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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

1:03 - Episode 7 Kick Off

11:27 - The Next Day

11:45 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

34:36 - Rose Ceremony

39:51 - The Next Day

48:43 - Previews

49:27 - Credits

49:42 - Andy’s A-Game

52:19 - Who We Would Go For

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does it make you the A-hole to crush on someone you know is unavailable? When your guy is a winner but his kissing is terrible, can you teach an old dog new tricks? And in a romantic relationship, where's the line between the "no eggshells" rule and shared humor? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: Am I The A-Hole For Crushing On An Unavailable Co-Worker?

6:24 - Q2: My Wonderful Husband Is A Terrible Kisser—Are My Hot Make Out Days Over?

15:33 - Q3: I Have Fallen For My Best Friend—Help!

34:06 - Q4: In A Relationship, How Does The “No Eggshells” Rule Apply To Humor?

47:18 - Q5: A Guy At My Gym Makes Me Uncomfortable—Shandy’s Take?

1:01:32 - Q6: My In-Laws Make Comments About My Hot Dad—Help!

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:00 - Episode 6 Kick Off

1:49 - Theresa’s Hometown

16:00 - Faith’s Hometown

24:34 - Flashpoint

27:27 - Leslie’s Hometown

33:53 - Los Angeles

38:49 - Rose Ceremony

40:38 - Previews

41:19 - Credits

41:43 - Andy’s A-Game

42:29 - Shandy Word Watch

43:24 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:44 - Episode 6 Kick Off

12:56 - Genevie

23:02 - Becca

30:33 - Genevie’s Date

32:24 - Back At The Beach

35:10 - Becca’s Date

36:31 - Evening

42:10 - Charity

46:28 - Credits

47:01 - Andy’s A-Game

48:27 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:06 - Episode 5 Kick Off

4:10 - Faith’s 1-On-1

15:18 - Evening

18:10 - Group Date

32:08 - Rose Ceremony

37:33 - Credits

37:57 - Andy’s A-Game

38:33 - Shandy Word Watch

40:19 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:16 - Episode 5 Kick Off

6:10 - Rose Ceremony

9:19 - The Next Day, Aka Kat’s Birthday

12:32 - Rachel’s Date

16:43 - Davia

26:08 - Evening

26:25 - Davia’s Date

27:30 - Back On The Beach

36:53 - The Next Day

41:04 - Credits

41:42 - Andy’s A-Game

42:11 - Who We Would Go For

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Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to cover the topic of childlessness for quite some time, and when Sharleen read Ruby Warrington's newest book, Women Without Kids, she wouldn't take no for an answer in getting Ruby on the podcast!

This conversation is for every person, with or without kids. Few books have impacted Sharleen the way Ruby's did, and today we dive deep into the world of Womanhood WITHOUT Motherhood. How often have you heard terms like "maternal instinct" and "labor of love", or phrases like "You don't know true love until you have children" and "But who will look after you when you're old?"

Today, with Ruby Warrington's expertise, we examine The Motherhood Spectrum, the truth behind "having it all", and whether or not we can argue with "nature". We discuss the (very real) fear of regret, finding meaning and legacy as a non-parent, the guilt in not bestowing our parents with grandchildren, how to age as a woman in our youth-obsessed society, and of course, Climate Change.

This conversation will hopefully guide your heart and help you hear to something inside yourself, versus listening to what so many of us have been conditioned to believe for a lifetime. If you experience grief over the path not traveled or have felt your dearest friendships wither as you and/or your friends have started making babies, this episode is very much for you.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Ruby Warrington!

2:58 - What Inspired Her To Write ‘Women Without Kids’ And How Is The Result Different Than Anticipated?

8:59 - How Many Tears Did She Shed Writing This Book?

10:00 - The Motherhood Spectrum

14:46 - The Mommy Binary

19:19 - Who Are We To Argue With “Nature”?

25:41 - Labor Of Love

29:54 - “Having It All”

33:19 - Climate Change

35:29 - Regret

41:54 - Purpose

44:54 - Legacy

46:42 - Guilt Over Not Bestowing “Grandparenthood” To Our Parents

53:03 - Finding Positivity In Aging As A Woman In Society

55:10 - Female Friendships

1:00:17 - Fear-Based Decisions

1:03:16 - Grieving The Path Not Traveled

1:06:36 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:03 - Episode 4 Kick Off

1:47 - Trista Sutter

3:39 - Group Date

11:54 - Group Date Cocktail Party

22:35 - Leslie’s 1-On-1

28:18 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

36:45 - Rose Ceremony

37:29 - Credits

37:46 - Andy’s A-Game

39:45 - Shandy Word Watch

42:03 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 4!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:05 - Episode 4 Kick Off

