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Behavioral scientist turned dating coach, Logan Ury, joins us today to talk about psychology and how it relates to dating and sex. Nick and Logan dive into some of the chapters of her book How Not To Die Alone, dig into how too many choices in dating is hurting us, how we should 'F' the spark, how The Bachelor romanticizes dating and how it affects our dating culture, and the differences between deal breakers and pet peeves.

"…it is in that moment of breaking your type that you actually are propelling yourself forward into the type of relationship you want to be in…"

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Today on Ask Nick we start with a polyamorous couple that is leaving one relationship to start a new one, and is confused on how to speak publicly about their relationship without sharing too much. Next, we speak with a woman who has been in relationship after relationship and now she is trying to figure out how she can just be casual and not catch feelings right away. Our next caller is struggling with a co-parenting situation when he tries to use her son to take her parenting time away. Finally, we speak with someone who's boyfriend is struggling with a childhood trauma that is affecting their relationship. While she is trying to be supportive, he does not want to take any steps to heal and she doesn't know what to do to keep his mental health in a safe place.

"There is knowing what you need and then there is executing on that need despite your desires telling you differently."

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The Vow on HBO/max is a documentary that follows the stories of people who were intensely involved in the self-improvement organization, NXIVM. Identified as a sex cult, NXIVM is still dealing with charges of sex trafficking and racketeering while its founder, Keith Raniere, sits in jail and some of its highest members wait to be sentenced. Today we are joined by couple Sarah Edmondson and Nippy who met while in NXIVM and are considered to be two of the whistle blowers on the organization. Sarah found herself too deep in the cult - so deep that she was branded as part of a women's group called DOS which was ultimately the group responsible for sex trafficking. Once she stopped drinking the "koolaid" she was not only able to save herself, but also those around her, and help bring those responsible to justice. Nick and his guests have an intense conversation trying to understand the mindset of someone who joins a cult, how to try to avoid organizations that use manipulation to exploit people, and the understanding of being ashamed of your choices once leaving. "He made the obvious sound profound with big words that really didn't mean anything."

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We are back with another episode of Ask Nick. On today's show we begin with a woman whose friend's boyfriend keeps making advances in her direction and she doesn't know how to stop it. Our next caller took a break from sex after getting sober and realizing she was unable to have unattached sex. After getting a divorce and leaving a toxic relationship, we speak with someone who is trying to get back in the dating scene and trying to figure out if it is her ego or her insecurities are holding her back when she should be trusting her gut and letting herself be a little selfish. Lastly, we talk to someone who is seeing people she knows on dating apps after moving back to her hometown and is wondering if they are not matching on the app should she DM them or do they just not like her.

"I don't feel like I am in the business of blindsiding anyone." Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes.

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Access Hollywood's Zuri Hall joins us today to recap the finale of The Bachelor and After The Final Rose. We begin with breaking down Matt's decisions in making sure he was being his most authentic self and how his conversation with his Mom changed his perspective on the lifelong commitment he was about to make. Michelle asking for 2 minutes is another hot button topic today as well as Matt not showing up for a final date with Rachael. Zuri and Nick then move on to have a very real conversation about what was covered on AFR and have the bigger conversation around the controversies that have plagued Bachelor Nation this season.

You can also catch Zuri on her new iHeart Radio podcast: "Hot Happy Mess" which has new episodes every Monday http://hothappymess.com

"There is learning in that - sometimes you only understand once you see the pain it inflicts, once you know better you can do better."

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Today Bri Springs joins us to talk about her time on The Bachelor, The Finale, & AFR. No topic is off limits tonight, including how she first tried sliding into Matt's DMs before she knew she had been nominated to be on the show. After getting to know Bri a little bit more and learn all the things we did not on the show, she and Nick talk about some of the controversy the surrounded this season of The Bachelor, what she saw personally, what she and Rachael have spoken about, and what she thinks about meeting this moment, the future of the franchise and her place in it.

"If we can do better, I want to see us do better, instead of just not trying."

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On this episode of Ask Nick we start with a woman who is exploring her sex life and asks her boyfriend his ideal female type- only to be surprised when his answer is her complete opposite. Our next caller has received an ultimatum from her husband to stop smoking weed or he is going to leave. We then speak with someone who doesn't want commitment and wants to keep her relationships open but then one day looked up and realized she was in love and doesn't know what to do with that feeling. Finally, we try to help someone figure out if she is reading a situation wrong after shooting her shot or if she is just part of the guys dating roster.

