thrive at Home & Work

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: 1 Kings 19:1–13

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Episode 99: I Shouldn't Feel Like My Spirit is Broken

Episode 136: Escaping Spiritual Exhaustion & Trusting Divine Love

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Mark 10:46–52

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Read the first three chapters of The Best of You and download a free PDF workbook here.

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day

Today’s Scripture is: Psalm 62:5–8

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Episode 176: Intimacy with God in a Noisy World

Episode 159: Spiritual Drowning, Honest Questions, & a God Who Doesn't Let Go

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is Galatians 6:2–5.

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Episode 138: The Hidden Cost of Overfunctioning

Episode 155: Prioritize What Matters, Avoid Burnout, and Navigate Toxicity

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How do you actually heal and change—not just cope or try harder?

In this solo episode, Dr. Alison reflects on five core insights about faith, attachment, and the inner life—not as a plan for self-improvement, but as wisdom for formation.

January often comes with pressure to reset, optimize, and fix ourselves. But many of us begin the year already tired — weary of striving, and hungry for something deeper.

This episode offers a different invitation.

Rather than asking what to change, Dr. Alison invites us to notice how we are already being formed — especially in moments of stress, fear, and uncertainty.

In this conversation, Dr. Alison explores:

• Why faith is not just what we believe
• The hidden way your nervous system influences your spiritual life
• What many “spiritual struggles” are really pointing to
• The missing ingredient most change efforts overlook
• Why striving for perfection keeps so many people stuck

Growth isn’t about eliminating fear or complexity. It’s learning where to return when fear inevitably shows up.

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Episode 122: Navigating Anxiety, Therapy, and Spiritual Formation—Balancing Mental, Emotional, & Spiritual Health with John Mark Comer

Episode 113: A New Vision of Human Flourishing—A Christian Approach to Mental Health with Duke University Psychiatrist & Theologian Warren Kinghorn

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is Deuteronomy 6:4–9.

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Episode 186: A Simple Practice to Interrupt Stress, Overwhelm, and Habit Loops

Episode 190: Self-Brain Surgery, Overcoming Trauma, and the Courage to Change How You Think

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.
Today’s Scripture is Luke 6:27-42 .
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Episode 95: 4 Toxic Behaviors & How to Protect Yourself

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is Psalm 1:1-4.

Go Deeper:

Episode 141: How Self-Compassion Shapes Resilience with Aundi Kolber

Episode 76: Finding the Strength to Move Forward After Loss with Granger Smith

Episode 46: How Jesus Regulated Emotions with Aundi Kolber

⁠I Shouldn’t Feel This Way⁠ — Learn to understand & regulate your emotions.

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day. Today’s Scripture is Romans 8:5-6 .

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Episode 56: Am I Really Supposed to Die to Myself

Episode 29: How to Stop Chasing Approval and Start Living the Life You Actually Want

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⁠The Best of You ⁠— Discover your true self in God.

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What if healing doesn’t start with managing your emotions—but with understanding how your brain responds to fear, grief, and hope?

In this episode, Dr. Alison sits down with neurosurgeon, author, and Iraq War veteran Dr. Lee Warren to explore trauma, loss, faith, and the brain’s God-given capacity to change. 

After unimaginable loss, Dr. Warren shares how “self-brain surgery”—learning to notice and interrupt destructive thought patterns—helped him restore hope and agency without bypassing grief.

This conversation will help you understand:

—Why most of our thoughts are repetitive, negative, and often untrue

—How trauma wires automatic thoughts—and how those patterns can change

—How faith and neuroscience meet in practical ways

—The difference between the mind and the brain, and why that distinction matters for healing

This episode offers hope without shortcuts. It honors the reality of suffering while reminding us that our past does not get the final word — not neurologically, not emotionally, and not spiritually.

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Episode 186: Stuck in Overthinking? A Simple Practice to Interrupt Stress, Overwhelm, and Habit Loops

Episode 170: The Truth About Venting, Numbing, and Finding Real Relief - Science-Backed Tools to Actually Restore Your Brain and Body

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day. Today’s Scripture is Exodus 20:12.

Go Deeper:

Episode 161: Healing from Dysfunctional Family Patterns

Episode 162: When Reconnection Feels Impossible

Episode 147: Making Sense of Your Family Story

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⁠⁠The Best of You⁠ ⁠— Heal painful patterns.

⁠⁠Boundaries For Your Soul⁠ ⁠— Manage overwhelming emotions.

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day. Today’s Scripture is Luke 10:38-42.

Go Deeper:⁠ Episode 185⁠: For the Ones who are Overwhelmed

⁠Episode 170⁠: The Truth About Venting

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is Psalm 131.

Go Deeper: Episode 16: What are Attachment Styles?

Episode 143: Reparenting Your Younger Self

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day!

Today's Scripture is Matthew 6:25–29 & 34.

Go Deeper:

⁠Episode 129⁠⁠: Understanding Your Anxiety—A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Calm

Episode 167: Can I Pray the Anxiety Away?

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January has a way of pulling us straight into the how.

How will I fix what feels off? How will I be more disciplined? How will I finally get it right?

But what if there’s a deeper—and more grounding—place to begin?

Dr. Alison opens the year by inviting you to start somewhere different. Instead of beginning with self-improvement or striving, Scripture starts with meaning, presence, and relationship.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why losing sight of the why fuels anxiety, striving, and burnout
• How meaning and grounding are closer than you think
• What “the light shines in the darkness” really means
• How orienting your life around love changes everything

Plus, you’ll hear a special announcement about something new coming to The Best of You—a daily way to stay anchored in Scripture and wisdom as you move through your day.

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If you loved this episode, check out:

Episode 122: Navigating Anxiety, Therapy, and Spiritual Formation with John Mark Comer 

Episode 113: A New Vision Of Human Flourishing with Dr. Warren Kinghorn

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