3:59 - John Henry

6:51 - John Henry’s Date

9:06 - John B

12:16 - Evening

14:03 - John B’s Date

15:08 - A Lot Happens At The Beach

31:22 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

39:29 - Credits

39:42 - Andy’s A-Game

40:26 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

0:58 - Episode 3 Kick Off

3:53 - Group Date

8:10 - Evening

10:41 - The Next Day

16:39 - Ellen’s 1-On-1

26:14 - At The Mansion

26:47 - Cocktail Party

35:06 - Rose Ceremony

36:12 - Post-Rose Ceremony

39:11 - Credits

39:37 - Andy’s A-Game

39:58 - Shandy Word Watch

41:53 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 3!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:45 - Episode 3 Kick Off

11:48 - Tanner’s Date

15:26 - Tyler

24:11 - Evening

30:54 - Tyler’s Date

33:10 - Back On The Beach

36:25 - Credits

37:25 - Andy’s A-Game

38:24 - Who We Would Go For

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions, and today is an Am-I-The-Asshole BONANZA! If you're invited to a birthday gathering by the birthday boy, who's paying? Is it wrong to want a new ring when being proposed to for a second time? And is asking a woman to shave her legs akin to a woman asking a man to shave his balls? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: My Boyfriend Won’t Let Me Go On A Mixed-Gender Climbing Trip—Help!

8:24 - Q2: I Was Invited To A Birthday Gathering And Sent A Venmo Request By The Host The Next Day—Who's In The Wrong?

18:38 - Q3: My Boyfriend Wants To Re-Propose But I Want A Different Ring—Help!

31:29 - Q4: My Boyfriend Hates My Friend And Wants Me To End The Friendship—Help!

38:26 - Q5: Was He Just Not That Into Me?

47:36 - Q6: Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs Vs Asking A Man To Shave His Balls

1:02:12 - Q7: Bad Breath Vs Frizzy Hair

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2.

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0:00 - Overall Thoughts

1:48 - Episode 2 Kick Off

5:51 - Theresa’s 1-On-1

16:24 - Group Date

27:09 - Gerry’s Birthday Party

32:51 - Rose Ceremony

35:24 - Credits

35:57 - Andy’s A-Game

37:38 - Shandy Word Watch

39:39 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 2!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:24 - Episode 2 Kick Off

3:02 - Aven

6:59 - Aven’s Date

17:32 - Hannah Brown

24:10 - Bonfire

28:03 - Evening

30:00 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

37:25 - Rose Ceremony

39:00 - Previews

39:25 - Credits 

40:56 - Andy’s A-Game

41:37 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:03 - Overall Thoughts

2:50 - Getting To Know Gerry

5:14 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails

13:33 - Jesse And Gerry

14:06 - Night One

24:44 - First Impression Rose

26:09 - Rose Ceremony

31:16 - Previews

32:11 - Credits

33:53 - Andy’s A-Game

34:31 - Shandy Word Watch

36:22- Shandy’s Predictions

42:25 - Closing Thoughts

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the Season Premiere!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:20 - Episode 1 Kick Off

4:27 - Meet The Cast

10:42 - Arrivals

24:27 - Paradise Begins

25:43 - Evening

28:42 - Kylee’s Date

35:16 - The Next Day

43:16 - Credits

44:13 - Andy’s A-Game

45:29 - Shandy Word Watch

46:16 - Who We Would Go For

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by overwhelmingly beautiful power couple for a Love Fest that has been nearly a year in the making! In what has been your top-requested Love Fest to date, celebrated pop sensation Hayley Kiyoko and Becca Tilley (Bachelor S19 and S20) join Shandy from their Los Angeles home to share the ins and outs of their partnership!

Today Hayley and Becca share their first impressions of one another and how those have changed, how they complement each other, how they handle the distance when Hayley's on tour, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a particularly exciting Newlyweds Game filled with laughs and a few surprises to boot ! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Book - https://static.macmillan.com/static/wednesday-books/girls-like-girls/

Fragrance - https://www.huebyhayley.com/

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Becca & Hayley!

3:16 - How They Met

7:57 - Did Hayley Know Of Becca When They Met?

10:32 - Their First “Date”

14:45 - First Impressions & How Those Have Changed

21:11 - How They Complement Each Other

24:28 - Love Languages

26:30 - Early Hurdle

29:24 - Did Becca Have Reservations About Hayley’s Fame?

35:15 - How They Fight

38:48 - Common Misconceptions 

44:00 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

47:09 - The Newlyweds Game

1:02:56 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Elizabeth. Elizabeth and her boyfriend have a great relationship but there's one issue, and it's an elephant in the room: his jealousy. An event occurs where she's invited out by a colleague, sending her boyfriend into a jealous frenzy. Was Elizabeth the "A-hole" in how she handled that situation, or is her boyfriend's mistrust a red flag? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Referenced Q&A:

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Elizabeth!

34:23 - Shandy Debrief

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It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 3 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received quite the selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of laughs, rabbit holes, and analogies. We deeply appreciate you and the community we've built. Come join us in our living room to chat!