"How do you even tell height in a porn? "

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Today on The Viall Files we are joined by comedian, host, and actor Howie Mandel. A surprising Bachelor fan, we talk to Howie about his fear of rejection, mental health, how he "accidentally" became a comedian and has sustained a career that so many admire. Howie has a new podcast coming out with his daughter Jackelyn Shultz called Howie Mandel Does Stuff where they talk about, well stuff! If the stories he shares on his new podcast come anything close to the things he shared with Nick today, we are excited.

"My perspective comes from being as old as I am."

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Today Jackelyn Shultz joins us to recap Matt's fantasy suite dates on this week's episode of The Bachelor. Jackelyn is the daughter of the legendary Howie Mandel and his cohost on their podcast Howie Mandel Does Stuff. Nick and Jackelyn break down all of the fantasy suite dates as well as the touching conversation Matt had with his father, and they both make their predictions on the finale. Jackeyln even takes some time to fill Nick in on her favorite Bachelor Tik Tok conspiracy theories and asks his thoughts on them.

"It is the equivalent of space travel … until you are in space …your going to deal with some shit when you're in space for the first time and that's kind of what this crazy world is like… "

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On this episode of Ask Nick we start with someone who is confused after the break-up of her first big love when her ex calls and asks if she would be willing to have a threesome with his new fiancé. Our next caller is stuck in a new guy vs. ex guy scenario and is trying to figure out which one is her guy and if verbal cheating will be a deal breaker in her relationship. A traumatic event has affected intimacy for our next caller and was a reason for her ex to break up with her, but a year later he is asking to reconcile and she does not know if it is something she should do. Finally, we speak with a woman who is stuck in a cycle with a guy leaving and coming back and she wants to try and make boundaries to stop the cycle.

"There is a difference between fighting and communicating and it sounds like you guys don't know the difference in the moment." Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes.

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Today on The Viall Files we are joined by Jenna Zoe. Jenna is a world-leading expert in Human Design, a new system of self-discovery helping reconnect people to who they came to be. She presents it through a lens of acceptance and kindness which has resonated with hundreds of thousands around the globe and turned it into a mainstream obsession. Her main goal is to help people truly understand who they are and how they function, so that they can spend their energy emphasizing their unique gifts and talents, rather than trying to be more like how they're being conditioned to be. She helps us dive into the benefits of Human Design in relationships and gives Nick a reading of his own.

"In Relationships … when you're attracted to someone, it's about knowing how to work with what you got. Let me sit with your manual and you sit with my manual and lets see what's the best mechanics to set up , so this can work in harmony."

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On today's Bachelor Recap of The Women Tell All we are joined once again by Viall Files recap favorite, Jason Ritter. Jason comes in hot giving us his overall thoughts on the season, relieved that Matt addressed the topic he wanted to hear most about, kissing with his eyes open. Nick and Jason waste no time getting right into their usual analytical banter about the topics discussed from Anna's apology, Katie's comments about Karma, Victoria's lack of ownership, and finally how The Bachelor gave us a rare look at production by showing us what they took out of the show and how that will change the way an audience can watch the show. Make sure to stick around to the end to hear their Bachelorette predictions and final thoughts on who Matt may end up with.

"I think she needs to go into a cave and scream out and then start over."

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It's Monday, which means it is time for Ask Nick! On today's episode we start with a caller that has finally brought it to the bedroom with her new boyfriend and finds out there is a way he prefers to "finish" that she was not expecting and she is wondering if it is a red flag or something she should just go with. Our second caller is stuck at the point in her dating relationship where she wants to define the relationship and she does not know how to approach it. Next we speak with someone who has been dealing with her boyfriend and his addiction issues throughout their relationship. He admitted his discretions got sober & put in the work that made their relationship better, but now with the pandemic the past resentment he was feeling kept coming up and brought new issues into their relationship. Lastly one of our 10 percenters call in to get some advice on feeling like he is cheating on his fiancé with the sexually explicit dreams he is having. "…You be very specific, you be unafraid, you be bold, and at the risk of you being disappointed, you tell him how you feel and what you want." Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes.

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Maria Menounos joins us today for an inspiring conversation about health, energy, miracles and how we are Better Together. Maria talks to us about her and her families struggles with cancer and how having hope is the way to keep yourself in a positive state of mind and body. Her show Better Together focuses on the good you can add to your life and can be found Monday - Thursday on YouTube and Apple podcasts featuring insightful conversations with experts in their fields.