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1 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE9711623600.mp3?updated=1694617411

2 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE8112889855.mp3?updated=1694627652

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:15 - What Is Your Favorite Feature On Each Other’s Bodies?

5:39 - Did Sharleen Always See Herself Moving To The US?

6:35 - Does Shandy Have Plans To Move To A Bigger Apartment?

8:50 - Are You More Or Less Goofy In Real Life?

9:42 - How Many White V-Necks Does Andy Own?

11:00 - Is Sharleen Embarrassed By Andy’s White V-Necks?

11:12 - How Does Shandy Fight?

15:57 - Why Can’t We Know What Andy Does For A Living?

17:11 - Do You Think Your Relationship Would Be What It Is If You’d Met Younger?

19:32 - What Are The Hardest And Easiest Parts Of Being A Public Figure Couple? 

24:45 - Do You Ever Get Annoyed When Recording With Each Other? 

28:26 - How Many Couples Have Declined Or Ignored Love Fest Requests?

29:16 - How Do You Feel When Love Fest Couples Break Up?

30:28 - Has There Been A Reaction To An Episode That Has Been Challenging To Reckon With?

39:09 - If You Knew Then What You Know Now, Would You Still Have Started Dear Shandy? 

40:31 - Who Would Be Dream Moderators For Your Own Love Fest? 

41:28 - Can We Get A Refresher On The Correct/Incorrect Use Of “You’re Welcome”?

46:12 - If You Could Monologue About One Topic Of Your Choice For 30 Minutes, What Would It Be? 

46:31 - Based On Your Experience, What Advice Do You Have On Things To Look For In A Partner?

51:47 - If You Were A Cat, What Kind, Color, And Personality Of A Cat Would You Be? 

53:29 - Power Rank (Least Favorite To Favorite): Chicken, Beef, Pork, Tofu, Fish 

57:23 - Why Doesn’t Shandy Eat Meat?

57:45 - Would You Rather a) Every Night For The Rest Of Your Life Have To Watch Your Parents Have Sex, Or b) You Can Avoid That By Joining In One Time 

58:30 - No Wine Ever Again, Or No Charcuterie Boards Ever Again?

58:57 - Power Rank: Amelia Earhart, Massages, Soup Dumplings, MLK, Contact Lenses, The Color Green

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it weird if your partner wants a private, locked room in your shared home? What are Shandy's thoughts on "Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater"? Is there a "right" way to break up with someone? And let's help a Shandy find friends in her new city! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: Are My Boyfriend’s Friendships Weird?

7:30 - Q2: My Boyfriend Wants A Private, Locked Room In Our Shared Home—Thoughts?

20:14 - Q3: I’ve Moved Cities And Am Having A Hard Time Making Friends—Help!

28:28 - Q4: I’ve Been The Cheater—What Are Shandy’s Thoughts On “Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater”?

41:27 - Q5: I Just Learned About My Boyfriend’s Cheating History—Is This A Dealbreaker?

1:05:38 - Q6: I Know I Need To End It But Am Dreading It—Tips On Breaking Up?

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined AT HOME for their third ever in-person Love Fest, by a couple whose relationship Shandy got to witness firsthand when Sharleen hosted Bachelor In Paradise Canada! Last Summer Chelsea Vaughn (Bachelor S25 & BIP S7) and Austin Tinsley (Bachelorette S17) met on Canadian soil and left as a couple in love. Because the season didn't air until a near year later, Chelsea and Austin had to keep their relationship under wraps for a whopping 13 MONTHS! Needless to say, they've learned a thing or two about each other in the interim!

Today Chelsea and Austin join Shandy to share fun Paradise Canada #BTS, how they complement each other, what it felt like learning to text each other (yes, really!), and of course, how they fight! Finally, a kooky Newlyweds Game with answers you will not see coming! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Austin on Vaughnerable, P1: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000621364510

Auston on Vaughnerable, P2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000622115759

Referenced Hot Cheetos Reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsXB9Q5NnoP

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Chelsea & Austin!

6:50 - Shandy’s Appearance On Chelsea’s Podcast, Vaughnerable

7:41 - Did They Feel A Cultural Difference In Canada?

9:29 - First Impressions

21:40 - Being “In Hiding” For 13 Months (!)

26:21 - How They Complement Each Other

30:33 - How They’re Different Than Expected

34:26 - How Austin’s Different Than What Chelsea Imagined For Herself

36:44 - Early Hurdle

42:47 - How They Fight

48:15 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

51:53 - The Newlyweds Game

1:06:48 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Kelly. Kelly's cousin's choices in her relationship have had a ripple effect in their shared friend circle and Kelly has wound up more involved than she ever intended to be or would have liked. When is someone else's infidelity your information to share, and in Kelly's case, should she have done anything differently? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Kelly!

36:48 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale!

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Time Stamps:

1:04 - Finale Kick Off

2:10 - Aaron B’s Return

3:45 - Rose Ceremony

9:43 - Live: Aaron B

10:44 - Charity With Her Family

12:43 - Joey Meets Charity’s Family

13:49 - Live

14:29 - Dotun Meets Charity’s Family

19:18 - Charity Seeks Clarity

22:45 - Joey’s Final Date

24:58 - Live

26:00 - Dotun’s Final Date

28:47 - Neil Lane

31:34 - Proposal Day

33:17 - Joey

36:23 - Live: Joey 

37:30 - Live: Charity Joins

39:19 - Dotun

41:32 - Live

42:27 - Live: Charity & Dotun

45:34 - Bachelor Reveal

48:42 - Overall Thoughts On Charity’s Season

49:45 - Shandy Word Watch

50:37 - Reviewing Night One Predictions

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Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to tackle the ever-relevant topic of NARCISSISM since Dear Shandy's inception, however, we insisted on waiting until we could get the best of the best to join us. Our patience paid off as today we're joined by the acclaimed, unparalleled expert on narcissism, the one and only Dr. Ramani. Trust us, she does NOT disappoint!

Today Dr. Ramani sets the record straight on the definition on narcissism, how social media has changed the narcissist landscape, and how many of us fall on the narcissism spectrum. She gives us insight on how aware of their own narcissism narcissists are, whether or not they have a moral compass or can improve, and whether or not you can "win" in your battle against a narcissist. We wrap with actionable tips for those healing from their relationship with narcissists, those who have no choice but to live or work with narcissists, and what "red flags" to look out for.

Our minds were blown multiple times during this conversation and this is easily one of our all-time favorite Hot Topics to date. We promise you will learn something new (and useful) to apply to your most challenging relationships.

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- Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/navigatingnarcissismpod

- Website & Healing Program: https://doctor-ramani.com

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Dr. Ramani!

2:59 - The Clinical Definition of Narcissism (So We’re All On The Same Page)

4:35 - Is There A Point On The Spectrum Where A Personality Style Becomes A Personality Disorder?

8:27 - Nature And Nurture

13:09 - How Wrong Is It To Throw The Term “Narcissist” Around?

15:41 - What Percentage Of People Fall On The Narcissism Spectrum?

17:40 - Social Media

22:56 - Can A Person Be Narcissistic In Some Ways But Not In Others?

23:58 - Can They Help It?

27:52 - When Narcissists Are Acting Out, Are They Drinking Their Own Kool-Aid?

30:25 - Do Narcissists Have A Moral Compass?

32:31 - Shame

33:54 - Can Narcissists Know They’re Narcissists?

35:06 - Has She Ever Seen Narcissists Improve?

38:59 - Is There A Correlation Between Narcissism And Enormous Wealth?

39:50 - Is There A Way To “Win” With Narcissists?

42:39 - When Dating Someone New, What Are Red Flags To Look Out For?

47:46 - Are People Raised By Narcissists More Likely To End Up In A Relationship With One?

48:47 - For People Who Have Fallen For Narcissists, What Questions Should They Ask Themselves?

51:45 - What Do Narcissists Truly Want In A Partner?

54:53 - Navigating Narcissism In The Workplace

58:04 - When Your Colleagues Are Drinking The Narcisisst’s Kool-Aid, Can You Make Them See The Light?

1:01:52 - The Basic Rules For Handling A Narcissist

1:04:51 - How Can One Tell If *They* Are A Narcissist? 

1:06:21 - Are There Benevolent Narcisissts?

1:09:22 - First Steps Victims Of Narcissists Should Take Towards Healing

1:12:34 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down Men Tell All!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:35 - Men Tell All Kickoff

7:35 - A Guy Named Peter

10:43 - Brayden’s Hot Seat

17:02 - Xavier

20:28 - Charity Arrives

27:16 - Xavier’s Hot Seat

37:13 - Unseen Footage

40:04 - Captain Tom

40:45 - Former Bachelorettes

41:22 - Gerry, Our Golden Bachelor

45:18 - Credits

45:44 - Andy’s A-Game

46:37 - Shandy Word Watch

49:37 - Overall Thoughts

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a red flag if your date leads with compliments about your physical appearance? If your mother's wedding gift is a check that seems to be missing a "0", is it worth bringing up? And if your brother has created a web of lies so big you're forced to play a part in the charade, when is enough enough? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:48 - Q1: Don’t Tell Me I’m Pretty… Yet

13:57 - Q2: My Boyfriend Lacks Initiative—Should I Be Concerned?

26:04 - Q3: My Mother Gifted Us A Surprisingly Low Amount Of Money For Our Wedding—Can I Say Something?

44:34 - Q4: My LDR Is Rocky But We’re So In Love—When Is It Too Much To Overcome?