"I would rather live in hope. That is not a denial. It is a true energetic state…"

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On today's Bachelor Recap we are joined by Dave Holmes, you may remember him from his days on MTV as a VJ, as an Editor-at-Large for Esquire, or as the guy in the Britney documentary talking about what it was like covering her career. Whichever way you know Dave, make no mistake when we tell you that with his pop culture background, Dave came to play for this recap. Nick and Dave take an overly detailed look at the hometown dates of Michelle, Bri, Rachael, and Serena P. Together they really dig in and ask all the important questions like, was there really no way to steam the wrinkles out of the Canadian flags? It is a bit of a super sized episode tonight, but with this commentary and break down, you won't want to miss a minute of it.

" …to say that was weird and I didn't really like it takes some gumption."

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On today's Ask Nick our first caller has started dating someone new and doesn't feel those butterflies. After listening to Dr. Berman she is trying to figure out if he is her guy or not without leading him on. Our second caller is having trust issues with her boyfriend who moved into a new living situation with a woman who he seems to have a connection with. Our third caller is in love with her boyfriend but she has constant anxiety whenever they are out in social situations because of his social awkwardness. Finally, we speak with a woman who's been with her boyfriend since high school, joined the military, and has been offered a new job in a different location from where her boyfriend would be stationed. Does she prioritize herself now and move in with him later or not?

"That made me feel like it wasn't about you being tired, but that you were tired of me."

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Today we are joined by Psychic Medium Chris Medina. As a skeptic, Nick spends time to try and understand the difference between Psychics and Mediums, how the process works, and lets Chris read him a little bit to see if he is able to dig deep with him. Nick really wanted to know if Chris could just predict the Packers season but in opening himself up to learn about Chris's work, he was ok with that answer being a no and moving on to more personal topics. Whether you are a skeptic or a believer there is a little something for everyone in this episode.

"What I am looking for is for you to get out of your way, so you can get out of my way."

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On today's Bachelor Recap we are joined by Natasha Parker. Before we get to the recap we take time in the first half of the show to discuss the issues surrounding Bachelor Nation over the last week after the conversation that Chris Harrison had with Rachel Lindsey and why it is important to keep learning about what we may not know. After that Nick and Natasha jump into the recap discussing their thoughts on Heather's interactions with the other women, Abigail's exit, and even some Bachelorette predictions. It is a supersized episode not to miss today.

" …it has provoked conversation between people, and is continuing to provoke conversation in regards to race…"

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On todays Ask Nick we start with an update from a caller who's relationship has come to a crashing halt and she does not know where to go from here. Second we speak wth someone who has a guy who is doing all the boyfriend things but seems not interested in being a boyfriend. Next we talk to a woman who is struggling with defining her relationship and her boyfriend telling people that they are together. Finally we have a caller who is concerned for her best friend after finding out some damaging information about her boyfriend.

"You have to be willing to say things at the risk of being misunderstood so your feelings can be heard"

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Today we are joined by sex, love, and relationship expert Dr. Laura Berman. Dr. Berman is a New York Times bestselling author, award-winning radio host, and television personality with groundbreaking NYT bestsellers, her programs on the OWN Network, and she has been educating people on how to love and be loved better for the last 3 decades. Nick and Dr. Berman talk through some of the common relationship misconceptions as well as what you can do this Valentine's Day that can help you create healthy communication and sexual habits. Dr. Berman is now embarking on her own podcast called "The Language of Love" dropping soon.

"When we are having a relationship with someone else, we are really having a relationship with ourselves through that person."

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On todays Bachelor Recap we are joined by Bachelor Super Fan, Jordan Weiss, the creator of Dollface on Hulu. As Nick and Jordan start to break down this episode they begin with the strained "two on one" between MJ & Jessenia before moving on to their biggest issue, why Abigail has yet to receive a one on one date. They talk Katie and the role she has played on the show and her vibe during the Tyler C prank date, Heather's arrival and how they think that will play out, and finally if they think there could be any kind of "naughty energy" that will come over any of the women.

"It was like a pre- battle ritual."

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On todays episode Esther Povitsky returns to help us take your questions but not before she jumps in and tries to get all the answers from Nick about his relationship. We then first start with a woman who after receiving mixed signals and a lack of communication with someone she has been dating for 4 years wonders if the relationship has come down to an ultimatum. Our next caller is struggling with the friendship her boyfriend has with his ex-girlfriend after finding out that the ex does not know about her. We then speak with someone who is re-entering the dating world after divorce and is trying to figure out if she likes him or just falling into her pattern of trying to define the relationship. Our last caller has been in a relationship for 6 years, they met when they were 19 and although the issue begins with their current politics and belief systems we find out there is a deeper issue.

"Show him what he lost."

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Bling Empire is taking Netflix by storm and we are just as invested as the rest of you which makes us excited to have cast member and Executive Producer of Bling Empire, Kelly Mi Li with us. First we find out the real story behind her ex husband's criminal story and how that effected her life. We then jump into all things Bling including what her current relationship status is with Drew, how she really feels about Kevin and his pancakes, who she is closest to on the show, and how we can get on that plane to Paris with her and Anna.

"A relationship takes 2 to work, so I have my issues for staying in that relationship and vice versus."

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On todays Bachelor Recap we are joined by Rachael Harris of Netflix's Lucifer. A true bachelor super fan Rachael came in ready to get down business on this weeks drama packed episode. Nick and Rachael give their takes on Anna & Victoria's exits, Rachel's one on one vs Kit's, sex on The Bachelor, and thoughts on how Matt handled the bullying situations with the women.

" Katie is like the Mrs. Garrett."

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On todays episode of the Ask Nick we begin with someone who is miserable in her marriage and keeps putting the needs of her husband before her own and doesn't know how to express what she needs. Next we speak with someone who started dating a girl she liked but let her feelings from her past relationship get in the way of that. Once she resolved those past feelings she realized she wanted the girl she had let go of. Her boyfriend's lack of motivation in his career and her inability to predict the future and get out of her head, has this caller trying to be every other role in her boyfriends life but the supportive girlfriend. Last we speak with a women who is wondering if she should stay in her first relationship for the experience of having it, knowing there is an expiration date on it and not a relationship she sees having long term.

"Remind yourself how miserable you are in the situation you are un willing to give up."

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Today we are speaking with Ricky Williams. Most of you would likely know Ricky as a former NFL player but we discover today he is so much more. Ricky realized one day that he was being defined by being an athlete, by being in the NFL and he decided to change his life to make sure that he could be something more than that. Retiring and finding his spiritual journey through astrology, and taking a holistic approach to to his body, and working in Cannabis made people think he was crazy but what he found was creativity and inspiration for what his future was going to be outside of the NFL.

"When it comes to Astrology, I think it is abused and misused when it's used to describe people, I think at its best it describes circumstances you are going to have to face."

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Lauren Zima joins us once again to recap tonights episode of The Bachelor. Nick and Lauren immediately jump into their show banter and break all things down when it comes to the toxic behavior surrounding the women. How do they really feel about Anna and Victoria's words this episode? What did they think about Michelle's connection with Matt and the rest of the new women? Is Matt kissing people he likes more or less with his eyes open? Lauren and Nick also talk about her conversation with Sarah, Clare & Dale, and we find out if Chris's matter of fact look when delivering news on the show, translates to real life.

"…then we see her in paradise with a crown of seashells"

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Nick is back to answer all of your relationship questions and on todays episode we start off with a question we get a lot when it comes to masturbation. Our first caller is concerned after walking in on her boyfriend masturbating while on vacation when she had just offered him oral sex. Second we speak to a women who is not into communicating on Snapchat with the person she is dating. She is ready to move the conversation from sexting to texting and to get this potential relationship off the ground. After the death of her partner our next caller is struggling with sex and dating. The person she finds the most comfort with sexually is the best friend of her partner that passed and navigating this friends with benefits situation has her confused with all the emotions surrounding it. Lastly we speak with someone who's politics no longer align with that of her family or where she grew up. Family Facebook political posts have started to strain all of their relationships because of their opposing outlooks.

"Being passive aggressive while calling him weird is not being direct."

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Today we are joined but Dr. Alexandra Solomon. Over the last two decades, Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon has become one of today's most trusted voices in the world of relationships. A professor, therapist, speaker, author, retreat leader, and media personality, Dr. Solomon is passionate about translating cutting-edge research and clinical wisdom into practical tools people can use to bring awareness, curiosity, and authenticity to their relationships. Her work on relational self-awareness has reached millions of people around the world. Dr. Solomon is a faculty member in the School of Education and Social Policy at Northwestern University and a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University. Nick and Dr. Solomon dive into a bunch of relationship topics including, how to handle a relationship in a "rut", hook up culture, porn in a relationship, expectations of men in the bedroom, how to speak to your partner without judgement , and making sure you know your body so you can communicate to your partner what works for you sexually.