54:14 - Q5: My Boyfriend Didn't Do Anything For My Birthday :(

1:07:39 - Q6: My Brother Can’t Keep It In His Pants—Help!

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7, aka Fantasy Suite Week!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

0:44 - Episode 7 Kick Off

3:34 - Xavier’s Overnight

35:31 - Joey’s Overnight

40:55 - Flashpoint

46:21 - Dotun’s Overnight

55:11 - Aaron B

58:40 - Credits

1:01:16 - Andy’s A-Game

1:02:12 - Shandy Word Watch

1:05:59 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor Nation's favorite "dolphin", Alexis Waters (Bachelor S21) and her fiancé, Tyler Fernandez! We knew going into this Love Fest that the "fun meter" would not be a concern, but we did not expect our cheeks to hurt as much as they did from laughing so hard!

Today Alexis and Tyler join Shandy to share how they were introduced by former Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay, how they went from party acquaintances to lovebirds, what it feels like to receive pressure to get engaged, and of course, how they fight! Finally, an absolutely hilarious Newlyweds Game that we promise will have you in stitches. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Alexis & Tyler!

2:54 - True Or False: Rachel Lindsay Introduced Them

6:03 - Did Tyler Watch Alexis On The Bachelor?

9:08 - How Did They Go From Party Acquaintances To Serious Couple?

10:06 - First Impressions

14:57 - How They Complement Each Other

17:52 - Early Hurdle

20:47 - How They Fight

24:46 - The Pressure To Get Engaged

28:02 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

32:00 - True Or False

32:55 - The Newlyweds Game

49:29 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:24 - Aaron’s Hometown

9:55 - Joey’s Hometown

19:20 - Xavier’s Hometown

27:11 - Dotun’s Hometown

30:41 - Los Angeles

32:14 - Rose Ceremony

36:13 - Credits

36:36 - Andy’s A-Game

37:11 - Shandy Word Watch

39:14 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Cierrah. Cierrah lives in the basement suite of her parents' house but they haven't been displaying the most role model-esque behavior of late. Is she within her right to pick a side and get involved, or is her parents' dynamic their business and no one else's? Should what happens between our parents STAY between our parents?Listen on for the Shandy take!

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Cierrah!

31:27 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:29 - Episode 5 Kick Off

3:51 - Joey’s 1-On-1

7:28 - Evening

15:48 - 2-On-1 Date

20:04 - Evening

27:12 - Dotun’s 1-On-1

29:54 - Evening

36:24 - Sean 

38:51 - Group Date

47:06 - Evening

51:26 - Credits

53:07 - Andy’s A-Game

53:46 - Shandy Word Watch

56:10 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Have you ever found yourself wondering "where are they now?" when listening to our caller episodes and Q&As? Well... drumroll, please... UPDATES ARE BACK, BABY! This is our second ever installment of what we hope to make a biannual tradition.

We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, good or bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

0:55 - Episode 32: Q3, from Gabby - https://youtu.be/GvYfIlViSnk

5:40 - Episode 40: Q1, from Claire - https://youtu.be/GLK2kbK78j4

11:05 - Episode 80: Q5, from Aria - https://youtu.be/550ahd6ZtF4

24:42 - Episode 95: Q3, from Christina - https://youtu.be/JjSsIJaFGzI

28:28 - Episode 107: Caller 2, Danielle - https://youtu.be/pFIEaZXDV50

31:03 - Episode 125: Q2, from H - https://youtu.be/Y0GLNYRq2qo

33:27 - Episode 125: Q5, from S - https://youtu.be/Y0GLNYRq2qo

35:20 - Episode 129: Q5, from Lisa - https://youtu.be/0HD8P34ITQI

38:54 - Episode 140: Q1, from Danielle - https://youtu.be/Et2s0pt-7lI

42:25 - Episode 146: Q3, from C - https://youtu.be/ygmeFYPyYMk

47:04 - Episode 166: Caller 1, Ray - https://youtu.be/JWaxbrWEwMw

48:24 - Episode 182: Q1, from Roni - https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos

54:07 - Episode 182: Q4, from Anonymous - https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos

1:00:56 - Episode 184: Q3, from Bass - https://youtu.be/5G1JlNLmwLE

1:04:48 - Episode 197: Q4, from Snooty - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho

1:09:47 - Episode 197: Q5, from The Mistress - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho

1:14:37 - Episode 214: Q5, from Mrs Missus - https://youtu.be/LDTzewx3uQU

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping 

1:32 - Episode 4 Kick Off

3:38 - Dotun’s 1-On-1

11:33 - Evening

25:11 - Group Date

34:30 - Evening

48:16 - Xavier’s 1-On-1

50:30 - Evening

1:00:32 - The Next Day/Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

1:02:36 - Brayden Returns

1:17:32 - Rose Ceremony

1:21:08 - Credits

1:21:24 - Andy’s A-Game

1:23:05 - Shandy Word Watch

1:25:15 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend still has "favorited" photos of his ex on his phone, is that cause for concern? Are you shallow if you'd like your partner to make a cosmetic change? If your mother-in-law's perfume stays in the house long after she's gone, is it worth saying something? And whatever happened to taking things slow? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping (Sort Of?)