" If there is one thing I have learned from 20 years of couples therapy, what matters so much to a man is how he looks in his partners eyes."

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Teddi Mellencamp joins us once again on tonights episode of The Bachelor recap. As a Bachelor super fan Teddi does not hold back on all of her takes when it comes to Queen Victoria, Katie standing in the corner of the room waiting for her time, Sarah's intentions and how she was spoken to, and her pick for the season … Rachael! Nick and Teddi break down all the drama of the night, make their predictions for the season, and do not shy away from their opinions.

"The most dangerous predator on the food chain is a group of people on the bachelor who smell blood."

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Today on Ask Nick we start with a woman who is trying to get over her relationship after she jumped into it super quick thinking it was her person, and now thinking he is a narcissist who took her for a ride. Second our caller was in a toxic relationship where she was putting up with behavior she should not be dealing with but also is being irrational in not listening to what her boyfriend is clearly telling her because of a fear of being alone. Next we speak with someone who is questioning getting engaged because she can't figure out what the one thing is that keeps holding her back. Lastly we speak with a girl who felt rejected by someone she started to date and now that he is single again, and reaching out to her, she does not know if she should re-engage with him. She shares with us her texts so that Nick can better understand the situation hearing both sides of the conversation.

" Its not hard for people to act like they are dating… what's acting like we're dating, its hanging out with someone while sex is on the table "

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Ivan Hall joins us on today's episode of The Viall Files for a more in depth conversation about who he really is and what we did not get to see on The Bachelorette. Ivan speaks passionately about prison reform, dating and religion, why he was so surprised to see his brother on the show, and what he really does for a living. Even though we are diving deep with Ivan, Nick and Ivan get do get playful talking about possible paradise scenarios and playing our game Do You Know Me.

" I'm in a place where I want to settle down but I don't want to force it. "

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On tonights recap of The Bachelor we are joined by ABC Senior Vice President of Alternative Series, Specials, & Late Night Programming, Rob Mills. We always love it when Rob stops by not only to give us his take on all things Bachelor but also to see what hints we may get on what we can look forward to later in the season. Today Nick and Rob talk about the women who seem to be getting a lot of attention on the show, the women really being casted for Matt, how politics and religion can play a role going forward in the franchise, Nick's thoughts on Heather arriving to the scene, and whether or not we can be looking forward to an AFR this season.

" Appreciate your villains."

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It is Monday and that means another episode of Ask Nick. On todays show we first speak with aa woman who originally ghosted someone she started dating, and now after thinking about it wants to get him back. Next we talk with someone who is at a crossroads with her girlfriend and their relationship as they start to plan for their futures that don't necessarily align. Trust issues due to an alcohol addiction is the problem that frustrates our next caller as she tries to figure out if it is a relationship worth saving. Last we speak with someone who is recently no longer engaged because her fiancé's mother played a huge part in the end of that relationship acting like a true step monster.

"Nut up and push back."

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Today on Viall Files we are joined by NYT-bestselling author, former SharkTank judge and co-founder of DryBar, Alli Webb. Nick speaks with Alli about divorce, moving on, being a woman entrepreneur and most importantly finding the strength in yourself to move on and lead with your passion to find the happiness you deserve.

" I wanted us both to just get to something else we were not able to achieve in our marriage. "

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Tonight we break down the first episode of Matt James's season of The Bachelor with the one guest who holds the record for most appearances on The Viall Files, comedian, Nikki Glaser. There is so much to unpack when it comes to Matt's story, the limo arrivals, that vibrator, Queens vs. CEOs, and the fact that Matt has not been a part of the franchise, until now. Nikki delivers her style of comedy to this recap as only she can, so get ready as we get to know the women of Matt James's season and make those early predictions for what is to come.

" Separation of church and date."

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You have been asking for it so we decided to put it together… welcome to the first Ask Nick update episode. This week we go back and reconnect with some of the callers that we spoke with this past year to see where they ended up in their situationships. Some of our callers still needed some tough love but we were happy to hear Nick did not destroy anyone's life!

Our Callers Original Stories:

Episode 142 featured Catherine, who was in a relationship where her boyfriend decided to bring someone else in to make them a thruple and she was not confident in that decision.

Steven was wondering why someone he had feelings for and connected with was starting to pull away from him and did not know if he should wait for her.

Brittany wanted to open up her Mormon marriage on episode 134 because of the lack of sexual experience she and her husband had before getting married.

Paulina wanted to open up the relationship with her younger boyfriend, who lacked experience, to try and have some control. She was trying to make sure he experienced other people and would not one day feel like he missed out on sexual experiences and leave her.

Mackenzie was in episode 142 and she did not know she was being used by someone who was cheating on his girlfriend.

Melissa spoke in episode 165 about how she really wanted to date her friend with benefits, however, he was sending mixed signals by offering to pay off her car, instead of showing interest in a relationship.

Featured on episode 151, Stacy's mother had made some inappropriate racially insensitive remarks to her daughter about dating and she needed some advice on how to approach her about apologizing for her actions.

"Hiking is hard, it is harder to do with wet socks, you insist on hiking in wet socks. "

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In this episode of The Viall Files, we are joined by Brendan Morais who stole not only the heart of our friend Justin Long but also, America. Nick finally has a chance to apologize for pronouncing his name wrong all season and to really take some time to get to know who Brendan is beyond his amazing turtlenecks. Brendan shares with us his thoughts on which of the guys he thought were there for love, what he would do if he & Tayshia and had more time, and what he would do if she ever called again. It's a fun episode filled with guest pop-ins and matchmaking for our last episode of 2020.

"One of my biggest regrets is not bringing more turtlenecks to Palm Springs"

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We start this episode of Ask Nick with a caller that has been friends with someone for 20 years and all this time later sees what she thinks is an opportunity for the friendship to be get to the next level, but is she really just Ted from Schitt's Creek? Second we speak with a woman who would love to have one last hookup at her bachelorette party and thinks her boyfriend should as well, however he is not happy about the scenario for either of them. Next we speak with someone who was just accepting what was being offered to her in a relationship for 2 years instead of asking for what she wanted fearing she would lose him. Finally we speak to someone who wants to know if she is just straight up dating a psychopath! Get ready for next week when we start off the new year with Ask Nick Updates from some of our 2020 callers.

"You gave him too much validation for the consistency he gave you."

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On this episode of The Viall Files we are joined by Ben Smith the runner up on this season of The Bachelorette. Ben talks through what it felt like in the moment when Tayshia first sent him home, going to Chris Harrison for help, how being vulnerable and sharing his story has shaped his experience on the show and how all he really wants is for Tayshia to be happy.

"I thought we were on the same letter, in the same word, on the same page"

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Tonight on the FINALE recap of The Bachelorette we are joined by the one and only Cazzie David. Cazzie claims The Bachelorette is the only thing she knows how to talk about now from being in quarantine and we could not be happier about that. Nick and Cazzie breakdown 2 nights of The Bachelorette and chat about all the angles and scenarios, especially the weird ones. Cazzie also has a new book out called "No One Asked For This: Essays" which is "humor not in memes guys" so make sure to check it out at https://www.hmhbooks.com/shop/books/No-One-Asked-for-This/9780358181781

"Why can't they share a room, this isn't the f-ing Crown."

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Kicking it off on this weeks episode of Ask Nick we speak to a woman who has been dating people younger than her because she doesn't like the feeling of inadequacy she gets when she dates someone older and likes the control she has with someone not so set in their ways. Next we speak to someone who's boyfriend thinks that her roommate is stepping over the boundaries of privacy in their relationship when he saw messages from another girl on his phone and told her. A 30 year age gap is our the next callers issue when it comes to the future and handling the judgment of people around them. Finally exes living together after a break up because of a financial situation are trying to find the best path forward in their new normal.

"Sometimes judgment comes from a place of love and people caring for you, other times they are just haters with nothing better to do."

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Today we are joined by one of the most talked about contestants on this season of The Bachelorette, Noah Erb. Love him or hate him we take some time to hear more about who Noah is, his family, being on the front lines of COVID, and how he really approaches his sex life which is the opposite of the party boy mentality people seem to place on him. We also get to hear about what we did not see when it came to Bennett, Tayshia thinking he wasn't ready for marriage, and his conversations with Ben & Spencer off camera.

"I am exactly in my life where I want to be for another person to come into my life."