1:39 - Q1: My Boyfriend Still Has Photos Of His Ex On His Phone—Is This A Red Flag?

6:09 - Q2: My Brother’s Girlfriend Is Sensitive That He Used To Date My Friend—Should I Distance Myself In The Friendship To Support My Future Sister-In-Law?

9:45 - Q3: Is “Taking Things Slowly” A Lost Art?

21:38 - Q4: I Love My Husband Except For One Cosmetic “Flaw”—Should I Bring It Up Or Am I Just Shallow?

36:47 - Q5: A Friend Called Me By The Wrong Name—Should I Correct Him Or Is This A Fluke?

41:03 - Q6: At What Point Do You Weigh Stability Against Happiness?

59:35 - Q7: My Mother-In-Law’s Perfume Is Stinking Up Our House—Help!

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:29 - Episode 3 Kick Off

5:41 - Brayden’s 1-On-1

13:42 - Evening

21:54 - Group Date

34:09 - Evening

41:53 - Warwick’s 1-On-1

46:50 - The Next Day

47:12 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

1:10:28 - Rose Ceremony

1:11:13 - Credits

1:12:01 - Andy’s A-Game

1:11:25 - Shandy Word Watch

1:15:43 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Riley who is calling about her 6 year relationship. Riley made some poor financial decisions in the past which has caused her boyfriend to pull back and distrust her. Can he get over this, what does this mean for their partnership, and how long is too long to be punished for past mistakes? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Riley!

50:33 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:20 - Episode 2 Kick Off

4:36 - Aaron B’s 1-On-1

9:50 - Evening

19:02 - 1st Group Date

26:40 - Evening

41:03 - 2nd Group Date

43:56 - Evening

51:18 - Joey’s Hard Earned 1-On-1 

52:57 - BBQ

1:03:12 - Rose Ceremony

1:07:07 - Credits

1:07:14 - Andy’s A-Game

1:09:23 - Shandy Word Watch

1:12:30 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today is our second ever in-person Love Fest and an absolutely epic one! You watched them meet and get engaged on Paradise S7, and now 2 years later, Bachelor Power Couple® Joe Amabile and Serena Pitt join us in the living room to dissect the ins and outs of their relationship.

Today Joe and Serena share their honest first impressions of each other—in Serena's eyes, was Joe in fact the "George Clooney" of Bachelor Nation we described him to be? They get specific with adjectives about each other (yay!), discuss how and when the 11 year age difference rears its head, unpack the early hurdle that took time to overcome, and of course, describe how they fight! This episode is loaded with goodies including Serena and Sharleen's biggest City Hall regret and the surprising ways in which the native Chicagoan and native New Yorker are similar. Finally, a Newlyweds Game that is heavy on "OR"s but not remotely lacking on fun! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Joe & Serena!

3:03 - Their City Hall Wedding

8:47 - Serena & Sharleen’s City Hall Regret

10:53 - How Familiar Were They With Each Other? (Was Joe “George Clooney” As Shandy Described In Their Recaps?)

17:09 - First Impressions

27:47 - Specificity!

38:22 - The 11 Year Gap

40:08 - How They Complement Each Other

43:07 - Early Hurdle

53:45 - How They Fight

59:56 - Why New York + How We All Feel About East Vs West Coasts

1:07:26 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

1:12:15 - The Newlyweds Game

1:28:20 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big Premiere!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:01 - Overall Thoughts On The Premiere

2:17 - Episode 1 Kick Off

4:03 - Charity’s Dress

5:45 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails

12:43 - Charity’s Speech

13:06 - Notable 1-On-1 Time

20:45 - Nehemiah

22:02 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Continued

32:46 - Nehemiah’s Reveal/Nehemiah Reports To Charity

42:40 - Brayden

46:13 - Rose Ceremony

47:38 - Credits

49:48 - Andy’s A-Game

50:34 - Shandy Word Watch

53:01 - Shandy’s Predictions

56:34 - Wild Cards

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Today's Hot Topic conversation is great for just about anybody, but *especially* those who have considered therapy but haven't pulled the trigger for whatever reason (accessibility, cost, finding the right match...)! Our guest, Owen O'Kane, is an acclaimed London-based psychotherapist and the best selling author of Ten Times Happier, Ten to Zen, and most recently, How To Be Your Own Therapist. But that's not all! Before pursuing psychotherapy, Owen spent a decade working with the dying as a Clinical Nurse Specialist in Palliative Care, which we think adds a unique dimension to his perspective. Needless to say, he is abundantly qualified to help us tackle the journey of self-therapy today!