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Completing his "Viathalon" Justin Long joins us for this episode of the Viall Files where we will recap two nights of the Bachelorette. As a true member of Bach Nation Justin can not just focus on the episodes at hand he has to get in his thoughts on lie detectors, passive aggressive gifts, and math problems. As we have learned, when these two get together the conversation can go in any direction. Where does Justin fall in the Noah vs Bennett debate? Who makes his heart flutter? How many contestant impressions will he do? Nick & Justin, a duo you can't stop.

"That is a f*$% ing hard thing to say, I don't like you, I don't like you enough, that is very difficult."

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We have another extended version of Ask Nick for you this week as we are joined once again by the delightful, Justin Long. Will he tell one of our callers "he is just not that into you"? You will have to listen to find out so let's jump right into it. Our first caller is actively dating two people at once and thought that one would "fizzle" out but neither of them have. We then speak with someone who was dealing with the death of her father and needing the support of her boyfriend who was not showing up for her when she needed him most. Our next caller finds herself feeling constantly shamed by her boyfriend whenever things do not go according to HIS plan. A bigger dating issue comes up while chatting with someone who's original issue is that her boyfriend doesn't like it when she hangs out with her friends. Finally, a woman discovers her bi-sexuality when she realizes she has an attraction to her friend that she now is falling in love with and she is not sure how to tell her.

" He is a hunk who never cultivated anything outside of his hunkiness"

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If you have ever wanted to get your boyfriend to listen to The Viall Files this is the one to get them hooked on as our guests Kevin Dillon & Doug Ellin talk all things Entourage and Victory The Podcast. They talk relationships on the show and how they would have handled things in their real lives, how the dating scenarios in the show came from real life scenarios, behind the scenes of the show, and what the show would look like now if it was made in 2020. It's a fun episode recapping a show that gave all us women a look into the understanding of what boys do when they are with their boyz!

"I wanted that feeling of Hollywood that it is a struggle."

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For this recap of The Bachelorette we are joined by one of Bachelor Nations favorite contestants Raven Gates. Nick and Raven break down the Bennett and Noah drama while comparing it to the emotional intelligence conversation on NIck's season between Taylor and Corrine, they get analytical about home towns and lie detectors and most importantly they discuss why they think Jojo did not say there was a final rose on the table. Its an episode filled with healthy debates and theories you don't want to miss.

"She can not let people know there is only one rose on the table."

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On this weeks super sized episode of Ask Nick we are joined by friend of the show Chrishell Stause. We are so happy to have Crishell back to give a female perspective to some of our callers today, and we may try to pry into the developments into her personal life as well. Our first caller is a 27 year old virgin who is fine dating and "running the bases" but is waiting for the feeling of love before she has sex for the first time. Next we speak with someone who is feeling the guilt of moving on too soon in the fear she will hurt her exes feelings. Third , we chat with a woman who's love language is gifting and her boyfriend is not understanding she needs him to show her he loves her sometimes because in the bedroom he is not reciprocating oral sex which is weighing heavily on their relationship. With our next question a woman is having a hard time losing her best friend who she had a one time sexual relationship with when her current boyfriend does not want her around their relationship. Our final caller grew up in a very emotionally abusive family and found herself dating the people she grew up surrounded by, but when she started dating a really good guy she found herself being the one toxic in the relationship.

" What other people think of you is none of your business"

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Today we are joined by Jodi Rodgers, the relationship and sexologist specialist from Netflix's Love On The Spectrum. Jodi started working with people with disabilities and expanded her studies specialzing in autism & relationships. She saw there was a lack of conversation around sexual and romantic dynamics when it came to Autism in adults and this focus made her the therapist helping out some of the people we meet on Love On The Spectrum. Nick and Jodi do not only speak about her time on the show but also get into Sexology and Jodi takes the time to share her thoughts on some of the relationship questions we often get on The Viall Files.

"It had something to do with a love of snails."

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For this recap of The Bachelorette we are joined by country recording artist Russell Dickerson. As a previous performer on The Bachelorette, Russell is invested in the franchise and the super fan in him comes out as he and Nick go through the events of this evenings episode. From Ben & Zac's vulnerability to what it was like being a part of the show, and his want to be friends with Eazy in real life, Russel is all in. Make sure to check out his new album Southern Symphony coming out Dec. 4th.

"Everyone went hard in the paint on that self portrait."

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