Today, beyond sharing his own personal story of self acceptance, Owen discusses what drives us, victim mentality, gratitude, tips for handling our anxious episodes, what 10 minutes of self therapy a day looks like, and what "The Goal" of therapy even is (happiness? meaning??). Last but not least, Andy picks Owen's brain after his experience working in Palliative Care—what did caring for the dying on a daily basis teach him? This episode has a little something for everyone and even includes a peek into Andy's own thoughts and fears. Whether you consider "therapy" a dirty word or part of your regular vernacular, you won't want to miss this chat!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Owen O’Kane!

1:54 - Is The UK Behind The US In Terms Of Therapy “Taboo”?

4:32 - Owen’s Story, Part 1

7:10 - What’s “The Goal”? Happiness?

8:49 - What Drives Us?

11:09 - Owen's Story, Part 2

16:24 - Our Thought Process

25:35 - Where Does One Begin With Self Therapy?

28:35 - Do Some Personality Types Struggle More With Self Therapy Than Others?

31:23 - Victim Mentality

33:42 - What Does 10 Minutes A Day Of Self Therapy Look Like?

36:51 - Gratitude And Fear Of Loss

43:18 - Advice For Anyone Who’s Been in Therapy For A Long Time And Isn’t Seeing A Difference

49:05 - Tips For Those Who Experience Anxious Episodes

55:50 - Our Phones

1:00:07 - Andy Asks Owen For His Takeaways After A Decade Spent In Palliative Care

1:07:09 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your long distance relationship is at a standstill because he doesn't have a passport, how long is too long to wait? If you and a friend are each passionate about vastly different beliefs, has the friendship run its course? What to do when "Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind" isn't an option? And finally, Shandy gives a backup plan for a particularly amusing fetish. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: How Can “Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind” Work When We WORK Together??

10:10 - Q2: He’s My First And The Sex Is Uncomfortable—Any Guidance?

27:31 - Q3: My Long Distance Relationship Is At A Standstill Because He Doesn’t Have A Passport—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?

37:03 - Q4: My Friend And I Have Differing Beliefs—Is It Against My Values To Stay Friends With Her?

46:27 - Q5: My Friend Keeps Sending Unwelcome Messages To My Wife—Should I Say Something?

1:01:00 - Q6: Do I Have A Right To Be Annoyed That My Friends Don’t Attend My Performances?

1:10:14 - Q7: My Husband Is Perfect But His Fetish Makes Me Squirm—Help!

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bennett Jordan (Bachelorette S16) and his lovely fiancée, renowned yoga instructor Emily Chen. This Love Fest came about rather unexpectedly; Bennett and Emily were kind enough to jump in last minute when our previously planned couple cancelled. We're so happy we spontaneously got to meet and hang out with these two!

Today Bennett and Emily join Shandy to share how persistence paid off, how they're the yin to the other's yang, and of course, how they fight! (Do yogis fight??) Finally, a Newlyweds Game with a twist ending that Shandy decides perfectly sums up this couple. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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0:00 - Welcome To Bennett & Emily!

4:38 - How They Met

9:59 - Had Emily Seen Bennett’s Season?

11:44 - First Impressions

16:54 - Defining The Relationship

23:51 - How They Complement Each Other

26:56 - How They Fight

34:52 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

40:30 - True Or False

41:19 - The Newlyweds Game

1:03:41 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Caller Day and today we're joined by not one but TWO lovely callers! First we're joined by Megan, who has been wrestling with her dating requirements and being labeled a "gold digger" by friends. Are professional and fiscal success too superficial to put in the "needs" column? Next we're joined by Sarah, who's been scratching her head over pre-first-date etiquette. Is it a bad chess move to send a check-in text before the first date, and if so, where's the line between being pursued and simply getting logistical information? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

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18:31 - Shandy Speaks

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36:47 - Welcome To Caller Sarah!

44:19 - Shandy Speaks

54:13 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you know you have no future with a person, is it still worth a potentially great hookup? Is it wrong to feel envious when your friends are all getting engaged? And is secretly chatting with an ex on the regular emotional cheating? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: Without A Future, Is It Still Worth The Hookup?

16:22 - Q2: I’m Green With Engagement Envy!

27:48 - Q3: Two Weddings, One Weekend—Help Us Decide!

36:45 - Q4: I’m Secretly Chatting With My Ex Every Day—Am I Emotionally Cheating?

52:30 - Q5: My Husband’s Friend’s Wife Is Coming Onto Him—What Should He Do?

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It's Caller Day and today we're joined by two lovely callers! We're joined by our first ever caller COUPLE (!), Barbie and Ken. They plan to secretly elope even though Ken's mother has explicitly asked them not to. Should they alter their plans to avoid future friction, or do what feels true to them and let the chips fall where they may? Caller Elana a very relatable Am-I-The-Asshole question involving her best friend. Where's the middle ground when you both think you're in the right? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Callers Barbie & Ken!

12:09 - Shandy Speaks

31:27 - Shandy Debrief

40:21 - Welcome To Caller Elana!

59:51 - Shandy Speaks

1:09:41- Shandy Debrief

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This Hot Topic episode has been one of THE! MOST! hotly requested conversations to date! Ask and you shall receive, Shandies, because today we are joined by professor and therapist Dr. Kirk Honda, aka @PsychologyInSeattle, famed for his reaction videos and analyses of reality TV relationship dynamics.

Today Dr. Honda has answers to our personal musings about the psychological aspects of falling in love on TV. We also cover the manipulation, the aftermath, the audience, and last but not least, the ethics. Sharleen shares several experiences from her Bachelor days and Dr. Honda helps break them down. Frankly, this conversation is overdue and probably one of the most quintessential "Shandy" conversations to date. Come and listen to why we call this the elusive and final collector's card of Dear Shandy Hot Topic episodes!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Dr. Kirk Honda!

1:19 - What’s His Favorite & Least Favorite Aspects Of Watching Reality Dating Shows?

4:41 - Does Feeling “Chosen” On These Shows Amplify Romantic Feelings?

8:45 - Can A Desire For Money And/Or Fame Result In Chemical Love?

20:56 - Sensory Deprivation And Behavioral Shaping

27:43 - Contestant Autonomy And Learned Helplessness

32:14 - Can Trauma Expedite A Relationship?

35:07 - If He Had Met His Wife On A Reality Show, Would Their Relationship Have Progressed In The Same Way?

36:46 - The Ethics Of Producing Reality TV

46:04 - What Has He Learned About The Reality TV Audience?

53:58 - Do Reality TV And Social Media Reward Narcissism?

58:48 - His Favorite Shows

1:04:13 - Shandy Debrief 

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there an age where never having been married or engaged is a red flag? If your car is towed while your first date is making a move on you, who pays? And if you don't particularly like your coworker but she's a hugger, to hug or not to hug? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: When is Never Having Been Married a Red Flag?

10:06 - Q2: My Car Was Towed At His Place—Should He Have Paid For It?

27:39 - Q3: My Fiancé’s Friends Are Taking Advantage Of His Generosity—Help!

41:32 - Q4: Can I Expect A Partner To Move With Me?

47:29- Q5: When Single And Dating, Is It Ok To Keep Photos Of My Late Spouse On Social Media?

56:54 - Q6: My Coworker Keeps Forcing Me To Hug Her—Help!

1:10:18 - Q7: I’m 4 Years In And The Thrill Is Gone—Is It Over?

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Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down the Finale and Reunion!

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1:02 - Finale

27:44 - Reunion

1:05:18 - Best Dressed

1:07:13 - Overall Thoughts

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Today's Hot Topic tackles a recurring theme among our Shandies' questions: MONEY, BABY!! 💵💵💵 We're joined by superstar Ramit Sethi, who not only wrote 2009's megahit and NYT bestseller "I Will Teach You To Be Rich", but whose very own Netflix show, "How To Get Rich" just premiered on April 18th!

Today Ramit begins by helping us define what our own individual "Rich Life" looks like. But he goes even further with the clearest, most concise, direct answers to your most burning relationship-meets-money questions: When one partner has a significantly higher income, should that be reflected in the bills? When and how should you bring up your debt with your partner? Is there a "gold standard" when it comes to shared and separate bank accounts? And what about PRENUPS?? What bank accounts and credit cards does Ramit himself use? (Oh yeah, we go there!) Listen on for your lesson in getting RICH.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Ramit Sethi!

2:22 - What Is A “Rich Life”?

3:38 - How Can One Change From Being A Spender To A Saver?

9:38 - Join Sharleen In An Exercise: Define Your “Rich Life”

18:42 - How Can You Design Your Rich Life When You Feel Like You’re Struggling To Get By?

22:30 - Investing And Saving 101

27:49 - Ramit’s Picks For Bank Accounts & Credits Cards (WITH ACTUAL ANSWERS)

31:02 - How Should You Divvy Up Finances When One Partner Makes More $$$?

37:31 - Is The A Certain Number You Should Have In The Bank Before Starting A Family?

39:24 - Prenups

44:59 - When Should One Broach The Topic Of Money And/Or Debt In A New Relationship?

49:50 - Have Debt Or Bad Credit? These Are Your First Steps

53:38 - Andy’s Selfish Question

56:55 - What Would Ramit Like Your Takeaway To Be?

1:01:22 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 9-11, aka Seattle Part 2.

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0:00 - Housekeeping

1:55 - Episode 9

29:04 - Episode 10

55:21 - Episode 11

1:08:02 - Predictions

1:10:45 - Who We Would Go For

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